Pregnancy

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Luz on Thursday, April 15, 2004 and has 14 replies.

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@Luz
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DAMNN where have I been?! Haven't been on here for awhile, well hello hello to those I haven't spoken to in awhile and those who's a noob.

K well, I was wondering about the issue of pregnancy. Can a virgin become pregnant? If a small percentage(very small) of sperm caught onto the vagina, is it highly possible? My boyfriend and I were fooling around(my period ended few days before the incident).. and I'm worried. He did not enter me but I dont want to get into details about it.. anyone have indepth information about this?
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@phoenix_rising
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It is possible, but very unlikely. I read that somewhere. But, unlikely doesn't mean impossible. I think the article I read said something about how it's actually very difficult in the first place for sperm to survive all the way to the uterus even when um...pardon the bluntness..."shot" directly at/into it (lol). Did you know that the vagina is like, very anti-sperm? There's actually a spermicidal element about it, something about the chemical/hormonal composition of the inside of it, so that's your first line of defense. And then, even when trying to get pregnant (and whether the woman realizes this or not) there will be several times when the body naturally aborts the pregnancy and for whatever reason, the sperm doesn't make it (i.e, you'll start your period - natural abortion - it happens all the time). In later stages, of course, it's called a miscarriage. But anyway, yes, technically it can happen, but it very likely won't.

But be careful, because even pre-ejaculate (which has a slang name also that I don't want to be unladylike and say) can impregnate you. That's why the whole "withdrawal" method (pulling out) can have some suprising consequences.

Stressful, isn't it.(!) 😛 lol...I would try not to worry though, I'm sure you're fine.
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@Luz
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HA pfft Parallax. And I'll excuse that pun =p

phoenix thanks so much for that bit of info.. and well he didnt directly 'shoot' his load onto me. He said he didnt pre ejaculate either(and he said he has this uncanny ability to know when he does... but I still dont trust.) It was just sort of a rub rub 2 second thing against my vagina. We were 'experimenting'. If sperm gets on your hand..how can i put this better... is it lethal? lol. My memory is all obscure. I'm just freaking out. I worry too much.
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@phoenix_rising
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lol....ah, Parallax's adult humor strikes again 😛

No Luz, sperm on one's hand is not lethal, unless of course his semen is infected with a lethal communicable disease and you have a cut on your hand...pssst, I hear semen is even *edible*! lol. (Ahem..."I wouldn't know"? Some sort of bird, or something, told me that. 🙂)
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@Alana
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Hey Luz, I am that soldier!!!...albeit many many moons ago.....was still a virgin but fooled around.......I was a week late and out of my tree with worry.....I actually went to our family doctor - he asked me exactly what had happened - to this day, I can hardly look that doc in the eye without embarrassment!!!...I am sure he thought to himself...what a freakin loo-la!!!......I insisted that he do a pregnancy test which of course was negative for all the reasons that Phoenix Rising has given you!!!! It's time not to be a big girl....go out and buy yourself a box of condoms.....you lovely loo-la!!

A x
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@Luz
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Psst I heard semen has good vitamns. Cum facials muhuhu ;D But what I mean is if the semen gets in your hands and you wash it off or ahem lick if off. And it's placed near your woo-hoo..is THAT lethal?

Alana! You brave girl. And nah I'm sure the doctor thought it was cute of you. And condoms? but but I wasn't even going to have sex! 😛 but you're right... kissing and such can lead to other things nyaha ;D

Parallax... thanks but I dont know. I'm unpredictable, even I don't know what I'll end up doing in the near future. ^^
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@Morganofmind
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I think the chances of that are like one in a ten million but you know you're never too safe.

It's because you know, sperm is so week, and I don't think it'd surive too long on a finger.
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@Libragirl
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Oh my goodness, this is hilarious! So if i lick semen off my hand and place it near my woo-ha will i get pregnant? Okay, well it's not funny thinking that you're pregnant... but i have never heard such a creative array of definitions for our "privatey parts" (which sometimes aren't so private). I thought I'd been busy until i logged on to the site, but not as busy as Lust, Oh... I mean, LUZ. Hehe. Excuse my one-man, or should i say, one woman comedy routine.
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@Luz
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Libragirl your explicit comments are precious. And I never knew my name could be used with such ambiguous meanings =)

PS: I'm feeling discomfort in my stomach. I HOPE IT'S MY RAG................... and to think I take comfort in the thought of being menopausal. But I digress.
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@Luz
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Ah it's heavy now. The only reason why I was worrying was because there's a thing called implantation bleeding which occurs 7-10 days after the conception and there's other cases where women dO get their period while they're pregnant. But doctors say its very light and 'abnormal' to your regular schedule. Also that's the reason why women don't know they are pregnant because they get their period but miss it the NEXT month. But these could be all theories, but most likely not.