Inappropriately Sexual? (Page 2)

UGGGGGGGGGGGH, again.

I agree with USC.

But anyway, there is CLEARLY no real sexual tension between the two of you, as those texts are outright silly. I don't think its a big deal, but if it really makes Pisces uncomfortable, then it would be okay of you to stop for him, BUT if the Pisces says he has no issue with it, then continue to do you. He could be secretly resenting you, but really, that's his problem for not being upfront. It's not your job to babysit his feelings.

thanks and yeah. that was generally my outlook too. i don't think it's a problem per se but i am trying to develop a long term union with Catfish. it's not as if he's telling me i can't be friends with my bff. he's simply asking that i "not disrespect" him.

i hate restrictions in this regard because i end up crossing boundaries and eventually the only solution is to just stop altogether. so i fear it heading there as it's really unnecessary.

either way, i shall err on the side of "stepford" and let the man have his way...this time. no more textanotsex.

yep...the "stepford" part...and the "let the man have his way" part...and the "no more textanotsex" part. the rest of it was easy.

Aww, but deep down tubby is still missing that Virgo as one of her fuck buddy. U should get back to him and stop that sexting nonesense. Do the real thing and keep it nasty. 😛

"yep...the "stepford" part...and the "let the man have his way" part...and the "no more textanotsex" part. the rest of it was easy."

I'm so proud. *wiping tear*

Posted by caligula
USC, he knows about the virgo. all the sordid details.

as absolutely crazy as it sounds, i've seen this man's wee more times than i care to count and NOTHING happened 99% of the time. at times he would try but even then it was an exercise in futility. as USC mentioned, those heels have long been retired and put out to pasture. i'm not sexually attracted to him. he's like a big brother...without the incest.

and stpatty, i get your point. Catfish is trying to be objective but i know what he would ultimately like for me to do. in truth, that TEXTING was pretty mild 😛 but yeah, it's "inappropriate"

regardless...NO! nothing would happen if i were in a compromising situation with him. i dont put myself in to compromising situations with men anymore. my ViA is a bit of a nymph so i keep that bitch on a short leash.

as far as how i would feel if the roles were reversed, i honestly can't say. i know taurus is supposed to be jealous but i'm not worried about stuff like this. i'm not sure what makes me uber jealous but a text wouldn't do it. i wouldn't go looking for this kind of crap. some bitch coming up and hugging up on a guy i'm dating, now THAT would make me jealous.

*shrugs*

so what happened in that 1 percent then?

Posted by caligula
ie...

how is ya?

greeeeeeeeeeeeeeettt

what u up to?

chillin...rubbin a woodie.

lol...1-800-dial-a-ho could probably use your services

ohhh yeeeaaa. like really? do you think they would like me? like for sure?...riiiiiiiite (in my valley girl voice)

yeah, i can totally picture you in a pair of assless booty shorts. u should totally take a pic and send it to me. would be AWESOME!... pink assless booty shorts and a canary yellow bow tie.

oooh, how we t sounds....so slippery yeaaaaaaa...ebay here i cum. he he he



^that's the context. it's more stupid than it is sexual. i'm not sure if that makes it worse or better but it really is just foolishness...not intimacy or sexual tension or anything of the sort.

so when i read it, am engaging in it, i can't take it seriously or see it as an offense because it really is ridiculous. we're joking and that's all it is. i guess that's why i am resistant to altering something that i dont perceive as a threat. i will, but i think it's not necessary to do so...besides to keep the peace of course.

stupid?? i found it quite erotic. especially the assless shorts part. Do they exist?

Look at King Piscels and aPiscesPrincess and their sexual spamming.

Posted by CappyLuv30
I'm late to this but I agree it is about respect.

I would feel uncomfortable if my significant other was doing all that nonsense; shit even I'D feel uncomfortable doing it and I'm a flirt by nature.

But I also do not keep in close contact with anyone that I've been intimate with because well "been there done that" ....what's the point of keeping you around? LOL

I digress.

My Virgo friend is dating a Pisces guy. He told her he was OK with male friends as long as they weren't intimate in the past. Granted that's not something he'd ever find out unless she was honest about it but I can understand where he's coming from. If this person was part of your life and y'all were intimate, I get it, we all have a past but that's where it should stay. There is someone new in your life now and he already finds it "weird".

That "it's weird" comment is enough for me to do whatever I needed to do to make him feel unweird about it. When I'm in a serious relationship, I want to keep it healthy.

Hey, CappyLuv30, what would you do if it was sexy smolding Aidan who was in your bed? with the quilt covering most of his body apart from a seemingly purposely exposed thigh?

*sigh* everyone already answered this enough. But I many platonic male friends (always hung around more males anyways, because females complicated my life and gave me a headache.)

It almost always becomes an issue.
Even though you know nothing is going to happen and it's harmless...your S.O. will probably never see it that way.
Even if he says he doesn't care...watch it come up in every fight you have, lol... ESPECIALLY being that he's a water sign.