I'm scary and mean—?

I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

Posted by TheTinMan

Posted by Deedee86
I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

it's possible. you said you didn't curse. you told him to cut the bullshit. what's your chart look like?

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Scorpio sun

Aries moon

Gem rising

Leo Saturn

Scorpio Mercury

Cancer Mars

Libra Venus

My dominants are Scorpio, Aries, Leo and Libra with the first two being almost equal

Water and fire almost equal



Full chart is in my photos.

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Posted by Deedee86

Posted by TheTinMan

Posted by Deedee86
I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

it's possible. you said you didn't curse. you told him to cut the bullshit. what's your chart look like?

Scorpio sun

Aries moon

Gem rising

Leo Saturn

Scorpio Mercury

Cancer Mars

Libra Venus

My dominants are Scorpio, Aries, Leo and Libra with the first two being almost equal

Water and fire almost equal



Full chart is in my photos.

I say it's a combination of both fire and water. with both being almost equal I wanna say you're even temper.

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I see myself as pretty friendly so I'm shocked to hear that I scare people.

I also notice that there are always a handful of people that just hate me for no good reason. One in specific is an older woman in a different department that I barely see or interact with. She's hated me for years and it's become a joke with my coworkers. We laugh about it. If we have to call that department and she's on, they always have me do it just to watch her freak out.

All my haters have the same characteristics. They are stiff and miserable and 99% are women.

You don't scare me ?

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by TheTinMan

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by TheTinMan

Posted by Deedee86
I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

it's possible. you said you didn't curse. you told him to cut the bullshit. what's your chart look like?

Scorpio sun

Aries moon

Gem rising

Leo Saturn

Scorpio Mercury

Cancer Mars

Libra Venus

My dominants are Scorpio, Aries, Leo and Libra with the first two being almost equal

Water and fire almost equal



Full chart is in my photos.

I say it's a combination of both fire and water. with both being almost equal I wanna say you're even temper.

I see myself as pretty friendly so I'm shocked to hear that I scare people.

I also notice that there are always a handful of people that just hate me for no good reason. One in specific is an older woman in a different department that I barely see or interact with. She's hated me for years and it's become a joke with my coworkers. We laugh about it. If we have to call that department and she's on, they always have me do it just to watch her freak out.

All my haters have the same characteristics. They are stiff and miserable and 99% are women.

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You're earth void.

The phrase that came to mind is smokestack

lightning.



Oh yeah... lol

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Posted by Deedee86

Posted by TheTinMan

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by TheTinMan

Posted by Deedee86
I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

it's possible. you said you didn't curse. you told him to cut the bullshit. what's your chart look like?

Scorpio sun

Aries moon

Gem rising

Leo Saturn

Scorpio Mercury

Cancer Mars

Libra Venus

My dominants are Scorpio, Aries, Leo and Libra with the first two being almost equal

Water and fire almost equal



Full chart is in my photos.

I say it's a combination of both fire and water. with both being almost equal I wanna say you're even temper.

I see myself as pretty friendly so I'm shocked to hear that I scare people.

I also notice that there are always a handful of people that just hate me for no good reason. One in specific is an older woman in a different department that I barely see or interact with. She's hated me for years and it's become a joke with my coworkers. We laugh about it. If we have to call that department and she's on, they always have me do it just to watch her freak out.

All my haters have the same characteristics. They are stiff and miserable and 99% are women.

You're earth void.

The phrase that came to mind is smokestack

lightning.



Oh yeah... lol

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Love it!

Posted by AerialView
You don't scare me ?

BOO!

Posted by Deedee86
I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

if that's your photo in your avi and you snapped at him, and he's a more passive, easily scared guy, (your supervisor) then yes, you'd be scary and mean. You look tough, like you take no shit.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Deedee86
I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

if that's your photo in your avi and you snapped at him, and he's a more passive, easily scared guy, (your supervisor) then yes, you'd be scary and mean. You look tough, like you take no shit.

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That's my photo. Lol, I never thought I looked tough. It's interesting to hear another take on it.

Posted by Arielle83
Well if you think you're friendly and then you get confronting it might look up and down and ppl feel they're walking on egg shells

I very rarely go there but it does happen once in awhile. Maybe it is scary because it's unexpected. I swallow a lot before I say something.

Posted by NINETYNINE

Posted by Deedee86
I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

Never once thought you were mean or scary ever.

Guy really sensitive?

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Extremely

He has been posting cryptic, whiny Facebook memes all day long.

Posted by Redbull
I had an instance at work yesterday too. It was time to go and the manager went out of his way to go out of bounds on something I already corrected him on before. Its very simple and no oneelse has problems with it. Im thinking he has issues and cant "act right" no matter how much easier it is to act right than it is to go out of bounds. You run into these types sometimes I guess. Eventually I want to be out of there but Im trying to stay on track but I dont want to keep going over the same thing with him over and over and going backwards. I corrected him again and told him how I already gave hm no room to f up so its like he's trying too at this point.

You have to wonder if it's on purpose or he's just an idiot.

Posted by NINETYNINE

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by NINETYNINE

Posted by Deedee86
I always considered myself to be pretty friendly and easy going and I thought that others felt the same way. I guess I was wrong.

Last night, my supervisor at work did something that rubbed me the wrong way and I let him have it. I didn't yell, argue, curse or insult him. I just called him out and told him to cut the bullshit. 24 hours later and he is still moping and scared of me.

I was speaking to the other supervisor today and he confessed that he is still traumatized from a time that I snapped on him almost two years ago. Again, I didn't yell or argue, I just confronted him.

I really don't get it. What makes me come off as so scary and mean? Could it be all the fire placements?

Never once thought you were mean or scary ever.

Guy really sensitive?

Extremely

He has been posting cryptic, whiny Facebook memes all day long.

Well.. he knows not to go there again at least? unless he will.. then that's masochistic.

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Long story short

He always cries to me about his personal problems and tells me what a great friend I am.

But he's two faced.

and I simply asked him what he meant by a comment that I overheard.

He got flustered and make up a bad lie.

So I called him on it

And he made up another bad lie followed by a bad excuse.

So I told him to stop with the bullshit because I'm not dumb.

Again, I did not raise my voice, argue or curse.

He crumbled.

Posted by bumboklatt
Hahahah way to go

You ousted a true puhssy

He really is.

He's always crying about how mean his wife is.

She told him he's fat and put him on a diet. I saw her picture and she's a moose but he never called her on the double standard.

He cries because she won't let him spend $ 3 daily in lunch so she packs him canned soup every day.

He cries because our boss yells at him.

It's ridiculous

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by Arielle83
Well if you think you're friendly and then you get confronting it might look up and down and ppl feel they're walking on egg shells

I very rarely go there but it does happen once in awhile. Maybe it is scary because it's unexpected. I swallow a lot before I say something.

When I used to work in a pub, I was bubbly and friendly and all that, but as soon as someone attempted to belittle me or cut sick at me, they said I turned into "Scarielle"

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You gotta be. People will eat you alive if you let them.

Posted by bumboklatt

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by bumboklatt
Hahahah way to go

You ousted a true puhssy

He really is.

He's always crying about how mean his wife is.

She told him he's fat and put him on a diet. I saw her picture and she's a moose but he never called her on the double standard.

He cries because she won't let him spend $ 3 daily in lunch so she packs him canned soup every day.

He cries because our boss yells at him.

It's ridiculous

Yeah you're not scary you're just real

Many people can't handle the truth, they like to live in bubbles

What's his sign?

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Believe it or not, he's a Cap. A large portion of my coworkers are but he's the only crybaby of the bunch.

I just pulled his chart. No way! I wouldn't have guessed it.



Tropical

Sun Capricorn 22°40'

Moon Scorpio 29°18'

Mercury Capricorn 17°53'

Venus Aquarius 27°02'

Mars Virgo 15°19'

Jupiter Virgo 9°44' R

Saturn Virgo 26°58' R

Uranus Scorpio 24°37'

Neptune Sagittarius 21°23'

Pluto Libra 21°45'

Lilith Virgo 20°55'

Asc node Leo 29°45'

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Posted by Deedee86
I just pulled his chart. No way! I wouldn't have guessed it.



Tropical

Sun Capricorn 22°40'

Moon Scorpio 29°18'

Mercury Capricorn 17°53'

Venus Aquarius 27°02'

Mars Virgo 15°19'

Jupiter Virgo 9°44' R

Saturn Virgo 26°58' R

Uranus Scorpio 24°37'

Neptune Sagittarius 21°23'

Pluto Libra 21°45'

Lilith Virgo 20°55'

Asc node Leo 29°45'

Moon in Scorp acts tough.

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That's why I'm confused. He doesn't act tough at all. He's a big baby that can't handle confrontation. He can't even handle a complaining customer and he's the supervisor. I've stepped in on more than one occasion because he gets nervous and starts fumbling.