What zodiac signs do you think has the potential of being a stalker? Why? Have any of you been stalked by an ex bf or gf?
Stalkers of the zodiac
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I'm not sure about all of them, but I'm pretty sure Scorpio is a natural at that, since they are natural detectives and all. As for having been stalked, I doubt anyone would wanna stalk me.
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.

Posted by Noreallynow
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
How condescending! Most people? Really? Maybe in your small, buffalo milking village in Tajikistan.
Some people do tend to overuse the word, though. Same thing with narcissism imo.
Stalkers of the zodiac, that's a bit insulting but I'll go for Taurus based on experience. One Taurus doesn't equate to all of them being stalkers though, bacause I know some pretty sane ones that don't stalk. At least I don't think they do lol. However, I'm still very wary of Taurus men due to what I went through with the one I briefly dated.
Posted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
How condescending! Most people? Really? Maybe in your small, buffalo milking village in Tajikistan.
Some people do tend to overuse the word, though. Same thing with narcissism imo.
Stalkers of the zodiac, that's a bit insulting but I'll go for Taurus based on experience. One Taurus doesn't equate to all of them being stalkers though, bacause I know some pretty sane ones that don't stalk. At least I don't think they do lol. However, I'm still very wary of Taurus men due to what I went through with the one I briefly dated.
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Ummmm..... Most people really don't. How is what I'm asking insulting?

Posted by ZelaleZ
I've seen my Scorpio friends secretly stalk and spy on their partners (lol).
Aquarius have stalked me in the past. One of them had a Scorpio moon and was a mean,evil jerk that did not stand the fact that I rejected him (because he was a liar). He went on to stalk all my friends and family. He was a very sad person, a lost case. It's not a pleasant feeling being stalked and you never know when they are going to hit next. Stalkers are often insecure and delusional.
😄 @ the aquarius. Sounds so much like someone I know 😉 Was he selfish too? Because that combo is the epitome of self-centeredness. I should know 😛

Posted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
How condescending! Most people? Really? Maybe in your small, buffalo milking village in Tajikistan.
Some people do tend to overuse the word, though. Same thing with narcissism imo.
Stalkers of the zodiac, that's a bit insulting but I'll go for Taurus based on experience. One Taurus doesn't equate to all of them being stalkers though, bacause I know some pretty sane ones that don't stalk. At least I don't think they do lol. However, I'm still very wary of Taurus men due to what I went through with the one I briefly dated.
Ummmm..... Most people really don't. How is what I'm asking insulting?click to expand
Maybe it's the most people you know that don't know 😉
It is insulting because of how quickly you gave a definition of what a stalker is after TWO people mentioned your sign. How do you think the rest will feel?
Just curious, if you think most people don't know what a stalker is, then why made this thread? We're clueless according to you, remember?
Posted by WaterCupPosted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
How condescending! Most people? Really? Maybe in your small, buffalo milking village in Tajikistan.
Some people do tend to overuse the word, though. Same thing with narcissism imo.
Stalkers of the zodiac, that's a bit insulting but I'll go for Taurus based on experience. One Taurus doesn't equate to all of them being stalkers though, bacause I know some pretty sane ones that don't stalk. At least I don't think they do lol. However, I'm still very wary of Taurus men due to what I went through with the one I briefly dated.
Ummmm..... Most people really don't. How is what I'm asking insulting?
Maybe it's the most people you know that don't know 😉
It is insulting because of how quickly you gave a definition of what a stalker is after TWO people mentioned your sign. How do you think the rest will feel?
Just curious, if you think most people don't know what a stalker is, then why made this thread? We're clueless according to you, remember?click to expand
How do I think the rest will feel? I don't know? And mentioned my sign? Who cares. I'm not one so why would it bother me? And I said most people, not all. Smh.

Posted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
How condescending! Most people? Really? Maybe in your small, buffalo milking village in Tajikistan.
Some people do tend to overuse the word, though. Same thing with narcissism imo.
Stalkers of the zodiac, that's a bit insulting but I'll go for Taurus based on experience. One Taurus doesn't equate to all of them being stalkers though, bacause I know some pretty sane ones that don't stalk. At least I don't think they do lol. However, I'm still very wary of Taurus men due to what I went through with the one I briefly dated.
Ummmm..... Most people really don't. How is what I'm asking insulting?
Maybe it's the most people you know that don't know 😉
It is insulting because of how quickly you gave a definition of what a stalker is after TWO people mentioned your sign. How do you think the rest will feel?
Just curious, if you think most people don't know what a stalker is, then why made this thread? We're clueless according to you, remember?
How do I think the rest will feel? I don't know? And mentioned my sign? Who cares. I'm not one so why would it bother me? And I said most people, not all. Smh.click to expand
You do care 😄 Whether you said most & not all it doesn't matter because majority rules. How do you know if us here don't fall in the "most" category?
Posted by WaterCupPosted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
How condescending! Most people? Really? Maybe in your small, buffalo milking village in Tajikistan.
Some people do tend to overuse the word, though. Same thing with narcissism imo.
Stalkers of the zodiac, that's a bit insulting but I'll go for Taurus based on experience. One Taurus doesn't equate to all of them being stalkers though, bacause I know some pretty sane ones that don't stalk. At least I don't think they do lol. However, I'm still very wary of Taurus men due to what I went through with the one I briefly dated.
Ummmm..... Most people really don't. How is what I'm asking insulting?
Maybe it's the most people you know that don't know 😉
It is insulting because of how quickly you gave a definition of what a stalker is after TWO people mentioned your sign. How do you think the rest will feel?
Just curious, if you think most people don't know what a stalker is, then why made this thread? We're clueless according to you, remember?
How do I think the rest will feel? I don't know? And mentioned my sign? Who cares. I'm not one so why would it bother me? And I said most people, not all. Smh.
You do care 😄 Whether you said most & not all it doesn't matter because majority rules. How do you know if us here don't fall in the "most" category?click to expand
Smmfh..

Posted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
How condescending! Most people? Really? Maybe in your small, buffalo milking village in Tajikistan.
Some people do tend to overuse the word, though. Same thing with narcissism imo.
Stalkers of the zodiac, that's a bit insulting but I'll go for Taurus based on experience. One Taurus doesn't equate to all of them being stalkers though, bacause I know some pretty sane ones that don't stalk. At least I don't think they do lol. However, I'm still very wary of Taurus men due to what I went through with the one I briefly dated.
Ummmm..... Most people really don't. How is what I'm asking insulting?
Maybe it's the most people you know that don't know 😉
It is insulting because of how quickly you gave a definition of what a stalker is after TWO people mentioned your sign. How do you think the rest will feel?
Just curious, if you think most people don't know what a stalker is, then why made this thread? We're clueless according to you, remember?
How do I think the rest will feel? I don't know? And mentioned my sign? Who cares. I'm not one so why would it bother me? And I said most people, not all. Smh.
You do care 😄 Whether you said most & not all it doesn't matter because majority rules. How do you know if us here don't fall in the "most" category?
Smmfh..click to expand
That's what I thought you'd say!
Why would I care? It's internet. People voice their opinions all the time. Like you seem to be doing right now, correct? So, what I'm not going to do is sit here and entertain your bullshit. 🙂 have fun.

Anyway, back on topic, I believe there was a survey done proving that Cancers were the stalkers of the zodiac. It should come up on google 🙂

Posted by Noreallynow
Why would I care? It's internet. People voice their opinions all the time. Like you seem to be doing right now, correct? So, what I'm not going to do is sit here and entertain your bullshit. 🙂 have fun.
But you cared so much about my other opinion. Remember the one about a gemini stalker? I bet you were hoping people said gemini, didn't you 😉?
Ciao!!
Posted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Why would I care? It's internet. People voice their opinions all the time. Like you seem to be doing right now, correct? So, what I'm not going to do is sit here and entertain your bullshit. 🙂 have fun.
But you cared so much about my other opinion. Remember the one about a gemini stalker? I bet you were hoping people said gemini, didn't you 😉?
Ciao!!click to expand
I don't know what your problem is, because it's obvious that you have one. I can post whatever I feel like. If you don't like it, don't say shit about about it. I said ZODIAC SIGNS. I don't care if it's SCORPIO, CANCER, GEMINI or whoever. I posted it so people could post their experiences or voice their opinions. Who gives a flying fuck about what you have to say? I don't even know you, but you can sit here and tell me what I care about? Lol. Girl bye. Enjoy your day. And this will be the last time that I comment on anything that you say. And if I don't want to see it, there is a button for that.... 🙂

Capricorn.
🙂
🙂

Posted by auroraPosted by WaterCup
Anyway, back on topic, I believe there was a survey done proving that Cancers were the stalkers of the zodiac. It should come up on google 🙂
yeah well, considering the fact that we are the first on the killer list (mostly passion ofc), there had to be some stalking involved 😄click to expand
You're good sport 🙂

Posted by ZelaleZPosted by WaterCup
Anyway, back on topic, I believe there was a survey done proving that Cancers were the stalkers of the zodiac. It should come up on google 🙂
Hehehe I have a Cancer Venus (ew) and the closest thing to stalking I've done was stalk someone in my head lol
Jk
Stalking is bellow my standards. And when you've been a victim of it, chances are you will never do that to someone else.
My Aquarius stalker was a hacker also. So somehow he found my ex boyfriend and started stalking him, hacked into his account and created fake degrading profiles of us on Facebook. Not only was he harassing me on the phone (I had to change numbers several times) He also called all of my friends, threatened them and insulted them. I contacted the police and so he stopped. He was obviously mentally challenged. But shit hit the fan when I said that I wasn't interested in him. That's when the stalking started.
I've closed all my accounts on social media since 2009. That idiot was stalking me online.
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What a sicko! Sorry, love. Yeah, it's one of the most mind fucking experiences one could ever go through. So scary & pathetic at the same time.
I'm not going to lie though, I also do have stalkerish tendencies but would never actually do it because I have a hard time breaking habits. Once I start something, anything, it's very hard for me to stop *shrugs* But I'd sit & think of things I wish I could do to check up on someone because one of my greatest fears is being made a fool of. I just can't forgive myself when duped by another person. It makes me mad.
Anyway, one of my fantasies when paranoid is wishing I could turn into an invisible person or a fly & follow the object of my desire everywhere, to make sure that 1)I'm not being lied to 2) That he is who he pretends to be when with me etc. I know it's crazy but it's true because I known a lot of liars, in my dating life that is. I just know how to pick them!

Posted by KVZZMIR11
Caps are too self-absorbed for stalking anyone.
I've been stalked by Cancer, Pisces, and I stay wary about other Aquas out there tbh.
+ 1 million @ capricorn

Posted by NoreallynowPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Why would I care? It's internet. People voice their opinions all the time. Like you seem to be doing right now, correct? So, what I'm not going to do is sit here and entertain your bullshit. 🙂 have fun.
But you cared so much about my other opinion. Remember the one about a gemini stalker? I bet you were hoping people said gemini, didn't you 😉?
Ciao!!
I don't know what your problem is, because it's obvious that you have one. I can post whatever I feel like. If you don't like it, don't say shit about about it. I said ZODIAC SIGNS. I don't care if it's SCORPIO, CANCER, GEMINI or whoever. I posted it so people could post their experiences or voice their opinions. Who gives a flying fuck about what you have to say? I don't even know you, but you can sit here and tell me what I care about? Lol. Girl bye. Enjoy your day. And this will be the last time that I comment on anything that you say. And if I don't want to see it, there is a button for that.... 🙂click to expand
Same way I don't give two squats about your jumbly ramble. But go on Cupcake, plesh that little button for Aunty 🙂

I would do it in a heartbeat. I never have but I would be down with it.
Leo Sun
Scorp Moon
Mars in Taurus
Yep, I am borrowing my friends car putting on a baseball cap and no makeup , dressing in a jersey and some jogging pants totally looking like a boy and I am doing it.
Leo Sun
Scorp Moon
Mars in Taurus
Yep, I am borrowing my friends car putting on a baseball cap and no makeup , dressing in a jersey and some jogging pants totally looking like a boy and I am doing it.

I followed a girl home from school one day to see where she lived, she was really really quiet and freckly and had red hair but the reason she was so quiet drove me insane with curiosity so i followed her home.
My ex is a cancer and he stalked me when we broke up??_I was living with me new boyfriend and I was in my apartment and had just got out of the shower drying my hair and I see him walking across the street and he looks up in my window directly at me and smiled and I just dropped down to the ground lol??_
was hilarious, was pretty freaky at the time because how did he know which window to look through.
My ex is a cancer and he stalked me when we broke up??_I was living with me new boyfriend and I was in my apartment and had just got out of the shower drying my hair and I see him walking across the street and he looks up in my window directly at me and smiled and I just dropped down to the ground lol??_
was hilarious, was pretty freaky at the time because how did he know which window to look through.

Posted by Noreallynow
What zodiac signs do you think has the potential of being a stalker? Why? Have any of you been stalked by an ex bf or gf?
scorpio

Posted by Noreallynow
What zodiac signs do you think has the potential of being a stalker? Why? Have any of you been stalked by an ex bf or gf?
taurus

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I followed a girl home from school one day to see where she lived, she was really really quiet and freckly and had red hair but the reason she was so quiet drove me insane with curiosity so i followed her home.
My ex is a cancer and he stalked me when we broke up??_I was living with me new boyfriend and I was in my apartment and had just got out of the shower drying my hair and I see him walking across the street and he looks up in my window directly at me and smiled and I just dropped down to the ground lol??_
was hilarious, was pretty freaky at the time because how did he know which window to look through.
Redheads & albinos interest me. Makes me wonder if the colour on their heads is the same everywhere ie. flaming red armpit hairs & blonde pubes for albinos. I mean black albinos btw.
What kind of house did she go to? OMG, just imagine if she lived in the Australian version of the White House. Does your president/prime-minister have a "White House"? Hmmm, makes you wonder what they do with their old homes when they move to the presidential homes or if they had a home at all lol.

Posted by NemesisPosted by Nala13
I would do it in a heartbeat. I never have but I would be down with it.
Leo Sun
Scorp Moon
Mars in Taurus
Yep, I am borrowing my friends car putting on a baseball cap and no makeup , dressing in a jersey and some jogging pants totally looking like a boy and I am doing it.
serious question: why would you do this?click to expand
Hey Nem,
I don't know, it seems exciting. I have a girlfriend who did this and hopped out the car on her boyfriend. When she told me the story, I was wishing I was there. I think I have some detective fetish that I need to satisfy.

Posted by WaterCupPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I followed a girl home from school one day to see where she lived, she was really really quiet and freckly and had red hair but the reason she was so quiet drove me insane with curiosity so i followed her home.
My ex is a cancer and he stalked me when we broke up??_I was living with me new boyfriend and I was in my apartment and had just got out of the shower drying my hair and I see him walking across the street and he looks up in my window directly at me and smiled and I just dropped down to the ground lol??_
was hilarious, was pretty freaky at the time because how did he know which window to look through.
Redheads & albinos interest me. Makes me wonder if the colour on their heads is the same everywhere ie. flaming red armpit hairs & blonde pubes for albinos. I mean black albinos btw.
What kind of house did she go to? OMG, just imagine if she lived in the Australian version of the White House. Does your president/prime-minister have a "White House"? Hmmm, makes you wonder what they do with their old homes when they move to the presidential homes or if they had a home at all lol.click to expand
omg I am fixated with redheads.

Posted by DMVPosted by WaterCupPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I followed a girl home from school one day to see where she lived, she was really really quiet and freckly and had red hair but the reason she was so quiet drove me insane with curiosity so i followed her home.
My ex is a cancer and he stalked me when we broke up??_I was living with me new boyfriend and I was in my apartment and had just got out of the shower drying my hair and I see him walking across the street and he looks up in my window directly at me and smiled and I just dropped down to the ground lol??_
was hilarious, was pretty freaky at the time because how did he know which window to look through.
Redheads & albinos interest me. Makes me wonder if the colour on their heads is the same everywhere ie. flaming red armpit hairs & blonde pubes for albinos. I mean black albinos btw.
What kind of house did she go to? OMG, just imagine if she lived in the Australian version of the White House. Does your president/prime-minister have a "White House"? Hmmm, makes you wonder what they do with their old homes when they move to the presidential homes or if they had a home at all lol.
omg I am fixated with redheads.click to expand
It's a pretty colour. I love them with green eyes.

i consider a mild form of stalking kinda sexy. shows you care. the attraction must be mutual however.

Posted by KVZZMIR11
Caps are too self-absorbed for stalking anyone.
I've been stalked by Cancer, Pisces, and I stay wary about other Aquas out there tbh.
Ehh throw in some Cancer oppositions, and you've got a bit of a control freak with a terribly squishy heart.
So I guess that would still make Cancer the culprit.
Maybe the same for Aquas? hmm
Sorry crabbies 😛
LEO MOONS
jesus fucking christ..
they're enough to put up with online (and I'm a Sag Moon), but god help ur poor soul if you get even remotely involved with one IRL and they take a liking to you.
because they will NOT take no for an answer, and once they start their caterwauling, you know you are absolutely fucked. At that point, you will NOT be able to shake them off without a bloody stressful ordeal. And don't think that legal actions or the fact that you're already taken will work. These psychos merely see them as another obstacle in their quest for "true love".
I'm sure there are Leo Moons out there who can still legally approach anyone within 100feet, but I sure as hell haven't met them.
jesus fucking christ..
they're enough to put up with online (and I'm a Sag Moon), but god help ur poor soul if you get even remotely involved with one IRL and they take a liking to you.
because they will NOT take no for an answer, and once they start their caterwauling, you know you are absolutely fucked. At that point, you will NOT be able to shake them off without a bloody stressful ordeal. And don't think that legal actions or the fact that you're already taken will work. These psychos merely see them as another obstacle in their quest for "true love".
I'm sure there are Leo Moons out there who can still legally approach anyone within 100feet, but I sure as hell haven't met them.

Posted by SUPERJERKASS
LEO MOONS
jesus fucking christ..
they're enough to put up with online (and I'm a Sag Moon), but god help ur poor soul if you get even remotely involved with one IRL and they take a liking to you.
because they will NOT take no for an answer, and once they start their caterwauling, you know you are absolutely fucked. At that point, you will NOT be able to shake them off without a bloody stressful ordeal. And don't think that legal actions or the fact that you're already taken will work. These psychos merely see them as another obstacle in their quest for "true love".
I'm sure there are Leo Moons out there who can still legally approach anyone within 100feet, but I sure as hell haven't met them.
i could see that.
Posted by SUPERJERKASS
LEO MOONS
jesus fucking christ..
they're enough to put up with online (and I'm a Sag Moon), but god help ur poor soul if you get even remotely involved with one IRL and they take a liking to you.
because they will NOT take no for an answer, and once they start their caterwauling, you know you are absolutely fucked. At that point, you will NOT be able to shake them off without a bloody stressful ordeal. And don't think that legal actions or the fact that you're already taken will work. These psychos merely see them as another obstacle in their quest for "true love".
I'm sure there are Leo Moons out there who can still legally approach anyone within 100feet, but I sure as hell haven't met them.
though to be fair, while they may obsess and smother you to death, at least they make it a luxurious experience. From experience, they will jump at the chance to lavish you with the very best of everything you could ever want, no holds barred. So if you're an unscrupulous pos, have fun taking advantage of that, I guess. For me though, I just prefer my space and freedom.
Posted by DonJohnson
i've had 2 stalkers..... both taurus.
one of my best friends is a taurus and he's a stalker. binocular outside the girl's house type.
taurus sun, scorpio moon though.
I could def see Taurus, too. Never been involved with one myself, but I've seen them have trouble letting go of their bad relationships.
The fixed signs' reputation is well-earned, I see. lol

2 aquas and a scorpio. From my experience, aqua guys seem to find rejection irresistible. Scorpio guy just couldn't get over the fact that I was indeed no longer interested in him (I did like him, but the games just completely turned me off).

Hard to say. If things start heading down that road and nothing else seems to be working, I just out 'cray-cray' them. A taste of their own medicine usually nips that shit in the bud with a quickness.
So I guess I fall into the category mentioned. Virgo sun, Cancer moon, Leo Venus, and no sense of shame.
Very strong guilt complex though :/
So I guess I fall into the category mentioned. Virgo sun, Cancer moon, Leo Venus, and no sense of shame.
Very strong guilt complex though :/
Posted by GGPosted by SUPERJERKASS
LEO MOONS
jesus fucking christ..
they're enough to put up with online (and I'm a Sag Moon), but god help ur poor soul if you get even remotely involved with one IRL and they take a liking to you.
because they will NOT take no for an answer, and once they start their caterwauling, you know you are absolutely fucked. At that point, you will NOT be able to shake them off without a bloody stressful ordeal. And don't think that legal actions or the fact that you're already taken will work. These psychos merely see them as another obstacle in their quest for "true love".
I'm sure there are Leo Moons out there who can still legally approach anyone within 100feet, but I sure as hell haven't met them.
I call bull shit!! I'm sure you're making this observation from one or two encounters cause I sure have never met you. What are the sun signs of these Leo moons and how do you know it's their moon that's doing the stalking? Is there an app for that?
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smh read my last sentence
And that question could apply to anyone who responded in the thread.
As for sun signs of the Leo Moons I dealt with:
Scorpio
Libra
Virgo (by far the most extreme case...and he has Venus sq Neptune/Saturn and Mars sq Pluto, so it's def not just Leo Moon)

Water influence.
Posted by ChaelPosted by SUPERJERKASS
LEO MOONS
jesus fucking christ..
they're enough to put up with online (and I'm a Sag Moon), but god help ur poor soul if you get even remotely involved with one IRL and they take a liking to you.
because they will NOT take no for an answer, and once they start their caterwauling, you know you are absolutely fucked. At that point, you will NOT be able to shake them off without a bloody stressful ordeal. And don't think that legal actions or the fact that you're already taken will work. These psychos merely see them as another obstacle in their quest for "true love".
I'm sure there are Leo Moons out there who can still legally approach anyone within 100feet, but I sure as hell haven't met them.
lmao i heard from that alyssa youtube astro chick that leo moons don't respect relationships because they think they're better for you than your current!click to expand
Correct. Some don't care if you're currently in a relationship. They will still fuck with you.

Nem, I TOTALLY agree with you. The nagging feeling never goes away.
I remember after I broke up with the Aries I wanted a gun, ended up with a taser though, because I was so afraid that he was going to do what the Taurus did to me & I wasnt going to go through that again. Same thing with the scorpio after we broke. The fear was there. Another guy I rejected suddenly appeared at every single place I went, in my mind I began panicking again because I was sure he was stalking me. It's just an ongoing fear of going through the same thing again.
Last shrink I went to told me that I have severe trust issues, I dont think its only because of the stalking though, but it sure did contribute to it. I'm afraid to date anyone & when I do, I secretly start thinking about what will happen after we break up. These people have no idea how traumatising it is to constantly have to look behind your back like a bird. Also, the police were totally useless in my case, they laughed & said "What, you want us to arrest a guy just because he called you 38 times?". I was crushed to say the least. Now, when I end a relationship, 1st thing I do is change my number because of that. It's sad to have your life & behaviour change because of another person. I dont even go to the city we met anymore even though I still have friends there. It's like I'll bump into him. Maybe when he dies. Dont even know if he's still alive though.
I remember after I broke up with the Aries I wanted a gun, ended up with a taser though, because I was so afraid that he was going to do what the Taurus did to me & I wasnt going to go through that again. Same thing with the scorpio after we broke. The fear was there. Another guy I rejected suddenly appeared at every single place I went, in my mind I began panicking again because I was sure he was stalking me. It's just an ongoing fear of going through the same thing again.
Last shrink I went to told me that I have severe trust issues, I dont think its only because of the stalking though, but it sure did contribute to it. I'm afraid to date anyone & when I do, I secretly start thinking about what will happen after we break up. These people have no idea how traumatising it is to constantly have to look behind your back like a bird. Also, the police were totally useless in my case, they laughed & said "What, you want us to arrest a guy just because he called you 38 times?". I was crushed to say the least. Now, when I end a relationship, 1st thing I do is change my number because of that. It's sad to have your life & behaviour change because of another person. I dont even go to the city we met anymore even though I still have friends there. It's like I'll bump into him. Maybe when he dies. Dont even know if he's still alive though.

One of the things I wish I knew about stalking is, never answer their phonecalls. Wensley Clarkson wrote a book about stalkers & gave tips on how to deal with someone harrassing you. One of the 1st things victims do, he said, is reacting by lashing out...showing emotion. He says that's what fuels the harrassment. Example, if you tell them to stop calling or that you don't want them anymore etc. That alone makes them want to change your mind ie. make you want them again. Not reacting sadly doesnt mean it'll stop though, because they always increase the heat but it helps. If you're a victim read up on ways to deal with it since the police arent going to help you immediately, until maybe when your throat is slashed. Police need proof to make an arrest, so record everything, take pictures if possible, alert neighbours etc.
They guy I mentioned broke to my flat & then left a spit smudge on my bathroom mirror. He then sent me a message asking if I found the "heart" he left me. Spit = heart. It's kinda funny NOW, but it wasnt funny then. I immediately moved in with my sister after that. He had stolen my laundry before. 1 shirt I wore on one of our dates so I knew it was him but couldnt report it because I couldnt prove it.
My sister thought I was being a sissy until she witnessed the barrage of calls & messages herself. She's 15 years older than me so she could pass as my mother on the phone. She took 3 of the calls whilst pretending to be my mother just to tell the creep to leave me alone. You know what he did? It was like she was not talking to him for as soon as she was done talking to him, he asked to talk to me. It was like everything she said was in Latin. Meant nothing. That's when she started to believe me & went with me to the police & to court.
These people are insane so dont think talking to them is going to make them stop or pity you. Please research online about this topic & how to deal with it if you have a psycho refusing to let go. Keep proofs etc.
Good luck.
They guy I mentioned broke to my flat & then left a spit smudge on my bathroom mirror. He then sent me a message asking if I found the "heart" he left me. Spit = heart. It's kinda funny NOW, but it wasnt funny then. I immediately moved in with my sister after that. He had stolen my laundry before. 1 shirt I wore on one of our dates so I knew it was him but couldnt report it because I couldnt prove it.
My sister thought I was being a sissy until she witnessed the barrage of calls & messages herself. She's 15 years older than me so she could pass as my mother on the phone. She took 3 of the calls whilst pretending to be my mother just to tell the creep to leave me alone. You know what he did? It was like she was not talking to him for as soon as she was done talking to him, he asked to talk to me. It was like everything she said was in Latin. Meant nothing. That's when she started to believe me & went with me to the police & to court.
These people are insane so dont think talking to them is going to make them stop or pity you. Please research online about this topic & how to deal with it if you have a psycho refusing to let go. Keep proofs etc.
Good luck.

Posted by size zero superhero
I knew an obsessive Virgo sun...
The Virgo in question had game--was pretty AND intelligent so she was easily the most perplexing of those three examples. She was just that much of a neurotic control-freak, she HAD to be aware of every move someone made if they were of great relevance to her, or someone who she had the hots for. I knew one of her good(platonic, he's gay)friends, and she was constantly keeping close tabs on him.
*whistles innocently*

Posted by SUPERJERKASS
LEO MOONS
jesus fucking christ..
they're enough to put up with online (and I'm a Sag Moon), but god help ur poor soul if you get even remotely involved with one IRL and they take a liking to you.
because they will NOT take no for an answer, and once they start their caterwauling, you know you are absolutely fucked. At that point, you will NOT be able to shake them off without a bloody stressful ordeal. And don't think that legal actions or the fact that you're already taken will work. These psychos merely see them as another obstacle in their quest for "true love".
I'm sure there are Leo Moons out there who can still legally approach anyone within 100feet, but I sure as hell haven't met them.
bwhahaha
I can see this on water and earth suns mainly.

Scorpio, Cancer, Gemini, Sagittarius

Posted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Let me give a definition for stalker.
a person who stealthily hunts or pursues an animal or another person.
a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.
I find that most people don't know what a stalker is.
How condescending! Most people? Really? Maybe in your small, buffalo milking village in Tajikistan.
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😕/😆
*wondering if I missed an "exchange" in another thread somewhere*

Posted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Why would I care? It's internet. People voice their opinions all the time. Like you seem to be doing right now, correct? So, what I'm not going to do is sit here and entertain your bullshit. 🙂 have fun.
But you cared so much about my other opinion. Remember the one about a gemini stalker? I bet you were hoping people said gemini, didn't you 😉?
Ciao!!click to expand
😉 Ahhhh, here we go.

Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Why would I care? It's internet. People voice their opinions all the time. Like you seem to be doing right now, correct? So, what I'm not going to do is sit here and entertain your bullshit. 🙂 have fun.
But you cared so much about my other opinion. Remember the one about a gemini stalker? I bet you were hoping people said gemini, didn't you 😉?
Ciao!!
😉 Ahhhh, here we go.click to expand
I was just pulling her leg though.

Posted by WaterCupPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Why would I care? It's internet. People voice their opinions all the time. Like you seem to be doing right now, correct? So, what I'm not going to do is sit here and entertain your bullshit. 🙂 have fun.
But you cared so much about my other opinion. Remember the one about a gemini stalker? I bet you were hoping people said gemini, didn't you 😉?
Ciao!!
😉 Ahhhh, here we go.
I was just pulling her leg though.click to expand
😄 I see. I knew that first post had too much bite for a reason.
P.S. You seem to be joking with the wrong crowd though (Rams, Scorps...). They seem to be battling ITakeMySelfTooSeriously-itis. Your posts make me laugh though.

Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by WaterCupPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by WaterCupPosted by Noreallynow
Why would I care? It's internet. People voice their opinions all the time. Like you seem to be doing right now, correct? So, what I'm not going to do is sit here and entertain your bullshit. 🙂 have fun.
But you cared so much about my other opinion. Remember the one about a gemini stalker? I bet you were hoping people said gemini, didn't you 😉?
Ciao!!
😉 Ahhhh, here we go.
I was just pulling her leg though.
😄 I see. I knew that first post had too much bite for a reason.
P.S. You seem to be joking with the wrong crowd though (Rams, Scorps...). They seem to be battling ITakeMySelfTooSeriously-itis. Your posts make me laugh though.click to expand
LOL @ the diagnosis, but oddly enough, that's exactly what I like. A bit of harmless back & forth.
You have an easy going energy. I know this is going to embarrass you, but I like you 😄 I believe I told you that before, or was it Intrigued? You two have similar energies imo, hence I can't tell you apart. Fun scorps.
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