if a woman slept with 10-20 or more guys..

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Posted by DAMEN VI
take for example jenna jameson..she was married, got divorced, then hooked up with a former UFC champ named tito ortiz..they settled down with each other, had kids...now look at'em..

http://latino.foxnews.com/latino/sports/2013/06/03/porn-star-jenna-jameson-tito-ortiz-embroiled-in-bitter-custody-battle/

this crazed heffer trying to tarnish this guy's legacy & posting pics of pills & syringes on twitter to try to get custody of the kids..smh

You are using ONE woman's situation to support a ridiculous assertion. Furthermore, a person who has made a career out of being a porn star. To each his or her own, but using her as an example is like comparing apples to oranges if we are talking about the average woman who does not have sex with multiple different partners per week. Or, per day for the matter. There are various other factors that could contribute to her behavior. You are speculating.

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Posted by starlover
...why does the number of men a woman sleeps with be indicative of whether she will be a good wife or not?

because your insatiable lust for dicks automatically disqualifies you to settle down with only one..and not only that, it's a good chance you have other mental/emotional issues that needs to resolved, and since your husband can't be your counselor,therapist or psychologist, he will eventually be your EX

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Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by starlover
...why does the number of men a woman sleeps with be indicative of whether she will be a good wife or not?

because your insatiable lust for dicks automatically disqualifies you to settle down with only one..and not only that, it's a good chance you have other mental/emotional issues that needs to resolved, and since your husband can't be your counselor,therapist or psychologist, he will eventually be your EX

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And what about the men who have 10-20 or more partners ?

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Posted by natural25

You are using ONE woman's situation to support a ridiculous assertion. Furthermore, a person who has made a career out of being a porn star. To each his or her own, but using her as an example is like comparing apples to oranges if we are talking about the average woman who does not have sex with multiple different partners per week. Or, per day for the matter. There are various other factors that could contribute to her behavior. You are speculating.

true she was an extreme example, but it still doesn't change the facts

a sexually liberated woman is great to have fun with, but marriage i think to them will eventually become a burden..they need to be free..so unless they have a unconventional marriage (i.e open marriage),then i just don't see it working out for them in the long run

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Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25

You are using ONE woman's situation to support a ridiculous assertion. Furthermore, a person who has made a career out of being a porn star. To each his or her own, but using her as an example is like comparing apples to oranges if we are talking about the average woman who does not have sex with multiple different partners per week. Or, per day for the matter. There are various other factors that could contribute to her behavior. You are speculating.

true she was an extreme example, but it still doesn't change the facts

a sexually liberated woman is great to have fun with, but marriage i think to them will eventually become a burden..they need to be free..so unless they have a unconventional marriage (i.e open marriage),then i just don't see it working out for them in the long run

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....and you are basing this on?

What about the men who have slept with more than 10-20 women. Does this mean they are not "marriage material" as well?

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Posted by natural25

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by starlover
...why does the number of men a woman sleeps with be indicative of whether she will be a good wife or not?

because your insatiable lust for dicks automatically disqualifies you to settle down with only one..and not only that, it's a good chance you have other mental/emotional issues that needs to resolved, and since your husband can't be your counselor,therapist or psychologist, he will eventually be your EX

And what about the men who have 10-20 or more partners ?

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it's always been known that women have always enjoyed a more sexually experienced man..

juyst think about it: if YOU wanted this man, then chances are a lot of other women did/do too, and a LOT of women usually show that they like you by doing what? having sex..*shrugs*

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Well, my chastity belt was not removed until the age of 24 yrs old. My family paid a handsome dowry to my first husband.

Do you find this kind of arrangement acceptable, Damien? I seek your approval.

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Posted by starlover
but a sexually liberated woman Damen may reform and want to settle down with one man, that often happens ya know? it is often known as *getting things out of your system* and yes even men do that sometimes too ~ mature and become more settled

some of'em may settle down, but honestly, i think most of'em just.."settle"..meaning they may do it just because they don't want to die alone, or for financial reasons..

i believe you are who you are..you don't truly change..you may adapt,but never change

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Posted by ScorpSuperior
Well, my chastity belt was not removed until the age of 24 yrs old. My family paid a handsome dowry to my first husband.

Do you find this kind of arrangement acceptable, Damien? I seek your approval.

i think everybody should be allowed to do as they please..it maybe consequences behind it also,but it's definitely not o.k to force anybody to do anything they don't want to

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Posted by DonJohnson

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan

Posted by DonJohnson
Men and women are not the same psychologically, biologically nor socially.

When a man engages in sex with a female with 0 obligations, that's winning. When a female gives away her body for free to random men, it's losing. she's an idiot.

This is opinion, not fact.

It's also my opinion that I feel pretty win after a good tumble.

yeah but did you know you could've also charged?

"dick is free"

"poosy cost money"

- Chris Rock

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So are you suggesting that if women start to charge men to have sex with them, they would then be "winning".

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Posted by natural25

Posted by DonJohnson

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan

Posted by DonJohnson
Men and women are not the same psychologically, biologically nor socially.

When a man engages in sex with a female with 0 obligations, that's winning. When a female gives away her body for free to random men, it's losing. she's an idiot.

This is opinion, not fact.

It's also my opinion that I feel pretty win after a good tumble.

yeah but did you know you could've also charged?

"dick is free"

"poosy cost money"

- Chris Rock

So are you suggesting that if women start to charge men to have sex with them, they would then be "winning".

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thats what don is saying

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by natural25

Posted by DonJohnson

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan

Posted by DonJohnson
Men and women are not the same psychologically, biologically nor socially.

When a man engages in sex with a female with 0 obligations, that's winning. When a female gives away her body for free to random men, it's losing. she's an idiot.

This is opinion, not fact.

It's also my opinion that I feel pretty win after a good tumble.

yeah but did you know you could've also charged?

"dick is free"

"poosy cost money"

- Chris Rock

So are you suggesting that if women start to charge men to have sex with them, they would then be "winning".

thats what don is saying

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He just said that is not what he is saying... So which is it? Lol.

Then comes the question of how much are we worth, if we begin to monetizing a women's sex. Are dates, time and effort enough? What's enough?

How about everyone just do what they want and what makes THEM happy and find others who are comfortable with their actions.....

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Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25
Damien, have you only dated virgins?

of course not

im not here to down loose women, i've said many a time that i enjoyed these women, some quite throughly too..i'm only saying that their not good marriage material

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So, you are only going to marry a virgin?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

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Posted by DonJohnson
Men and women are not the same sexually. Men and women are not biologically wired the same way. Different social dynamic. The whole psychology of sex is a a man making penetration and conquering the female then seeding her. The man is genetically wired to spread his seed around with 0 repercussions. A female isn't made that way because biologically a female gets pregnant.

When a man sluts around, it isn't just socially acceptable...... it's a much, much stronger biological inclination. Men have higher testosterones.. Period.

It's like saying a person with 2 legs and a person with 1 leg are equal. So neither should be allowed to run. It's easier for the 1 legged person to not run than it is for the 2 legged person to not run. They have both of their legs, THEY WANT TO RUN!

This is the same thing with a penis and the male psyche. We want to conquer and penetrate. A woman giving up sex is losing. A man getting sex is WINNING

So in a sense, the female slut is the evolutionary LOSER. A man slut is the evolutionary WINNER.

^ simple logic. makes total sense.

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Posted by DonJohnson
Men and women are not the same sexually. Men and women are not biologically wired the same way. Different social dynamic. The whole psychology of sex is a a man making penetration and conquering the female then seeding her. The man is genetically wired to spread his seed around with 0 repercussions. A female isn't made that way because biologically a female gets pregnant.

When a man sluts around, it isn't just socially acceptable...... it's a much, much stronger biological inclination. Men have higher testosterones.. Period.

It's like saying a person with 2 legs and a person with 1 leg are equal. So neither should be allowed to run. It's easier for the 1 legged person to not run than it is for the 2 legged person to not run. They have both of their legs, THEY WANT TO RUN!

This is the same thing with a penis and the male psyche. We want to conquer and penetrate. A woman giving up sex is losing. A man getting sex is WINNING

So in a sense, the female slut is the evolutionary LOSER. A man slut is the evolutionary WINNER.

I do agree with you to an extent.

However, that is not the central argument of this post. We are talking about marriage material. I know plenty of girls who slept around with different guys when I was in undergrad, and are happily married now. I on the other hand did not sleep around and I am still single.

Who is "winning"?

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Posted by natural25

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25
Damien, have you only dated virgins?

of course not

im not here to down loose women, i've said many a time that i enjoyed these women, some quite throughly too..i'm only saying that their not good marriage material

So, you are only going to marry a virgin?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

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I'm dying to know as well. Additionally, please inform us on how you are going to go about confirming her virginity or number of partners.

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Posted by natural25

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25
Damien, have you only dated virgins?

of course not

im not here to down loose women, i've said many a time that i enjoyed these women, some quite throughly too..i'm only saying that their not good marriage material

So, you are only going to marry a virgin?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

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i've been in a committed relationship currently for 8 yrs..im in my early 30's

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Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25
Damien, have you only dated virgins?

of course not

im not here to down loose women, i've said many a time that i enjoyed these women, some quite throughly too..i'm only saying that their not good marriage material

So, you are only going to marry a virgin?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

i've been in a committed relationship currently for 8 yrs..im in my early 30's

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OHHHH MY GODDDDDDDD!!! Enough said! I am DONE. It's a DONE BUN! *oven buzzer goes off*

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Posted by DAMEN VI

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Hang on here. Isn't this the same guy who posted the infamous "Women Who Orgasm When They're Raped" thread?

Ohhhhh yessssss.

Is there a psychiatrist in the house?

you read and enjoyed every post in that thread too

Tell you what. I'm feeling generous tonight, so I'll start a matching fund to get you the professional help you so desperately need. I'll throw in the first dollar.

Aw hell, make it five.

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i'm fine dude..sometimes i just like to talk about controversial things *shrugs*

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Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25
Damien, have you only dated virgins?

of course not

im not here to down loose women, i've said many a time that i enjoyed these women, some quite throughly too..i'm only saying that their not good marriage material

So, you are only going to marry a virgin?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

i've been in a committed relationship currently for 8 yrs..im in my early 30's

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Is you girlfriend a virgin? Please tell me if I am prying too much.

I am trying to understand where you are getting your logic.

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Posted by ScorpSuperior

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25
Damien, have you only dated virgins?

of course not

im not here to down loose women, i've said many a time that i enjoyed these women, some quite throughly too..i'm only saying that their not good marriage material

So, you are only going to marry a virgin?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

i've been in a committed relationship currently for 8 yrs..im in my early 30's

OHHHH MY GODDDDDDDD!!! Enough said! I am DONE. It's a DONE BUN! *oven buzzer goes off*

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lol what?

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Posted by ScorpSuperior

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25
Damien, have you only dated virgins?

of course not

im not here to down loose women, i've said many a time that i enjoyed these women, some quite throughly too..i'm only saying that their not good marriage material

So, you are only going to marry a virgin?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

i've been in a committed relationship currently for 8 yrs..im in my early 30's

OHHHH MY GODDDDDDDD!!! Enough said! I am DONE. It's a DONE BUN! *oven buzzer goes off*

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LMFAO!

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Posted by DonJohnson

Posted by natural25

Posted by DonJohnson
Men and women are not the same sexually. Men and women are not biologically wired the same way. Different social dynamic. The whole psychology of sex is a a man making penetration and conquering the female then seeding her. The man is genetically wired to spread his seed around with 0 repercussions. A female isn't made that way because biologically a female gets pregnant.

When a man sluts around, it isn't just socially acceptable...... it's a much, much stronger biological inclination. Men have higher testosterones.. Period.

It's like saying a person with 2 legs and a person with 1 leg are equal. So neither should be allowed to run. It's easier for the 1 legged person to not run than it is for the 2 legged person to not run. They have both of their legs, THEY WANT TO RUN!

This is the same thing with a penis and the male psyche. We want to conquer and penetrate. A woman giving up sex is losing. A man getting sex is WINNING

So in a sense, the female slut is the evolutionary LOSER. A man slut is the evolutionary WINNER.

I do agree with you to an extent.

However, that is not the central argument of this post. We are talking about marriage material. I know plenty of girls who slept around with different guys when I was in undergrad, and are happily married now. I on the other hand did not sleep around and I am still single.

Who is "winning"?

i understand that. 2 things.

1. you only have a handful of examples which doesn't affect a large sample pool study like in the OP.

2. most of the couples you know are still in their 30's. They still got many years to divorce.

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I understand that. One thing:

The poll does not take into consideration other contributing factors that might also provide rationale for these statistics. For example, family of origin, socio-economic status, religious preferences, cultural background, etc.

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Damen

It doesn't take 8 years to figure out whether or not you want to marry someone.

Sounds like you're trying to justify your reasons for delaying solidifying your relationship.

Now, say it ain't so...

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Posted by natural25

Is you girlfriend a virgin? Please tell me if I am prying too much.

I am trying to understand where you are getting your logic.

she's not a virgin, and idk if she's been with 10-20 guys, but one thing i can say is she fit to be wifey...real traditional,looks good (blk/puerto rican),homebody,doesn't care about going to the club all the time,can cook & clean, and her FEW friends are in relationships..and she isn't pressuring me TO get married

and my logic comes from being surrounded by people who are in relationships with that don't fit the traditional role a wife should have

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Posted by ScorpSuperior
Damen

It doesn't take 8 years to figure out whether or not you want to marry someone.

Sounds like you're trying to justify your reasons for delaying solidifying your relationship.

Now, say it ain't so...

Too busy sampling all that loose pu**y.

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Posted by ScorpSuperior
Damen

It doesn't take 8 years to figure out whether or not you want to marry someone.

Sounds like you're trying to justify your reasons for delaying solidifying your relationship.

Now, say it ain't so...

^^ this^^

I guess this goes hand in hand with we have been together for almost a decade but "she's not pressuring me to get married."

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Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by natural25

Is you girlfriend a virgin? Please tell me if I am prying too much.

I am trying to understand where you are getting your logic.

she's not a virgin, and idk if she's been with 10-20 guys, but one thing i can say is she fit to be wifey...real traditional,looks good (blk/puerto rican),homebody,doesn't care about going to the club all the time,can cook & clean, and her FEW friends are in relationships..and she isn't pressuring me TO get married

and my logic comes from being surrounded by people who are in relationships with that don't fit the traditional role a wife should have

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Me Jane and you Tarzan.

You go out to the club all the time, date me until I have grey hair and I be traditional good woman for you and dont bother you.

**insert grunt**

😉

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Posted by ScorpSuperior
Damen

It doesn't take 8 years to figure out whether or not you want to marry someone.

Sounds like you're trying to justify your reasons for delaying solidifying your relationship.

Now, say it ain't so...

i may be a lil hesitant,but this thread wasn't made to justify ME not getting married at all..if anything, more people should do what im doing instead of hopping into this type of commitment..because when i do it, then thats it..we not breaking up or divorcing,lol

my father waited 7 yrs before he married my mother, and they're still together to this day..so i think im going about it the right way

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Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by ScorpSuperior
Damen

It doesn't take 8 years to figure out whether or not you want to marry someone.

Sounds like you're trying to justify your reasons for delaying solidifying your relationship.

Now, say it ain't so...

i may be a lil hesitant,but this thread wasn't made to justify ME not getting married at all..if anything, more people should do what im doing instead of hopping into this type of commitment..because when i do it, then thats it..we not breaking up or divorcing,lol

my father waited 7 yrs before he married my mother, and they're still together to this day..so i think im going about it the right way

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Lol @ "a little hesitant"!!! Uhhhh yea... 8 years...

#boybye

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