Let's talk about Sex

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by LouLore on Thursday, April 19, 2012 and has 37 replies.

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Alright, I'm feeling sort of frisky, and always like to hear what others do to spice up their sexcapades. Whether simple or wild, what are some interesting tricks you use in the bedroom?

I recently googled "worst blow job ever" out of curiosity. That was weirdly interesting to watch a few vids labeled that, lol. I also saw a porn clip recently of a chick finger massaging her man's penis head with some lube and he really seemed to enjoy it.

I'll chime in some more after some others do too :p

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Well.

+ out of bedroom is always excellent for adrenaline junkies. I'm pretty sure you're dating a Scorpio, which can be a bit iffy with public rendezvous

+ As a partner, I've always kept enthusiasm as the most important 'trick' in bed. One of the more common mutual turn-offs for people is to believe their partner is bored or having 'chore sex'. So whatever and wherever I'm pleasing my partner, I make sure I'm freaking putting my all into it. And never never ever ever ever falling into a habit of pleasing the same time every time. I go by touch and reaction, no matter how subtle.

+ I experiment with sensation. We all become tactile beings during orgasm and feel everything on max. Why not make it build up differently or experiment with stimulus? He likes the feeling of patent leather, usually from a heel while I'm domme, or the inside of my pumps against his face. I like latex on my legs, hot candlewax on my ass, and flesh against flesh pain.

+ I multitask when performing - er, oral and receiving penetration. He's very sensitive with his balls (ugh, I sat here for 5 minutes trying to come up with a more polite term.. fuck it) when his member is 'in' or 'on it's way out then in'.

If you have a hand free during sex.. you're doing it wrong.

+ I have wayyyyyyyy too many kinks for us to become bored. Most he'll try at least twice (working on actually getting him to agree to some).

+ I know it sounds a little silly, but no matter how rough or gentle we're being - I'm always finding myself holding his hand at some point.

This is some. And referring mostly in regards to my current partner.

Oh and I'm a fan of intoxicated/etc sex. He's a clean fellow, while I like to party 😉

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I'm also quite the exhibitionist, despite seeming quite demure at times. I'm into seeing how fast somebody will turn once I drop a slight cue, as well.

I striptease or I'll have him watch me how I want to be pleased until he gets greedy.

I enjoy a fair amount of pain.

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I really enjoy that as time goes by as we are together, the simplest of acts become more refined. We've been seeing each other for almost a whole year! And our making out is getting to the point where i could sit on his lap and stick my tongue in his mouth all day long. lol. mmmmhm.

I wanna be tied up.

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There are lots of things i haven't tried yet that i want to, and i am so so excited and hopeful that he will be open to these things 😄

And no reason to rush it.. right? if were together for a long time, we will need things to keep in interesting.

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Posted by LouLore
and always like to hear what others do to spice up their sexcapades. Whether simple or wild, what are some interesting tricks you use in the bedroom?

*lets see, he gets a massage with warming oil, frequently. he is totally naked ( your naked too) lying on a sleeping mat just for that purpose. 🙂

*bj at work in his office when he got his promotion, door was locked.

* i dont wear undies when i do laundry so when he puts his hands down my pants, surprise! you got a hand full of me 🙂

* i took a stripper class, graduated (barely), then i bought some cheeky undies and a bra with the nips cut out. then unveiled my performance and hard work....good times

* lay naked in the bed with those sticker things on your nips for when he gets home.....its so cool to see his reaction. they have different stickers too, some with glitter, some with the words, 'suck me'...they are so cute. 🙂

* oh walk around naked after you shower and wash your hair like for 15 minutes. oh and bend over/squat a lot. eat things provocatively, happy i like cucumbers.

* deep throat..hint: practice resisting the urge to gag with a empty stomach and cucumbers. 🙂 oh and lots of water lubrication of the throat is everything.

thats all i can think of right now...to be continued.............

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I just made a huge 'to buy list' for bedroom toys/er..gear(? lmfao). I'd link some but I'm not sure if that's against forum terms of service... and it's mostly restraints and whatnot.

Congrats Lou on 'almost a full year' (hehe 🙂 too cute)

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Posted by cancepio
Anal stimulation makes vajayjay's much, much tighter. A well lubed thumb participating in the multitask that is sex, can make a huge difference. Somehow i feel thats common knowledge by this day and age.

Yeah, it's just as common knowledge as yanking a girls hair back during doggie/bent over -45 through 45 degrees with bilateral upper extremity support for tightness/muscle contraction.

Unless they have a weave. My girls' tracks got torn out by a guy who didn't ask first whether hair yanking was 'okay' or not.

I even had to 'ban' hair yanking for a little bit when I went platinum last summer. I'm definitely not hot enough to pull a 'G.I. Jane' look!

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Posted by DeadRingerr
Posted by thebiggcarlos
Posted by DeadRingerr
What happened Carlos? all that Gemini in you're chart, must be hard to keep you're attention, as I am noticing right now!!

fuckin dxp slow as a turtle. i was trying to post that last comment just a while ago and i sat there and waited for an eternity for that message to go thru. yeah i know i have lots of gemini in my chart. and it suks. if i could change it i would change my whole entire chart to all scorpio. my former high school teacher is a professional astrologer and tarot reader and she did both me and my wife's chart and according to her it turnt out i have moon in scorpio but internet sites says my moon is in gemini. everything about moon in scorpio DOES indeed fit me. damn, i wish my whole chart was all scorpio. awe i still like gemini too tho.


sometimes though I wish I had like a different Moon....it is to intense sometimes and I can't take it
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Yesssssssssssssssss.

You know those moments where everything just shifts focus into such a raw emotion that you can't explain it out loud to somebody else - because it would be absolutely impossible to describe to hive it justice?

That's when I feel that Scorpion moon a bit too much! Although, without it I'd never be able to understand my partner nor would have enough emotional depth for us to have what we have 🙂

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Posted by DeadRingerr
Posted by sheathedclaws
Posted by DeadRingerr
Posted by thebiggcarlos
Posted by DeadRingerr
What happened Carlos? all that Gemini in you're chart, must be hard to keep you're attention, as I am noticing right now!!

fuckin dxp slow as a turtle. i was trying to post that last comment just a while ago and i sat there and waited for an eternity for that message to go thru. yeah i know i have lots of gemini in my chart. and it suks. if i could change it i would change my whole entire chart to all scorpio. my former high school teacher is a professional astrologer and tarot reader and she did both me and my wife's chart and according to her it turnt out i have moon in scorpio but internet sites says my moon is in gemini. everything about moon in scorpio DOES indeed fit me. damn, i wish my whole chart was all scorpio. awe i still like gemini too tho.


sometimes though I wish I had like a different Moon....it is to intense sometimes and I can't take it

Yesssssssssssssssss.

You know those moments where everything just shifts focus into such a raw emotion that you can't explain it out loud to somebody else - because it would be absolutely impossible to describe to hive it justice?

That's when I feel that Scorpion moon a bit too much! Although, without it I'd never be able to understand my partner nor would have enough emotional depth for us to have what we have 🙂


I suppose what is you're partner sign? let me guess a Pisces? or a Cancer?
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Scorpion Sun, Moon, & Mars, with a Virgin Venus. Libra Rising.

I'm a Leo Sun & Rising, Scorpion Moon, with a Virgin Venus & Mars.

He's very intense, but then again - so am I 😉

We both share quite crashing & loud tides of passion, but both our Venuses keep us grounded and logical as a couple at the end of the storm. 🙂