@natural25
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Why Do Men Send Naked Pictures Early in Dating
Men may send naked pictures early to seek validation or express intimacy quickly. It can also be a way to test boundaries or impress. Understanding their intentions is important to ensure comfort and safety in your interactions.
Lol! I'll bet he's an Aqua
Posted by Wynter
Lol! I'll bet he's an Aqua
Ha! Actually no. My ex Aqua was actually a prude when it came to sexual matters via technology. Lol
This guy is a Taurus. :-/ Bold as hell!
Posted by Poisson
I need to see that picture before I can give you sound advice.
LMAO! Hilarious! Yea... It was definitely interesting. Once I got over the picture itself (not a bad view), rationale then settled in, I realized what just happened and I was slightly offended.
Posted by Slicks
technology truly is a wonderful thing
So says a man... Lol.
Because I'm ABSOLUTELY a believer the there is an exhibitionist in every woman!
I have no idea either why they do that. It pisses me off honestly. Because it's crossing that line letting you know hey I wanna F you. And they haven't even taken you out yet or like on a few dates yet. Normally I just go "Thank god my exes was huge maybe it's time for a change" LOL! Then they get all pissed! That's right! *Looks at my phone* BOOP! DUHLETE!
Posted by Slicks
technology truly is a wonderful thingSo says a man... Lol.
.....and a taurus ! gasp
(it wasn't me)
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Ha! No, it wasn't you. I thought Taurus men were sticks in the mud when it comes to sex. But I guess, a man is a man.
I am just having a hard time conceptualizing a man's ability to be so bold.
Posted by VirgoHero
Because I'm ABSOLUTELY a believer the there is an exhibitionist in every woman!
And maybe you are right. But to try to cross that line to find out when she does not know you from a hole in the wall... That is out of line! At least, work up to asking for that kind of picture.
Especially, considering nothing we send via technology is really private.
Posted by Xin
I have no idea either why they do that. It pisses me off honestly. Because it's crossing that line letting you know hey I wanna F you. And they haven't even taken you out yet or like on a few dates yet. Normally I just go "Thank god my exes was huge maybe it's time for a change" LOL! Then they get all pissed! That's right! *Looks at my phone* BOOP! DUHLETE!
I totally agree. I did not even respond to his text. I literally have known this guy for three days and he sends me a picture of him full frontal like it was nothing... SMH.
Posted by Nemesis
if you don't like him, tweet it! 😄
That literally made me LOL. Good idea... Hmm...
Posted by Slicks
we have our moments. and plus you must be fiiiiiine as hell
I'm sure it has less to do with what I look like and more to do with his expectation that I would send him a naked picture in return. I did not take it as a compliment at all. Besides, it is not hard to arouse a man anyway. But that is an entirely different subject. Lol.
Posted by natural25 Once I got over the picture itself (not a bad view), rationale then settled in, I realized what just happened and I was slightly offended.
So if you didn't mind the view, what's the problem? Pfft... women!
Let me guess, the father of your future offspring doesn't send pics of his joystick to women he's just met? lol
(Best revenge would be posting his pic here, let's see how happy he was thinking of you.. 😉 )
Posted by starlover
Oh that is so boring and predictable isnt it?? Silly boy ~~ can he not be a bit more imaginative than that ~~ like *show me your brain mister before whopping yer todger out**yawn*
😄
Brain and credit score are two really good pictures to send to get the morning started. Lol. I kid...I kid...
Posted by natural25 Once I got over the picture itself (not a bad view), rationale then settled in, I realized what just happened and I was slightly offended.
So if you didn't mind the view, what's the problem? Pfft... women!
Let me guess, the father of your future offspring doesn't send pics of his joystick to women he's just met? lol
(Best revenge would be posting his pic here, let's see how happy he was thinking of you.. 😉 )
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The point is that it is too much too soon. He does not know me! He clearly sent me the pic in hopes I would reciprocate. Which is also offensive.
Starlover - right! Lol.
Starlover, hmmm.... Maybe I should! He just sent it this morning.
Slicks, yea he was trying his luck and it didn't work this time around. A man has to do more than show morning wood to see me in that kind of.... position. Lol.
Starlover - He was smart enough to not show his face. Lol.
Posted by Poisson
Ok. For me, it's ONLY sexy if it's with a man I'm in a relationship with and I have not seen him for some time. Like a business trip or a LDR. I've had it. I've seen it in the flesh. I've felt it. And it's good. I want more. MOOOAAARRRR! A picture serves as a tease. It's personal. It's mine. Plus, I'm an extremely visual person.Otherwise, I agree with you on the creep-factor if it's from someone you have recently became acquainted. That's not cute. If you sent it to someone you are starting to get to know, how many other chicks have it?
Agreed. I was in a LDR with an Aqua, and I used to always ask for them. Ha. I loved it. BUT we had been together for over a year and were deeply in love.
When a total stranger does it, it's not appealing to me at all. Which is unfortunate because he really is attractive and he totally turned me off.
Posted by starlover
Did he show his face in the pic as well as the rest of his body?Inquiring minds like ours want to know!
Btw, if that's you in your avatar, you *ARE* really pretty 🙂
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No, he did not show his face. Lol. Only neck down.
Aww thank you!! 🙂 Yes, that's me.
Posted by starlover
I agree with all you ladies. Years ago i was in an LDR with an aqua man...he didnt show me his till we actually met which was 2yrs later...i liked that!! He was clever enough to know not to shove it in my face lol😄
But that only adds to the mystery and the appeal. Although I saw my Aqua in person before we got to the point of exchanging pics, his reluctance is what made me feel as though I had never seen it.
We want what we cant have. Or, is at least a challenge.
Posted by starlover
uuughgghh neck down ~~~ lolyou are very pretty!!! 🙂
Aww thank you!!! I feel so loved!! LOL. 🙂
Posted by natural25
sexual matters via technology. LolOld fashion
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Bwwahahaha!! Trust me! I am not old fashioned at all.
Posted by Poisson
Ok. For me, it's ONLY sexy if it's with a man I'm in a relationship with and I have not seen him for some time. Like a business trip or a LDR. I've had it. I've seen it in the flesh. I've felt it. And it's good. I want more. MOOOAAARRRR! A picture serves as a tease. It's personal. It's mine. Plus, I'm an extremely visual person.
^This^
Star - I am going to send it!!! Lol. Lets see how he responds. Lmao. :p
Posted by Poisson
Ok. For me, it's ONLY sexy if it's with a man I'm in a relationship with and I have not seen him for some time. Like a business trip or a LDR. I've had it. I've seen it in the flesh. I've felt it. And it's good. I want more. MOOOAAARRRR! A picture serves as a tease. It's personal. It's mine. Plus, I'm an extremely visual person.^This^
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I agree with that Virgo. But I don't know this man from a can of grapes. He has not taken me out on one date. I don't even know his last name!! He has to come with better game than that!
LMAO @ "headless men". Well, clearly he only has one head that he actually uses. Therein lies the problem.
Well...if we were in relationship/dating....from the looks of it, it wouldn't be a problem. Ha! But I digress. Let me stop.
Are there any women that actually like when men do this? It is offensive. Foreign peen is scary to me. I need to get to know you before I become acquainted with your peen. Yuck.
Posted by starlover
Okay write to him lol and say *thanks very much for the picture, i am so sorry that you became decapitated since we met, i am afraid it will be too difficult for to be with a man that has lost his head to me soooooo soon*LOL
LOL! This thread is hilarious.
He responded. He thinks he is the shit. LOL.
He said, "Lol. You're funny. I like a woman with a good sense of humor. I wanted to show you how much you have been on my mind. I figured it would be better than just telling you. I think I made my point."
What!?!? Made his point!? Ummm.... Made his point that he wants to have sex with me. Duh? That's a given anytime a man approaches a woman. Smh.
Posted by Poisson
Ok. For me, it's ONLY sexy if it's with a man I'm in a relationship with and I have not seen him for some time. Like a business trip or a LDR. I've had it. I've seen it in the flesh. I've felt it. And it's good. I want more. MOOOAAARRRR! A picture serves as a tease. It's personal. It's mine. Plus, I'm an extremely visual person.^This^
I agree with that Virgo. But I don't know this man from a can of grapes. He has not taken me out on one date. I don't even know his last name!! He has to come with better game than that!
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Oh I completely agree with you. Some guys set the bar low for women. Some women meet that bar. Others are far better than that.
Posted by wateryram80
Are there any women that actually like when men do this? It is offensive. Foreign peen is scary to me. I need to get to know you before I become acquainted with your peen. Yuck.
LMAO @ "foreign peen"!!! #dead
What!?!? Made his point!? Ummm.... Made his point that he wants to have sex with me. Duh? That's a given anytime a man approaches a woman. Smh.
Some men don't seem to get this. Most women get hit on daily. You can't even walk to get groceries without an overzealous hello and cars honking. There's nothing new or special about his peen. Now if I got to know you then it's a different ball game!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I don't have a camera on my phone so most of this passes me by lol
Lol! Join the fun!!!
Posted by natural25
He responded. He thinks he is the shit. LOL.He said, "Lol. You're funny. I like a woman with a good sense of humor. I wanted to show you how much you have been on my mind. I figured it would be better than just telling you. I think I made my point."
What!?!? Made his point!? Ummm.... Made his point that he wants to have sex with me. Duh? That's a given anytime a man approaches a woman. Smh.
Oh he is just thick lol ~~ clueless and totally not understanding of the female psyche at all. How will you respond? 😄
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Right!
I said, "and was your picture supposed to impress me?" Lets see what he says... LOL! This is fun.
Poisson - EXACTLY, I went to Miami a couple years ago and this guy did something very similar. It looked like a pencil and I proceeded to show it to my friends. Hey! If you don't have more respect for your privacy, why should I— Lol.
Wateryram - It's like guys don't get it. So what you want me?? What else do you have to offer?
Lol @ Starlover.
Hey! If you don't have more respect for your privacy, why should I— Lol.
Good point lol!
He responded,
"No, I did not think it was going to impress you per se. Listen, I am thinking that maybe I should not have sent the picture. If by chance I made me you feel any kind of way, I apologize. That was not my intention. It wont happen again. I really like you and do not want you to feel disrespected. Let me take you out to make up for this."
This man is crazy! He thinks he is slick!! If by CHANCE he made me feel any kind of way— He knew that he was out of line, but was just hoping for the best. Now he is trying to play me for the fool. Grrr...
The stand up person in me wants to delete the pic...
But do I have to!?? LOL. I kid... I kid...
Ok, I am just going to tell him to kick rocks with bobby socks. Enough of this back and forth. Lol.
The life of a single woman....
Posted by natural25
He responded. He thinks he is the shit. LOL.He said, "Lol. You're funny. I like a woman with a good sense of humor. I wanted to show you how much you have been on my mind. I figured it would be better than just telling you. I think I made my point."
Yeah, that sounds like Taurus.
Posted by wateryram80
Are there any women that actually like when men do this? It is offensive. Foreign peen is scary to me. I need to get to know you before I become acquainted with your peen. Yuck.
Right? It doesn't even look sexy. I'd rather look at a picture of a face.
SENDING PIC OF ONES WANGER TO ANOTHER FEMALE
IS A BIT OVER THE TOP. I MAKE ALL MY INTRODUCTIONS IN PERSON.
Posted by natural25
He responded. He thinks he is the shit. LOL.He said, "Lol. You're funny. I like a woman with a good sense of humor. I wanted to show you how much you have been on my mind. I figured it would be better than just telling you. I think I made my point."
Yeah, that sounds like Taurus.
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Cocky, ass.... Smh.
Posted by james tate
SENDING PIC OF ONES WANGER TO ANOTHER FEMALE
IS A BIT OVER THE TOP. I MAKE ALL MY INTRODUCTIONS IN PERSON.
AS IT SHOULD BE
Posted by james tate
SENDING PIC OF ONES WANGER TO ANOTHER FEMALE
IS A BIT OVER THE TOP. I MAKE ALL MY INTRODUCTIONS IN PERSON.
Hilarious!!!! That's the way it should be done.
Posted by starlover
Tis better to have loved and lost
Than have a headless man in your heart(he prob thinks you are in love with me after seeing the pic)
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Probably. But I think he gets the point. I told him, "to be honest, your picture turned me off. not because of the way it looks but the audacity behind you sending it. consider this as a learning moment."
**shrugs**
Posted by JenLove
Ah the good old barbarian way of letting a girl know you wish to mate with her! lol Unfortunately for us girls technology has advanced this method. You should think of it as a process of elimination for the both of you. For him, if you actually like the picture and just so happen to send one back that means you're just the girl he's looking for and for you since he sent you the pic you now know he's never a guy you'd even consider lol It's better to find that out sooner than later.
Right. He actually made it easier for me.
Posted by natural25
sexual matters via technology. LolOld fashion
Bwwahahaha!! Trust me! I am not old fashioned at all.
Why do I trust you ? Do I know you ? 🙂
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As you should.
Most wish they knew me, but do not. Ok... I am just talking shit now. LOL. 😛
Posted by starlover
Tis better to have loved and lost
Than have a headless man in your heart(he prob thinks you are in love with me after seeing the pic)
😄
Probably. But I think he gets the point. I told him, "to be honest, your picture turned me off. not because of the way it looks but the audacity behind you sending it. consider this as a learning moment."
**shrugs**
Oh good for you!! Well done!! 🙂
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**Bows and takes a curtsy** LOL.
He texted back saying "ouch"
HAY DIDN'T ONE OF THE AMERICAN POLITICAL GUYS SEND PICS OF HIS WANGER TO SOME BIRD AND SHE THROW HIM UNDER THE BUS A CHAP NAMED WINNER I THINK.
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What's up with men/boys asking for naked pictures or sending naked pictures of themselves after having only known a woman for five minutes?!
I recently met a guy at a longue. We spoke for about 15 minutes or so and exchanged numbers. Never once did sex or anything remotely close to it come up. We spoke on the phone a few days following and then one day he sends me a text saying, "good morning, I woke up thinking about you" with a picture of himself hard as a rock! My mouth dropped to the floor.
WTF!?