what if......

you are friends with a guy for about a month and he is in a relationship but both of you are lusting after each other. he tells you he loves you and you two just cannot stay away from each other. he lives with a woman and they have 2 small children. so she goes out of town and you go to his house to sleep with him for the first time at his invitation. you get there at 1am and leave about 4am at his request because he says he has to get some sleep. you are feeling weird. why did he want you to leave at 4 am and not stay. the next day you are feeling weird because you see him at work. he messages you are work hi so he has made contact. the sex was amazing and but you are wondering, ok is that it or will he want to see me again? It's a terrible feeling. What do you think, will the guy want to see the girl again? or is that it?

Are you for real? WTF

Posted by porcelainrising
I think you are a cunt.

OMG I thought that too!

no it's not a troll post. i feel like shit but i was hoping for some constructive discourse versus name calling and die in a fire. 😢

no one here has experienced lust that keeps you up at night and you cant sleep even though you know its horribly wrong? come on.

Well your a fucking liar, because you've previously stated that he was all up in your fuck hole before you ever he found out he had kids. So.... what do you call that?

no one here has experienced lust that keeps you up at night and you cant sleep even though you know its horribly wrong? come on.

Honey, you got hosed.

You're lusting after a taken man. That's shitty move number one.

I wouldn't be surprised if he sensed that, used it to his advantage, and got the ass he was chasing. And you're surprised he kicked you out at 4am? It's no coincidence that you feel shitty and your gut is telling you something is off.

Way to be a total sucker. You've gotten yourself into the age old "I slept with a cheater and think something may come of it" scenario.

It's lust, not love. If he comes back around, it's not for love. It's to make his dick happy again, sorry.

And shame on your self absorbed ass for sleeping with a taken man. Have some control like a real adult.

Posted by Astrobyn
Well your a fucking liar, because you've previously stated that he was all up in your fuck hole before you ever he found out he had kids. So.... what do you call that?

true. i knew he had kids but he pursued me for a month day after day and i fell. i feel like shit too.

true. there really is no excuse other than being a single girl with hormones. i want to crawl in a hole right now seriously.

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Posted by Astrobyn
Well your a fucking liar, because you've previously stated that he was all up in your fuck hole before you ever he found out he had kids. So.... what do you call that?

true. i knew he had kids but he pursued me for a month day after day and i fell. i feel like shit too.

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No dude, that makes your story a pile of stinky shit. Your just a liar looking for some attention, You just trying to spend more time talking about your dirty vagina... to lure guys into pm'ing you.

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Posted by Astrobyn
Well your a fucking liar, because you've previously stated that he was all up in your fuck hole before you ever he found out he had kids. So.... what do you call that?

true. i knew he had kids but he pursued me for a month day after day and i fell. i feel like shit too.

No dude, that makes your story a pile of stinky shit. Your just a liar looking for some attention, You just trying to spend more time talking about your dirty vagina... to lure guys into pm'ing you.

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robyn seriously stop. i dont want any pm's. this is a true issue im dealing with right now. i want some dialogue about it, not attention.

Posted by Impulsv
I'm not an animal
I can control lust.
Nothing worse than a single woman having sex with a married man 2 kinds, while the wife is on vacation. It's not just him rabbit. I can't stand women who go after married men. Weak!

he's not married and i didn't go after him. he pursued me day after day. i thought i wanted to have sex with him and now i feel like garbage the day after 😢

Posted by Impulsv
But even then ur not concerned about ur actions u want him back!! If u were concerned ud run away as far

i dont want him "back". he didnt go any where. but im concerned on how he will treat me now, as selfish as it is.

Posted by tripleCap

Only want to have fun
No time to get sprung
That's the way it is on Blackstreet
After all, it's a BOOTI CALL

i had emotions for him before i slept with him. i didnt want a booty call. ughh

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But does the vagina actually exist?

Yes. It's where that Malaysian airlines flight disappeared into..

More like the Bermuda Triangle.

Either one.

Many men enter...few return... Without a burning sensation when they pee.

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why don't you put some good input from a guys point of view?

Posted by Rabbit
I can without a doubt say that any man that is fucking a female on the side while he's in a relationship with a woman who's the mother of his two children is NOT a man.

He's a bitch ass little pussy fart.

what if she is not pleasing him in the bedroom?

He wants you to be his side piece, sounds like. Nothing serious.

Advise: keep your legs closed. No amount of lust should have that much control over your decisions in regards to a man that is involved with someone else AND has kids involved. It's called self control.

You a sex addict?

Posted by arietteheart2
He tooted and booted. You must have lousy kitty. Try kegels.

really? hmmm. he said i was amazing but we were in him and his gf's bed so i was thinking thats why he booted me? i hope it wast lousy kitty we went at it for 3 hours 😢

Posted by Rabbit
Then he should man up and break up with her before going off and fucking some strange.

Jesus H Fuck...the way some assholes out there view women and relationships makes me want to vomit.

Saddly, women like the OP have helped create that type of man...

Posted by justagirl
Advise: keep your legs closed. No amount of lust should have that much control over your decisions in regards to a man that is involved with someone else AND has kids involved. It's called self control.

You a sex addict?

no i am not. but he kept pursuing. i even moved my seat to get away from him at work and and then he would text you want me to leave you alone i really like you. and kept on and on. he said he didnt want to let me go. i should have never slept with him i feel lousy

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He tooted and booted. You must have lousy kitty. Try kegels.

really? hmmm. he said i was amazing but we were in him and his gf's bed so i was thinking thats why he booted me? i hope it wast lousy kitty we went at it for 3 hours 😢

lol first time doing it and it took you 3 hours to make the poor man cum? Yeah....you got some lousy kitty. He made you leave immediately afterwards = no fucks about your feelings.

Live and learn

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he came 4 times.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
you are friends with a guy for about a month.

he lives with a woman and they have 2 small children.

so she goes out of town and you go to his house to sleep with him for the first time at his invitation.

you get there at 1am and leave about 4am at his request because he says he has to get some sleep, live, play.

how do you not see how wrong that is?

you slept and fucked in her home where her and her children sleep.

then you have the nerve to say "What if she's not doing it for him in bed?"

what the fuck are you thinking?

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that what he told me idk 😢

Posted by Rabbit
Then he should man up and break up with her before going off and fucking some strange.

Jesus H Fuck...the way some assholes out there view women and relationships makes me want to vomit.

this isn't what i want at all. i feel yucky.

Personally I think your being judged harshly.......Not so much for being a home wrecker, slut etc.......But more for your lack of self control

There's a lot of bad shit going on in this world and its easy to wrapped up in it but everyday we are all exercising self control to keep balance....but there are some people who become narrow minded and only see a small part of the picture (which in your case your pussy and his dick) instead of seeing the grander scheme of things like he has a family that he needs to look after....you don't love yourself and you need to work on that.

Posted by Wynter
He wants you to be his side piece, sounds like. Nothing serious.

i agree. i've been a side piece before and it was ok but at this point i don't want that anymore.

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Posted by arietteheart2
He tooted and booted. You must have lousy kitty. Try kegels.

really? hmmm. he said i was amazing but we were in him and his gf's bed so i was thinking thats why he booted me? i hope it wast lousy kitty we went at it for 3 hours 😢

lol first time doing it and it took you 3 hours to make the poor man cum? Yeah....you got some lousy kitty. He made you leave immediately afterwards = no fucks about your feelings.

Live and learn

he came 4 times.

And yet still had the energy to tell you to gtfo instead of taking advantage of the fact that you were already in his bed and he could have had round 2 in the morning.

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he seemed worried about washing the sheets and the girlfriend. plus i was in pain after 3 hours 😢

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what if she is not pleasing him in the bedroom?

Lol. You're really gonna go there?

She has the home, the kids and he's kept her around longer than....how long was it you were allowed to stay? 3 hours? Yet, you're questioning her skills in the bedroom.

Yeah, it probably wasn't about that and clearly this:

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robyn seriously stop. i dont want any pm's. this is a true issue im dealing with right now. i want some dialogue about it, not attention.

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was bullsh*t. You're just looking for validation and a nice pep talk to convince you that this isn't about you being used.

Seriously, what type of dialogue were you hoping to have exactly? You claim you feel like sh*t. So what is there to say beyond "yeah you should" unless your idea of dialogue is a lot of fake sympathy and validation. If you feel like sh*t, sit with the feeling for a few. Let that sh*t marinate so you do better next time. Beyond that, I would have to agree, you're looking for attention.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Personally I think your being judged harshly.......Not so much for being a home wrecker, slut etc.......But more for your lack of self control

There's a lot of bad shit going on in this world and its easy to wrapped up in it but everyday we are all exercising self control to keep balance....but there are some people who become narrow minded and only see a small part of the picture (which in your case your pussy and his dick) instead of seeing the grander scheme of things like he has a family that he needs to look after....you don't love yourself and you need to work on that.

i kept trying to get away from him. i moved desks. wouldn't open my instant messenger etc. And i was like ok, this is done and i was cool but he would keep finding ways to message me. every time i would see his message it tugged my heart strings. i made an attempt to get away and i dont feel like i have low self esteem i just had a strong attraction for this man and he kept going after me and going after me. i NEVER initiated a message to him the whole relationship i just answered his. i NEVER did the pursuing.

Posted by Catmilk677
Capricorns do this. They like taking women's men. If his baby mama isn't pleasing him and you're available at 1am, get in your car, drive to their house, sex him up, gather ur belongings, and go home. Nothing more glorious then birthing the seed of your man. His wonan and him are connected and those two little kids are the product. Its not glamorous when you look at it that way. Though this may be pointless seeing as how you were jus eatin fish last night and virgo two mnths ago? Blah.

ive been single for 4 months. no sex. i was eating fish last night. hes a pisces.

Posted by cakereshkigal
I guess what turns you on is the creeping around.

So it isn't long term that you seek with this man.

I guess the question is, how are you ruining his relationship with her (if it's nothing serious between you two) and do you even give a flack to think about it. I guess it's harmless from your pov, but you are suppose to give a shnit about others. But why should you? Because one day you'll want others to respect what's in your space.

no if he was single i would want to have a serious long term relationship with him and live with him. i told him this and and he knows how i feel.

i dont want attention. i want a discussion about this issue and i dont mind being called names about it i want honest opinions. i just dont know why i allowed this to happen.

Posted by arietteheart2
You have weak character to start.

was it guilt or was the kitty not good? would a guy go for three hours and 8 different positions all over the house if the kitty was bad? i really want to know

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Posted by cakereshkigal
I guess what turns you on is the creeping around.

So it isn't long term that you seek with this man.

I guess the question is, how are you ruining his relationship with her (if it's nothing serious between you two) and do you even give a flack to think about it. I guess it's harmless from your pov, but you are suppose to give a shnit about others. But why should you? Because one day you'll want others to respect what's in your space.

no if he was single i would want to have a serious long term relationship with him and live with him. i told him this and and he knows how i feel.

You're just saying that now. Are you okay to be in a relationship with him and another woman takes your position as a side piece?

Sometimes people seem more appealing when they seem to be a challenge. What's the prize?

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id cut his nuts off if he did it to me. im really attracted to him. i need to stay away from him. hes like cyanide. ughhh

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Posted by cakereshkigal
I guess what turns you on is the creeping around.

So it isn't long term that you seek with this man.

I guess the question is, how are you ruining his relationship with her (if it's nothing serious between you two) and do you even give a flack to think about it. I guess it's harmless from your pov, but you are suppose to give a shnit about others. But why should you? Because one day you'll want others to respect what's in your space.

no if he was single i would want to have a serious long term relationship with him and live with him. i told him this and and he knows how i feel.

You're just saying that now. Are you okay to be in a relationship with him and another woman takes your position as a side piece?

Sometimes people seem more appealing when they seem to be a challenge. What's the prize?

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id cut his nuts off if he did it to me. im really attracted to him. i need to stay away from him. hes like cyanide. ughhh

Posted by justagirl
Are you for real? WTF

ah yes

Posted by Impulsv
Yes asking u to come over at one for sex since gf out of town speak
Loud n clear what he thinks of u.
I'm just surprised u keep saying u don't want to be booty but u accepted a 1 am booty call?

he is in a relationship so how can he think of me? yes i accepted a 1 am booty call because at least i could spend "some" time with him. i really like the guy so something with him was better than nothing with him. although he kept saying he loved me and wanted to make love to me and show me. but now i regret it and i want to cry 😢

Posted by Impulsv
Yes asking u to come over at one for sex since gf out of town speak
Loud n clear what he thinks of u.
I'm just surprised u keep saying u don't want to be booty but u accepted a 1 am booty call?

he cant be with me any other time because of the gf. he has to be home with her so it just happened to be an opportunity to be alone. i dont want to be a side chick or a booty call, i thought i was ok with it but now i dont feel good. ;(

I'm pretty sure Ms. Kitty made a status on here not to long ago about I'm about to get laid almost bragging about it with a guy who has a woman and kids but now she feels bad? Doesn't make sense. All I can say is you both enjoyed your three hours. There is no good way out of this. You have to tell him you won't be his side woman for-real.

Posted by Impulsv
Yes asking u to come over at one for sex since gf out of town speak
Loud n clear what he thinks of u.
I'm just surprised u keep saying u don't want to be booty but u accepted a 1 am booty call?

Right?

OP, you want a reason for why you did this?

You're 23 and stupid and allowed your vagina to do the thinking.

You could have nipped this in the bud and not entertained any of this shit. But you allowed his persistence to succeed. You did it because YOU LIKE THE ATTENTION from this guy. Single for 4 months? Whoop dee do. Four months is nothing. I don't know your history, but given that you're basically newly single, seems like this guy made you feel like a pretty princess again.

Consider it a learning experience, understand the freaking signs of a douchelord, and don't let it happen again.

The big question to you is why did you allow this to happen even though he clearly has a girlfriend?

If a guy, who's openly taken, is hitting on me, I'm immediately turned off. Why didn't this deter you? You claim to have self esteem, but only bitches with shitty self esteem do bullshit like this. We can sit here and hypothesize for you all you want, but you're the one that has to figure out what the hell your problem is.

Posted by SatoriFierce
So is this the Pisces guy who you've been going on for a while about or is this another dude?

ya its him. i honestly tried to get away. we sit next to each other at work and i moved my desk to get away and he got mad. i didnt return his messages and he got mad and said, "do you want me to stop pursuing you? because i really like you" and i said no. he said he wasnt happy with the gf and thinking about me. then he proceeded to romance me for a month every day that he needed me, he had to have me, he loved me he wanted to make love to me. all the things i wanted to hear. he asked me how are you feeling what are you thinking? ughh he kept doing all of these things and i fell for him like a dummy 😢 ughh

@catmilk677 It wasn't right that he made her leave? Really? It's called he got his nutoff an kicked her ass to the curb. They where in the bed he shares with HIS girlfriend ( btw this is pretty fucking nasty and rotten for you to do), the mother of his children. She shouldn't have been there to begin with. it was a booty call plain and simple. he obviously was worried either the kids where going to wake up (please tell me his kids weren't home) or his girl was coming home.

WTF, don't talk to him for a while? are you encouraging her to continue with a guy that is with someone else?

Again, Keep your legs closed, stay away from him it really is that simple.

Like others have said, you are a known catfish, seeking attention. You claim you feel bad yet you are in here going on about how good your kitty is.. showing zero remorse. You are a sick person and need serious help.

Right I'm 23 I would have taken up on the offer.

But check this out though.

KittenLaRouge
on my way to get laid 😄

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Posted by frostey91
I'm pretty sure Ms. Kitty made a status on here not to long ago about I'm about to get laid almost bragging about it with a guy who has a woman and kids but now she feels bad? Doesn't make sense. All I can say is you both enjoyed your three hours. There is no good way out of this. You have to tell him you won't be his side woman for-real.

i was excited to finally be with a man i have feelings for as fucked up as it sounds. but when he made me leave at 4 am because he got worried i felt like trash for real. ughh i know i deserve it. but hes so hot ughh hes the devil

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Posted by Impulsv
Yes asking u to come over at one for sex since gf out of town speak
Loud n clear what he thinks of u.
I'm just surprised u keep saying u don't want to be booty but u accepted a 1 am booty call?

Right?

OP, you want a reason for why you did this?

You're 23 and stupid and allowed your vagina to do the thinking.

You could have nipped this in the bud and not entertained any of this shit. But you allowed his persistence to succeed. You did it because YOU LIKE THE ATTENTION from this guy. Single for 4 months? Whoop dee do. Four months is nothing. I don't know your history, but given that you're basically newly single, seems like this guy made you feel like a pretty princess again.

Consider it a learning experience, understand the freaking signs of a douchelord, and don't let it happen again.

The big question to you is why did you allow this to happen even though he clearly has a girlfriend?

If a guy, who's openly taken, is hitting on me, I'm immediately turned off. Why didn't this deter you? You claim to have self esteem, but only bitches with shitty self esteem do bullshit like this. We can sit here and hypothesize for you all you want, but you're the one that has to figure out what the hell your problem is.

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+a billion

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Posted by Impulsv
Yes asking u to come over at one for sex since gf out of town speak
Loud n clear what he thinks of u.
I'm just surprised u keep saying u don't want to be booty but u accepted a 1 am booty call?

Right?

OP, you want a reason for why you did this?

You're 23 and stupid and allowed your vagina to do the thinking.

You could have nipped this in the bud and not entertained any of this shit. But you allowed his persistence to succeed. You did it because YOU LIKE THE ATTENTION from this guy. Single for 4 months? Whoop dee do. Four months is nothing. I don't know your history, but given that you're basically newly single, seems like this guy made you feel like a pretty princess again.

Consider it a learning experience, understand the freaking signs of a douchelord, and don't let it happen again.

The big question to you is why did you allow this to happen even though he clearly has a girlfriend?

If a guy, who's openly taken, is hitting on me, I'm immediately turned off. Why didn't this deter you? You claim to have self esteem, but only bitches with shitty self esteem do bullshit like this. We can sit here and hypothesize for you all you want, but you're the one that has to figure out what the hell your problem is.

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i wanted to pretend the gf didnt exist because he said he wanted to make me his queen. 😢

Really? :/

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Really? :/

i know damn! i feel like a fool ughh. ultimately i want to have a relationship with this guy but i cant. believe me im paying for it now. i want to hide my head i a hole ugghhh

Posted by Catmilk677
Justabitch, dnt come for me unless I send for you!

Go fuck yourself and Block me

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