You Make my Skin Crawl

Does anyone else ever get that creepy skin crawly feeling when someone they're dating touches them?
I always get it as a sure fire sign ...it's almost over.
Every time I got this feeling, I started detaching and the relationship disintegrated.

Has anyone else experienced that? I'm curious...

It's usually the result of a grave disappointment.

Posted by anonymousheart
Does anyone else ever get that creepy skin crawly feeling when someone they're dating touches them?
I always get it as a sure fire sign ...it's almost over.
Every time I got this feeling, I started detaching and the relationship disintegrated.

Has anyone else experienced that? I'm curious...

It's usually the result of a grave disappointment.

I don't.
But the indication that its almost over is that same feeling I would get when I knew I would have to euthanize my pet.
Big knot in the stomach and a sad feeling.

Well. It's not a sad feeling. Just more...grossed out.

GC I get that from 'energy' online sometimes too.

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Posted by anonymousheart
Well. It's not a sad feeling. Just more...grossed out.

GC I get that from 'energy' online sometimes too.

lmao yes, how dare he like their pics and comment on their posts feeling 😛

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She is probably talking about me. Oh well 😄

Posted by soultalk

Posted by anonymousheart
Well. It's not a sad feeling. Just more...grossed out.

GC I get that from 'energy' online sometimes too.

lmao yes, how dare he like their pics and comment on their posts feeling 😛

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It's time for you to move on. Cause I have. 🙂

And yea, I don't like Children of the Damnatas lame ass boring Virgo energy. I feel for her mom. Truly. Leos and Virgos are an awful combo

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Posted by anonymousheart
Does anyone else ever get that creepy skin crawly feeling when someone they're dating touches them?

No. Only instances where I've been put off by touch is if the other party had clammy skin/smelled funky, or when someone I disliked was sweating me to no avail. LOL

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LOL Totally understandable.

Posted by anonymousheart
Does anyone else ever get that creepy skin crawly feeling when someone they're dating touches them?
I always get it as a sure fire sign ...it's almost over.
Every time I got this feeling, I started detaching and the relationship disintegrated.

Has anyone else experienced that? I'm curious...

It's usually the result of a grave disappointment.

I was going to say no, but I have.

And like you-- when it's almost over.

Grave disappointment probably *is* the cause-- but I wonder why that causes repulsion?

She let it go..she blocked me.

Butt hurt over me saying the truth. It's funny.

And I love Leos 😄

I blocked her many moons ago but she needs attention by sniffing on all my posts.!

MONTGOMERY:
The repulsion is just being let down by someone who you wouldn't think would do that.
Then my view shifts. I see only flaws. And my skin crawls. Until I crawl away...

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by anonymousheart
Does anyone else ever get that creepy skin crawly feeling when someone they're dating touches them?
I always get it as a sure fire sign ...it's almost over.
Every time I got this feeling, I started detaching and the relationship disintegrated.

Has anyone else experienced that? I'm curious...

It's usually the result of a grave disappointment.

I was going to say no, but I have.

And like you-- when it's almost over.

Grave disappointment probably *is* the cause-- but I wonder why that causes repulsion?

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I've been there. It's how I knew my marriage wasn't salvageable. I think the feelings of repulsion may signify karmic elements in a relationship. You've basically learned/taught each other what was necessary, now it's time to move on.

I know it the instant I'm introduced. No wasted time.

You're feeling like that about your bf?

Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
You're feeling like that about your bf?

I.JUST.CANT.STOP.LAUGHING

"I felt this for only one person and it was my ex hubby. That was a terrible feeling! It really came to that point I can't stand him touching me. I felt chills run through my spine and like all of my bones turn to ice and it's going to shatter."

INTENSE! Yea, it's definitely an awful feeling.


And yea, I'm starting to feel that way. Actually wanna shake it. I hate that feeling. It's usually when they are friendzoned. I enjoy the company. Can pop kiss, but not really kiss or I get grossed out. Definitely no sex...get super grossed out.

He really messed up on Valentine's Day. I think he broke something that can't be fixed.

Posted by anonymousheart
"I felt this for only one person and it was my ex hubby. That was a terrible feeling! It really came to that point I can't stand him touching me. I felt chills run through my spine and like all of my bones turn to ice and it's going to shatter."

INTENSE! Yea, it's definitely an awful feeling.


And yea, I'm starting to feel that way. Actually wanna shake it. I hate that feeling. It's usually when they are friendzoned. I enjoy the company. Can pop kiss, but not really kiss or I get grossed out. Definitely no sex...get super grossed out.

He really messed up on Valentine's Day. I think he broke something that can't be fixed.

You should be wild with passion and lust for your partner like you just can't wait to go home and be in their arms and they just drive you insane!!!!! 😈 you just want to rip your clothes off or you just want to lay down in their arms and light candles and listen to music after a long day.

But if your BF just pushes and pushes and pushes and pushes and they treat you bad over and over, you just reach a point of no return where they make you physically ill 😢, like you want to vomit at the mere thought of them. Capricorns are long suffering, we will put up with so much garbage, too much garbage but what you described spells the end.

Being in love with a wonderful guy is the BEST thing in the world though.

Posted by anonymousheart
"I felt this for only one person and it was my ex hubby. That was a terrible feeling! It really came to that point I can't stand him touching me. I felt chills run through my spine and like all of my bones turn to ice and it's going to shatter."

INTENSE! Yea, it's definitely an awful feeling.


And yea, I'm starting to feel that way. Actually wanna shake it. I hate that feeling. It's usually when they are friendzoned. I enjoy the company. Can pop kiss, but not really kiss or I get grossed out. Definitely no sex...get super grossed out.

He really messed up on Valentine's Day. I think he broke something that can't be fixed.

Wow, ok then you need to get away because it sounds like you've been disappointed with this guy from the beginning. Doubt he's going to act exactly the way you want him to.

And yes, I felt like this about my ex hub too - but that was over yeaarrrrs of disappointment and letdowns. He just grossed me out too - sex was a chore.

It's sad when you are sooo in love with someone and they just stab the knife harder and harder and they KILL IT!! There is a thin line between love and hate. smh

I would never be with a guy who had wet clammy hands??_.ppl like that make me sick, if they can't cling to a side of a cliff they sure not gonna be able to hang on to me..

I've been with guys and they do that touching thing running their fingers all over you and it feels like bugs are crawling over my skin and I start scratching myself like crazy because I have this big fear of bed bugs??_.

anyways I was with this guy who kept doing it and I made a big show of pulling away when he would do it and I started to get claustrophobic and itchy which just resulted in my exploding and telling him to fuck off.

why can't people just have warm hands and hold your shoulder to keep it warm when its cold? or give u a rub here and there—_??_whats with the fucking spider hands??

Posted by anonymousheart
I blocked her many moons ago but she needs attention by sniffing on all my posts.!

MONTGOMERY:
The repulsion is just being let down by someone who you wouldn't think would do that.
Then my view shifts. I see only flaws. And my skin crawls. Until I crawl away...

Ehh-- I knew very well they were capable of doing that.

I just didn't think they would do that to ME. :/

Leo/Pisces 😛

Ha!

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I would never be with a guy who had wet clammy hands??_.ppl like that make me sick, if they can't cling to a side of a cliff they sure not gonna be able to hang on to me..

I've been with guys and they do that touching thing running their fingers all over you and it feels like bugs are crawling over my skin and I start scratching myself like crazy because I have this big fear of bed bugs??_.

anyways I was with this guy who kept doing it and I made a big show of pulling away when he would do it and I started to get claustrophobic and itchy which just resulted in my exploding and telling him to fuck off.

why can't people just have warm hands and hold your shoulder to keep it warm when its cold? or give u a rub here and there—_??_whats with the fucking spider hands??

LMAO. I can't stand the tongue in ear thing, it feels like a garden slug inside the ear. Gross. How is that even supposed to be a turn-on? All I can think of is the deaf feeling in my ear, the wetness...it's enough to make me want to decapitate somebody. Some things just aren't for everybody.

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Posted by Montgomery
Grave disappointment probably *is* the cause-- but I wonder why that causes repulsion?

I've been there. It's how I knew my marriage wasn't salvageable. I think the feelings of repulsion may signify karmic elements in a relationship. You've basically learned/taught each other what was necessary, now it's time to move on.

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Hmm

I like this karmic angle.
Everything has a purpose. 🙂

Hate to think that any of that time was just wasted.



Now I have 'to everything turn, turn, turn...' stuck in my head. 😐

Players only love you when they're playin...



There, that one's better.

Posted by anonymousheart
Players only love you when they're playin...



There, that one's better.

Infinitely. 🙂

Okay, the skin crawling has gotten better.
I actually communicated how I was feeling, and was hurt.
A few surprising tears were shed (I had perhaps hidden this from myself)?
Then we were able to move forward some.

Who knows what's next!