How far for love part II

How far do you go for love? It is most important not to lose your self-respect but how do you know where that line is? Or should you just be honest and leave it at that?

I believe in always being honest, and have tried (and not always succeeded in relationships) to follow that. But I do not believe that you have to tell someone something that would compromise your self-respect, unless you trust that person implicitly and know beyond any shadow of any doubt that they will not use it against you, etc. So basically this is what I believe: Always be honest, but always be smart, at the same time. It is okay to keep some things to yourself, whether for your own good, or the good of the other person, or the good of both of you. Just never harbor damaging secrets, because they will always surface, or otherwise they'll poison the relationship silently and cause it to disintegrate.

Can't add to what PR has said.

Anger poisons relationships too. I want to catch up with a friend today but i am so angry that i am afraid i will sit there and seethe and negatively affect her day.

I dont think anger poisons relationships if the relationships has a deep bond. Anger is just another way of showing how you truly feel inside and which the other partner should acknowledge. But going too far on anger is a different case(throwing things etc etc.) If you have to yell, then yell Libragirl. If she cant accept THAT part of your emotions then maybe she's not for you. Because trust me, and you probably know this, in relationships there's bound to be anger in there somewhere at times. **Hug** feel better, mate!!

WHAT THE HELL IS THIS! ANOTHER SEQUEL FOR "THE HOURS" GOD. YOU LADIES WANT EVERYTHING TO BE PERFECT ESPECIALLY TO MEN. GO WRITE A BOOK. IM SURE I WON'T BUY IT CUZ ITS TOO REDUNDANT.

She doesnt even like men, you f.uck

LET ME REPHRASE IT TO SEXUAL/LOVERS THEN YOU F.UCK

OHHH YOU'RE FIESTY. I LIKE THAT!

HEY LUZ "I'm only considered a [F.UCK] because I have opinions" :p HAHAHA.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!)@*#) $ *@# $ # FIRST OF ALL I WASNT REFERRING TO YOU FOR YOUR OPINIONS, JUST CORRECTING IT YOU F.UCK AND SECOND OF ALL I HAVE THIS 'BAD' HABIT OF USING PROFANITY IN EVERY SENTENCE, I DO HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND.

Yeah, good one Luz! Thanks for the advice, you're right. It's called freedom of expression. And longjonnythingamejig, i do like guys, i just don't sleep with them cos i am yet to find one i find attractive! Actually im sick of both. What does that make me? Anyway, who cares who sleeps with who.

Yeah, Luz is fiesty! *Roarrrrr*.