Earthcapgirl
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Depressed Pisces? Please help me help my brother..
How do I help him?? I am really worried. He’s a great guy and very emotional but I’m afraid he has lost all confidence. He still looks great and goes to the gym but his hair loss I think is the reason he’s losing confidence. He also doesn’t have friends bc we moved to a diff state and he doesn’t do anything to make friends. No college to meet new people and no real office job to meet coworkers. Please please advise me
From one Piscean to another (your brother), inform him face to face to be a positive thinker, to hang out with "positive" people, too. Tell him when he hears people talk negative; for him to just walk away. In the Holy Bible it states, "Shake the sand from your sandals". He should do the same. I have. I don't gossip (anymore), I stay away from negative people and I don't hang out with them "anymore." I learned the hard way, believe you me....long story and too tired to write it in here for the 10,000th time.
Inform him that God has closed his door (from the past); and God has forgotten his past; he should do the same. "That's why when we drive there is a rear view mirror, that is the only reason why it's there, to look behind us when driving; but human beings literally look "back" at their past" (cannot remember who actually quoted this). You need to print out this (or do a screenshot) and tell your brother word-for-word. When God forgets about your past, he buried it deep, deep, deep in the ocean, and again, human beings bring up their past. I don't look back at the past because of the above I just stated. He shouldn't either.
Be positive again, when talking to him about going for his real estate license. It takes allot of reading, studying, customer service, etc., to take the courses, pass the test, and then work as a real estate agent. Speak positive to him about how he presents himself, speaks well, courteous, professional, and how good he will look wearing a shirt, tie, etc. and remind him about "Dress for Success".
Your brother is Piscean. All we need to hear are the "words" and thereafter, we visualize it. Joke and tell him, "When I pass a bench (bus stop) I will see your face posted all over the area 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
From one Piscean to another (your brother), inform him face to face to be a positive thinker, to hang out with "positive" people, too. Tell him when he hears people talk negative; for him to just walk away. In the Holy Bible it states, "Shake the sand from your sandals". He should do the same. I have. I don't gossip (anymore), I stay away from negative people and I don't hang out with them "anymore." I learned the hard way, believe you me....long story and too tired to write it in here for the 10,000th time.
Inform him that God has closed his door (from the past); and God has forgotten his past; he should do the same. "That's why when we drive there is a rear view mirror, that is the only reason why it's there, to look behind us when driving; but human beings literally look "back" at their past" (cannot remember who actually quoted this). You need to print out this (or do a screenshot) and tell your brother word-for-word. When God forgets about your past, he buried it deep, deep, deep in the ocean, and again, human beings bring up their past. I don't look back at the past because of the above I just stated. He shouldn't either.
Be positive again, when talking to him about going for his real estate license. It takes allot of reading, studying, customer service, etc., to take the courses, pass the test, and then work as a real estate agent. Speak positive to him about how he presents himself, speaks well, courteous, professional, and how good he will look wearing a shirt, tie, etc. and remind him about "Dress for Success".
Your brother is Piscean. All we need to hear are the "words" and thereafter, we visualize it. Joke and tell him, "When I pass a bench (bus stop) I will see your face posted all over the area 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by WolfSage
A pisces who floods into an ocean must have the drain pulled.it takes a precision dive,to go in and locate where the water needs to drain.What I mean by this is crying,yelling,etc is only pouring water out but not tackling the problem at the heart of the matter.Listening becomes key.You find where the path has taken him.how the water began to flood.Love takes the worst toll,and the pain of loss from romantic and family love is paralyzing.When you take the dive to find the source, look for the precious mementos and keepsakes floating in the water.like a house that got flooded,but that you found an irreplaceable teddy bear of much sentimental value,a significant set of pictures,a chain worn that helped shape identity.the stuff that holds importance in a way that gives hope.
When the breakdown happens,hold on.literally.let him shatter.let the pressure release,but hold on until you can feel his heart shift from grey to warm.Ask the questions of curiosity,the ones that stir imagination.recall the memories where you were happy and began to dream of what life could offer.Go to a park,get comfortable,and detach for a while from concern or restriction in order to free up the knots in the heart.
Thank you so much. I will do that. I am seeing him this weekend and will take him out and enjoy our time. I will try to make him remember how fun life can be and show him possibilities. I felt so defeated all morning not being able to help. But I will slowly!
Posted by ACsquarepluto
I would advise to give him as much time as he needs to grieve. The Pisceans I've known were independent and competent. Pressuring him to take productive action might not be the best move. Patience, gently showing you care and being a good listener when he seeks you out is the way I'd go.
Thank you for your input and advise! The reason I was trying to get him a job is because I’m my family community, a man with no education or stable job is so looked down upon and I hate when everyone always bugs him about his job. So I told him I’ll help him with his course completely and even have a job for him. I want him to do this so it will eventually make him feel confident dressed up and making good $ $ . He enjoys finer things in life and he will be doing very well.. ): I just want him to be happy
Posted by EvatheDiva52
How do I help him?? I am really worried. He’s a great guy and very emotional but I’m afraid he has lost all confidence. He still looks great and goes to the gym but his hair loss I think is the reason he’s losing confidence. He also doesn’t have friends bc we moved to a diff state and he doesn’t do anything to make friends. No college to meet new people and no real office job to meet coworkers. Please please advise me
From one Piscean to another (your brother), inform him face to face to be a positive thinker, to hang out with "positive" people, too. Tell him when he hears people talk negative; for him to just walk away. In the Holy Bible it states, "Shake the sand from your sandals". He should do the same. I have. I don't gossip (anymore), I stay away from negative people and I don't hang out with them "anymore." I learned the hard way, believe you me....long story and too tired to write it in here for the 10,000th time.
Inform him that God has closed his door (from the past); and God has forgotten his past; he should do the same. "That's why when we drive there is a rear view mirror, that is the only reason why it's there, to look behind us when driving; but human beings literally look "back" at their past" (cannot remember who actually quoted this). You need to print out this (or do a screenshot) and tell your brother word-for-word. When God forgets about your past, he buried it deep, deep, deep in the ocean, and again, human beings bring up their past. I don't look back at the past because of the above I just stated. He shouldn't either.
Be positive again, when talking to him about going for his real estate license. It takes allot of reading, studying, customer service, etc., to take the courses, pass the test, and then work as a real estate agent. Speak positive to him about how he presents himself, speaks well, courteous, professional, and how good he will look wearing a shirt, tie, etc. and remind him about "Dress for Success".
Your brother is Piscean. All we need to hear are the "words" and thereafter, we visualize it. Joke and tell him, "When I pass a bench (bus stop) I will see your face posted all over the area 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thank you Eva! I have actually mentioned it!! I am a big believer in law of attraction and positive thinking and am religious. I have given him that talk to be positive so positive things happen. I speak to him about God but I think he is angry at religion. He says then why is dad passed away if God is watching over us.. it’s very hard to see him in this state. I will keep trying to being him to feel more positive. I will also try to have him imagine a happy and positive life like you mentioned! Thank you
Posted by Impulsv
Tell him I find balding men hot
Why not accept he is a changed man
N that is ok
Grief does that to one He will find his new normal. In the meantime be supportive tell him you love him always be there for him. Take them out somewhere fun go to the bar when you meet up buy him a fishing trip, a sailing lessonAs a gift to perhaps during his passions again towards life
Thank you! We are trying very hard to stay supportive to him. Issue is relatives being nosy and continuously asking him to get a careee.. ): but I will talk to them
Posted by EarthcapgirlPosted by EvatheDiva52
How do I help him?? I am really worried. He’s a great guy and very emotional but I’m afraid he has lost all confidence. He still looks great and goes to the gym but his hair loss I think is the reason he’s losing confidence. He also doesn’t have friends bc we moved to a diff state and he doesn’t do anything to make friends. No college to meet new people and no real office job to meet coworkers. Please please advise me
From one Piscean to another (your brother), inform him face to face to be a positive thinker, to hang out with "positive" people, too. Tell him when he hears people talk negative; for him to just walk away. In the Holy Bible it states, "Shake the sand from your sandals". He should do the same. I have. I don't gossip (anymore), I stay away from negative people and I don't hang out with them "anymore." I learned the hard way, believe you me....long story and too tired to write it in here for the 10,000th time.
Inform him that God has closed his door (from the past); and God has forgotten his past; he should do the same. "That's why when we drive there is a rear view mirror, that is the only reason why it's there, to look behind us when driving; but human beings literally look "back" at their past" (cannot remember who actually quoted this). You need to print out this (or do a screenshot) and tell your brother word-for-word. When God forgets about your past, he buried it deep, deep, deep in the ocean, and again, human beings bring up their past. I don't look back at the past because of the above I just stated. He shouldn't either.
Be positive again, when talking to him about going for his real estate license. It takes allot of reading, studying, customer service, etc., to take the courses, pass the test, and then work as a real estate agent. Speak positive to him about how he presents himself, speaks well, courteous, professional, and how good he will look wearing a shirt, tie, etc. and remind him about "Dress for Success".
Your brother is Piscean. All we need to hear are the "words" and thereafter, we visualize it. Joke and tell him, "When I pass a bench (bus stop) I will see your face posted all over the area 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thank you Eva! I have actually mentioned it!! I am a big believer in law of attraction and positive thinking and am religious. I have given him that talk to be positive so positive things happen. I speak to him about God but I think he is angry at religion. He says then why is dad passed away if God is watching over us.. it’s very hard to see him in this state. I will keep trying to being him to feel more positive. I will also try to have him imagine a happy and positive life like you mentioned! Thank youclick to expand
YW. Inform your brother that not EVEN Jesus Christ was immune to death (died, too). You, me, your brother, my mother, "yours, too" will ALSO die! Remind him we are not also immune to death, either. We were NOT flogged by Pontius Pilot's soldiers, crown placed on our forehead, went thru the "stages", we were not on top of Calvary with two thieves crucified along Jesus...Jesus was! He died a very horrible death! Remind him that is why Jesus died so we can be received in heaven PARADISE! This is "earth" and not paradise. Your dad (like MY dad) is not sick in heaven, not suffering in heaven (neither is Jesus Christ). Your dad is looking over his son (your brother) like Jesus and God look over us "living human beings". Remind your brother he has his "Life book" to live, like you, and I. Have your brother look for "signs" sent to him by your dad (butterfly?); roses springing up at his lawn? He smells cologne? He dreams of your dad? etc., etc, etc. Many people have different signs sent to them by our loved ones.
He will be okay.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDiva52Posted by EarthcapgirlPosted by EvatheDiva52
How do I help him?? I am really worried. He’s a great guy and very emotional but I’m afraid he has lost all confidence. He still looks great and goes to the gym but his hair loss I think is the reason he’s losing confidence. He also doesn’t have friends bc we moved to a diff state and he doesn’t do anything to make friends. No college to meet new people and no real office job to meet coworkers. Please please advise me
From one Piscean to another (your brother), inform him face to face to be a positive thinker, to hang out with "positive" people, too. Tell him when he hears people talk negative; for him to just walk away. In the Holy Bible it states, "Shake the sand from your sandals". He should do the same. I have. I don't gossip (anymore), I stay away from negative people and I don't hang out with them "anymore." I learned the hard way, believe you me....long story and too tired to write it in here for the 10,000th time.
Inform him that God has closed his door (from the past); and God has forgotten his past; he should do the same. "That's why when we drive there is a rear view mirror, that is the only reason why it's there, to look behind us when driving; but human beings literally look "back" at their past" (cannot remember who actually quoted this). You need to print out this (or do a screenshot) and tell your brother word-for-word. When God forgets about your past, he buried it deep, deep, deep in the ocean, and again, human beings bring up their past. I don't look back at the past because of the above I just stated. He shouldn't either.
Be positive again, when talking to him about going for his real estate license. It takes allot of reading, studying, customer service, etc., to take the courses, pass the test, and then work as a real estate agent. Speak positive to him about how he presents himself, speaks well, courteous, professional, and how good he will look wearing a shirt, tie, etc. and remind him about "Dress for Success".
Your brother is Piscean. All we need to hear are the "words" and thereafter, we visualize it. Joke and tell him, "When I pass a bench (bus stop) I will see your face posted all over the area 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thank you Eva! I have actually mentioned it!! I am a big believer in law of attraction and positive thinking and am religious. I have given him that talk to be positive so positive things happen. I speak to him about God but I think he is angry at religion. He says then why is dad passed away if God is watching over us.. it’s very hard to see him in this state. I will keep trying to being him to feel more positive. I will also try to have him imagine a happy and positive life like you mentioned! Thank you
YW. Inform your brother that not EVEN Jesus Christ was immune to death (died, too). You, me, your brother, my mother, "yours, too" will ALSO die! Remind him we are not also immune to death, either. We were NOT flogged by Pontius Pilot's soldiers, crown placed on our forehead, went thru the "stages", we were not on top of Calvary with two thieves crucified along Jesus...Jesus was! He died a very horrible death! Remind him that is why Jesus died so we can be received in heaven PARADISE! This is "earth" and not paradise. Your dad (like MY dad) is not sick in heaven, not suffering in heaven (neither is Jesus Christ). Your dad is looking over his son (your brother) like Jesus and God look over us "living human beings". Remind your brother he has his "Life book" to live, like you, and I. Have your brother look for "signs" sent to him by your dad (butterfly?); roses springing up at his lawn? He smells cologne? He dreams of your dad? etc., etc, etc. Many people have different signs sent to them by our loved ones.
He will be okay.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
This brought tears to my eyes! I see my dad in my dreams very rarely and that is my sign and I will talk to my brother this weekend openly and try to get your points across in the most loving way! Thank you so so much. It’s very hard worrying about your family members emotional well being. Everything you said makes so much sense and really resonated with me
Posted by EarthcapgirlPosted by EvatheDiva52Posted by EarthcapgirlPosted by EvatheDiva52
How do I help him?? I am really worried. He’s a great guy and very emotional but I’m afraid he has lost all confidence. He still looks great and goes to the gym but his hair loss I think is the reason he’s losing confidence. He also doesn’t have friends bc we moved to a diff state and he doesn’t do anything to make friends. No college to meet new people and no real office job to meet coworkers. Please please advise me
From one Piscean to another (your brother), inform him face to face to be a positive thinker, to hang out with "positive" people, too. Tell him when he hears people talk negative; for him to just walk away. In the Holy Bible it states, "Shake the sand from your sandals". He should do the same. I have. I don't gossip (anymore), I stay away from negative people and I don't hang out with them "anymore." I learned the hard way, believe you me....long story and too tired to write it in here for the 10,000th time.
Inform him that God has closed his door (from the past); and God has forgotten his past; he should do the same. "That's why when we drive there is a rear view mirror, that is the only reason why it's there, to look behind us when driving; but human beings literally look "back" at their past" (cannot remember who actually quoted this). You need to print out this (or do a screenshot) and tell your brother word-for-word. When God forgets about your past, he buried it deep, deep, deep in the ocean, and again, human beings bring up their past. I don't look back at the past because of the above I just stated. He shouldn't either.
Be positive again, when talking to him about going for his real estate license. It takes allot of reading, studying, customer service, etc., to take the courses, pass the test, and then work as a real estate agent. Speak positive to him about how he presents himself, speaks well, courteous, professional, and how good he will look wearing a shirt, tie, etc. and remind him about "Dress for Success".
Your brother is Piscean. All we need to hear are the "words" and thereafter, we visualize it. Joke and tell him, "When I pass a bench (bus stop) I will see your face posted all over the area 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thank you Eva! I have actually mentioned it!! I am a big believer in law of attraction and positive thinking and am religious. I have given him that talk to be positive so positive things happen. I speak to him about God but I think he is angry at religion. He says then why is dad passed away if God is watching over us.. it’s very hard to see him in this state. I will keep trying to being him to feel more positive. I will also try to have him imagine a happy and positive life like you mentioned! Thank you
YW. Inform your brother that not EVEN Jesus Christ was immune to death (died, too). You, me, your brother, my mother, "yours, too" will ALSO die! Remind him we are not also immune to death, either. We were NOT flogged by Pontius Pilot's soldiers, crown placed on our forehead, went thru the "stages", we were not on top of Calvary with two thieves crucified along Jesus...Jesus was! He died a very horrible death! Remind him that is why Jesus died so we can be received in heaven PARADISE! This is "earth" and not paradise. Your dad (like MY dad) is not sick in heaven, not suffering in heaven (neither is Jesus Christ). Your dad is looking over his son (your brother) like Jesus and God look over us "living human beings". Remind your brother he has his "Life book" to live, like you, and I. Have your brother look for "signs" sent to him by your dad (butterfly?); roses springing up at his lawn? He smells cologne? He dreams of your dad? etc., etc, etc. Many people have different signs sent to them by our loved ones.
He will be okay.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
This brought tears to my eyes! I see my dad in my dreams very rarely and that is my sign and I will talk to my brother this weekend openly and try to get your points across in the most loving way! Thank you so so much. It’s very hard worrying about your family members emotional well being. Everything you said makes so much sense and really resonated with meclick to expand
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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