Ask a Taurus Moon... (Page 3)

Posted by amber4567548
Why are taurus moon so hard to get to know, and why wont they let people in? It seems like they/re so guarded until they trust you and when they do its for life. I told a taurus moon I had feelings for him, I am a taurus and he said he wasn't mentally there to be in a relationship right now but does it take time to talk about your feelings?

I have to be 110% sure of the person in order to trust. I also have a Scorpio sun, so it doesn't help.

Stability is key for all my relationships so if I don't feel there is stability I will always have one foot in and one foot out. That's what I've learned in my experience.

My feelings don't take time. Usually in the past I know right away if I like the person or if any relationship will go further - friendship or romantic. What I have learned, however, is that I should take things slowly. Even though I may feel something there, it may take me a while to figure out if this will be a worthwhile relationship or not- THAT Takes time.

If he says he's not mentally there believe him. Once is Taurus moons make up our mind, we are stuck in our ways

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by amber4567548
Why are taurus moon so hard to get to know, and why wont they let people in? It seems like they/re so guarded until they trust you and when they do its for life. I told a taurus moon I had feelings for him, I am a taurus and he said he wasn't mentally there to be in a relationship right now but does it take time to talk about your feelings?

I totally feel you I hate Taurus moon limbo

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The thing is I know I am difficult lol. Just know that we see your effort and if anything we really admire and appreciate it. Be consistent and patient

Posted by amber4567548
Why are taurus moon so hard to get to know, and why wont they let people in? It seems like they/re so guarded until they trust you and when they do its for life. I told a taurus moon I had feelings for him, I am a taurus and he said he wasn't mentally there to be in a relationship right now but does it take time to talk about your feelings?

Ah... it's just the way we operate. Once we trust you, it isn't for life, not even in the slightest. You can do something to destroy that. Also, we may trust you with some information, but not all. We keep our secrets.

Yes, it does take time to talk about our feelings. For me, even though I feel something, it takes ages for me to admit it to myself, yet alone to another person. Others will say, "oh boy, you really like/love this person." I ask why then deny it, because I truly still on the fence. I still need time to observe and see where things are and if they will truly work in different scenarios.

I guess for us, once we decide it will work and you're the one... we will work forever and give ourselves to make it work (that part could be my pisces talking).



If ol' boy says he isn't ready for a relationship, take that to heart. If you two stick together when he is ready...he may or may not consider you for that role. It is no way guaranteed.

Welp... you're a Taurus...so you should get it. 🙂

Good luck. I'm seeing a Taurus guy and yeah... I'm smitten. Even though I'm hella guarded about telling him how I truly feel about him. He reveals more about that than I do, and that's saying something because he hardly does. lol

Posted by amber4567548
Why are taurus moon so hard to get to know, and why wont they let people in? It seems like they/re so guarded until they trust you and when they do its for life. I told a taurus moon I had feelings for him, I am a taurus and he said he wasn't mentally there to be in a relationship right now but does it take time to talk about your feelings?

Taurus moon here ??

I was in this situation last year.

The guy I was seeing (Scorpio moon) told me he was "falling" in love with me. It hadn't even been 2mths ? So it was a bit fast for me.

I told him that "I'm not far behind" and I did have feelings for him, just asked for a little time for me to catch up. Also made sure I told him "You've got me, I'm not going anywhere"

I don't like to be rushed when it comes to matters of the heart, I need to feel 100% emotionally secure before I feel comfortable enough to be that vulnerable. I'm not the kind of person that will say it back unless that's exactly how I feel.

That would be lying and it wouldn't be fair to the other person.

Needless to say he couldn't/wouldn't be patient and started playing silly games. So I was gone!

So to answer your question, Yes, it does take time to talk about feelings.

I became fbws with the guy next door lol. He's a Leo Sun & Venus and Moon in Taurus. I'm a Scorpio sun /Libra moon with a Virgo Venus... I've never had an fwb before lol. So I'm wondering like would he catch feelings after awhile or would he be the type to be able to keep it that way?

Posted by Cg2016
I became fbws with the guy next door lol. He's a Leo Sun & Venus and Moon in Taurus. I'm a Scorpio sun /Libra moon with a Virgo Venus... I've never had an fwb before lol. So I'm wondering like would he catch feelings after awhile or would he be the type to be able to keep it that way?

I don't know much about Leo sun's (besides they are proud and attract a lot of attention).

But, since you are here on the bull moon section, I'm going to assume you're asking about this placement.

I would say ...don't count on it. You have been put in a compartment. Think a place for everything and everything in its place.

You are sex, and availability. Perhaps you can develop into someone that he can talk to and have fun with now and again, but I don't see that going further. I could be wrong, but I won't count on that at all.

Now... from what I see, and getting a vibe from is that you are trying to play a game. You obviously like him... not only do you know his sun sign, you know his venus and moon. So, you found out his birthday/city of birth and looked up his chart.

You agreed to fwb, but you obviously want more because you are wondering if you sleep with him long enough will he develop the feels.

Word of advise... don't go there. Taurus (in any placement) don't play games. We will throw up deuces and bounce and act like you don't exist.

You both agreed to frivolous sex... you are now breaking that contract, but trying to set yourself as more. No...just no.

Hello 🙂

What do you think two Taurus moons would be like together, romantically?

Posted by MyStarsShine
Hello 🙂

What do you think two Taurus moons would be like together, romantically?

A couple of cuddle monsters, really.

Top quality food in the home, both may be good cooks or at the very least know where to find the best ingredients.

Music lovers and they both may find it refreshing to not be pigeon-held into the "emotional pillar" in a relationship automatically.

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Posted by Cg2016
I became fbws with the guy next door lol. He's a Leo Sun & Venus and Moon in Taurus. I'm a Scorpio sun /Libra moon with a Virgo Venus... I've never had an fwb before lol. So I'm wondering like would he catch feelings after awhile or would he be the type to be able to keep it that way?

I don't know much about Leo sun's (besides they are proud and attract a lot of attention).

But, since you are here on the bull moon section, I'm going to assume you're asking about this placement.

I would say ...don't count on it. You have been put in a compartment. Think a place for everything and everything in its place.

You are sex, and availability. Perhaps you can develop into someone that he can talk to and have fun with now and again, but I don't see that going further. I could be wrong, but I won't count on that at all.

Now... from what I see, and getting a vibe from is that you are trying to play a game. You obviously like him... not only do you know his sun sign, you know his venus and moon. So, you found out his birthday/city of birth and looked up his chart.

You agreed to fwb, but you obviously want more because you are wondering if you sleep with him long enough will he develop the feels.

Word of advise... don't go there. Taurus (in any placement) don't play games. We will throw up deuces and bounce and act like you don't exist.

You both agreed to frivolous sex... you are now breaking that contract, but trying to set yourself as more. No...just no.

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I just seen this. Totally forgot I asked lmao. But yeah I was looking at him from a while, but never had the courage to talk to him. My bff forced it. So yeah I thought he was cute so before all this I looked him up (girl stalker shit lmao). But then when we did finally meet and talk we both kinda got out if something, his more serious than mine, so I didn't mind trying the fwb shit. First time doing this. So I was just curious. We haven't spoken like recently, so I'm just letting it be. I suppose I was just curious and hell like I said this is my first time doing some shit like this so I'm trying to act right lmao. My best course is direction would be out of sight, out of mind, I decided.

Posted by Cg2016

Posted by tbird

Posted by Cg2016
I became fbws with the guy next door lol. He's a Leo Sun & Venus and Moon in Taurus. I'm a Scorpio sun /Libra moon with a Virgo Venus... I've never had an fwb before lol. So I'm wondering like would he catch feelings after awhile or would he be the type to be able to keep it that way?

I don't know much about Leo sun's (besides they are proud and attract a lot of attention).

But, since you are here on the bull moon section, I'm going to assume you're asking about this placement.

I would say ...don't count on it. You have been put in a compartment. Think a place for everything and everything in its place.

You are sex, and availability. Perhaps you can develop into someone that he can talk to and have fun with now and again, but I don't see that going further. I could be wrong, but I won't count on that at all.

Now... from what I see, and getting a vibe from is that you are trying to play a game. You obviously like him... not only do you know his sun sign, you know his venus and moon. So, you found out his birthday/city of birth and looked up his chart.

You agreed to fwb, but you obviously want more because you are wondering if you sleep with him long enough will he develop the feels.

Word of advise... don't go there. Taurus (in any placement) don't play games. We will throw up deuces and bounce and act like you don't exist.

You both agreed to frivolous sex... you are now breaking that contract, but trying to set yourself as more. No...just no.

I just seen this. Totally forgot I asked lmao. But yeah I was looking at him from a while, but never had the courage to talk to him. My bff forced it. So yeah I thought he was cute so before all this I looked him up (girl stalker shit lmao). But then when we did finally meet and talk we both kinda got out if something, his more serious than mine, so I didn't mind trying the fwb shit. First time doing this. So I was just curious. We haven't spoken like recently, so I'm just letting it be. I suppose I was just curious and hell like I said this is my first time doing some shit like this so I'm trying to act right lmao. My best course is direction would be out of sight, out of mind, I decided.

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To add, I made a separate topic about it, but I explained in the topic that we did the do in nyd and like he finished pretty quickly. Then when I hit him up about round two and he told me that he had a swollen wisdom tooth and had to get it pulled. So I gave him space or whatever but I did check in on him to see how he was doing. Although very friendly and appreciative, in his responses, the conversation was very short, like he'd give a full response then I'll respond and then he won't text back lol. So I just let it be. This is my first fwb so I'm not trying to take anything personal and I'm not going to chase either. I may think too much for this kind of thing lol. I'm not attached, I was just attracted and curious. My friend told me that he may be embarrassed that he finished quickly though, but idk how true that is. I didn't make him feel bad for it or anything. I've decided to leave it alone though.