Do you ever feel like a loser?

Is this a Pisces thing?
I get really lost in my own world, yes. I'm very conflicted with so many interests. I have this really spiritual part of me that wants to learn everything so I read a lot online and study different things, but I also have other interests like my dance and music.
But like I feel like even if I do a lot, I'm a loser getting nowhere. I want to get more done and get further but I don't know how or where to start, like I'm lost and incapable of doing anything and I get depressed and just do nothing but read lame articles online.
I don't know why I do this. It happens a lot too, I'll get depressed, snap tf out ofnit telling myself not to be a loser and try to get far and do things and have a schedule and stick to it, but then I feel like I'm getting nowhere and am still a loser and get depressed again.
It's a cycle.
Is this a Pisces thing?

I think sometimes some pisces get that down stream fish to be a pain in their ass
You just have to keep getting past it and running up that hill

Posted by mandapanda90
Sorry you feel that way because You are winner trust me

Youre so positive. Youre putting most of the other virgos on this forum to shame cuz theyre so jaded and all

Posted by mandapanda90
Sorry you feel that way because You are winner trust me

We're all winners at the end of the day.

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
I think sometimes some pisces get that down stream fish to be a pain in their ass
You just have to keep getting past it and running up that hill

Oh I always do. This is the first time I've actually talked about this. I don't allow self pity but I'm just lost right now and not sure how to keep myself improving.

Posted by mandapanda90
It's true nobody should feel like that But sadly we do ,
life sucks sometimes lol

And thanks us virgos are anal lmao

Good Virgo

Posted by feby

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by mandapanda90
Sorry you feel that way because You are winner trust me

Youre so positive. Youre putting most of the other virgos on this forum to shame cuz theyre so jaded and all

Come to think of it you're always positive here. It is nice.

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You must not see me in pisces-scorpio threads 😛

But yeah I think our moon naturally is feby

No it's a human thing. I think everyone has felt this at some point in time but no one talks about it because it's taboo. Try not to compare yourself to others because there always be someone prettier or smarter instead get into competition with yourself and push yourself to do better everyday. But to start you need to forgive yourself and be kind to yourself. No ones born knowing what to do with their lives, I mean a few lucky ppl but they are the exception.

My advise just put yourself out there. Try and do anything or everything you've ever considered and see what you enjoy. You won't really know until you're in it. But don't look for novelty. Because then you'll never find what it is that will contribute to your happiness. Because it will never just one thing but many things in your life that makes it whole.

Work with what you're interested in but don't be afraid of making mistakes, it's part of the human experience and what helps you learn and grow. Anything you choose will be hard if it's worth it. But that is what makes life interesting and fun, the uncertainty of it all 🙂

Posted by SuperMissMan
Is this a Pisces thing?
I get really lost in my own world, yes. I'm very conflicted with so many interests. I have this really spiritual part of me that wants to learn everything so I read a lot online and study different things, but I also have other interests like my dance and music.
But like I feel like even if I do a lot, I'm a loser getting nowhere. I want to get more done and get further but I don't know how or where to start, like I'm lost and incapable of doing anything and I get depressed and just do nothing but read lame articles online.
I don't know why I do this. It happens a lot too, I'll get depressed, snap tf out ofnit telling myself not to be a loser and try to get far and do things and have a schedule and stick to it, but then I feel like I'm getting nowhere and am still a loser and get depressed again.
It's a cycle.
Is this a Pisces thing?

Omg I could have written it.
I also have many interests (which sometimes come randomly - one day I discovered I want to play a violin. Never have I ever went to music school.) and they come and change sometimes too quickly. Which means that when I start putting energy and effort into some hobby/skill, few months later I am not that excited anymore and most probably quit. I don't loose the interest but I don't want to deal with it anymore.
Yes, dancing and music also my thing... Did I mention I registered for the DJ course starting next month? I wonder how much time for violin I have then.

I do have this feel-like-a-loser thing going on also right now. Not always but last few weeks it has been stronger than ever.
It comes because I am not an expert on anything, I just have some many different interests and I don't want to focus on one.

Yeah and the the depression hits which makes me spend time in a useless way and then I am upset that I spend so much time in a useless way.

I totally feel you.

Unfortunately, I don't know what the solution is.
Successful people say that it is always necessary to have a goal and focus 100% on it but my goal gets blurry really quickly.

Posted by xtina
No it's a human thing. I think everyone has felt this at some point in time but no one talks about it because it's taboo. Try not to compare yourself to others because there always be someone prettier or smarter instead get into competition with yourself and push yourself to do better everyday. But to start you need to forgive yourself and be kind to yourself. No ones born knowing what to do with their lives, I mean a few lucky ppl but they are the exception.

My advise just put yourself out there. Try and do anything or everything you've ever considered and see what you enjoy. You won't really know until you're in it. But don't look for novelty. Because then you'll never find what it is that will contribute to your happiness. Because it will never just one thing but many things in your life that makes it whole.

Work with what you're interested in but don't be afraid of making mistakes, it's part of the human experience and what helps you learn and grow. Anything you choose will be hard if it's worth it. But that is what makes life interesting and fun, the uncertainty of it all 🙂

You can't keep an Aries down. And if YOU'RE down, hang out with an Aries or Aries Asc or Moon. This is a good answer to the OP's question.
Sometimes when I feel like a loser, I take a step back, regroup, and try to figure out what I can do to make my life better. Trying new things often helps and getting in the mix with people. Give it a chance and see how it goes. You might see yourself feeling better. None of us are losers. We all have discouraging or bad moments. But don't let a bad day become a bad life. That's your responsibility.

I listen to music x

Ye, all the time (secretly) just don't tell anyone, but always winners..in the end!!

Posted by SuperMissMan
Is this a Pisces thing?
I get really lost in my own world, yes. I'm very conflicted with so many interests. I have this really spiritual part of me that wants to learn everything so I read a lot online and study different things, but I also have other interests like my dance and music.
But like I feel like even if I do a lot, I'm a loser getting nowhere. I want to get more done and get further but I don't know how or where to start, like I'm lost and incapable of doing anything and I get depressed and just do nothing but read lame articles online.
I don't know why I do this. It happens a lot too, I'll get depressed, snap tf out ofnit telling myself not to be a loser and try to get far and do things and have a schedule and stick to it, but then I feel like I'm getting nowhere and am still a loser and get depressed again.
It's a cycle.
Is this a Pisces thing?

Nope! Not me. I accomplish what I start. I don't take on HARD nonrealistic projects and just allow them to sit in the corner. WHAT I am (a little) is a hoarder and procrastinator when it comes to cleaning my house. When I TIRE I start cleaning it up. Maybe this is a metaphor for you....when you get tired of something go back to that project you never seemed to have finished. Oh, I take that back! LOL...let me explain. When I was a kid I'd curl up to a good book instead of playing outside. I would go to places I've never been before. Now, at my age, I cannot seem to finish a book! Procrastination; yeah, that's what Pisceans are. We have a "choice" finish the book or not. Finish what you started or not.

Please be more optimistic with yourself. Don't put yourself down by using a word like LOSER...you're NOT a loser! Procrastinator yeah, lazy, yea! But L-O-S-E-R (big L on my forehead)....not! 🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

Posted by SuperMissMan

Is this a Pisces thing?

I'm very conflicted with so many interests.

I want to get more done and get further but I don't know how or where to start, like I'm lost and incapable of doing anything and I get depressed and just do nothing

do things and have a schedule and stick to it

It's a cycle

yes, it's a Pisces thing .. and we all experience it to some extent.

Having many interests isn't actually the culprit, though, it's true that our minds operate on so many levels all at once that it can seem scattered or cumbersome

Making lists might help you to get more done, which of course, the lists can be modified all the time as well. But, making a physical note on paper, rather than just a mental note might work better for you .. since all of your thoughts are many and the volume of them are disturbing you. You can prioritize on paper, much better than in your mind ... so you can give this a try to see if it helps you.

yes, a schedule ... that is what I mean by lists

Yes, it is a cycle and will be for your whole life .. that's why it's important to attempt to prioritize the best way you can.


but, there's something else that is actually the culprit .. something I talk about often in here, and it is the reason why you feel this way ....

Pisces people live vicariously through pretty much everything.

for example ... you make your schedule, or list, or even just in your mind ... you make a decision on what you are going to focus on, or do

Just that focus on it, was living through it in the Piscean world .. you don't actually HAVE to do it, to be satisfied that it's done

You look around you and see everyone else physically doing these things, and you think to yourself that you've already got that figured out, or you've already gone through that scenario ... then you realize that you've only just thought about it. Yet, you're content that you've done it.


Because that is how we operate, that is why it's so difficult in relationships of all types .... because we've already experienced it, as the situation ran through our heads. We don't need more than that. And I think you know that, you just needed to hear another Pisces tell you that it's normal, and that you are perfectly ok to live through your thoughts, without actually having to do it.

I know I felt like a total loser yesterday. My lord.

Furthermore, the only reason it makes you feel like a loser, this inertia, is because you compare yourself to other people.

first of all, stop comparing yourself .....

Posted by SuperMissMan
Is this a Pisces thing?
I get really lost in my own world, yes. I'm very conflicted with so many interests. I have this really spiritual part of me that wants to learn everything so I read a lot online and study different things, but I also have other interests like my dance and music.
But like I feel like even if I do a lot, I'm a loser getting nowhere. I want to get more done and get further but I don't know how or where to start, like I'm lost and incapable of doing anything and I get depressed and just do nothing but read lame articles online.
I don't know why I do this. It happens a lot too, I'll get depressed, snap tf out ofnit telling myself not to be a loser and try to get far and do things and have a schedule and stick to it, but then I feel like I'm getting nowhere and am still a loser and get depressed again.
It's a cycle.
Is this a Pisces thing?

I feel the same! You are not alone xx

hahaha I do the exact same thing. I spend like half my time researching things online and just fulfilling my spiritual side, but then I balance it out with making sure I socialise or do some sport the other half. The key to life is balance, so I think having some loser in you is good for everyone

Yes, I have a Pisces Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Scorpio Rising, too. OMG. I get like this a LOT. You have to force yourself out of it. It is hard, I know. I live it, too, a lot. Just force happy thoughts and what you have good in your life, and good things come back to you. Karma, I guess. There is nothing wrong with you. I go through this a lot. Got to push those feelings away.

Posted by SuperMissMan
Is this a Pisces thing?
I get really lost in my own world, yes. I'm very conflicted with so many interests. I have this really spiritual part of me that wants to learn everything so I read a lot online and study different things, but I also have other interests like my dance and music.
But like I feel like even if I do a lot, I'm a loser getting nowhere. I want to get more done and get further but I don't know how or where to start, like I'm lost and incapable of doing anything and I get depressed and just do nothing but read lame articles online.
I don't know why I do this. It happens a lot too, I'll get depressed, snap tf out ofnit telling myself not to be a loser and try to get far and do things and have a schedule and stick to it, but then I feel like I'm getting nowhere and am still a loser and get depressed again.
It's a cycle.
Is this a Pisces thing?

I'm not a Pisces sun, it's my rising. I'm a Capricorn sun, so I have high standards for myself, but I keep finding myself daydreaming or caring too much or whatnot. I feel lost, too. I thought I knew what I wanted, but now I don't. I'm not sure how to help since I have the same problem. I just tell myself to redefine the word 'loser'. Because for whom am j wanting to achieve this? Is it necessary? If it is, get back to work.