Pisces man dissappeared

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by cclove_1969 on Monday, November 18, 2019 and has 14 replies.

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@cclove_1969
9 Years

So i have been dating a pisces man for over 2 months everything is going good did not get into an argument but recently he has been quiet sent me a message that things have been crazy with work and stuff thats the last i heard he has been ignoring my phone calls and text has been two days i have not talked to him

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@cclove_1969
9 Years

And i understand a little about pisces we do not like confrontatuons because i am a pisces woman. But at the same time i would be honest even though it wouldn't be.the most comfortable situation

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@besarlalluvia
12 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Aquarelle

Posted by Arielle83

Why don’t people listen to what people tell them and respect that?

He told you he was busy with work.

Get a hobby.

Or choose to be paranoid and create drama in your head.

Yeah, but why not take 5 seconds and send a short text.

Something along the lines of: "Sorry for not responding,I'm busy, talk to you soon/ in a few days/ etc."?

It takes less than a minute.

Seems like a small effort, to reassure someone you like.

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But that would be repeating what he already told you 2 days ago.....

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@Tinnedglass
6 Years

I wouldn't tag two days of no communication as disappearing. Theres work stuff, family, friends, your own me time too.

Relax, things are fine.

Worry if there's no communication in a couple of months or so.

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@besarlalluvia
12 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Aquarelle

Posted by besarlalluvia

Posted by Aquarelle

Posted by Arielle83

Why don’t people listen to what people tell them and respect that?

He told you he was busy with work.

Get a hobby.

Or choose to be paranoid and create drama in your head.

Yeah, but why not take 5 seconds and send a short text.

Something along the lines of: "Sorry for not responding,I'm busy, talk to you soon/ in a few days/ etc."?

It takes less than a minute.

Seems like a small effort, to reassure someone you like.

But that would be repeating what he already told you 2 days ago.....

Not exactly, because it may be easier not to hear from someone if you know it will only take a couple of days.

Now OP is left completely in the dark.

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You are right. I was going to say, as a pisces (for what it's worth), if he said he is busy, just send a little message, but don't expect him to reach out. But i see he has ignored phone calls. Even if i were busy, i would send a message to say why i don't want to answer phonecalls. He is either seriously stressed, or just trying to ghost. If i like someone, i tend to become a little more clingy if i am ignored. If i don't, you can ignore me back and i don't care (take that as you will, op)

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@pooface222
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by cclove_1969

So i have been dating a pisces man for over 2 months everything is going good did not get into an argument but recently he has been quiet sent me a message that things have been crazy with work and stuff thats the last i heard he has been ignoring my phone calls and text has been two days i have not talked to him

I have had this behaviour with a pisces man. And honestly it does piss me off.

And I'm Patient. And a Capricorn woman and its a great combination.

I have bern asking that questiin myself about their disappearing. Apparently Pisces men do this because they're not sure of you.

They take their time. Think about you and disappear to digest what they have with you. Msybe he's working yoy out aand will come out of his shell soon..x

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@pisceanloves
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm with Pisces man, I'd give you some tips as to what to do but if he doesn't feel you there can't be much done I'm sorry. Now first and foremost provide yours and his charts please and let's get into it

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@Sunmoonrising
7 Years

Leave it a week then see. He will most probably get into a routine of texting and calling over the coming months when the relationship more serious. Just take it day by day. It's still damn rude to be ignored especially when you've done nothing wrong.

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@Tinnedglass
6 Years

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Tinnedglass

I wouldn't tag two days of no communication as disappearing. Theres work stuff, family, friends, your own me time too.

Relax, things are fine.

Worry if there's no communication in a couple of months or so.

A couple months? Fuck that noise.

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My partner and i, see each other once or twice a month. Anymore than that and it's too much.

Im a pisces shes an aqua

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@Tinnedglass
6 Years

Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Tinnedglass

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Tinnedglass

I wouldn't tag two days of no communication as disappearing. Theres work stuff, family, friends, your own me time too.

Relax, things are fine.

Worry if there's no communication in a couple of months or so.

A couple months? Fuck that noise.

My partner and i, see each other once or twice a month. Anymore than that and it's too much.

Im a pisces shes an aqua

So when you don't see each other, there's no communication at all?

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Some texts, briefly.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

All who suggested ‘it’ll be ok’...so how do you feel during them being out of communication?

‘I have a boyfriend...we haven’t talked for a month but I am pretty sure I have a boyfriend...’🤔 User Submitted Image

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@yellow01gt
19 Years500+ PostsPisces

"prone to escapism, evasiveness and just plain wanting to get away from (whatever noise it is)"...

this is what pisces men have always done, are doing right now and will continue to do...

you have to create an atmosphere that...idk, makes us want to be there...this is basic b i t c h stuff...

come on now, so when we catch a bad vibe from a person or an unfamiliar situation...

or are just sick of someones mouth or stay out for too long doing something besides what "we should be doing", and then we aren't in a hurry to come home or be there at all...

the only sign that has pisces beat when it come to evasiveness is libra, and that's by a small margin (i know bc my mother is a libra lol)...

and this is hard to figure out? smdh...