Help with Pisces

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capricorn81
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Hello everyone. I’ve been dating a Pisces man for about 3 years. We’ve always had trouble with him disappearing, but lately it has gotten bad. He will pick a huge fight over some very minor misunderstanding, tell me to not come around, that he wants to break up, etc, no matter what I do...even to the point of apologizing for things I didn’t do wrong, begging him to talk in person instead of fighting by text, etc. Historically, he has always come back around in a day or two, very sorry, talking about building a house together, all these things. Yesterday, on Thanksgiving, no less, I sent a single text to find out what our plans were so I could get ready. We were supposed to be at a dinner at 5:00, it was 4:15, and I was about 30 minutes away. I had heard nothing at all from him since 1:30 as far as our plans. He was with his son and dad at the time I texted. We went OFF. Told me to kiss his ass. That no woman was going to come between him and his son. I tried to explain that I only wanted to know if I should start getting ready and apologized, again asking him to meet to talk in person. He continued to tell me to kiss his a@@, that he could do so much better, all these terrible things. Then blocked me from texting. I have since blocked him on all social media and communication lines. But I have to know...Pisces is normally known to be more laid back as far as conflict. What is going on here? He’s Pisces sun, Gemini moon, ascendant Virgo.
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berrecerre
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tbh pisceans could be more emotional and paranoid than being laid back 😅

usually when i push people away like that, it's because i make up scenarios in my mind and think about what the other person would do (most of the time it's horrible things).

so basically he probably overreacted on something he made up in his mind and then treated you based on his imagination of you.

i feel so sorry that you have to go through that :") you deserve better
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capricorn81
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Thank you for that. It actually makes a lot of sense. I started a new job recently that requires travel, and these overreactions have been non-stop since the week before I started the job. I’m just so tired of fighting it. I try to gently talk him down, remind him that we made promises to always talk in person or at least on the phone about any misunderstandings. He won’t ever back down. He just goes for the jugular and won’t let go until HE wants to.
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Esotaria
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I would suggest that you refuse to tolerate the disrespect you're receiving from your Pisces. His behavior is showing that he doesn't want the relationship as much as you do. Don't apologize to him as a way of trying to "fix" things. Understand that he's not worthy of your attention and it's time to move on. If you decide to stay with him - have the relationship on your terms where you can experience self love regardless of his behavior. Self love is incredibly important.
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Undine
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Posted by capricorn81 But I have to know...Pisces is normally known to be more laid back as far as conflict. What is going on here? He’s Pisces sun, Gemini moon, ascendant Virgo.

I've got a friend who's his astro twin (also 57, Pisces sun, Gemini moon, ascendant Virgo)!!! I've known him for 20 years (we worked together). We are not dating, but I stay at his house for companionship and convenience. Although we do argue sometimes, he was never as offensive as your "date".

Please do not tolerate his rude behaviour! He does not care about your feelings and has no respect for you! Keep him blocked, and don't answer your door either, if he comes by "apologizing". He probably does it because he feels sorry for himself, not for you!!! Please move on!
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sweetpea2977
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Posted by capricorn81

He’s 57 years old, by the way.


57 and an asshole.

His blocking you is a blessing. Your blocking him back is progression. Keep moving forward and stop trying to understand the ways of this bipolar POS 🤦 He's going to exhaust the life out of you WHILE weakening you for the next man. It's all strategic. Your self worth is NOT where it NEEDS to be. That is the MAIN REASON why you've allowed this douche to come and go as he pleases throwing tantrums and ill words your way. Remove yourself as his target and do some self reflection to avoid dudes like this in the future.