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A Romanian literature teacher I had in school always emphasized how completely immersed we are in words. You see it around DXP all the time when people perceive agression coming from people and get in a rage. It's only words typed on a website.

He used a metaphor once, saying people actually EAT words. If someone puts a platter in front of you and you see something smelling delicious, you would never taste it if someone told you it's shit. Like, actually shit.

Don't know what point I was trying to make...Yeah, words are extremely powerful. Not to neglect emotional and physical abuse but keep insulting someone for a number of years and their self-esteem will take a dive. Especially if it comes from an authority figure, like your parents.
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Posted by Rabbit
I'm going to post this and only this because, as an adoptive parent who sat through a month and a half of foster parent classes...this shit cuts me to the core.

Piece of shit parents have no color. Just as many white parents are piles of shit as black parents.

White kids in the system are abused at the same rate as black children in the system. Their lives are tragically cut short at the same rate. Skin color makes no difference.

Pointing out this child's skin color is unnecessary. It devalues the experiences of the white, mixed, Hispanic, etc children that occur each and every day.

It's a child. Not a race card to play.




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Posted by Rabbit
I'm going to post this and only this because, as an adoptive parent who sat through a month and a half of foster parent classes...this shit cuts me to the core.

Piece of shit parents have no color. Just as many white parents are piles of shit as black parents.

White kids in the system are abused at the same rate as black children in the system. Their lives are tragically cut short at the same rate. Skin color makes no difference.

Pointing out this child's skin color is unnecessary. It devalues the experiences of the white, mixed, Hispanic, etc children that occur each and every day.

It's a child. Not a race card to play.



+ a billion. We just had a couple come in earlier this week that had adopted 3 siblings, and then had given one of them. Only one. I wanted to strangle them.
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Posted by Rabbit
And just to throw this out there...

I think white people are just better at covering up what pieces of shit parents they are.

Oh...and the whole foreign adoption thing? Fuck you trendy bitches that want a foreign baby. There are PLENTY of children right here in this country that need a living home. Start there first and drop the pretentious bullshit.




HEY! I resent this! I have 5 internationally adopted siblings. There are other considerations other than the trend factor. :/
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Posted by CluelessCancerIt is a racial issue, what are the intentions for this thread. See Gemini you have zero intuition...but i actually pay attention to people, their threads, posts, and how they think.

What i see is that Winter is doing her typical "look at black people" threads-It's psychological warfare really. Painting an image.



Yanno, what the fuck is wrong with you? Fuck you and your "Winter is doing her typical "look at black people" threads"

Please do provide links to some of these threads, otherwise shut your fucking mouth.
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Posted by Rabbit
And just to throw this out there...

I think white people are just better at covering up what pieces of shit parents they are.

Oh...and the whole foreign adoption thing? Fuck you trendy bitches that want a foreign baby. There are PLENTY of children right here in this country that need a living home. Start there first and drop the pretentious bullshit.




Yes, plenty of them. Too damn many.
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Posted by geminicandIe
It is cruel, because children don't know any better. This kid would repeat anything and adults encouraging him for their own sick entertainment is emotionally and mentally abusive in nature. The adults are in position of power and instead of protecting the child, they mistreat the child. They should know better. This is what is so enraging about this!



CRUEL. Cruel is taking that baby out of the home.

Black children barely get adopted, so state taking them is akin to MORE abuse in my opinion. Most of these kids turn up sexually, mentally, and physically abused in said institutions...and foster homes are even more of a nightmare.
I talked to this one kid who was on a foster home once on the bus, long ago, and she was complaining to me that her foster family called her the "N" word..and the kids beat up on her...shameful

Anyways the parents definitely should get some parenting classes.











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I'm a tad shocked that you are ok with this video and how this child is being raised. Being that you are a cancer and family means everything to your sign, or I thought. Verbal abuse is still abuse and can sometimes worse than a spanking. This child will be scared for the rest of it's life. Not every child placed in foster care or states care has bad situations. Who knows, perhaps he has loving grandparents that ill step up and raise him.
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Posted by Rabbit
And just to throw this out there...

I think white people are just better at covering up what pieces of shit parents they are.

Oh...and the whole foreign adoption thing? Fuck you trendy bitches that want a foreign baby. There are PLENTY of children right here in this country that need a living home. Start there first and drop the pretentious bullshit.




You sir are an awesome human being!
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Posted by Wynter
Posted by CluelessCancerIt is a racial issue, what are the intentions for this thread. See Gemini you have zero intuition...but i actually pay attention to people, their threads, posts, and how they think.

What i see is that Winter is doing her typical "look at black people" threads-It's psychological warfare really. Painting an image.



Yanno, what the fuck is wrong with you? Fuck you and your "Winter is doing her typical "look at black people" threads"

Please do provide links to some of these threads, otherwise shut your fucking mouth.
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I appreciate you telling the racist pig of dxp to stfu. Thank you.

Regarding the op...like anyone else breaking the law (this being parental abuse, neglect etc..) their mug shots should be put everywhere so EVERYONE can keep an eye on the kid especially these low life pieces of shit raising him. As if they are training a dog..disgusting.
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Swearing toddler in 'thug' video taken into protective custody




So the mother is blaming the one who video taped it but was right there laughing it off..and she's 16 so they are protecting her identity? Yet claims she's a good mother. lol Not to mention the police raided a party at the same house looking for a someone shooting a gun. That's just effing great...

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Meh if you ask me they are preparing him for what the future holds for our kids??_??_I think his family loves him and he loves his family, he grows up in a cussing family??_??_and I don't think its right for parents to teach their kids disrespect, and I also more strongly believe that the child should be taken away from his parents because they made a mistake and were not given a warning??_..yes It was abuse and misuse of the english language??_.but not to the child??_.because it obviously wasn't insulting or offensive to the child??_..the child didn't feel put down or like it was a piece of shit??_.quite the opposite he thought he was "the shit" and his parents felt pride or something along those lines are were encouraging him and boosting his confidence??_..raising kids with confidence is paramount??_..taking them from their parents does not help them certainly if they all love each other, which they obviously do??_.and if you don't see that then your stupid??_??_quite frankly I'm against raising kids to be just another brick in the wall??_.yes I want my kids to succeed but on their own terms and if they have a certain flair or natural ability I will nurture it.
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
ooops i meant to write the child should "NOT" be taken away??_..confusing much




He wasn't taken for the cursing.



Cursing toddler: Toddler taken from vulgar parents after filthy video goes viral

ABC News on Thursday carried a report from The Associated Press, which said a total of four children were removed from the Omaha home this week after the viral video sparked an investigation....

The little boy is asked —What hood you from— and told repeatedly to use the F-word, repeat sexual comments, and repeats things like, —You a ho,?? and —You a b***c.??

In the minute and half video, the little boy, whose age is not released but is thought to be only a year or so old, exchanges at least 35 swear words with the adults and even sticks his middle finger up them, through no encouragement from his parents....

Prosecutors reviewed the video, and although the behavior is stomach-turning to watch, no laws had been broken.

However, investigators who searched the house did find other —safety concerns?? that allowed them to remove the children...
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Posted by Wynter
It would be interesting to know what the safety concerns are.



It would-- I did some hunting, so here you go: 🙂




Mother of Omaha toddler in viral —thug?? video says she is a —good?? mother


Ennisha Devers, mother of the Omaha toddler, defended her parenting skills after he was taken away by Child Protective Services....

Officials revealed that the boy was taken into protective custody because of the constant presence of gang members and guns around the family, including an instance last year when the baby was struck by a stray bullet, according to reports.

But the family is no stranger to crime and violence, according to officials.

The unidentified kid??s grandparents, Kim Devers and Ennis Devers Sr., are both awaiting trial on gun charges, WOWT reported.

With the elder adults in jail, Kierra Johnson, 19, was left to keep the house in order.

But later she phoned social workers after becoming overwhelmed with the burden of child care while the Deverses were locked up.

But officials said the child was taken out of the home due to a gaggle of gang members that frequent the house and a history of violence in the home.

The state had foot the bill twice to have the family relocated — but known gang members were still allowed to roam the home and guns were brandished near the child, investigators discovered.

—They didn't come because the video.

They came because of the gang violence and everything that happened with us,??
Ennisha Devers told KETV.

—They weren't worried about the video because he had a clean diaper.

The house was clean. Like they said, kids cuss.??

...
Ennisha Devers, her 15-year-old and 12-year-old siblings, and the tot at the center of the controversy are all in protective custody.

Devers is attempting to be placed in the same foster home as her son.

A court will decide their placement on Monday.


More here.
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Posted by Wynter
It would be interesting to know what the safety concerns are.



It would-- I did some hunting, so here you go: 🙂




Mother of Omaha toddler in viral —thug?? video says she is a —good?? mother


Ennisha Devers, mother of the Omaha toddler, defended her parenting skills after he was taken away by Child Protective Services....

Officials revealed that the boy was taken into protective custody because of the constant presence of gang members and guns around the family, including an instance last year when the baby was struck by a stray bullet, according to reports.

But the family is no stranger to crime and violence, according to officials.

The unidentified kid??s grandparents, Kim Devers and Ennis Devers Sr., are both awaiting trial on gun charges, WOWT reported.

With the elder adults in jail, Kierra Johnson, 19, was left to keep the house in order.

But later she phoned social workers after becoming overwhelmed with the burden of child care while the Deverses were locked up.

But officials said the child was taken out of the home due to a gaggle of gang members that frequent the house and a history of violence in the home.

The state had foot the bill twice to have the family relocated — but known gang members were still allowed to roam the home and guns were brandished near the child, investigators discovered.

—They didn't come because the video.

They came because of the gang violence and everything that happened with us,??
Ennisha Devers told KETV.

—They weren't worried about the video because he had a clean diaper.

The house was clean. Like they said, kids cuss.??

...
Ennisha Devers, her 15-year-old and 12-year-old siblings, and the tot at the center of the controversy are all in protective custody.

Devers is attempting to be placed in the same foster home as her son.

A court will decide their placement on Monday.


More here.
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O lordy...thanx Montgomery