ShadowHunter
@ShadowHunter
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How to let go?
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Then post and who cares... lol
I am so sick of this ‘you deserve this or rhat’...
Who came up with this crap?
What does it mean ‘you deserve’? Said who?
Apparently if you don’t have it - you don’t deserve it! Because if you did - you wouldn HAVE it!
Isn’t ‘deserving’ determined by G
What is dealing with anger like for you? Do you find it easy to control, or impossible? Are you immune to it, or does it bottle up till it simply cannot anymore? Do you know any extremely angry people? What were they like? When describing you or their ang
I'm trying really hard to learn how to be more independent. I honestly have never been alone my while life, I've come from very dependent relationships, family and friends.
Recently I've been seeing a guy who is reclusive. He does well with letting me s
Yesterday, I was talking to a girl about how I didn't like how I smoke everyday because it feels like I'm starting to use it as a crutch, I don't think it's good to have a "I NEED a blunt" mindset, and I definitely don't think it's the smartest thing to
And I’ll tell you how old you really are.
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Boobs.
How does one begin to let go of expectations from a loved one?
I know in a relationship you should hold your s.o to some kind of standard but when you have high expectations feelings are hurt on both ends.
How do you let go of ridiculous expectation
How have you overcome it?
Am I a good person?
Am I I bad person?
Well...last 3 years I am attending to elders in a building of over 150 appartnenta and everbody knows my name because I am working every day for my patients who I get paid for and those who just need help because
I want to share something I have been thinking about.
I think people who choose to work in /are drawn to professions that have to do with healing like doctors, psychotherapists, etc. have gone through painful/traumatic stuff themselves and then when the
I'm looking for sensible serious advice.
I'm having a lot of issues with letting go or should I say I'm only wanting and chasing things/people who are either just wanting to pass their time with me.
I don't have many friends and struggle to make new as well.
It seems that people don't approach Me. I can come across as uptight and as such even people at work dony befriend me.
I'm reasonably higher up in position and people are just cut throat but I believe in progressing based on capability and not by arse licking.
I'm strong enough to voice that view but how do I let go the "exclusion" or "sanctions" applied to me at work ?
On other hand I'm having similar issues in personal relationships. My partner bores me, he portrayed a different picture of himself (or I saw what I wanted to see) when we started going out and now I'm just not interested in him. Tried working out but we are just different people.
I told him we need to spilt and he agrees but we have shared financial and familial responsibilities that need time to sort out
I started to chat with a new guy and it was all going well but now he's taking me forgranted. He wouldn't reply my mesages and will not initiate a y conversation.
I'm feeling like "untouchable" anything I go for I fuck it up
I have now started to believe that I need to be an arse licker at work to get people on my side and in personal relationships, I don't even have a clue.
But morality isn't allowing me to alter my personality, what should I do 😑🤨😥😥