Ex-fwb Pisces avoiding me..?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by gembaby on Thursday, August 17, 2017 and has 7 replies.

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@gembaby
8 Years

In January my guy friend and I started hooking up. Things were great at the beginning but a few months into it he started becoming distant. I assumed it was because he got the wrong idea that I wanted more (even though we had a conversation saying we both weren't into relationships right now). He and I slowly stopped hooking up and instead of coming up to me enthusiastically at parties and out, he would be distant and awkward.

We didn't see each other for a few months over summer but now we're back in our college town. The first night he saw me and came up to me being friendly and saying how he liked my new hair, giving compliments, etc. But the second time I saw him (last night) he didn't come up to me and seemed like he was avoiding me like he kind of use to. He is always in his own little world so I'm not taking it personally, but because of our past it's making me think it is personal..lol.

Anyone have any insight? Thank you🙂

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@bibi1970
9 Years

Either he felt you were falling for him or he's just over it..Either way move on and when he sees you make sure you're really having fun and not waiting for him to come over to you etc....

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@Piscis_Hominis
10 Years1,000+ Posts

could be a number of reasons...like those mentioned above...

What would you like? Do you miss hanging out with him? Do you miss having sex with him? Do you want things to go back to normal before you had sex?

Figure out what you want and then try to talk to him about it, especially if you're worried about losing entirely.

Ask him to meet you for dinner, coffee, etc... If he's seeing someone you might get your answer very soon.

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by d0s3r
he's not feeling it anymore...

I can attest pisces are fake as... I can wanna punch u but will still smile.

Annoy him enough and he might finally tell u (ghosting is easier)

Well im not fake at all and i tell it exactly how it is.... If im into you you'll know... If it's just fwb then sounds like he got what he wanted and now it's over.. Do you still want to screw him? Does it matter can't you just move on?

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by d0s3r

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by d0s3r
he's not feeling it anymore...

I can attest pisces are fake as... I can wanna punch u but will still smile.

Annoy him enough and he might finally tell u (ghosting is easier)

Well im not fake at all and i tell it exactly how it is.... If im into you you'll know... If it's just fwb then sounds like he got what he wanted and now it's over.. Do you still want to screw him? Does it matter can't you just move on?

say it exactly how it is until you have to hurt someone's feelings and be the bad person...

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I always tell it like it is. If i don't want them i will tell them. Not to get their hopes up not to get involved etc. I hate passive aggressive people.

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by d0s3r

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by d0s3r

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by d0s3r
he's not feeling it anymore...

I can attest pisces are fake as... I can wanna punch u but will still smile.

Annoy him enough and he might finally tell u (ghosting is easier)

Well im not fake at all and i tell it exactly how it is.... If im into you you'll know... If it's just fwb then sounds like he got what he wanted and now it's over.. Do you still want to screw him? Does it matter can't you just move on?

say it exactly how it is until you have to hurt someone's feelings and be the bad person...

I always tell it like it is. If i don't want them i will tell them. Not to get their hopes up not to get involved etc. I hate passive aggressive people.

interesting... that ur cancer asc doesn't do much

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Thank god.

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by d0s3r

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by d0s3r

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by d0s3r

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by d0s3r
he's not feeling it anymore...

I can attest pisces are fake as... I can wanna punch u but will still smile.

Annoy him enough and he might finally tell u (ghosting is easier)

Well im not fake at all and i tell it exactly how it is.... If im into you you'll know... If it's just fwb then sounds like he got what he wanted and now it's over.. Do you still want to screw him? Does it matter can't you just move on?

say it exactly how it is until you have to hurt someone's feelings and be the bad person...

I always tell it like it is. If i don't want them i will tell them. Not to get their hopes up not to get involved etc. I hate passive aggressive people.

interesting... that ur cancer asc doesn't do much

Thank god.

apart from the pisces do u have nothing else aspecting the asc? my venus is in 7th cap... maybe that's why mine seems more influential than yours?

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I dunno.. I guess i should look into more.