@Sag898
8 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius
WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE
No, I’m with you.
I loved my first date with my Aqua.
He took me to an arboretum in the evening. The sun was setting. We climbed a lookout tower overlooking the city. There was a wedding party off in the distance and music was playing. He brought me peanutbutter m&ms.
When he took me back him he walked me to my door and we sat on my porch until 2am because he didn’t want to leave.
That was the first and last romantic date 🤣 the things men do to get in your pants 😒
Whatever! That is the cutest thing I ever heard lol I'm jealous. Shit maybe I need an aqua haha
People just wanna “f***”
People just wanna “f***”
I don't even think it's that. I don't think some people have any idea how to actual be intimate.
They want a relationship cause it looks good but has zero substance.
Which I mean is fine but that's too boring for me sorry.
You guys are so lucky!! Ugh :/
I guess I gotta keep waiting it out
the world we're living in discourages free-range, unmonetized outdoors activities .
More and more our life is limited to moving from home to office, to coffe place, driving through walled commuting motorway.
Our freedom has disappeared but we are glued to our screens and we've not seen it happen.
Please don’t feed them bread. It creates gases that can make their stomach explode. I’d go with seeds
that must explain all the exploding ducks at the park
Speak for yourselves.
I am shy but i pluck up the courage the old fashioned way and ask her out... I prefer to just talk and get to know her over anything else.
True Cancerian.
I like.
You guys are so lucky!! Ugh :/
I guess I gotta keep waiting it out
Why won't you give ideas yourself? Men can't read your mind.
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Trying read all my post. The answer is in there.
***reading
Aqua and I went off roading. I had so much fun, probably one of my favorite days. The next date was just sitting at his house from 7-2pm spending the day drinking and talking. Eventually it morphed to drinking and practicing MMA moves... a great excuse to rub all over one another and get some sexual frustration out.
I don’t really care for dinner and movie type of thing. It’s all guys ever did with me when I was younger. I want someone to challenge and stimulate me. Think outside of the box.
Exactly
On our first date, my boyfriend and I took my dog to this riparian reserve in town and walked and talked for 4 hours.
Well technically the first thing we did together was eat lunch downstairs at work, but yeah.
See, I find this romantic and sweet. It seems everyone who had the original date ended up together as well haha
You guys are so lucky!! Ugh :/
I guess I gotta keep waiting it out
Why won't you give ideas yourself? Men can't read your mind.
Trying read all my post. The answer is in there.
Lol is this the Aries? They gotta be in charge 😉
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I really like him! I'm scared though lol
Why are people so lame about dates?? In the past while the only date ideas I've ever heard are the following 3: Dinner, drinking, coffee. Seriously??
My ideal date has always been to walk around a pound feed some ducks and have a nice get to know you chat. You know like in the light of DAY without any substance?? Is that really so much to ask?? Am an idiot or something?? Cause people act like it if I suggest anything.
Or a museum, maybe a cool light show, a hike? I mean god forbid people actually go outside anymore!!
Ok end rant lol.
I am with you. I love just to go out and hang out together. Go for walks and see things.
Coffee dates are easy to leave if you suddenly decide you hate the guy
Imagine being stuck up a fuckin mountain with somebody you wanna push over the edge. Nooooppee
Lol. I am not going with you to any mountain 😂
Why are people so lame about dates?? In the past while the only date ideas I've ever heard are the following 3: Dinner, drinking, coffee. Seriously??
My ideal date has always been to walk around a pound feed some ducks and have a nice get to know you chat. You know like in the light of DAY without any substance?? Is that really so much to ask?? Am an idiot or something?? Cause people act like it if I suggest anything.
Or a museum, maybe a cool light show, a hike? I mean god forbid people actually go outside anymore!!
Ok end rant lol.
Obviously we don't have an "dancers" in the forum. Last date I "officially had" he picked me up at home, we went to have dinner, and then went to a C&W club (Friday night); he patrons Saturday nights at a "different" C&W club where I met him. Went home around 1:30 am, kissed him good-bye, showed him the door where he asked, "What are you doing?" "Uh, I am showing you to the door, good night, text me that you arrive home okay" He did. End of story.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He (Aries) was the one I found out he slept with my gf as afterwards I saw him at the Saturday club in one corner while she was with our "clan" just standing there and they didn't dance all night. My 6th sense was spot on. I don't TAKE sloppy seconds; I GIVE sloppy seconds.
PPS: Outdoor stuff (hikes, etc) can be done after we get to know what our diet, life style , eating, etc., is. For me, I guess it's a Piscean thang, but I would LOVE to go to the beach, go tubing/river, etc. Fredericksburg is a nice city to visit, too.
Coffee dates are easy to leave if you suddenly decide you hate the guy
Imagine being stuck up a fuckin mountain with somebody you wanna push over the edge. Nooooppee
Lol. I am not going with you to any mountain 😂
It's fine I'll just take you for coffee. Coffee never killed anyone. 🤔
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Keep it safe 😜
Why are people so lame about dates?? In the past while the only date ideas I've ever heard are the following 3: Dinner, drinking, coffee. Seriously??
My ideal date has always been to walk around a pound feed some ducks and have a nice get to know you chat. You know like in the light of DAY without any substance?? Is that really so much to ask?? Am an idiot or something?? Cause people act like it if I suggest anything.
Or a museum, maybe a cool light show, a hike? I mean god forbid people actually go outside anymore!!
Ok end rant lol.
I am with you. I love just to go out and hang out together. Go for walks and see things.
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I wanna go on a date with you too pisces 😄
You guys are so lucky!! Ugh :/
I guess I gotta keep waiting it out
Why won't you give ideas yourself? Men can't read your mind.
Trying read all my post. The answer is in there.
Lol is this the Aries? They gotta be in charge 😉
I really like him! I'm scared though lol
Why are you scared?
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I don't want to mess it up :/
Why are people so lame about dates?? In the past while the only date ideas I've ever heard are the following 3: Dinner, drinking, coffee. Seriously??
My ideal date has always been to walk around a pound feed some ducks and have a nice get to know you chat. You know like in the light of DAY without any substance?? Is that really so much to ask?? Am an idiot or something?? Cause people act like it if I suggest anything.
Or a museum, maybe a cool light show, a hike? I mean god forbid people actually go outside anymore!!
Ok end rant lol.
Obviously we don't have an "dancers" in the forum. Last date I "officially had" he picked me up at home, we went to have dinner, and then went to a C&W club (Friday night); he patrons Saturday nights at a "different" C&W club where I met him. Went home around 1:30 am, kissed him good-bye, showed him the door where he asked, "What are you doing?" "Uh, I am showing you to the door, good night, text me that you arrive home okay" He did. End of story.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He (Aries) was the one I found out he slept with my gf as afterwards I saw him at the Saturday club in one corner while she was with our "clan" just standing there and they didn't dance all night. My 6th sense was spot on. I don't TAKE sloppy seconds; I GIVE sloppy seconds.
PPS: Outdoor stuff (hikes, etc) can be done after we get to know what our diet, life style , eating, etc., is. For me, I guess it's a Piscean thang, but I would LOVE to go to the beach, go tubing/river, etc. Fredericksburg is a nice city to visit, too.
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I'm a bit shy for dancing! haha
You guys are so lucky!! Ugh :/
I guess I gotta keep waiting it out
Why won't you give ideas yourself? Men can't read your mind.
Trying read all my post. The answer is in there.
Lol is this the Aries? They gotta be in charge 😉
I really like him! I'm scared though lol
Why are you scared?
I don't want to mess it up :/
Well if it’s right, you won’t be able to. Just have fun with him & let him lead a little. See where it goes.
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I can be a pretty good follower lol at times
Why are people so lame about dates?? In the past while the only date ideas I've ever heard are the following 3: Dinner, drinking, coffee. Seriously??
My ideal date has always been to walk around a pound feed some ducks and have a nice get to know you chat. You know like in the light of DAY without any substance?? Is that really so much to ask?? Am an idiot or something?? Cause people act like it if I suggest anything.
Or a museum, maybe a cool light show, a hike? I mean god forbid people actually go outside anymore!!
Ok end rant lol.
Obviously we don't have an "dancers" in the forum. Last date I "officially had" he picked me up at home, we went to have dinner, and then went to a C&W club (Friday night); he patrons Saturday nights at a "different" C&W club where I met him. Went home around 1:30 am, kissed him good-bye, showed him the door where he asked, "What are you doing?" "Uh, I am showing you to the door, good night, text me that you arrive home okay" He did. End of story.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He (Aries) was the one I found out he slept with my gf as afterwards I saw him at the Saturday club in one corner while she was with our "clan" just standing there and they didn't dance all night. My 6th sense was spot on. I don't TAKE sloppy seconds; I GIVE sloppy seconds.
PPS: Outdoor stuff (hikes, etc) can be done after we get to know what our diet, life style , eating, etc., is. For me, I guess it's a Piscean thang, but I would LOVE to go to the beach, go tubing/river, etc. Fredericksburg is a nice city to visit, too.
I'm a bit shy for dancing! haha
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I knew it! 😉
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Nah first date has to involve dinner for me. That’s intimate as well.
I agree. When a guy asks "you want to get coffee" I just shut down and ignore him. It's like how cheap are you if you just want to take me to coffee. How many other girls have you taken to the same coffee shop? Or is that your safe place where you know your wife or girlfriend wont see you?
I literally laughed out loud. TESTIFY!
Someone should invent an app, where you just check a box saying that you're in relationship with someone and don't actually have to meet them ever.
Preferably someone living out of state or country so they can't bother your little comfort
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Why are people so lame about dates?? In the past while the only date ideas I've ever heard are the following 3: Dinner, drinking, coffee. Seriously??
My ideal date has always been to walk around a pound feed some ducks and have a nice get to know you chat. You know like in the light of DAY without any substance?? Is that really so much to ask?? Am an idiot or something?? Cause people act like it if I suggest anything.
Or a museum, maybe a cool light show, a hike? I mean god forbid people actually go outside anymore!!
Ok end rant lol.