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Pluto: Sexual Obsession
Understanding Pluto's Role in Sexual Obsession
Pluto represents deep transformation and intense desires. Its placement in your natal chart can influence obsessive tendencies, especially in relation to intimacy. For example, Pluto in the third house may relate to obsessive communication or curiosity, often linked to Mercury-ruled signs like Gemini. Recognizing this pattern can help you understand and manage your relationship dynamics.
1st
i also have moon there though so it gives things a pretty cool vibe imo
but ya, obsessions, not really sexual, although an extremely sexual placement, i think pluto in the 1st has a big chunk to do with other people's sexuality, obsessions, dark side, etc either being bought to this placement or like /energetically thrown onto you
it's so weird & hard to explain
lolz x
are you obsessed with 1H matters?
In the second. No attraction to Taurus sun or moon at all.
I was obsessed with getting into a position of financial stability for a big chunk of my life but with time I realized that this isn't want I reall want nor need. On top it tends to lead to it's own kind of abstract slavery.
so past obsession with 2H matters
Pluto in my 11th house in the sign of Libra...what does that mean?
3H Scorpio
"It relates to the sign of Gemini on a more personal, physical level, and speaks of the insides of our mind. The main thing its positioning describes is the way one thinks and the processes in our heads that lead us in a certain direction. As such, it is extremely important in personal chart analysis, for it gives us the information on a person’s state of mind, just like the first house speaks of the state of one’s body, or the fourth the state of emotions and heart."
"You’re most interested in the subtext of information, instead of what’s on the surface. So, your learning process is investigative, figuring out what’s being left unsaid or unrevealed. You teach people to not think superficially and to hone their detective skills. But, if you go too far, you express a flip side that’s highly paranoid, though you can often take this paranoia as fact. It’s a destructive and also hypocritical mentality, as you’re prone to not exposing much of your own subtext."
"You have a very intense relationship with at least one sibling. It can be love-hate, tumultuous, or obsessively close. You sense a power within them that you strive to investigate, especially since they find that power through some sort of trauma, like abuse, self-destruction, or death. As an only child, you’ll be that mystery child, forcing the other kids to figure you out. Now, you’re very private with your neighbors. And if they gossip about you behind your back, you’ll quickly cut them off."
haha my love for mysteries and my obsessive thoughts
In the second. No attraction to Taurus sun or moon at all.
I was obsessed with getting into a position of financial stability for a big chunk of my life but with time I realized that this isn't want I reall want nor need. On top it tends to lead to it's own kind of abstract slavery.
so past obsession with 2H matters
Not sure. My self-imposed exile might just be way to run away from it and once I return from exile it might come back in full force or worse.
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embrace the greed
me having 3H Scorpio explains my obsessions with whodunits and falling asleep to scary stories on YT
very relaxing for me now
Pluto in my 11th house in the sign of Libra...what does that mean?
obsession with 11H matters?
Libra Pluto in the 11 house pretty close to the cusp of my Scorp 12 house
Maybe when younger I tried to obsessively control friends in a way? Idk. But the fear of losing friends was definitely real...when I felt that it was heading in that direction...I'd sabotage the friendship. Like try and piss them off so they hate me etc...made it easier to deal with the inevitable loss. I do take friendships very serious (my Pluto conjuncts my Scorp Saturn) and will hang on to the very significant ones by any means necessary but the older I get...I just try and let things play out the way they should which usually ends in a loss anyway. Honestly....all my former friendships are really no more 🤷.
I would say that some friendships have definitely ended up being sexual relationships which adds to things becoming messy and ending forever. Is it what it is tho 🤷
In the second. No attraction to Taurus sun or moon at all.
I was obsessed with getting into a position of financial stability for a big chunk of my life but with time I realized that this isn't want I reall want nor need. On top it tends to lead to it's own kind of abstract slavery.
so past obsession with 2H matters
Not sure. My self-imposed exile might just be way to run away from it and once I return from exile it might come back in full force or worse.
embrace the greed
me having 3H Scorpio explains my obsessions with whodunits and falling asleep to scary stories on YT
very relaxing for me now
Are you saying I should go full Sag moon?
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yuck but if it's who you areeee
Pluto first house conj Virgo asc
Obsessed no. Open minded yes
2nd house in scorpio
Yeah kinda obsessed although not as much as before
My second house is in Scorpio too and my Venus sits there. I love obsession and stating stuff is mine lol I like how powerful the obsession feels.
Pluto aspects work well with me.
So your Moon is in your second house then too?
Your a little Aqua that's crazy jealous and possessive huh? 😆
I don't think I realized what your second house was.
Libra Pluto in the 11 house pretty close to the cusp of my Scorp 12 house
Maybe when younger I tried to obsessively control friends in a way? Idk. But the fear of losing friends was definitely real...when I felt that it was heading in that direction...I'd sabotage the friendship. Like try and piss them off so they hate me etc...made it easier to deal with the inevitable loss. I do take friendships very serious (my Pluto conjuncts my Scorp Saturn) and will hang on to the very significant ones by any means necessary but the older I get...I just try and let things play out the way they should which usually ends in a loss anyway. Honestly....all my former friendships are really no more 🤷.
I would say that some friendships have definitely ended up being sexual relationships which adds to things becoming messy and ending forever. Is it what it is tho 🤷
You don't think that has to do with your moon? Leo moons need stuff to go their way a lot of the time and will cut people right out who don't conform. There is so much pride with this placement. Most Leo moons I know are super charismatic and can get friends quickly but they also will lose them because of pride and being hurt by their friends.
I get a long with them great, but I think it's many easy going nature and how nurturing I am for them and I am a people pleaser and don't mind them being controlling. They don't seem to mind when I say no to things when they push too far either. I don't do stuff that hurts their feelings and if I see it does, I fix it right away.
Mines in scorpio. I thought it was a generational thing?
Pluto in the 3rd. I do have obsessive thoughts, it can become unbearable
how do you feel about gems?
Pluto in the 6th. Obsessed with supplements and dieting.
you feel anything sexual with virgos?
2nd house in scorpio
Yeah kinda obsessed although not as much as before
My second house is in Scorpio too and my Venus sits there. I love obsession and stating stuff is mine lol I like how powerful the obsession feels.
Pluto aspects work well with me.
So your Moon is in your second house then too?
Your a little Aqua that's crazy jealous and possessive huh? 😆
I don't think I realized what your second house was.
Yeah dont tell nobody tho
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Cray Cray! I got your back! 😛
Pluto in the 3rd. I do have obsessive thoughts, it can become unbearable
how do you feel about gems?
I don’t know many, but the ones I know I like. I had a huge crush on one and dreamt of him for years and I still do occasionally. I’m pretty sure it was his taurus moon though
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god what is with that sun-moon thing?
i'm a virgo sun obsessed with a virgo moon
it's all i think about
Pluto in the 6th. Obsessed with supplements and dieting.
I wish I had this obsession 😭 as long as it's safe and doesn't lead to bulimia/anorexia
Pluto in the 6th. Obsessed with supplements and dieting.
I wish I had this obsession 😭 as long as it's safe and doesn't lead to bulimia/anorexia
Lmao. We both have traits that we want from each other. Let's switch for a week or two 😂😂😂.
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Let's just merge and learn from each other, It's so much easier! 😆
1H pluto, I guess so, maybe. Obsession takes a while in general for me lol.
1H pluto, I guess so, maybe. Obsession takes a while in general for me lol.
1H matters obsession
My pluto sits in my 12 house 🙂 what you call obsessesion. I call research 😁
Sigh. Yeah but im also considered plutoniun so thers that.
Pluto In the 8th house .. in Virgo. Is that sexually related or just death & rebirth? Lol
Hmmm I love Virgos and that damn Cap has a Virgo moon 😂😂. He’s still hiding but paying attention lmao. am I really that scary? 🤷♀️
1H pluto, I guess so, maybe. Obsession takes a while in general for me lol.
1H matters obsession
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nah, not really.
Pluto In the 8th house .. in Virgo. Is that sexually related or just death & rebirth? Lol
Hmmm I love Virgos and that damn Cap has a Virgo moon 😂😂. He’s still hiding but paying attention lmao. am I really that scary? 🤷♀️
Virgo moons are so fuckable
Pluto In the 8th house .. in Virgo. Is that sexually related or just death & rebirth? Lol
Hmmm I love Virgos and that damn Cap has a Virgo moon 😂😂. He’s still hiding but paying attention lmao. am I really that scary? 🤷♀️
Virgo moons are so fuckable
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For sure! 🤦♀️
Pluto in the 6th. Obsessed with supplements and dieting.
I wish I had this obsession 😭 as long as it's safe and doesn't lead to bulimia/anorexia
Lmao. We both have traits that we want from each other. Let's switch for a week or two 😂😂😂.
Let's just merge and learn from each other, It's so much easier! 😆
Spoken like a true Scorpio Venus.
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😄
I have Pluto in Scorpio 7th house. What does that mean?
7H matters?
attraction to Libra?
My chart just says Pluto in Sagittarius...
What does this mean someone pls help
My chart just says Pluto in Sagittarius...
What does this mean someone pls help
what house?
My chart just says Pluto in Sagittarius...
What does this mean someone pls help
what house?
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I... I don’t know how to find that lmaoooo it just has Sagittarius next to Pluto for me
Libra Pluto in the 11 house pretty close to the cusp of my Scorp 12 house
Maybe when younger I tried to obsessively control friends in a way? Idk. But the fear of losing friends was definitely real...when I felt that it was heading in that direction...I'd sabotage the friendship. Like try and piss them off so they hate me etc...made it easier to deal with the inevitable loss. I do take friendships very serious (my Pluto conjuncts my Scorp Saturn) and will hang on to the very significant ones by any means necessary but the older I get...I just try and let things play out the way they should which usually ends in a loss anyway. Honestly....all my former friendships are really no more 🤷.
I would say that some friendships have definitely ended up being sexual relationships which adds to things becoming messy and ending forever. Is it what it is tho 🤷
You don't think that has to do with your moon? Leo moons need stuff to go their way a lot of the time and will cut people right out who don't conform. There is so much pride with this placement. Most Leo moons I know are super charismatic and can get friends quickly but they also will lose them because of pride and being hurt by their friends.
I get a long with them great, but I think it's many easy going nature and how nurturing I am for them and I am a people pleaser and don't mind them being controlling. They don't seem to mind when I say no to things when they push too far either. I don't do stuff that hurts their feelings and if I see it does, I fix it right away.
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It probably does have a little to do with it too 😂
But just like the sun's...I think maturity helps. I know when younger it didn't take much to hurt my pride and now I tolerate a lot more than I probably should but I think that goes hand and hand with the Pluto in the 11 house. I can't do superficial relationships or acquaintances...my circle is small...so when I find someone on the same level or same sense of humor as me.. I'd like to hang onto it....it's a rarity for me.
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i think i've finally found an answer to my sexual obsession with the Virgo moon-Gemini stellium and why i always get with Gem moons/placements all the time in general.
"The placement of Pluto in the natal chart acts like a 'black hole' that needs to be urgently filled. The third house Plutonian native is very skeptical and suspicious regarding information that he hears or reads. His experience has taught him to question everything, even his own thoughts. The natural ruler of this house is Gemini and the ruling planet of this sign is Mercury."
what house is your Pluto in? and did you notice a pattern in your relationships or your obsessions?