treetrunk this

Sometimes I wonder why I come here? It's not like I'm needed, my opinions do NOT matter, I've come to realize this. How? Well for one, NOBODY Gives a butter anyway. There's only a selective amount of people here who actually matter to most people and I dont count. What's the point of going to a community when you are just a black sheep?

Luz!!

Stop this - you're wrong! And I say that in a warm and lovin' way, really. I also have always thought of you as one of the first & founding around here. Sometimes I do forget to respond to people, when I can't for whatever reason get on the site, or I'll find that after I take a break from the site, people have asked me things and been waiting for a reply while I was taking a break. I hope that if I've ever done that to you, you don't ever take it personally. I always like to hear your comments, they're funny and often very insightful. You're a smart girl and often say suprising things that most people wouldn't say, and that is why you do matter. A lot! You've also had kind words for me, on many occasions, and I've always appreciated that. Believe it or not, I've been ignored on a few occasions around here too. At first I did take it personally, but then I realized that people normally don't mean to do it. They forget to check up on a thread, or (like me, a lot of times) spend hours posting on a bunch of threads late at night, then get too tired to stay up and "finish". You matter very much; everyone around here does (at least those who are friendly and intelligent).

Hi Luz,

Yep, ive always found you've had something interesting and different to say, which is good. I especially appreciated your comments in my 'bad results' thread as i was freaking out at the time.

Sometimes i don't respond to threads because either i don't understand what the person is saying, my response has already been said, or the thread is a whole lot better off without my input. Lol. Or sometimes i don't have an opinion.

Anyway, you do what's right for you. If you feel it's a waste of time coming here, then invest your time where it will serve you well.

Take care my dear and i hope to see you around here soon,

🙂

PS. I think you have really good taste in clothing.

Luz, ive just thought of something else dumb that i do. Sometimes i write out a whole response to a post and realise that that's really what i don't want to say, so i end up scraping it. I sometimes do this for ages and in the end i just end up ditching the lot and moving on to another thread. So inevitably, i end up reading a lot more than what i respond to. Lol. That's when the libra comes out in me.

Luz, Luz, Luz....hey come on Missy!!!!! Some people seem to bond better with other people on this board but that's just life - nothing more, nothing less!!!....it's nothing personal - some are drawn to other's coz they see things the same way or they may have a natural upbeat view of life and some like the more cynical view of life...and that's just the way it is coz that's just the way it is....
As for me.....I only have use of the office computer three days a week and then I have to be careful in case the boss walks in with his eagle eye and sees me tapping so I have to be selective in answering or replying to messages...I just don't have the dam time - so if I never responded to you at times...no hard feelings.....nothing personal.

Luz, you say what you have to say and you say it well - you are very young and at times I am quite amazed at your valuable insights into situaitons and heart stuff.......say what you have to say, tell your story....but at the end of the day...does it really matter if no-one responds to you sometimes.....I for one, don't give a dam if people never respond to what I write or say (though it's certainly nice if and when they do) - it's only thoughts in my head that I am putting into cyber-space - if someone profits or if I help someone in some small way that's great - but if others think I am talking a load of ballomy - that's fine too.

So I'm saying to you...stay the way you are and see who sticks around:-)....and as for being the black sheep....well your the cutest little black sheep I've ever seen from your photo!!!....baah baah baah - so come on and stop bleating and let's have your lovely wooly sheep ideas and stories!!!

Ciao my pal - just look at all the people who have responded already to you - you silly moo-sheep!!!:-) and then try tell us that you don't count!!!!!!

Alana x

Luz you are right , why bother to come here we respond to faceless names except you who posted your face. It is a nice attritive face by the way. but your right why bother.

You most definetely count Luz!!!

You're wrong for that JT!
And I don't usually say outright to a person they are wrong!!
But in this circumstance you are!!
Your going through a real bad time and lots of "faceless people" here have supported you (support as best we can from behind our computers etc.) - OK so you still may be feeling s.h.i.t. but people are thinking of you and wishing good things for you and your situation......don't really mean to nag at you or wag my finger......you know what I am trying to say to you JT.
A x

o.k. sorry, Marry xmas I have to go home and stand around in a 9x5 kitchen and listen to everyone cookiemonster at me.

lol....poor James. Eat onions and talk in everyone's face; perhaps then they will leave you alone a little bit.

I am thinking do not go

That's a thought. But then you'll just always wonder what they would have said to you, had you gone. Plus, this way you'll have a way to defend yourself against them should they decide to talk smack. 🙂 As opposed to them talking smack behind your back.

Isn't family grand? 😛

Um..wow. Thanks everyone. I guess I shouldn't have over-exaggerated everything.

Oh you know, sometimes we go through these stages.

^^ Thanks Libragirl, can you go to the sagittarius board and tell me what you think of my post? It's kind of a 'got to know a.s.a.p' post.

hey luz i've been gone from this board. glad 2 see ur feeling better. i like this though it's a family like atmoshre and like family we miss our members w/ in it and thosee yet 2 come. come stay and have some tea.

on the island.....

lol 🙂

cute

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I dont get this..? I havent even spoken to you once in my entire life on this board. And yes I dont write my opinions on 2040384304 entries on this board.

But oh wells, doesn't matter.

YOU DID RUIN IT FOR THIS POST. APRIL. TSK.TSK.TSK. I SMELL A FIGHT. LMAO. MY BET IS ON LUZ. YOU'RE GOING DOWN APRILBABY!