
DwellingOnMove
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Posted by SirHorns
... Cue nobody having a clue how to get young men to do things.


Posted by KVZZMIR11
I don't know much about the "Age of Aquarius" bullshit but I know Liberals have been trying to convince people that 2 parent male-female families are unnecessary for a while now. It simply isn't true.
There is a HUGE advantage children grow up in loving, 2 parent heterosexual families have over those that grow up in alternate arrangements.
Age of Aquarius and technology is not going to change that.






Posted by DwellingOnMove
"can't reconcile what they've been taught vs what they want vs what the media tells them relationships should be like."
yeah, too much input.

Posted by KVZZMIR11Posted by LilyBlossom
*unavailable mother
Statistics say otherwise...
https://thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/<BR>
63% youth suicides come from unavailable father homes
90% of all homeless and runaway children are from unavailable father homes- 32X the average
85% of all children who show behavior disorders are from unavailable father homes- 20X the average
80% of rapists with anger problems come from unavailable father homes-14X the average.
71% of high school dropouts come from unavailable father homes-9X the average.
I'd love to see the statistics on unavailable mothers though.click to expand


Posted by SirHorns
When you can't get love or devotion from the opposite sex, you take what you can get.
— mentality I think quite a few operate on.
Lack of morals, character and hardship is not how you make useful and functional adults.
Sure you can make a new game or play by your own rules, but honestly how many people are aware of that?



Posted by KVZZMIR11Posted by Rabbit
... Did men become lazy fucksticks first and women are now dealing with a bunch of disinterested douchenozzles?
Or did women turn into a bunch of self absorbed thundercunts and men just decide to give up?
Usually, the problem lies in the women who complains in this situation, and I bet men who complain about women being "self-absorbed thundercunts" the problem is with those specific men.
People tend to overvalue themselves and have unrealistic expectations of their partners.
You see it on Dxp all the time.click to expand

Posted by KVZZMIR11The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Lmao...I saw that.
You make a good point but I have a hard time believing a man (college educated, white collar career with 80-90k+ income)is finding it difficult to find a quality woman.click to expand




Posted by GENERALIZOD
I DON'T GET IT THERE WERE 10 QUESTIONS. @_@
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Posted by SirHorns
... Its insane to compare racial opression to female oppression.


Posted by partiallyimpartialPosted by SirHorns
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Blacks got the right to vote in the United States 50 years before women did. Not comparable? ...
Posted by SirHorns
Black Protests= Getting attacked by the police.
Women's protest= Getting police esorts to protect them while they marched...click to expand






Posted by Sn1p3r187
Difference between having a logical discussion and going in for personal attacks.

Posted by BlackNovaPosted by partiallyimpartial
Blacks got the right to vote in the United States 50 years before women did. Not comparable? Come again?
what?
Ratified on August 18, 1920, the 19th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution granted American women the right to vote
The Voting Rights Act, signed into law by President Lyndon Johnson (1908-73) on August 6, 1965, aimed to overcome legal barriers at the state and local levels that prevented African Americans from exercising their right to vote under the 15th Amendment (1870) to the Constitution of the United States.click to expand

Posted by partiallyimpartialPosted by Sn1p3r187
Difference between having a logical discussion and going in for personal attacks.
I agree. That's why I always do bothclick to expand

Posted by tiziani
Lmao even though partiallyimpartial enjoys being an asshole a little too often, I do agree. If you really do believe the stuff you're laying down here, you need to toughen up and take it personally. Goes back to what I was saying about I really don't want the generation of men after me to be some entitled softies because lord knows me and my generation was bad enough.

Posted by partiallyimpartial
I just want to give you the opportunity to point out where I've projected. Please enlighten me

Posted by partiallyimpartialPosted by Sn1p3r187Posted by partiallyimpartialPosted by Sn1p3r187
Difference between having a logical discussion and going in for personal attacks.
I agree. That's why I always do both
Yeah but this as you said this is a seriou thread. I know you take it seriously but personal attacks aren't called for. If it were really a more logical discussion wed keep the personal attacks out. I feel you're letting you're personal feelings get in the way of this and it's starting to nullify the discussion and would make it truly seem not worth it. Come on I'm not gonna call you "Fucking retarded for having a opinion" but it's a different story when actually do it. Chill
okay but here's the thing dude... what personal attack did I make?
I said IF you believe that adult women should be discipline by men, then fuck you.
This is the same as saying, if you believe that adult women should be submissive to the role of men as authority figures, then fuck you.
and guess what buddy? I mean that. SERIOUSLY.click to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by SirHornsPosted by tiziani
Lmao even though partiallyimpartial enjoys being an asshole a little too often, I do agree. If you really do believe the stuff you're laying down here, you need to toughen up and take it personally. Goes back to what I was saying about I really don't want the generation of men after me to be some entitled softies because lord knows me and my generation was bad enough.
...so pointing out facts = softy? What the fuck are you talking about?
A man has no rights, just responsiblities.
Weak people hide behind facts and stats all the time. That has nothing to do with what I said though. I'm talking specifically about the attitude of "I want to spell out all this but I'm surprised you're personally attacking me for it." That needs to go. Too many soft people like that, just opinions with no real belief behind it.click to expand
Oh. So just go anything but Mercurial or Venusian on them?
??Undoes safe on my Cappy parts??


Posted by VenusAquarius
On the article:
If men are giving up on dating, for whatever reasons and particularly the reasons described in the article, they are surely not ready for the responsibility of wife and, dear I say, children.
Social navigation is social navigation whether it is a new boss, board of trustees, staff, mother, father, sister, girlfriend, wife or children.
If you are not capable, you're just not. It all starts with the individual.
Parents have said do as I say not as I do; we are often guilty until proven innocent; union vs. Right to work... if you can navigate this, what say you of dating and sex?
..."a large-scale exit from mainstream society by males who have decided they simply can't face, or be bothered with, forming healthy relationships and participating fully in their local communities, national democracies and other real-world social structures."---from the "Sexodus" article
So, why the article takes the bent towards "it's harsh and confusing dating environment," is idiotic.
My mom didn't love me enough, my father wasn't there, now.... girls won't kiss me, fuck me easily and willing? Those whores!
Perhaps it's natural selection.

Posted by tiziani
You can frame it however way you want it, what I'm saying is don't be soft. Where you can take responsibility for yourself, take it. Been saying it from page 2 of the thread. Very simple solutions to all the theory that was mentioned in here. Simple steps where you don't have to rely on women or anyone else to give you a handout - like divorce insurance. There's no going around in circles about these very very basic things we can all individually do to assume max responsibility for our own lives. If everyone does that, relationships get stronger as a result and everyone benefits.

Posted by partiallyimpartial
I said you had a pompous attitude, not that you were a pompous asshole. and I said you have a pompous attitude because you implied that the only reason that a woman wouldn't have succeeded in a career is a male dominated workplace was because she wasn't capable of competing to the same standard. maybe that isn't what you meant, but that is what is implied when you say a woman needs to keep up with men or find a less difficult job... and if they don't succeed under these options that means they just aren't up to par.
This IS pompous because it ignores the fact that women face discrimination in the workplace that has nothing to do with the quality of their work.
And I also said if you think that men should be in charge of keeping women in line, your thinking is fucked. Is that what you think? If not, you taking it personally was YOU projecting and being emotional.
I'm direct with my words, don't confuse it for emotion or lack of valid content.
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Would this not help the discussion against feminism?
200 years ago everybody was imperfect. And every woman had a man and some children. On the "form"al level children saw the father often enough. On the "content" level fathers were rare to catch in the old days too. (exception: the real good fathers like in the "our small farm" or "the Waltons")
Today due to many divorces (people are imperfect and we have to file for divorce) children see their fathers less than before. In form and Content he is rare to catch.
Also father had been forced to do more in a household. Today it is enough if he knows how to go to theaters or football when his turn to have the children. Less of real responsibility. More of money passing.