Why do men have affair while women is pregnant

I saw this pattern a few days ago n today I see a post about Adam Levine lol dang what is it—

Apparently they are unable to control their carnial urges and society quietly applauds it.

Pregnant or busy with the infant? Because they aren’t getting their woman’s attention. All the cheater has to do is humanize her and understand that she’s busy nurturing THEIR child. It’s obviously too much to ask for a degenerate.

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Apparently they are unable to control their carnial urges and society quietly applauds it.

Funny you say that because I agree that society or the misogynist that ruled the society spread a misconception that men can’t live without sex or that they at least hyperventilate at the sight of a woman. When I was growing up and to this day, I always ask men if they can live without sex and they all said yes. LOL

Probably for the same reasons they have affairs when she’s not pregnant.

That chick talking



No respect for her n claiming being a victim

Breeding kink needs to find another host

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That chick talking

No respect for her n claiming being a victim

She looks better on IG

Looks a bit like a caricature of herself on camera

Typical instagram

Trash face

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That chick talking

No respect for her n claiming being a victim

She reminds me of that horrible yt astrologer

Anyway she made her bed now she’s lying in it.

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She's doing it for clout.

Also don't be naïve, this isn't the first time he cheated and it won't be the last. His wife is most likely more upset that its national news over the actual cheating. Celebrities tend to have more open relationships with the rules being don't get messy and embarrass your family.

The insta model who nobody ever heard of is getting a huge boost from putting him on blast.

Just to clarify...in case of Levine, the alleged affair took place BEFORE his wife got pregnant with their 3rd child.

Because there is a possibility they may have to go without sex for a while

Booohooo 😭

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That chick talking

No respect for her n claiming being a victim

She looks better on IG

Looks a bit like a caricature of herself on camera

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U mean with the filters lol I look like a model lol

So what's her sign? 😜

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So what's her sign? 😜

Leo

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So what's her sign? 😜

Leo

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She must like the attention. 🤭

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So what's her sign? 😜

Leo

She must like the attention. 🤭

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Lol she totally did it for the attention 🤣

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Also don't be naïve, this isn't the first time he cheated and it won't be the last. His wife is most likely more upset that its national news over the actual cheating. Celebrities tend to have more open relationships with the rules being don't get messy and embarrass your family.

The insta model who nobody ever heard of is getting a huge boost from putting him on blast.

Right, famous rich musician cheats. Wow shocking

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Great shock, much surprise!

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Empathy gab.

Pregnancies have emotional impacts on men too but society usually centers all the emotional concern and attention around the woman leaving the men with almost no emotional support on top of the general lack of empathy men suffer from in our society.

Me who are in touch with their emotions basically have to cheat to make it through such periods if they want to be emotionally healthy fathers.

What !! Men have to cheat to be emotional healthy fathers!!!!

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Also don't be naïve, this isn't the first time he cheated and it won't be the last. His wife is most likely more upset that its national news over the actual cheating. Celebrities tend to have more open relationships with the rules being don't get messy and embarrass your family.

The insta model who nobody ever heard of is getting a huge boost from putting him on blast.

Right, famous rich musician cheats. Wow shocking

Great shock, much surprise!

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No

Surprise but tons of men without the fame do it.

Look how quickly ya'll start bashing the side chick. She's working hard for her coins, gotta respect the hustle.

Hate on the actual married man for the affair. He was the one who made vows, not her.

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Look how quickly ya'll start bashing the side chick. She's working hard for her coins, gotta respect the hustle.

Hate on the actual married man for the affair. He was the one who made vows, not her.

Again women always trying to not take responsibility for their behavior. It tooks two to tango. I know there are tons of women who believe it’s not my fault it’s all his.

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Look how quickly ya'll start bashing the side chick. She's working hard for her coins, gotta respect the hustle.

Hate on the actual married man for the affair. He was the one who made vows, not her.

Again women always trying to not take responsibility for their behavior. It tooks two to tango. I know there are tons of women who believe it’s not my fault it’s all his.

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It absolutely is all his fault. She's not married to his wife, she's didn't make vows.

Is it somewhat trashy to date a married man, sure. Even if he is telling you he is separated but can't divorce cause the media frenzy and what not, meh also sure?

He is the cheater, not her. Calling women home wreckers to push blame from the married man to the side chick is some masterful marketing. You can't wreck a home without dudes equal and enthusiastic participation.

Btw there is already another woman coming forward with incriminating dms and claiming to have dated him. One of many to follow I'm guessing. When it rains it pours.

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Look how quickly ya'll start bashing the side chick. She's working hard for her coins, gotta respect the hustle.

Hate on the actual married man for the affair. He was the one who made vows, not her.

Again women always trying to not take responsibility for their behavior. It tooks two to tango. I know there are tons of women who believe it’s not my fault it’s all his.

It absolutely is all his fault. She's not married to his wife, she's didn't make vows.

Is it somewhat trashy to date a married man, sure. Even if he is telling you he is separated but can't divorce cause the media frenzy and what not, meh also sure?

He is the cheater, not her. Calling women home wreckers to push blame from the married man to the side chick is some masterful marketing. You can't wreck a home without dudes equal and enthusiastic participation.

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He’s equally trash that’s a given. No sense to try to absolve the women either

“It absolutely is all his fault. She's not married to his wife, she's didn't make vows. “

This is the mentally I disagree with. No accountability for “your” wrong behavior . Not you OP , I don’t know know you, but women who excuse their behavior.

Gen X aka boomers need to wise up and stop sending dms on sm. Easiest way to get caught up in your cheater exploits is leave a paper trail.

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Unpopular opinion. I don’t understand why she can’t be a victim. She was in college when this happened? Clearly a star struck twenty year old lol. He was married, he was the one reaching out to her on Instagram, he was in the position of power, he cheated on his wife. Not to mention the naming of his unborn child as her name? What the fuck? Lol. Adam Levine is a scumbag. And a creep. She’s a Gen z “influencer” looking for her 5s of fame, and she got it. It’s good on her to call out these Hollywood scumbags 🤷🏼‍♀️

Weird take to be blaming the girl who’s barely just out of her teens and barely has a fully formed brain, at that. God people are fckn weird

I don’t know I’ve been 20 in college around famous married baseball players Dodgers because a friend worked with them n hung out n never slowed things to cross. So I don’t buy it💁

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Gen X aka boomers need to wise up and stop sending dms on sm. Easiest way to get caught up in your cheater exploits is leave a paper trail.

Would pay to find out what ticks your fancy about cheating so much. Nobody posted 6 posts in this thread but you. NOBODY!

But you are happily bashing! Why? Whats the truth here? Who cheated on you?

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I’ve posted tons n haven’t been cheated lol she really isn’t bashing her

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Look how quickly ya'll start bashing the side chick. She's working hard for her coins, gotta respect the hustle.

Hate on the actual married man for the affair. He was the one who made vows, not her.

Again women always trying to not take responsibility for their behavior. It tooks two to tango. I know there are tons of women who believe it’s not my fault it’s all his.

It absolutely is all his fault. She's not married to his wife, she's didn't make vows.

Is it somewhat trashy to date a married man, sure. Even if he is telling you he is separated but can't divorce cause the media frenzy and what not, meh also sure?

He is the cheater, not her. Calling women home wreckers to push blame from the married man to the side chick is some masterful marketing. You can't wreck a home without dudes equal and enthusiastic participation.

He’s equally trash that’s a given. No sense to try to absolve the women either

“It absolutely is all his fault. She's not married to his wife, she's didn't make vows. “

This is the mentally I disagree with. No accountability for “your” wrong behavior . Not you OP , I don’t know know you, but women who excuse their behavior.

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Yep, I second that. Our fragile societal fabric that keeps the community united for common good requires praise of good and shaming for bad behaviour. Bad is bad and it’s not contextual to who is obligated and who isn’t. Obligation is with all to do the right thing or at least aspire to. Both parties involved in wrongdoing are douchebags.

Edit: Adam Levine always came across as a shitty loser to me. I saw the uppity facial reactions he used to have on the voice.

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Look how quickly ya'll start bashing the side chick. She's working hard for her coins, gotta respect the hustle.

Hate on the actual married man for the affair. He was the one who made vows, not her.

100%

This has been going on forever. Creepy, predatory men twice the age of their victim walk away scot free, while the woman takes the full blame and often times doesn’t even have a fully formed brain or body in some cases 😷 Men are untouchable in these situations

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Absolutely. Its ingrained in our backward ass culture to shame and label the woman as the jezebel.

Text Sounded superficial on the how hot you are not much of emotional connection more sexual. So who know about the leaving wife text/talk . I think this was done to get clout Not revenge due to not being picked but we can all speculate

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Look how quickly ya'll start bashing the side chick. She's working hard for her coins, gotta respect the hustle.

Hate on the actual married man for the affair. He was the one who made vows, not her.

He was the most wrong but it’s not like she didn’t know he was married. That’s BS. She made a bad choice too and has consequences. He’s the one who shouldn’t have stepped out and is more wrong but she chose to be there. Hopefully she learns from this.

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Stroh also clarified what she meant when she claimed she was manipulated.

“The most important part that I did definitely gloss over is the fact that I was under the impression that their marriage was over. I believed that they were keeping it quiet to avoid the negative press because, as I had said, I was new to LA, so I just assumed that with celebrities of that caliber, that that’s just how it was,” she said.

“And that’s why I feel exploited, because he knew I believed everything that he said because of my vulnerable position of being new to LA,” she said. “Also, he was DMing me straight from his verified Instagram account. I didn’t have any reason to further question it. But I now realize that that was likely a manipulation tactic of his, you know, just hiding in plain sight.”

We've all done stupid shit in our 20s. Sadly for him, he can't use that excuse.

I am waiting to see the other dms from the other ladies that will come forward. I'm curious if he's one of these lazy mofos who copies/pastes the same messages.

Every cheating man’s story lol marriage is over poor me just wait

I dunno if man feel neglected why not just say hey hunny I feel neglected 💁seems simple enough

Are mean controlled by sex 24/7?

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Look how quickly ya'll start bashing the side chick. She's working hard for her coins, gotta respect the hustle.

Hate on the actual married man for the affair. He was the one who made vows, not her.

He was the most wrong but it’s not like she didn’t know he was married. That’s BS. She made a bad choice too and has consequences. He’s the one who shouldn’t have stepped out and is more wrong but she chose to be there. Hopefully she learns from this.

Stroh also clarified what she meant when she claimed she was manipulated.

“The most important part that I did definitely gloss over is the fact that I was under the impression that their marriage was over. I believed that they were keeping it quiet to avoid the negative press because, as I had said, I was new to LA, so I just assumed that with celebrities of that caliber, that that’s just how it was,” she said.

“And that’s why I feel exploited, because he knew I believed everything that he said because of my vulnerable position of being new to LA,” she said. “Also, he was DMing me straight from his verified Instagram account. I didn’t have any reason to further question it. But I now realize that that was likely a manipulation tactic of his, you know, just hiding in plain sight.”

We've all done stupid shit in our 20s. Sadly for him, he can't use that excuse.

I am waiting to see the other dms from the other ladies that will come forward. I'm curious if he's one of these lazy mofos who copies/pastes the same messages.

And yea my dad used the same thing when he was chatting up 30 yr olds online. “My wife is so evil but we are in the middle of a divorce blah blah” but he was secretly plotting the divorce for 10 years and hadn’t let either of us know so he could win the money. It’s just an excuse to vent their hatred and hopes to some girl who laps it up and wants to pet their ego. It’s garbage and I imagine that he’s said it to many women. However in reality this is a man who made anyone close to him in his life completely miserable because he was miserable himself. Just don’t believe this crap ever.

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100%

And when emotions and "love" is involved its easy for people to ignore the myriad of red flags and plot holed af story and lean into the fantasy. Because they want to believe that they are special and so desirable that this person will leave their spouse and choose them.

Honestly at this point the whole 'I'm leaving my wife but have to keep it hush hush for the money, kids, media, etc" is so tired and played out. Like build and bring a better lie please. Extra points for creativity.

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So no one’s going to mention the naming of the unborn baby the same as his Instagram fling, and acknowledge how unhinged and creepy this mf is

Like it would be some great honor bestowed upon her for him to name his child with another woman, the same name as her

It’s insulting for both women. Some psychological shit

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So no one’s going to mention the naming of the unborn baby the same as his Instagram fling, and acknowledge how unhinged and creepy this mf is

Like it would be some great honor bestowed upon her for him to name his child with another woman, the same name as her

You said before that dudes like this never get their just desserts. But remember Armie Hammer? Dude was married and cheating on his wife but also out there sexually assaulting with a sprinkle of cannibalism on top.

Now he is selling timeshares in the Cayman Islands. Its not jail time... but pretty close lol.

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Empathy gab.

Pregnancies have emotional impacts on men too but society usually centers all the emotional concern and attention around the woman leaving the men with almost no emotional support on top of the general lack of empathy men suffer from in our society.

Me who are in touch with their emotions basically have to cheat to make it through such periods if they want to be emotionally healthy fathers.

What !! Men have to cheat to be emotional healthy fathers!!!!

Under certain circumstances, yes.

Can’t this just be communicated rather than bypassing communication and go straight to cheating?!

Even if it’s a subtle emotional shift, it should be something you can communicate with the person you chose to be “your one and only”. “I’m feeling left out” “I want some attention” “what about me”…. if bond is empathetic/sympathetic - those needs could be nurtured BEFORE looking around.

Bypassing is cowardly and a cop out. Seriously, why get married if you give up so quickly.

In theory yes, in praxis not so much.

People severly underestimated how oppresed men are by the societal expectations.

Not only are men not given any room to learn to emotionally express themselves from a very young age, but when they do it is rarely, if ever taken seriously unless it benefits women or their needs in some way.

Oooof 😳…. This is what I mean by really getting to know your partner before getting married. Communication needs to be STRONG and deep.

I don’t understand why couples get married for such superficial reasons. For the contract? To say you got married? For the wedding (party)? For the dress?!?? To have babies?!?! To say you got “picked”?!?? To not be alone(you could be/feel alone in a marriage so that won’t save you)?!??

If you don’t have strong and deep bond/ communication with your partner. If there are things left in secret, if there is no trust, if you have subjects left unspoken because it’s forbidden or “you just don’t go there” - you definitely leave opportunities for these things to happen.

I disagree that men cannot reach that depth of communication - because I have experienced it with my partners. But it is something that BOTH have to nurture and open up to.

I refuse to commit to anyone that cannot go there with me.

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A lot of times people don’t speak because it’s be had to say hubbie/ wife I’m no longer attracted to you

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So no one’s going to mention the naming of the unborn baby the same as his Instagram fling, and acknowledge how unhinged and creepy this mf is

Like it would be some great honor bestowed upon her for him to name his child with another woman, the same name as her

It’s insulting for both women. Some psychological shit

That’s my biggest take away from this whole thing and shows what a weirdo he is. Idk what he was thinking

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Probably deep rooted mother issues to demean both the mother n the lover and the child!!!

lol a capricorn exposing themselves on a cheating thread

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World missing Johnny Depp and Amber's celebrity court!

Then there was Will and Jada...

People got used to this entertainment...Kardashians getting older and boreder I guess...

Queen death didnt cut it...🤣🤣🤣because there was no sex involved...

Johnny Depp I think is an abuser of women. Remember people turned a blind eye to Harvey Weinstein and Ron Jeremy for over 20 years.

Will Smith is a closeted gay man.

KK met Pete Davidson. The dick was too good.

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Johnny Depp absolutely is an abuser. Amber is an abuser as well. And in the court of public opinion we'd rather see him act over her so he wins.

*In oprah voice

You get a pirate movie, You get a pirate movie, You get a pirate movie!

Honestly tho the johnny and amber shit is old tired news. I am ready for the Angelina and Brad trial, coming soon to a tv screen near you

Goiter

Oh sorry I meant to post that in word association

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Empathy gab.

Pregnancies have emotional impacts on men too but society usually centers all the emotional concern and attention around the woman leaving the men with almost no emotional support on top of the general lack of empathy men suffer from in our society.

Me who are in touch with their emotions basically have to cheat to make it through such periods if they want to be emotionally healthy fathers.

What !! Men have to cheat to be emotional healthy fathers!!!!

Under certain circumstances, yes.

Can’t this just be communicated rather than bypassing communication and go straight to cheating?!

Even if it’s a subtle emotional shift, it should be something you can communicate with the person you chose to be “your one and only”. “I’m feeling left out” “I want some attention” “what about me”…. if bond is empathetic/sympathetic - those needs could be nurtured BEFORE looking around.

Bypassing is cowardly and a cop out. Seriously, why get married if you give up so quickly.

In theory yes, in praxis not so much.

People severly underestimated how oppresed men are by the societal expectations.

Not only are men not given any room to learn to emotionally express themselves from a very young age, but when they do it is rarely, if ever taken seriously unless it benefits women or their needs in some way.

Oooof 😳…. This is what I mean by really getting to know your partner before getting married. Communication needs to be STRONG and deep.

I don’t understand why couples get married for such superficial reasons. For the contract? To say you got married? For the wedding (party)? For the dress?!?? To have babies?!?! To say you got “picked”?!?? To not be alone(you could be/feel alone in a marriage so that won’t save you)?!??

If you don’t have strong and deep bond/ communication with your partner. If there are things left in secret, if there is no trust, if you have subjects left unspoken because it’s forbidden or “you just don’t go there” - you definitely leave opportunities for these things to happen.

I disagree that men cannot reach that depth of communication - because I have experienced it with my partners. But it is something that BOTH have to nurture and open up to.

I refuse to commit to anyone that cannot go there with me.

I agree that it is possible, but, as you said, it requires both sides to work on it. Most people in our society don't want to do this in general. Including women. And then add to all of this that men are not discouraged to do or want this on a systemic level. They are actively punished for it.

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How are men pusnished for this?

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lol a capricorn exposing themselves on a cheating thread

Gobshite? Lol 😂

Who else posts incessantly about “feminist agendas”, and accuses anyone who doesn’t agree with him as “gaslighting” 💀💀💀

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i posted a pic of my crush who had his facemask on and was really far away playing in a concert with a bunch of people videorecording it and said it was CREEPY that i did that lmao

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Posted by MonaLisa26

World missing Johnny Depp and Amber's celebrity court!

Then there was Will and Jada...

People got used to this entertainment...Kardashians getting older and boreder I guess...

Queen death didnt cut it...🤣🤣🤣because there was no sex involved...

Johnny Depp I think is an abuser of women. Remember people turned a blind eye to Harvey Weinstein and Ron Jeremy for over 20 years.

Will Smith is a closeted gay man.

KK met Pete Davidson. The dick was too good.

Johnny Depp absolutely is an abuser. Amber is an abuser as well. And in the court of public opinion we'd rather see him act over her so he wins.

*In oprah voice

You get a pirate movie, You get a pirate movie, You get a pirate movie!

Honestly tho the johnny and amber shit is old tired news. I am ready for the Angelina and Brad trial, coming soon to a tv screen near you

I wouldn't if Chad Pitt took steriods. I've not heard of him doing any. He looks jacked in fight club and Troy, but not to a ridiculous extreme like Lou Ferrigno or Hulk Hogan.

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Steroids would actually help explain why he went all hulk rage on his wife and kids on their private jet. Better explanation than too much alcohol. His defense should be taking notes.

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World missing Johnny Depp and Amber's celebrity court!

Then there was Will and Jada...

People got used to this entertainment...Kardashians getting older and boreder I guess...

Queen death didnt cut it...🤣🤣🤣because there was no sex involved...

Johnny Depp I think is an abuser of women. Remember people turned a blind eye to Harvey Weinstein and Ron Jeremy for over 20 years.

Will Smith is a closeted gay man.

KK met Pete Davidson. The dick was too good.

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I don't believe Johnny is an abuser. There have never been any signs unless you count Amber's lies. The women who were with him for years would have seen signs if that was the case but they said the opposite.

Ummm did they actually fuck?

I must've missed that. All I saw was there was an online flirtatious dm relationship.

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Empathy gab.

Pregnancies have emotional impacts on men too but society usually centers all the emotional concern and attention around the woman leaving the men with almost no emotional support on top of the general lack of empathy men suffer from in our society.

Me who are in touch with their emotions basically have to cheat to make it through such periods if they want to be emotionally healthy fathers.

What !! Men have to cheat to be emotional healthy fathers!!!!

Under certain circumstances, yes.

Can’t this just be communicated rather than bypassing communication and go straight to cheating?!

Even if it’s a subtle emotional shift, it should be something you can communicate with the person you chose to be “your one and only”. “I’m feeling left out” “I want some attention” “what about me”…. if bond is empathetic/sympathetic - those needs could be nurtured BEFORE looking around.

Bypassing is cowardly and a cop out. Seriously, why get married if you give up so quickly.

In theory yes, in praxis not so much.

People severly underestimated how oppresed men are by the societal expectations.

Not only are men not given any room to learn to emotionally express themselves from a very young age, but when they do it is rarely, if ever taken seriously unless it benefits women or their needs in some way.

Oooof 😳…. This is what I mean by really getting to know your partner before getting married. Communication needs to be STRONG and deep.

I don’t understand why couples get married for such superficial reasons. For the contract? To say you got married? For the wedding (party)? For the dress?!?? To have babies?!?! To say you got “picked”?!?? To not be alone(you could be/feel alone in a marriage so that won’t save you)?!??

If you don’t have strong and deep bond/ communication with your partner. If there are things left in secret, if there is no trust, if you have subjects left unspoken because it’s forbidden or “you just don’t go there” - you definitely leave opportunities for these things to happen.

I disagree that men cannot reach that depth of communication - because I have experienced it with my partners. But it is something that BOTH have to nurture and open up to.

I refuse to commit to anyone that cannot go there with me.

I agree that it is possible, but, as you said, it requires both sides to work on it. Most people in our society don't want to do this in general. Including women. And then add to all of this that men are not discouraged to do or want this on a systemic level. They are actively punished for it.

How are men pusnished for this?

In pretty much every way possible. One of the most stricking examples that will forever will remain in my memory was that of a chancellor candidate who openly cried on stage after a speech of his wife. The whole nation tore into him for that.

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I think this is the reason I don’t want to be in a relationship. I don’t think there’s a man strong enough to do the right thing and not give a fuck about the nation tearing up on him. And the only saving grace is that I do have family couples who have represented that possibility. Men who have never cheated and still look at their wives with love. But then again we don’t know behind the scenes truly.