COMMITMENT

I am a Pisces female, I have had only one true love in my life and it didn?t work out ( he left me for someone else . . he was a Taurus). Anyway I have never had a truly committed relationship since, every time I get a boyfriend I don?t give all of my heart and they end up leaving. It bugs me that they leave but I?m kind of relieved too. Is it me or is it the sign I?m born with. What do you think?

Hey Cyd...

O.k lets take a look at what you just said...

You said...

"every time I get a boyfriend I don't give all of my heart"

O.k so do you blame them for leaving...no I thought not.

Change...Hmmm

Why do we fear change so much...change is such an integral part of life. The seasons...night and day...childhood to adulthood...etc.

I know it's hard Cyd...your life has gone through a change...don't think that you have lost anything...your life has merely changed and change is good because change means the strat of something new.

Try not to miss him so much...in the end you can turn three shades of green through missing him but none of that will ever bring him back...his change was easier to accept for him through it being his choice but there are things he misses...trust me...there are things he weighs up in his new match according to his past and that is just as futile to him as missing his company is to you...

Life on earth is subject to constant change...we need to accept that and thus accept life and live it a whole lot easier...

Take care of yourself Cyd it has nothing to do with your star sign...just you and how you see the truth.

Love and light to you always...
Durrie.

Hi cyd, the reason you may not be giving your heart is because you're afraid of being hurt by being abadoned again thru no fault of your own. I too fell very deeply in love w/a Taurus. I ended up so hurt that it took me 5+ yrs to recover from it before I even wanted to see anyone. Although I had relationships that followed the Taurus one I could not give me "heart truly" neither to them.

The hurt, unless truly healed 100% will carry over into the new ones. We have the fear of being left again and therefore we protect ourselves by not giving our hearts to the new relationship. That's why you may feel so relieved when they leave the relationship. Take time out to do some soul searching for yourself and to let go of any negative thoughts or fears you may still have from the Taurus relationship. Until you do this you will not be able to give of yourself 100% for the next man that will enter your life.

You deserve to be happy. Make peace with your past. It has nothing to do with your sun sign.