Posted by Ryoko
Yeah, is the coldness and the pushing away a test to see of we'll try harder or pursue?
Posted by PrincessLouise
Maybe it's not coldness but a deeper kind of warmth. But I understand where you are coming from.
Posted by aNEWday
Cold af
I just basically gave up on a cap moon female friend (I'm Taurus moon)
I don't know if her coldness toward me was as a punishment or if she expected me to be nicer
Welp, I had enough of that winter and said goodbye with no actual words. I Feel like I'm nice and people think they can go far with that. Well these day my patience is at a low
Also work with a gem, cap moon. Can you imagine? Its not pretty or easy to be around
Posted by sagiluv
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.
Posted by PrincessLouisePosted by saweetz1988Your concerns are real and wise. It's just balance etc.Posted by PrincessLouise
Maybe it's not coldness but a deeper kind of warmth. But I understand where you are coming from.
You are spot on..'I know he thinks of things long term and wanting to work hard for a good life for his kid. I know him. Always wanting and needing to work all the time.. Full time finance job isn't enough, plus singing weekend, plus wanting other stuff on the spare time.. I mean surely, where's the time to watch the baby grow up? I know him, and I have always admired his determination in wanting the best.. look I'm proud of him with what he has achieved but there are times when I need him and the baby will need him.. but where does he prioritise that need?? second? we r not together by the way but we are working hard to be good coparenting and not having time for your kid is a big no no for me... I have emailed him and explained my needs etc.. so now he's he a cave mode refusing to communicate all together..! Frustrating lol... you are right I may not think of things as long term as he is but I focus on the now!! and my now is to sacrifice my needs and my wants for my kid.. I hope he sees it the same some day but I don't know to be honest 😢
I haven't been married myself etc. So I don't know how you really in real terms accomplish it. But I can understand how you would be frustrated and be feeling isolated.click to expand
Posted by sagiluvPosted by saweetz1988The solution is. If he's not giving you what you need as a woman that you must leave him, let him go....,Posted by sagiluv
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.
Trust me I know all that. I have offered more than those over the last 2 years when I don't receive much back... I have always been there for him, care for, patience , accept all his mistakes , and I can read him... There when he's feeling depeessed(so often) it gets overwhelming but I'm still there for him no matter what.. But when I express my need and ask for a favour which is not much, he turns away from it like it doesn't matter to him!. He might have a harder time expressing his emotion and care that he cares but can't help.. but his communication can be better at times like this... I'm angry and mad... and it seems I have to be the one who say sorry and make up again? That's just unfair.. but I don't see him changing for me n the baby either.. so what is the solution lol..?
If he truly loves you, he will come back and try to work things out & give you what you need.
Otherwise your better off alone than letting him make you miserable each time he acts this way...click to expand
Posted by Rudoga
Still waters run deep. They could use a hug to be honest. If they weren't cold, they'd be extremly emo, and they don't want you to see that. No wonder they get along best with Pisces moons.
Posted by saweetz1988If I love someone, I always consider their needs. (I think I do anyway).
How can you folks be so cold sometimes. I don't know which to blame, his sag sun or his cap moon.. why does it seems like you always so busy doing your own thing and often forget others needs ?? I'm so worried my Bub has a cap moon father.. I mean you folks always so busy doing your own things to achieve certain status and all n always putting your own needs first before others n maybe your child's? I'm just venting here maybe not all cap moon r the same.. but I'm not seeing much hope.. 😢
Posted by saweetz1988If I love someone, I always consider their needs. (I think I do anyway).
How can you folks be so cold sometimes. I don't know which to blame, his sag sun or his cap moon.. why does it seems like you always so busy doing your own thing and often forget others needs ?? I'm so worried my Bub has a cap moon father.. I mean you folks always so busy doing your own things to achieve certain status and all n always putting your own needs first before others n maybe your child's? I'm just venting here maybe not all cap moon r the same.. but I'm not seeing much hope.. 😢
Posted by RyokoNo, we're just hard-shelled people. It's not a test, it's just who we are.
Yeah, is the coldness and the pushing away a test to see of we'll try harder or pursue?
Posted by RyokoNo, we're just hard-shelled people. It's not a test, it's just who we are.
Yeah, is the coldness and the pushing away a test to see of we'll try harder or pursue?
Posted by sagiluvI agree.
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.
Posted by sagiluvI agree.
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.
Posted by saweetz1988Have you had the baby yet?Posted by PrincessLouise
Maybe it's not coldness but a deeper kind of warmth. But I understand where you are coming from.
You are spot on..'I know he thinks of things long term and wanting to work hard for a good life for his kid. I know him. Always wanting and needing to work all the time.. Full time finance job isn't enough, plus singing weekend, plus wanting other stuff on the spare time.. I mean surely, where's the time to watch the baby grow up? I know him, and I have always admired his determination in wanting the best.. look I'm proud of him with what he has achieved but there are times when I need him and the baby will need him.. but where does he prioritise that need?? second? we r not together by the way but we are working hard to be good coparenting and not having time for your kid is a big no no for me... I have emailed him and explained my needs etc.. so now he's he a cave mode refusing to communicate all together..! Frustrating lol... you are right I may not think of things as long term as he is but I focus on the now!! and my now is to sacrifice my needs and my wants for my kid.. I hope he sees it the same some day but I don't know to be honest 😢click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988I don't mean this rudely, but you're not together. What is it you need from him?Posted by aNEWday
Cold af
I just basically gave up on a cap moon female friend (I'm Taurus moon)
I don't know if her coldness toward me was as a punishment or if she expected me to be nicer
Welp, I had enough of that winter and said goodbye with no actual words. I Feel like I'm nice and people think they can go far with that. Well these day my patience is at a low
Also work with a gem, cap moon. Can you imagine? Its not pretty or easy to be around
I feel you. Thank goodness to my Aqua moon .. I get him and can be detached with feelings too but come on! Sometimes certain needs need to be met and felt cared for ! In person I get him..'in distance it's like, well I'm sorry you need me but I'm too busy creating a life a baby deserves so it doesn't matter what is happening right now...it makes me feel uncare for and makes me feel like he doesn't care or love his kid which I'm sure isn't true.. Just his action speaks otherwiseclick to expand
Posted by sagiluvaww... some Cancer Moons are like that too...
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.
Posted by saweetz1988WTF? Where is this coming from? How many cap moons do you actually know to make such a statement?Posted by Rudoga
Still waters run deep. They could use a hug to be honest. If they weren't cold, they'd be extremly emo, and they don't want you to see that. No wonder they get along best with Pisces moons.
Pisces moon? true.. u mean Emo as in emotional? yeah I kind of feel sorry for them in a way.. A lot get into drugs and subssnces to numb their feelings and their pain n very prone to depression. Just sadclick to expand
Posted by saweetz1988WTF? Where is this coming from? How many cap moons do you actually know to make such a statement?Posted by Rudoga
Still waters run deep. They could use a hug to be honest. If they weren't cold, they'd be extremly emo, and they don't want you to see that. No wonder they get along best with Pisces moons.
Pisces moon? true.. u mean Emo as in emotional? yeah I kind of feel sorry for them in a way.. A lot get into drugs and subssnces to numb their feelings and their pain n very prone to depression. Just sadclick to expand
Posted by sagiluvI am a cap moon and I agree with what you said.Posted by truecapAre you cap moon ? Or do you know a cap moon. Please share feedback in regards to what you notice about them pleasePosted by sagiluvI agree.
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.click to expand
Posted by sagiluvI am a cap moon and I agree with what you said.Posted by truecapAre you cap moon ? Or do you know a cap moon. Please share feedback in regards to what you notice about them pleasePosted by sagiluvI agree.
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.click to expand
Posted by sagiluvYes... 🙂 Strong people. Both men and womenPosted by FragranceDeep down they need a lot of love and understanding. They are gentle. They need a logo that saysPosted by sagiluvaww... some Cancer Moons are like that too...
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.
"Handle with care" ❤click to expand
Posted by sagiluvI will give them all my love and care... < 3Posted by FragranceDeep down they need a lot of love and understanding. They are gentle. They need a logo that saysPosted by sagiluvaww... some Cancer Moons are like that too...
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.
"Handle with care" ❤click to expand
Posted by sagiluvPosted by Fragrance3 guys, 1 girlPosted by sagiluvI will give them all my love and care...Posted by FragranceDeep down they need a lot of love and understanding. They are gentle. They need a logo that saysPosted by sagiluvaww... some Cancer Moons are like that too...
I'm seeing a cap moon, he's quiet and reserved when he has personal issues. He's focused on succeeding in life with his career which is a turn on to me as a hardworking sun sag. He's pretty calm and quiet when he's not doing well, but he's always polite to me. Always respectful. If he's having a bad day he will stay away instead of letting me see those true colors. He just needs to hear that everything is going to be okay, that you accept him as he is, that you are there for him no matter what happens. They need to feel loved and supported at all times. On a good day, they will love you so immensely because you were there during those rough times. They want to be reassured that you care. They won't express much until you begin to express to them your feelings. Patience, acceptance, space, time, support & love is highly needed for a cap moon.
"Handle with care" ❤
It's a must!! Do you know many cap moons ?click to expand
2 Scorpios
2 Geminis
🙂
Posted by LittlePieces62
Cap moon here. I agree with what is said before by some people. It is not a test it is how we are.
How old is your baby? Perhaps he is now focussing on financial stability in order to spoil the child later on in life when he is more able to do active things? Or maybe having a child is a new way of love and emotions he is unfamiliar with and does not know how to handle it and scared to fail.
And yes like everyone said we are not cold but patience is the key. We will still take care of you even if you are 80yrs old and wrinkled.
Posted by Ryoko
Yeah, is the coldness and the pushing away a test to see of we'll try harder or pursue?
Posted by saweetz1988Don't try harder. I see that as desperate and pathetic when people try that with mePosted by Ryoko
Yeah, is the coldness and the pushing away a test to see of we'll try harder or pursue?
So the pushing away when it Happens.. Do u want us to try harder to give u more love or do u really want us to stay away? I feel like if we truly do, you won't feel care for..click to expand
Posted by truecapPosted by saweetz1988Don't try harder. I see that as desperate and pathetic when people try that with mePosted by Ryoko
Yeah, is the coldness and the pushing away a test to see of we'll try harder or pursue?
So the pushing away when it Happens.. Do u want us to try harder to give u more love or do u really want us to stay away? I feel like if we truly do, you won't feel care for..click to expand
Posted by risesafterall
The thing in me others see as coldness is the fact that I'm very solitary when I try to understand myself, or the things I experience.
People sometimes assume others deal with things the same way as they do themselves.
Some take it personal when people don't reach out to them, while those people might just not want others around while going through bad times.
People are different, that's just the way it is. It's your problem if you get worried when they don't [re]act the way you would, don't blame it on them.
Posted by starwars
my cap moon makes me edgy and mean and cold i love it 😈
Posted by fallendarkangel
My father has this placement and he is not that emotional and dramatic type. He is very cool unless you pushed his buttons. But it's better that he has this placement. My mother is so dramatic and I really can't stand it. Hahaha. They also substitute love with gifts which I also like. Lol
Posted by FyzaGememiee
My aqua daughter has her moon in Cap. She told me when someone's trying to get close to her, she will feels suffocated and it's kinda too overwhelming for her.
She will tends to keep her distant but all in all, deep down inside, she's so fragile. I think it's not just the Cap mooners, even venus in Cap, Cap rising or Cap themselves, has got this in them.
I used to wonder the same thing, but after awhile, I realized that this individual prefer to show you their love rather then keeps on saying it for lots of times. It's more to action than words. 🙂
Posted by starwarsPosted by saweetz1988http://33.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdkcpcrNCU1r8iw3x.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expandPosted by starwars
my cap moon makes me edgy and mean and cold i love it 😈
LoL ! r u a softy underneath though?
Posted by Shashkay
Cap moons statistically most likely to commit homicide.
Posted by saweetz1988I have this placement cant speak for all but for me at least, I get wrapped in life happenings. There are goals I'm trying to achieve and most of the time I'm thinking about HOW to get there and implement these into ACTION. I could see why it would look cold to another perspective because we don't really voice what our day consist of or what I've been up to. To sum it all up, we ain't satisfied where we currently are and want to climb that mountain, and reach the peak.
How can you folks be so cold sometimes. I don't know which to blame, his sag sun or his cap moon.. why does it seems like you always so busy doing your own thing and often forget others needs ?? I'm so worried my Bub has a cap moon father.. I mean you folks always so busy doing your own things to achieve certain status and all n always putting your own needs first before others n maybe your child's? I'm just venting here maybe not all cap moon r the same.. but I'm not seeing much hope.. 😢
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