I’m not sure

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The more my heart broke, the more I hit hard on my work, it’s like ironically or money laughing at me



The last time the gemini hurt me so badly, I start new project and I got a lot of money, I can’t even know how, believe me, I just worked so hard so I forget and save myself to not break down

Yesterday When he sent me messages again (after the break up) I felt so angry, my heart was about to blow up, and what I did? I work work work



Can money and work save us from the pain of love and disappointment? I don’t know

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Posted by Horsey

"Can money and work save us from the pain of love and disappointment?"

Nah, its a distraction from your hurts and it seems like making money is something you're good at so it's only a method of self-comfort and validation. Nothing wrong with that but it won't help you with the relationship stuff.

Why don't you block him, since his messages are hurting you so much


Yeah, true

Never helped me with anything related to heart matters

But he is already blocked everywhere, but he will always find a way

He is lazy man, very patient when he want something.

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It seems like I do most work (and consequently make the most money) when I get depressed and heartbroken 🙌🏻 There are no distractions and I keep repeating the mantra “fuck bitches get money” 😄

Hahaha saaaame!

The most important project I did, was at the time when I was destroyed emotionally, I think there is connection between them
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Silver lining 😀
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It seems like I do most work (and consequently make the most money) when I get depressed and heartbroken 🙌🏻 There are no distractions and I keep repeating the mantra “fuck bitches get money” 😄

Hahaha saaaame!

The most important project I did, was at the time when I was destroyed emotionally, I think there is connection between them

Silver lining 😀
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😍⭐️
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Wish i was evasive like that - while/when i was dealing with a broken heart (could have been a billionaire by now 🤭). At least your evasiveness is profitable (: might even seem like it was worth it - after you manage to move on). Cause for some of us - a broken heart was a source of misfortune - even when it comes to finances (if we got depressed to the point where we embraced nihilism). Since that's what it felt like - as if nothing else mattered anymore... and same goes for money and work (which is something we did on auto-pilot 🤖). So hey, do your thing (whatever works for the best - i guess 🤷‍♂️).
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I think this is pretty normal tbh. I do this to avoid feeling and having to sit with my own thoughts...yeah, not the healthiest thing but idk...helps me give myself space in a way so that when I slow down...I have a better perception of the situation instead of just stewing in the hurt and depression. Sometimes it works and other times it doesn't...just all depends on what that "situation" was.
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Posted by Haruuka

The more my heart broke, the more I hit hard on my work, it’s like ironically or money laughing at me



The last time the gemini hurt me so badly, I start new project and I got a lot of money, I can’t even know how, believe me, I just worked so hard so I forget and save myself to not break down

Yesterday When he sent me messages again (after the break up) I felt so angry, my heart was about to blow up, and what I did? I work work work



Can money and work save us from the pain of love and disappointment? I don’t know

/hug

I don't think it'll save you all that much. It's already happened but it's definitely helping you cope through it and sometimes it's what we need or at least it's what I needed. I describe it like salvaging a fractured vase that'll eventually crumble you know the damage is done but you'd rather it to end at your own pace as opposed to that shock of knowing something just 'shattered' and now you're picking up all the pieces.

Not sure if that made sense but yeah... so maybe... a dampening rather than saving us from it lol.
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Posted by neves

Wish i was evasive like that - while/when i was dealing with a broken heart (could have been a billionaire by now 🤭). At least your evasiveness is profitable (: might even seem like it was worth it - after you manage to move on). Cause for some of us - a broken heart was a source of misfortune - even when it comes to finances (if we got depressed to the point where we embraced nihilism). Since that's what it felt like - as if nothing else mattered anymore... and same goes for money and work (which is something we did on auto-pilot 🤖). So hey, do your thing (whatever works for the best - i guess 🤷‍♂️).


It’s so clear what I’m doing, to the point he ask me after we come back to each other :”so what you did this time?” Lmao

But it’s not easy, so hurtful to be honest
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Posted by Horsey

"Can money and work save us from the pain of love and disappointment?"

Nah, its a distraction from your hurts and it seems like making money is something you're good at so it's only a method of self-comfort and validation. Nothing wrong with that but it won't help you with the relationship stuff.

Why don't you block him, since his messages are hurting you so much

Yeah, true

Never helped me with anything related to heart matters

But he is already blocked everywhere, but he will always find a way

He is lazy man, very patient when he want something.

He can never find a way if you block him from your heart
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I’m Working on it, believe me🙏🏻
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Posted by Haruuka

The more my heart broke, the more I hit hard on my work, it’s like ironically or money laughing at me



The last time the gemini hurt me so badly, I start new project and I got a lot of money, I can’t even know how, believe me, I just worked so hard so I forget and save myself to not break down

Yesterday When he sent me messages again (after the break up) I felt so angry, my heart was about to blow up, and what I did? I work work work



Can money and work save us from the pain of love and disappointment? I don’t know


You said my post with joke was old.

However it doesn’t apply to your bearded story with Gemini who seems like a made up character by now or if he is real than you must be out of your mind keeping obsessing about man who clearly doesn’t give a shit.

Maybe you need to read some funny stories or watch stand up comedy? You seem negative AF!

What man needs that doom and gloom to date?

Plus on every sexually hilarious threads you reply ‘never’ so your sex luge must be bore as you are.

Gemini can’t DO...THAT!!!
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Posted by Haruuka
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Horsey

"Can money and work save us from the pain of love and disappointment?"

Nah, its a distraction from your hurts and it seems like making money is something you're good at so it's only a method of self-comfort and validation. Nothing wrong with that but it won't help you with the relationship stuff.

Why don't you block him, since his messages are hurting you so much

Yeah, true

Never helped me with anything related to heart matters

But he is already blocked everywhere, but he will always find a way

He is lazy man, very patient when he want something.

He can never find a way if you block him from your heart

I’m Working on it, believe me🙏🏻
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Since I’ve been here you are working on it...years of working on it...👻