how can a scorpio attract pisces?

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Posted by Tony_So_Stellar!!!
You shouldn't really have to do anything because Scorpios and Pisceans go together like PB & J. The only thing I would suggest is that you don't be too intense, possessive or jealous because if you want to see how slippery a Pisces can be, then be my guess and do those things. A Piscean will give you the slip before you even know they're gone. I know this because I recently had to give a bossy Scorpio the slip just as I was being cornered. Just take it easy and a Piscean will stick with you. "Vrai amour n`est jamals controler ou bossy."

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Well spoken Tony_So_Stellar! I am a Pisces and my ex is a Scorpio and one of our biggest problems was his jealousy and possessiveness! I am the most trustworthy person ever and he just couldn't get that through his head even after 8 years!!! I will NEVER be with a man with those qualities again! I am sure not all Scorpio men/women are to that extreme...at least I hope not...b/c I seem to attract them very easily and I too tend to be attracted to them...lol. I am now seeing a Virgo and that is a big difference! The thing I like about Scorpios is that they are really good at making you feel wanted and doted upon and they call and want to spend time with you a lot. I am having to have the patience of Job with this Virgo and never had to go through this uncertainty with Scorpios or other Pisces...lol.
Good luck ScorpioTexas! :-)
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Haha so have I! 😉

I think it's one of those element things. As a Leo I should blend well together with Sags and Aries, but I've never actually been attracted to my fellow fire signs once I look beyond the surface. At best we just make good friends. I guess same thing goes for Pisces and their fellow water signs. It doesen't mean instant attraction, it only means good communication.

The Pisces girls I know usually find Scorpio dudes irritating. So I haven't seen any of that magic yet.

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I agree that Pisces and Scorpios have an incrediable connection.


Pisces are usually attraction to people who are genuine ... and we can tell when a person is "acting". Be real, and we will see you, and we will let you know that we aware of you. Act-out of context of your true self and we will see this also, and we will also let you know we know, normally by either ignoring you or letting you feel unimportant/irrelevant to us.


Alas, this ^^^^ is why Pisces and Virgos do so well together. And which is also why Pisces and Geminis crash and burn.


Generally speaking, of course.


The problem arises in Pisces and Scorpio where the Fish begins to not tolerate the Scorpions need to blame, which they do trying to gain emotional control. At first, Pisces will look the other way because of the psychic connection .. it will be decided by the Fish that this Pro outwieghs the Con. However, over a period of time, after the Pisces realizes that the experience is nearing its end, this Blame-Game will no longer be tolerated, and the Pisces swims off emotionally.

Keep in mind that I said, "swims off emotionally" ... because a Pisces can ride out a relationship for ages, if they choose to, and not be emotionally connected to the person. Once the Fish decides its time to go, it could take years to actually leave .. however, they're already gone emotionally.

And this tends to happen with Pisces/Scorpios relationships. In fact, most relationships. We normally swim away emotionally long before the split in the physical sense.

It's obvious from the couple posts you've made in here that you question whether you are actually in a relationship or not, and you're not.


He's a Pisces ... you are in a world that resides inside a bubble.

And that is a good thing.

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Posted by enfant_terrible
I see a Pisces on the board I'm not yet aqainted with! I got myself a new playmate! Stpatrickspisces, you hot stuff... forget the Scorps, come over to the winning side. I hear us Leos have warm embraces 😉



Aaawww...how sweet! Thank you enfant! I have dated a couple of Leos but the last one was just too damn full of himself...lol. He was also a huge flirt!!! 😉
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Sounds like a Leo alright! You might wanna try one with a more balanced chart! But I see you're already taken 😉



Trying to be I guess is more like it but I don't know if I have the patience it takes for this Virgo...lol. I can't get my intuition to work either so I really don't know how he feels about me hence why I say that I like the way the other signs I have been with have really SHOWN and SAID how they want to be with me and communicated their desires more (and my intuition would work so I FELT how they felt about me..he he)!
Relationships can be so darn complicated and that's why I would just rather enjoy life with friends for right now and not worry about it but then I still do so it's just a big catch 22!!
I wish I could just ask men our right what their birthdate, time and place is so I can look up their chart without them thinking I'm wacko! By the time you get to that point you are usually already seeing them and may be a bit attached.
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A Pisces without intuition?? Sounds very dangerous! I'm thinking self-inflicted injuries of the heart kind :0

I know what you mean. Every time I'm getting to know someone new I'm always trying to figure out their sign without actually asking them straight out, not all people are into that kind of stuff. And if I don't know the signs of the people I'm interacting with I get totally confused..... you might even call it stage fright! Haha I don't think this astrology business is healthy for either of us

It seems Pisces women are a dream project for anyone who likes to shower their lovers with affection, if that is how they feel about you. I don't know how come your Virgo isn't more communicative. Truth is I don't know much about Virgos, but in terms of free associations the Virgos I've met have been very much like an extension of Leos and Sags.

All I know it's very liberating being around Pisceans because I don't have to play mind games with them .
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As a pisces, I always emotionally "swim away" before any sign physical break. Once I'm gone it doesn't long before my "single actions" force them to break up with me. I would much rather have it that way anyhow. Why would I, as a sweet, innocent pisces, wanna break up with someone?? :p

As for Scorpio's.. for me they are everything I want to be, secretive, detectives, suspicious. I can't keep secrets to save my life, and suspicious? I would kill for that quality, might make me less of an "astrological doormat" as I've heard pisces be deemed. And there's no question when a scorpio wants you. They wear lust in their eyes, like a pisces wears sadness.
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Posted by enfant_terrible
A Pisces without intuition?? Sounds very dangerous! I'm thinking self-inflicted injuries of the heart kind :0

I know what you mean. Every time I'm getting to know someone new I'm always trying to figure out their sign without actually asking them straight out, not all people are into that kind of stuff. And if I don't know the signs of the people I'm interacting with I get totally confused..... you might even call it stage fright! Haha I don't think this astrology business is healthy for either of us

It seems Pisces women are a dream project for anyone who likes to shower their lovers with affection, if that is how they feel about you. I don't know how come your Virgo isn't more communicative. Truth is I don't know much about Virgos, but in terms of free associations the Virgos I've met have been very much like an extension of Leos and Sags.

All I know it's very liberating being around Pisceans because I don't have to play mind games with them .



Pisces without her intuition is NOT fun! I like to know/feel what I am dealing with! Read the Virgo board and you will find out what difficulty I am having and every other post is about the patience you have to have...lol. I don't have that kind of patience!!! You can't usually play games with Pisces b/c of our intuitiveness and ability to see through the games. We are very hard to get one over on in the terms of games...at least that's IMO! I have had my heart injured and that's why it is probably harder for me to judge where things are at with the Virgo. If he's not really into me that's okay b/c there are plenty of other "fish" in the sea....lol. 😄
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Posted by Stpatrickspisces
Read the Virgo board and you will find out what difficulty I am having and every other post is about the patience you have to have...lol. I don't have that kind of patience!!!



Wow that's one long post based upon whether or not to show up on one of his gigs. I'm talking existentialism, haha! Well, I can only say on thing: MUSICIANS! Can't live with them, can't massacre them. But I know Virgos can be a handful. I've lost a good Virgo friend for no appearant reason, he pulled a Pisces on me and sort of slowly swam away. So yeah, you never know what's going on in their minds.


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Nah I've never been attracted to scorps either.. Don't know why though!
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Indeed, some Pisces seem to only attract Scorpios while others can't stand them. And I've only met Pisces/Scorp couples online, never IRL for some reason.
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Read the Virgo board and you will find out what difficulty I am having and every other post is about the patience you have to have...lol. I don't have that kind of patience!!!
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Wow that's one long post based upon whether or not to show up on one of his gigs. I'm talking existentialism, haha! Well, I can only say on thing: MUSICIANS! Can't live with them, can't massacre them. But I know Virgos can be a handful. I've lost a good Virgo friend for no appearant reason, he pulled a Pisces on me and sort of slowly swam away. So yeah, you never know what's going on in their minds.


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That's just one thread that I have received advice on...lol. It was crazy long and I appreciated the input but then things were being said that I didn't do or say...etc so was kind of weird. The main thing is that everyone says to wait and have patience to know where he stands and that is so hard!! I have a Scorpio friend trying to talk to me and he is so sweet and so upfront about what he wants to happen but I am still quite smitten with Virgo. I am trying to chill but on top of everything else I have ADHD!! That makes me really want things to happen or I try to make them happen...lmao! I just love DXP though b/c you can get some really great advice and perspectives and see things from others points of view and I think all people can benefit from that for sure! 😄
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Posted by Stpatrickspisces
I have a Scorpio friend trying to talk to me and he is so sweet and so upfront about what he wants to happen but I am still quite smitten with Virgo.



Finders keepers, lovers weepers...or somthing along those lines. I this case the Scorpio dude would be the finder keeper, and the Virgo is the sucker/weeper. But how do you feel about that Scorpio? I mean let's say you catch Mr. Virgo, could you really put up with his sh*t? You two seem to have a very different needs in terms of communication.
But I guess you can't argue with feelings, I'm Cancer moon so I know. Every decision I make is based on feelings. And one day that'll be the death of me haha



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^^^ hahaha.

Hey enfrant, when were you born?

My leo cousin was born on the 21st and we got along too well... I mean we could reach each others minds. Yet, he was the pimp, and I was the jokester...
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I'm born on the 13th. Yes, this Virgo friend of mine and I were pretty much alike. Makes me wonder if there in fact are twelve signs. Maybe there are only 6-7 signs... I mean up until now Pluto was a planet. Makes you think.
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I have a Scorpio friend trying to talk to me and he is so sweet and so upfront about what he wants to happen but I am still quite smitten with Virgo.
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Finders keepers, lovers weepers...or somthing along those lines. I this case the Scorpio dude would be the finder keeper, and the Virgo is the sucker/weeper. But how do you feel about that Scorpio? I mean let's say you catch Mr. Virgo, could you really put up with his sh*t? You two seem to have a very different needs in terms of communication.
But I guess you can't argue with feelings, I'm Cancer moon so I know. Every decision I make is based on feelings. And one day that'll be the death of me haha

It's hard b/c I am all about feelings even when my brain tries to tell me otherwise. He is really so very wonderful when we are together and I have put a lot of thought into it the last couple of days. I don't know if I am ready for a Scorpio b/c I know s lot of them are very possessive and jealous and I finally have my freedom and want to keep it! lol. That's why when I really think about it that I do like what the Virgo and I have. I am just used to more attention and communication. He always responds when I do contact him even if it's just a little answer so it's not like he's being rude or anything. He really wants the same type of relationship and in reading more and more from Virgos and the women with them I can understand that it's not me it's just him taking his time and having the freedom that I actually want as well. I am going to give it more time and see what happens. I am having such a great time with friends and doing things that make me happy! I am definitely not going to be pining away for anyone! I don't want to have my time monopolized and I have school and work as well so this works out and I am just going to try and go with the flow and enjoy what we do have! (We'll see how that goes by my future posts...lol)