How to let go?

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ShadowHunter
@ShadowHunter
7 Years

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Hello all

I'm looking for sensible serious advice.

I'm having a lot of issues with letting go or should I say I'm only wanting and chasing things/people who are either just wanting to pass their time with me.

I don't have many friends and struggle to make new as well.

It seems that people don't approach Me. I can come across as uptight and as such even people at work dony befriend me.

I'm reasonably higher up in position and people are just cut throat but I believe in progressing based on capability and not by arse licking.

I'm strong enough to voice that view but how do I let go the "exclusion" or "sanctions" applied to me at work ?

On other hand I'm having similar issues in personal relationships. My partner bores me, he portrayed a different picture of himself (or I saw what I wanted to see) when we started going out and now I'm just not interested in him. Tried working out but we are just different people.

I told him we need to spilt and he agrees but we have shared financial and familial responsibilities that need time to sort out

I started to chat with a new guy and it was all going well but now he's taking me forgranted. He wouldn't reply my mesages and will not initiate a y conversation.

I'm feeling like "untouchable" anything I go for I fuck it up

I have now started to believe that I need to be an arse licker at work to get people on my side and in personal relationships, I don't even have a clue.

But morality isn't allowing me to alter my personality, what should I do 😑🤨😥😥