Bambi34
@Bambi34
7 Years
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Posted by EveryOunceYes lease isn’t up till end of fall
You're on a break and still live together?
Posted by FantumI didn’t think he’d react like this : ( boy was I wrong
How did you expect him to respond to the request for a break? Were you really expecting him to be mature about it? I really don't know why based on his behavior before that. Also, why would you bring that up during a fight?
By doing that, it allowed him to put you in the bad guy seat and not address his own behavior.
Posted by GemitatiWe’re 27. As of right now he pays 90% of bills while I work part time and stay at home with kids. Kinda can’t just get up and leave at the moment. It feels like a dead end and it hurts like hell. Thank you for your message.
How old both of you?
What’s his financial status in case of the end - will he pay!
How long you’ve been together?
It’s seems like a dead end! But I am feeling you’ll never end it! It’s just that family where he is an Alpha and you...whatever...
He says see ya later and comes home in the morning?
And you still there?
I bet it’s all right to money! You can’t survive alone can you? That’s all it is!
Bite the bullet and keep on living...
You can’t/won’t do nothing about it.
And I am not saying it as I am judging.
I understand what dead end is! I haven’t been at your age but I’ve seen tons of it!
It’s just unfortunate’ pray and God will help you...
Posted by EveryOunceI have been focusing on me and a routine with kid. It’s helped it’s just awkward living with someone whose this mad at you. It just hurts but I agree with what you’re saying.
Why are you continuing to accept this sort of behavior? You need to focus on you and your child because emotionally he seems to have checked out of this situation. You can not make him cjange he has to want to change.
Posted by fire_underwater27
how old are you guys?
Posted by vixen14: (
You’re being played and you’re allowing it. It’s as simple as that.
Posted by STILLNot at the moment but it’s not something I can’t make happen. Right now he pays 90 percent of bills so I can’t just get up and leave. I work part time and stay at home with kids. I wanted to work things out but it’s not going that way or looking like it will.
This is a hard one because of the kids What do you hope to accomplish with him? Are you able to handle all bills without him?
Posted by Bambi34
I’m an Aquarius female and my boyfriend/baby daddy is a Pisces male. We’ve been living together for 3 1/2 years now. We’ve been in a bad spot in our relationship for some time. I’ve tried over and over and over to let him know that I feel like some of my needs aren’t being met.
So am I being punished? Is it over? Did I hurt him— I mean WTF!
Posted by sierra_lol, he will when he sees her get ready and really pretty going out the door.
he's gonna make you break up with me
damn i'd be out the door so fast


Posted by Bambi34Ooohh! That’s why you haven’t put him out yet. I’m really sorry you’re going through this. You’re living an aqua women’s worst nightmare. If you haven’t already started saving money from your part time job and you are able to, start.Posted by STILLNot at the moment but it’s not something I can’t make happen. Right now he pays 90 percent of bills so I can’t just get up and leave. I work part time and stay at home with kids. I wanted to work things out but it’s not going that way or looking like it will.
This is a hard one because of the kids What do you hope to accomplish with him? Are you able to handle all bills without him?click to expand
Posted by saggurl88This is sooooooooooo funny. Oh my gosh was he spot on. This is what I deal with everyday. It’s the playing victim pity party I have to deal with. I can’t even talk about myself because he requires him to not have bad for himself and focus on someone other than him. The day dreaming but never wanting to do anything because he’d have to stop playing victim and actually get his shit together. He’s been talking about doing the same thing for years and I keep pushing him towards it but the moment I get tired of it “you don’t support me”. Oh my gosh this video was just everything I needed to know I’m not fucking crazy. The manipulation is REAL.
Awwww Pisces lol

Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
Posted by Merm88idI have been working on myself- one of my goals this year was to lose 20 pounds. Lost 10 so far and I’m proud of that because I haven’t let him get in the way of my goals. I have other goals I’ve been completing as well and it does help. His energy towards me gets distracting and I get sad sometimes but I decided I wasn’t going to give up and focus entirely on someone whose treating me the way he is. Thank you for your words. Regardless the outcome they are very positive and the right path to take. I will continue on doing so.Posted by Bambi34
I’m an Aquarius female and my boyfriend/baby daddy is a Pisces male. We’ve been living together for 3 1/2 years now. We’ve been in a bad spot in our relationship for some time. I’ve tried over and over and over to let him know that I feel like some of my needs aren’t being met.
So am I being punished? Is it over? Did I hurt him— I mean WTF!
Bambi,
I am going to tell you a few words and I hope you pay very close attention and value these words I am going to share with you
listen carefully If you really want to turn your situation around.
Even though you want to to talk about things with him so he can compromise and he just wont talk to you. you know why? it is because men react to silence rather than with words.
Stop this instant pressuring him to talk and start doing what makes you happy. start making yourself happy with what is around you, wake up refreshed every morning, happy, smiling, even if the situation is hurting you right now. love and treat your kids with love and set aside your frustration.
GO OUT do healthy things for yourself, have some "ME time" for yourself, take your kids out to eat with you, take them out and have fun with them, get ready and real pretty for yourself and go out and have a relaxing lunch, breakfast or dinner by yourself or with your girlfriends. Invite your girlfriends to hang out with you but behave like a respectful lady do not go out with men. He won't know that you do or do not and that will bring his HUGE jack ass ego down a bit and will not want to lose you if he loves you.
This ^^ will cause him to turn his head around and pay attention to you, as he will start feeling he does not have you where he has had you all along. depressed, crying for him, DESPERATE for him and him as being a jack ass as many men is enjoying it. But do not get offended its quite normal after all the boredom and him feeling annoyed you are making him responsible for your own happiness.
He actually wants you to step it up and do these things for yourself so he can notice you once again.
I have seen this happen in my life and many other couples around me. When the woman decides to step up and feel complete with herself, the man makes it right. And as I said before if he loves you and I am sure he does, I assure you he will make it right. Men are fixers and he will want on his own fix the situation.
Seeing you happy will start crushing his ego and will not want any men making you happy because that is his job as your partner.
But please do take some responsibility in this situation, never put so much pressure on someone for your own happiness, when you are happy on your own, you attract people and your man to come enjoy the happiness you have created for your own self.
I am also a woman and I am older than you, I know how you feel and I have been through the same situation so I have learned along the way.
Good luck and there is light at the end of the tunnel, don't feel it is all lost. Just be complete and happy on your own, you will see the results. :-)
And remember that smile you will have on your face every morning it will be because ---all this you are doing it not to win him back but to win yourself back because you have lost yourself along the way and it is you what is important and you need to love yourself and regain control of your self like when he first met and fell in love with you.
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Posted by Bambi34I'm glad you got some clarity.Posted by saggurl88This is sooooooooooo funny. Oh my gosh was he spot on. This is what I deal with everyday. It’s the playing victim pity party I have to deal with. I can’t even talk about myself because he requires him to not have bad for himself and focus on someone other than him. The day dreaming but never wanting to do anything because he’d have to stop playing victim and actually get his shit together. He’s been talking about doing the same thing for years and I keep pushing him towards it but the moment I get tired of it “you don’t support me”. Oh my gosh this video was just everything I needed to know I’m not fucking crazy. The manipulation is REAL.
Awwww Pisces lol
Of course my Pisces ran with the break. It was the perfect opportunity to have everyone feel bad and give him reason to act like the biggest dick ever. Guaranteed if he ever talks to me it’ll be a blame party towards me where he takes no accountability. This video just made my day. THANK YOU. I’m not crazy!!!!!
I’m sure not all Pisces are this insane but this video hit home for my boyfriend. Word for word. I do better with female Pisces than males. I don’t even understand Justin Bieber. A multi millionaire who walks around purposely with a cloud over his head.click to expand
Posted by STILLI watched the whole thing laughing the entire time. Like hands down this is my Pisces boyfriend. Took me out of my mood real quick.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
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Posted by STILLI DID! 😄 I Really like him, He's an Aquarius lol I love it when Aquas get lost in thought and ramble on these videos. I think it's adorable and like seeing where their mind takes them.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"click to expand

Posted by Bambi34Posted by saggurl88This is sooooooooooo funny. Oh my gosh was he spot on. This is what I deal with everyday. It’s the playing victim pity party I have to deal with. I can’t even talk about myself because he requires him to not have bad for himself and focus on someone other than him. The day dreaming but never wanting to do anything because he’d have to stop playing victim and actually get his shit together. He’s been talking about doing the same thing for years and I keep pushing him towards it but the moment I get tired of it “you don’t support me”. Oh my gosh this video was just everything I needed to know I’m not fucking crazy. The manipulation is REAL.
Awwww Pisces lol
Of course my Pisces ran with the break. It was the perfect opportunity to have everyone feel bad and give him reason to act like the biggest dick ever. Guaranteed if he ever talks to me it’ll be a blame party towards me where he takes no accountability. This video just made my day. THANK YOU. I’m not crazy!!!!!
I’m sure not all Pisces are this insane but this video hit home for my boyfriend. Word for word. I do better with female Pisces than males. I don’t even understand Justin Bieber. A multi millionaire who walks around purposely with a cloud over his head.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Bambi34Posted by saggurl88This is sooooooooooo funny. Oh my gosh was he spot on. This is what I deal with everyday. It’s the playing victim pity party I have to deal with. I can’t even talk about myself because he requires him to not have bad for himself and focus on someone other than him. The day dreaming but never wanting to do anything because he’d have to stop playing victim and actually get his shit together. He’s been talking about doing the same thing for years and I keep pushing him towards it but the moment I get tired of it “you don’t support me”. Oh my gosh this video was just everything I needed to know I’m not fucking crazy. The manipulation is REAL.
Awwww Pisces lol
Of course my Pisces ran with the break. It was the perfect opportunity to have everyone feel bad and give him reason to act like the biggest dick ever. Guaranteed if he ever talks to me it’ll be a blame party towards me where he takes no accountability. This video just made my day. THANK YOU. I’m not crazy!!!!!
I’m sure not all Pisces are this insane but this video hit home for my boyfriend. Word for word. I do better with female Pisces than males. I don’t even understand Justin Bieber. A multi millionaire who walks around purposely with a cloud over his head.
Some of you Aquas just see the sweetness of Pisces and Cancers and are so surprised at the same manipulative tactics and mind games that got your heart is the same crap they pull in the end. It's just flipped and not sweet anymore. But some of you guys are always so blindsided by it. I don't get why you don't see it.
I'm not saying they are bad but they sure know how to work a person over.
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Posted by Bambi34*aquas do their researchPosted by saggurl88Posted by Bambi34Posted by saggurl88This is sooooooooooo funny. Oh my gosh was he spot on. This is what I deal with everyday. It’s the playing victim pity party I have to deal with. I can’t even talk about myself because he requires him to not have bad for himself and focus on someone other than him. The day dreaming but never wanting to do anything because he’d have to stop playing victim and actually get his shit together. He’s been talking about doing the same thing for years and I keep pushing him towards it but the moment I get tired of it “you don’t support me”. Oh my gosh this video was just everything I needed to know I’m not fucking crazy. The manipulation is REAL.
Awwww Pisces lol
Of course my Pisces ran with the break. It was the perfect opportunity to have everyone feel bad and give him reason to act like the biggest dick ever. Guaranteed if he ever talks to me it’ll be a blame party towards me where he takes no accountability. This video just made my day. THANK YOU. I’m not crazy!!!!!
I’m sure not all Pisces are this insane but this video hit home for my boyfriend. Word for word. I do better with female Pisces than males. I don’t even understand Justin Bieber. A multi millionaire who walks around purposely with a cloud over his head.
Some of you Aquas just see the sweetness of Pisces and Cancers and are so surprised at the same manipulative tactics and mind games that got your heart is the same crap they pull in the end. It's just flipped and not sweet anymore. But some of you guys are always so blindsided by it. I don't get why you don't see it.
I'm not saying they are bad but they sure know how to work a person over.
You couldn’t of said that any better. When I first met him I thought he was so innocent and sweet. He told me all the things that happened to him growing up (as though most of us didn’t have fucked up childhoods) and I just felt for him. But now on the flip side I see why he drove so many of his exes crazy. He can get really mean and then flip it as though he’s the victim in the situation. Or you ask to compromise on something and he plays it (just like the video said) like “look at everything I’ve been doing”. All I wanted was some quality time spent with you, excuse me.
I was wondering what sign that guy was. Makes sense now. He was so passionate about it too lol squad do their research. It’s where we get the term “I know” from.
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Posted by saggurl88He is so high though. I've watched a few of his videos before. He goes off! You can coin alot of his phrases. I love when he said "save it for the crib". I'm going to start telling people that.Posted by STILLI DID! 😄 I Really like him, He's an Aquarius lol I love it when Aquas get lost in thought and ramble on these videos. I think it's adorable and like seeing where their mind takes them.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"click to expand

Posted by Bambi34Good! You needed a laugh. Thanks to @saggurl88.Posted by STILLI watched the whole thing laughing the entire time. Like hands down this is my Pisces boyfriend. Took me out of my mood real quick.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"
It’s funny two of my best friends are Pisces but their females and I don’t have this problem with them. Their emotional for sure but shit I am too at times. Just different I guess lol.click to expand

Posted by STILL😍😍😘😘😘 you're so cute lol. Giving shot outs left and right! Lmao.Posted by Bambi34Good! You needed a laugh. Thanks to @saggurl88.Posted by STILLI watched the whole thing laughing the entire time. Like hands down this is my Pisces boyfriend. Took me out of my mood real quick.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"
It’s funny two of my best friends are Pisces but their females and I don’t have this problem with them. Their emotional for sure but shit I am too at times. Just different I guess lol.
Remember you're an Aqua. You'll bounce back in no time!
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Posted by STILLYeah I know. But he's funny and I like how he hips around to different subjects when he talks.Posted by saggurl88He is so high though. I've watched a few of his videos before. He goes off! You can coin alot of his phrases. I love when he said "save it for the crib". I'm going to start telling people that.Posted by STILLI DID! 😄 I Really like him, He's an Aquarius lol I love it when Aquas get lost in thought and ramble on these videos. I think it's adorable and like seeing where their mind takes them.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"
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Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILL😍😍😘😘😘 you're so cute lol. Giving shot outs left and right! Lmao.Posted by Bambi34Good! You needed a laugh. Thanks to @saggurl88.Posted by STILLI watched the whole thing laughing the entire time. Like hands down this is my Pisces boyfriend. Took me out of my mood real quick.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"
It’s funny two of my best friends are Pisces but their females and I don’t have this problem with them. Their emotional for sure but shit I am too at times. Just different I guess lol.
Remember you're an Aqua. You'll bounce back in no time!
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Posted by saggurl88Yaasss he is funny.Posted by STILLYeah I know. But he's funny and I like how he hips around to different subjects when he talks.Posted by saggurl88He is so high though. I've watched a few of his videos before. He goes off! You can coin alot of his phrases. I love when he said "save it for the crib". I'm going to start telling people that.Posted by STILLI DID! 😄 I Really like him, He's an Aquarius lol I love it when Aquas get lost in thought and ramble on these videos. I think it's adorable and like seeing where their mind takes them.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"
I don't know how he does it when he's driving! Then he gets so nervous when he sees the police coming 😂😂😂😂
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Posted by STILL😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 great idea!Posted by saggurl88Yaasss he is funny.Posted by STILLYeah I know. But he's funny and I like how he hips around to different subjects when he talks.Posted by saggurl88He is so high though. I've watched a few of his videos before. He goes off! You can coin alot of his phrases. I love when he said "save it for the crib". I'm going to start telling people that.Posted by STILLI DID! 😄 I Really like him, He's an Aquarius lol I love it when Aquas get lost in thought and ramble on these videos. I think it's adorable and like seeing where their mind takes them.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"
I don't know how he does it when he's driving! Then he gets so nervous when he sees the police coming 😂😂😂😂
All that paranoia from all that weed.
I'm going to watch all his videos and use his phrases. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
He should start a business using his phrases for gifs. I'll write him on YouTube and give him that free idea. 😁
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Posted by saggurl88Thanks.Posted by STILL😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 great idea!Posted by saggurl88Yaasss he is funny.Posted by STILLYeah I know. But he's funny and I like how he hips around to different subjects when he talks.Posted by saggurl88He is so high though. I've watched a few of his videos before. He goes off! You can coin alot of his phrases. I love when he said "save it for the crib". I'm going to start telling people that.Posted by STILLI DID! 😄 I Really like him, He's an Aquarius lol I love it when Aquas get lost in thought and ramble on these videos. I think it's adorable and like seeing where their mind takes them.Posted by saggurl88Hilariously! I can't stop crying. You watched the entire vid?
Awwww Pisces lol
"save it for the cribb"
I don't know how he does it when he's driving! Then he gets so nervous when he sees the police coming 😂😂😂😂
All that paranoia from all that weed.
I'm going to watch all his videos and use his phrases. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
He should start a business using his phrases for gifs. I'll write him on YouTube and give him that free idea. 😁
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I’ve just been feeling like this relationship isn’t that important to him or at least he doesn’t show it. And if I ask him to try something different he fights it to the core. So stubborn. So one day we got in a huge fight and I told him we should take a break and re evaluate this whole situation. You tell me what you need and I’ll tell you what I need and see if we can compromise. Well he went off the deep end. Started partying non stop, going places with people, coming home till late in the morning, make up on his shirt from the club. Being a huge D I C K . I mean constant attitude like he wants nothing to do with me. If I do talk he looks at my with a high annoyance. I asked for a break 4 weeks ago and we haven’t slept together or had any real conversation. I’ve tried 3 different times to talk and each time he’s shut me down telling me “this is what you asked for”. Finally he told me he’ll let me know when he’s ready to talk. He won’t end the relationship even when I ask if that’s what he wants. I swear he’s acting like I did something horrible to him and if I did why not speak up!!! It went from me being the hurt one to him flipping the story and playing the victim card. Like sometimes I feel he wants me to start chasing and begging him, which I will not do.
So am I being punished? Is it over? Did I hurt him— I mean WTF!