
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?


Posted by d0s3r
just respond and stop jumping to conclusions

Posted by Algol-Rising
Someone pulled that on me, but he knew it was me. There is a number I deleted but still recognize too. I'm sorry. I know it hurts.

Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by Aquarius3189With so little information it's hard to know what you should do. I'm a Gem, but Pisces moon, and a Scorpio did this to me. I waited for a while until I collected my feelings, because receiving that bullshit "who dis?" text made me cry for a few days. Eventually, if I recall correctly, I sent him an email and told him that reply hurt my feelings. In my case, I knew he knew it was me and was just being an asshole because he was mad at me.Posted by Algol-Rising
Someone pulled that on me, but he knew it was me. There is a number I deleted but still recognize too. I'm sorry. I know it hurts.
your the pisces?do i tell her all i feel then if she doesnt take it just move on?click to expand

Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by Aquarius3189With so little information it's hard to know what you should do. I'm a Gem, but Pisces moon, and a Scorpio did this to me. I waited for a while until I collected my feelings, because receiving that bullshit "who dis?" text made me cry for a few days. Eventually, if I recall correctly, I sent him an email and told him that reply hurt my feelings. In my case, I knew he knew it was me and was just being an asshole because he was mad at me.Posted by Algol-Rising
Someone pulled that on me, but he knew it was me. There is a number I deleted but still recognize too. I'm sorry. I know it hurts.
your the pisces?do i tell her all i feel then if she doesnt take it just move on?click to expand

Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by Aquarius3189No, it means he did in my case. I don't know what was going on in your situation.Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by Aquarius3189With so little information it's hard to know what you should do. I'm a Gem, but Pisces moon, and a Scorpio did this to me. I waited for a while until I collected my feelings, because receiving that bullshit "who dis?" text made me cry for a few days. Eventually, if I recall correctly, I sent him an email and told him that reply hurt my feelings. In my case, I knew he knew it was me and was just being an asshole because he was mad at me.Posted by Algol-Rising
Someone pulled that on me, but he knew it was me. There is a number I deleted but still recognize too. I'm sorry. I know it hurts.
your the pisces?do i tell her all i feel then if she doesnt take it just move on?
that means she knew it was me from the start?well then i might as well get this off my chest then move on if she doesnt want me in her life anymore
The important questions are...what do you want to do? Do you need to get it off your chest? And are you prepared for whatever her response might be, even not responding?click to expand

Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by Aquarius3189Well, you know what to do, you just have to figure out the best way to do it.Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by Aquarius3189No, it means he did in my case. I don't know what was going on in your situation.Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by Aquarius3189With so little information it's hard to know what you should do. I'm a Gem, but Pisces moon, and a Scorpio did this to me. I waited for a while until I collected my feelings, because receiving that bullshit "who dis?" text made me cry for a few days. Eventually, if I recall correctly, I sent him an email and told him that reply hurt my feelings. In my case, I knew he knew it was me and was just being an asshole because he was mad at me.Posted by Algol-Rising
Someone pulled that on me, but he knew it was me. There is a number I deleted but still recognize too. I'm sorry. I know it hurts.
your the pisces?do i tell her all i feel then if she doesnt take it just move on?
that means she knew it was me from the start?well then i might as well get this off my chest then move on if she doesnt want me in her life anymore
The important questions are...what do you want to do? Do you need to get it off your chest? And are you prepared for whatever her response might be, even not responding?
yes its what i want even if its negative,i just wanna know so i can move on from this friendship even if she doesnt want anything to do with me atleast i know,i dont just connect with anybody i pick who i trust so when i lose a friend its like i lose a loved oneclick to expand

Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?click to expand

Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?click to expand

Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?
she told me she changed number then now its because her gf at the time dont want her talking to other people which i felt she was lying coz we were at the same situation when we were in the middle of our friendship and she is with that same person thats why we only talk in facebook so i dont understand the reason why she coudnt tell me
I don't understand. Are you saying that she has deleted your number before?
Are you male or female?
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Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?
she told me she changed number then now its because her gf at the time dont want her talking to other people which i felt she was lying coz we were at the same situation when we were in the middle of our friendship and she is with that same person thats why we only talk in facebook so i dont understand the reason why she coudnt tell me
I don't understand. Are you saying that she has deleted your number before?
Are you male or female?
female,we met at an LGBT app then hit it off,we text and call everyday,then video calling,even when she is on a relationship at the time she always find a way to sneak time for our conversation when she came home from work so i dont understand her reason right now saying she didnt respond to any of my text just because her gf is the possessive type,she started ignoring me when she told me "what if one of us caught feelings?" Told her its impossible since we have only sweet platonic friendship,then poof shes gone
I see. It's possible she caught feelings and is trying to distance herself. Pisces don't handle rejection well. And some of us are not good with conflict. As immature as it seems, she probably deleted you because something you said upset her or hurt her feelings. I have this trait myself unfortunately. Something I never quite grew out of. I deal with conflict by not dealing. Just talk to her. She will get over her feelings. Especially if she is pretty mutable like me.
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Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?
she told me she changed number then now its because her gf at the time dont want her talking to other people which i felt she was lying coz we were at the same situation when we were in the middle of our friendship and she is with that same person thats why we only talk in facebook so i dont understand the reason why she coudnt tell me
I don't understand. Are you saying that she has deleted your number before?
Are you male or female?
female,we met at an LGBT app then hit it off,we text and call everyday,then video calling,even when she is on a relationship at the time she always find a way to sneak time for our conversation when she came home from work so i dont understand her reason right now saying she didnt respond to any of my text just because her gf is the possessive type,she started ignoring me when she told me "what if one of us caught feelings?" Told her its impossible since we have only sweet platonic friendship,then poof shes gone
I see. It's possible she caught feelings and is trying to distance herself. Pisces don't handle rejection well. And some of us are not good with conflict. As immature as it seems, she probably deleted you because something you said upset her or hurt her feelings. I have this trait myself unfortunately. Something I never quite grew out of. I deal with conflict by not dealing. Just talk to her. She will get over her feelings. Especially if she is pretty mutable like me.
she didnt answer my question when i told her that i cant understand why she had to go away just because her gf is posssessive we are not doing anything wrong,turns out her gf cheated on her again i swear to god i want to hammer her head for that coz i did warn her,told her "is it because im too blunt with my opinion on your ex?",dont you want a true answer from your friend?
I'm not the kind of pisces who stays with a cheating partner. I actually prefer my friends tell me what I need to hear, and not what I want to hear. With that said it's important to tread lightly when you speak about people's relationships.
Also, it's possible she caught feelings for you and was testing the waters, you shut her down kind of hard. Maybe she is staying with her girlfriend because she doesn't have a better prospect. There are some people who can't stand to be alone.
Additionally, pisces, like scorpio, aren't the type to tell you when you hurt our feelings. Our attitude is often, "if they cared about me they would know they hurt me. They would be more considerate." We're not cancers, we aren't going to bite your throat when you hurt us. Now while we won't always tell you that you hurt us, we will still punish you for it like our scorpio brethren. The difference is scorpios sting, Pisces disappear
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Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by Algol-RisingAre you pootybutt??Posted by Aquarius3189With so little information it's hard to know what you should do. I'm a Gem, but Pisces moon, and a Scorpio did this to me. I waited for a while until I collected my feelings, because receiving that bullshit "who dis?" text made me cry for a few days. Eventually, if I recall correctly, I sent him an email and told him that reply hurt my feelings. In my case, I knew he knew it was me and was just being an asshole because he was mad at me.Posted by Algol-Rising
Someone pulled that on me, but he knew it was me. There is a number I deleted but still recognize too. I'm sorry. I know it hurts.
your the pisces?do i tell her all i feel then if she doesnt take it just move on?click to expand

Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?
she told me she changed number then now its because her gf at the time dont want her talking to other people which i felt she was lying coz we were at the same situation when we were in the middle of our friendship and she is with that same person thats why we only talk in facebook so i dont understand the reason why she coudnt tell me
I don't understand. Are you saying that she has deleted your number before?
Are you male or female?
female,we met at an LGBT app then hit it off,we text and call everyday,then video calling,even when she is on a relationship at the time she always find a way to sneak time for our conversation when she came home from work so i dont understand her reason right now saying she didnt respond to any of my text just because her gf is the possessive type,she started ignoring me when she told me "what if one of us caught feelings?" Told her its impossible since we have only sweet platonic friendship,then poof shes gone
I see. It's possible she caught feelings and is trying to distance herself. Pisces don't handle rejection well. And some of us are not good with conflict. As immature as it seems, she probably deleted you because something you said upset her or hurt her feelings. I have this trait myself unfortunately. Something I never quite grew out of. I deal with conflict by not dealing. Just talk to her. She will get over her feelings. Especially if she is pretty mutable like me.
she didnt answer my question when i told her that i cant understand why she had to go away just because her gf is posssessive we are not doing anything wrong,turns out her gf cheated on her again i swear to god i want to hammer her head for that coz i did warn her,told her "is it because im too blunt with my opinion on your ex?",dont you want a true answer from your friend?
I'm not the kind of pisces who stays with a cheating partner. I actually prefer my friends tell me what I need to hear, and not what I want to hear. With that said it's important to tread lightly when you speak about people's relationships.
Also, it's possible she caught feelings for you and was testing the waters, you shut her down kind of hard. Maybe she is staying with her girlfriend because she doesn't have a better prospect. There are some people who can't stand to be alone.
Additionally, pisces, like scorpio, aren't the type to tell you when you hurt our feelings. Our attitude is often, "if they cared about me they would know they hurt me. They would be more considerate." We're not cancers, we aren't going to bite your throat when you hurt us. Now while we won't always tell you that you hurt us, we will still punish you for it like our scorpio brethren. The difference is scorpios sting, Pisces disappear
yup i know all about scorps been with one and the other caught feelings with me as well,i tend to make water signs like me that way,i may have been to harsh?i dont know,i just dont want her to get hurt which i know she will coz she just cant leave her cheating ex,i just told her the truth behind her ex schemes which she didnt listen and now told me she got back with her ex then her ex cheated on her again
It's hard watching your friend date someone who is clearly garbage. I know, I've been there. But only she will know when she's had enough. And there is nothing you can do to change that. Yiu offered up your advice, and she decided not to take it. So let her vent. And keep your opinions to yourself unless she asks. Most people just want to vent about their partners, they don't really want advice. Your friend will eventually get tired. And if she doesn't get tired, maybe it's better to let her go her own way so you don't have to see it.
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Posted by PVJamzIf you really care about her you should just let her go.Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?
she told me she changed number then now its because her gf at the time dont want her talking to other people which i felt she was lying coz we were at the same situation when we were in the middle of our friendship and she is with that same person thats why we only talk in facebook so i dont understand the reason why she coudnt tell me
I don't understand. Are you saying that she has deleted your number before?
Are you male or female?
female,we met at an LGBT app then hit it off,we text and call everyday,then video calling,even when she is on a relationship at the time she always find a way to sneak time for our conversation when she came home from work so i dont understand her reason right now saying she didnt respond to any of my text just because her gf is the possessive type,she started ignoring me when she told me "what if one of us caught feelings?" Told her its impossible since we have only sweet platonic friendship,then poof shes gone
I see. It's possible she caught feelings and is trying to distance herself. Pisces don't handle rejection well. And some of us are not good with conflict. As immature as it seems, she probably deleted you because something you said upset her or hurt her feelings. I have this trait myself unfortunately. Something I never quite grew out of. I deal with conflict by not dealing. Just talk to her. She will get over her feelings. Especially if she is pretty mutable like me.
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Posted by Aquarius3189Perhaps she was getting rid of "toxity"...
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?

Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by PVJamzIf you really care about her you should just let her go.Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?
she told me she changed number then now its because her gf at the time dont want her talking to other people which i felt she was lying coz we were at the same situation when we were in the middle of our friendship and she is with that same person thats why we only talk in facebook so i dont understand the reason why she coudnt tell me
I don't understand. Are you saying that she has deleted your number before?
Are you male or female?
female,we met at an LGBT app then hit it off,we text and call everyday,then video calling,even when she is on a relationship at the time she always find a way to sneak time for our conversation when she came home from work so i dont understand her reason right now saying she didnt respond to any of my text just because her gf is the possessive type,she started ignoring me when she told me "what if one of us caught feelings?" Told her its impossible since we have only sweet platonic friendship,then poof shes gone
I see. It's possible she caught feelings and is trying to distance herself. Pisces don't handle rejection well. And some of us are not good with conflict. As immature as it seems, she probably deleted you because something you said upset her or hurt her feelings. I have this trait myself unfortunately. Something I never quite grew out of. I deal with conflict by not dealing. Just talk to her. She will get over her feelings. Especially if she is pretty mutable like me.
From the scenario you described ...she definitely not only caught feelings
but had them all along.
You guys had a strong connection and she read into that.
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Posted by Aquarius3189Oh. Well, I understand.Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by PVJamzIf you really care about her you should just let her go.Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?
she told me she changed number then now its because her gf at the time dont want her talking to other people which i felt she was lying coz we were at the same situation when we were in the middle of our friendship and she is with that same person thats why we only talk in facebook so i dont understand the reason why she coudnt tell me
I don't understand. Are you saying that she has deleted your number before?
Are you male or female?
female,we met at an LGBT app then hit it off,we text and call everyday,then video calling,even when she is on a relationship at the time she always find a way to sneak time for our conversation when she came home from work so i dont understand her reason right now saying she didnt respond to any of my text just because her gf is the possessive type,she started ignoring me when she told me "what if one of us caught feelings?" Told her its impossible since we have only sweet platonic friendship,then poof shes gone
I see. It's possible she caught feelings and is trying to distance herself. Pisces don't handle rejection well. And some of us are not good with conflict. As immature as it seems, she probably deleted you because something you said upset her or hurt her feelings. I have this trait myself unfortunately. Something I never quite grew out of. I deal with conflict by not dealing. Just talk to her. She will get over her feelings. Especially if she is pretty mutable like me.
From the scenario you described ...she definitely not only caught feelings
but had them all along.
You guys had a strong connection and she read into that.
its her call now,im just going to sit and see if she still want me around,and yes we do have a strong connection which im ignoring because im in a relationship at the timeclick to expand


Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I can understand the reason why you shut her down but I would have recommended alternative wording
especially given that her feelings aren't one sided.Instead emphasizing "platonic" and "friendly"
I would have complimented her and conveyed how special the connection you feel you have with each other but then emphasized qualities about yourself regarding loyalty and respect.
As someone else said we Pisceans don't handle rejection well.Often times our immediate reaction is to take action and try to erase any evidence of interaction with that person that rejected us.E.g- change number/block number, block you on social media etc....
It helps us feel better and is often the first step we take in trying to get over that person.
I sincerely hope things work out for you though.


Posted by 4ever_confused
Pisces girls are mean and pessimistic, you'll be better off without her fellow aqua.
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