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I finally found a girl i belive is more than worthy of my love,
the question is will she accept it?

She is pisces Sun Cancer Moon aquarius mucury Aries venus capricorn mars ascendant unknown.
Shes painfully shy, talks so silent i almost want to be an a/s/sh/ole and tell her to speak up,
(because im loud at times> and clearly she has an underlying fiery bit that rarely surfaces if at all, its VERY sublte.
aries venus is the only logical answer to that mystery.

But she dosent acknowlage my obvios and clear moves to get to know her better.
she dosent ever look me in the eye when she talks to me, is very submissive and dreamy.

I almost couldnt handle her when i first met her, i thought what the hell is her problem wake up be clear minded,
but i realised im that way and i shouldnt force it onto others shes just timid and needs structure.

Im confident and down to earth and i always call, always give advice, always am a gentleman without losing my charisma,
but she seems so aloof, as if im just a nice guy and thats it.

Its rather irritating, Im considering calling upon my bluntness and just f/u/c/k/i/n/g/ asking her flat out do you wnat to be with me and look her steadily in the eye.

Im not scared at all to do this i just fear that being so direct will make her wrongly think im not right for her being that shes very sensitive and soflty spoken.

Ack, i hear shes hard to date and none knows why, shes just hard to pin down and im more than attracted to her.
i mean our suns and moons are trine/conjunct all within the tightest possible degrees possible.

im double pisces shes a pisces cancer, her sun is in 7 degrees mine is in 8 my moon is in 6 and her moon is in ten,
i mean that chunk of tight trine conjucntion alone should make her helplessly attracte back but shes not!!!

what the heck.

I think i maight have to be direct and fourthright before she up and swims away.

and ive only hung out with her 3 times.

haha yea forgot about that part.

i was focusing on the story and not that detail, maybe only i see our potential and its still up in the air in her eyes.

Mike, the times when she has looked you in the eyes (if ever), does she stare deeply. You know, that Piscean look, which I'm sure since you're one, you know what I mean. If so, then you're right and the attraction is there. If not, then, she'll likely swim, or want to be in the friendzone, as mentioned.

If she is just shy, but, into you . . . women who are submissive really WANT the man to be aggressive and take action. So, it won't scare her, if she wants you, because that is what she's waiting for. If she's into you . . . you could even be arrogant about your forcefullness and she would think it's cute . . . she would take it as you're a protective and passionate person.

So, first you have to find out if this is all just YOUR desire . . . or for both of you. Then, you'll know what move to make.

MAHD,
Venus in Aries is a challenging aspect for us Pisces when it comes to relationships. Normally, the Aries makes as go for it, but she may have dealth with other early childhood traumas that cause her to hold back. Ask her about her past relationships (family and romantice) so you can get a sense of where she's been and what's happened.

Wow catfish, thats amazing i was going to say somthing about that, I got a strong vibe she had been impulsive with her love in the past and payed dearly for it. I hear she had this one bad reltionship with a leo where intercourse and than leaving her for a party was inlvolved. i wont even try to go into details because thats just cold.

And this of course answers alot of my questions as i thought it would.

I could tell when i met her some part of her chart was very restricted almost maybe ashamed of inside.
And that is the only thing out of place surrounded by water and earth.





from cafeastrology-

The differences in your style s of expressing love should be pretty obvious right from the start. This can be a source of much fascination, and some misunderstandings as well. Your relationship needs are decidedly more practical and earthy than those of your partner. In matters of the heart, your lover acts first and thinks later. You, on the other hand, consider all of the ins and outs of the partnership: is it practical? Will it work down the road? Do you work well with each other? None of these things are quite as important to your partner, as he or she tends to think in the here and now, while you take into consideration the future of your relationship. If you share your finances with your Venus in Aries lover, you are in the position to help curb your partner's habit for impulsive spending, and whether or not your lover appreciates that depends entirely on him or her! Your partner might complain that you are a little too serious at times, but hopefully you will enjoy the fact that your partner is remarkably capable of infusing relationships with fun and activity. Because your partner is more forthright in love than you are, it is likely his or her responsibilty for getting this relationship going, but if your partner thinks they can always be the leader, they might have another thing coming! Certainly, you are definitely more cautious with your heart, but you also have a reserve of strength that is mighty indeed. Your partner might consider you to be somewhat of a challenge, but challenges in love are generally considered exciting for Venus in Aries. Some clashes are inevitable, but with understanding and love, this relationship can work.

That was the reading for my venus in Capricorn with her venus in Aries.

I couldnt tell you how many times somone especially past loves said i was way too serious. haha.
yikes. i hate reading things that are negative and true about me.

somtimes im very stiff and regimented even my capricorn best freind usually tells me to cool down because im getting in my mood.

Ive been working on trying to be more of a pisces so to speak haha.

And cancer ascendant means Capricorn is on the descendant and i read from multiple site only with ascendants there is the influence of both for example cancer ascendants are openly nurturing and surprisingly matter of fact about important issues.

Couldnt be more true for me, im always confused why people can be so misleading.

And when i read pisces arent direct i scoff because im so direct it makes me contradict my favorite subject of likeing.

Wierd.


i mean ive always knew this, maybe im having that (back to the boards with a new question> feeling we all get somtimes.


eh.

MAHD,

Venus in Aries is a bitch! You really have to work hard at maintaining some equalibrium with ALL of your relationships.

From Cafeastrology -

Venus in Aries people flirt by being up-front, direct, and even daring. They try to win you over by expressing how enterprising and independent they are. Their style of expressing love can be maddeningly "me"-centered, but the right person for them will find this approach charming. People get turned on by Venus in Aries' aura of innocent charm, even when they are being childish and impatient.
Venus in Aries men and women behave in a childlike, fun-loving manner in love. They are turned on by energy and activity. Turn-offs include a relationship that is considered stuffy or too "mature", vagueness, and beating around the bush. In love, Venus in Aries people are hopelessly addicted to the conquest. In order for a relationship to remain fresh and new for them, they require plenty of stimulation.

Pleasing Venus in Aries involves fueling their need for action. Be direct, open, and honest with them?they won't much like game-playing or evasiveness, unless it is in the complete spirit of fun. Feed their need for spontaneity, and appreciate their playfulness. Understand their desire for the relationship to remain young and fresh. Aries likes to take the lead in love (even if their Sun Sign is gentle Pisces) ?let them, at least most of the time. Indulge them their many whims, and understand that they thrive on competition, even when they're competing with you!

MAHD,
I agree with this. We do like to be the life of the party, have fun, win people over. The serious stuff scares if we've been f*cked over in the past, then we'll crawl our way into a relationship.