@ScorpioFemale79
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I tried I tried I tried........ I just can't deal (Page 2)
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Of course her and I are going to view the same situation differently. We're two different signs. I value hard work is all more than she probably does. My "judgement" on her is on a combination of things that i've brought up in this thread:
- I value hard work more and she doesn't
- She's copped an attitude when she asked me if I wanted to go to lunch, I politely declined
- She's made an ignorant bias against the "poor"
- She cops an attitude when she calls my office and I don't pick up the phone. If I don't pick up its because I wasn't in my office but yet she never "believes" me.
- She sometimes volunteers to do stuff for our boss, but then bitches to me 2 hours later about how she has so much work (4 projects) so I used to jokingly say in the beginning "try my 30 projects and managing a department" to get her to realize 4 projects is nothing. I wish I had only 4 projects. But she keeps making comments.Anyway... its not a pisces thing so much its a her thing. No one has to like anyone, and if I just morally am offended by her actions then Im entitled to be.
Well, it seems all you had to do was elaborate a little bit (while i was paying attention)... lol 🙂 now i see both sides a little more clearly. having not known anything about you, her, this...prior, i had little to go on...i'm glad you explained this part to me...
and the last sentence in that message was very well stated...
--Jack
Don't get me wrong she can be likeable. Hell I liked her at first but I think its her inability to understand that we get paid to do our jobs, her feeling like she can utilize her time to just "sit there", I dont' agree with.
get you wrong? you're implying that this is a complex situation and there is some underlying theme that i'm unable to recognize or something.
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hahaha love this guy!
Jackity Jack! How you been, where you been?!
Of course her and I are going to view the same situation differently. We're two different signs. I value hard work is all more than she probably does. My "judgement" on her is on a combination of things that i've brought up in this thread:
- I value hard work more and she doesn't
- She's copped an attitude when she asked me if I wanted to go to lunch, I politely declined
- She's made an ignorant bias against the "poor"
- She cops an attitude when she calls my office and I don't pick up the phone. If I don't pick up its because I wasn't in my office but yet she never "believes" me.
- She sometimes volunteers to do stuff for our boss, but then bitches to me 2 hours later about how she has so much work (4 projects) so I used to jokingly say in the beginning "try my 30 projects and managing a department" to get her to realize 4 projects is nothing. I wish I had only 4 projects. But she keeps making comments.Anyway... its not a pisces thing so much its a her thing. No one has to like anyone, and if I just morally am offended by her actions then Im entitled to be.
Well, it seems all you had to do was elaborate a little bit (while i was paying attention)... lol 🙂 now i see both sides a little more clearly. having not known anything about you, her, this...prior, i had little to go on...i'm glad you explained this part to me...
and the last sentence in that message was very well stated...
--Jack
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LOL i did elaborate in the thread itself...
That's why he said "while he was paying attention"
Don't get me wrong she can be likeable. Hell I liked her at first but I think its her inability to understand that we get paid to do our jobs, her feeling like she can utilize her time to just "sit there", I dont' agree with.
get you wrong? you're implying that this is a complex situation and there is some underlying theme that i'm unable to recognize or something.
hahaha love this guy!
Jackity Jack! How you been, where you been?!
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nice, first smile i've cracked all day 🙂 thanks...
where have i been...? primarily in taurus hell, which...if you're unfamiliar with, suck ass...completely...but in physical form, i've mostly been working...alot, thankfully...my job keeps me and my afflicted mercury pretty busy...when i'm not at work, i tend to stay in, like most cancer risings...i usually hang out with Pierre Smirnoff, we get along pretty well most of the time 🙂
--Jack
Don't get me wrong ....
get you wrong? you're implying that this is a complex situation and there is some underlying theme that i'm unable to recognize
lol @ jack
why are you laughing at me, my dear?
please enlighten me 😉
--Jack
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I was laughing at your display of being the philosophical Piscean, in that you quantified the meaning of her phrase that she put in place to attempt to manipulate the presence of the insinuation that YOU were responsible in her inability to communicate articualarly (< might not be a word) .... when in reality, she was outsmarted, and likely has no clue what you said.
I find that funny!!
Posted by deezie
That's why he said "while he was paying attention"
and actually, in my original post, which i decided to withhold (and am very glad i did lol)...i addressed that very issue 🙂
"i usually don't read 'entire threads' because i'm impulsive, despite having a mars in pisces (it's prolly the aquarius mercury fused with a shit load of personal planets in pisces but who knows...) anyways, i'm not going to sift thru 4 pages of bullshit before i voice my opinion...it was difficult enough to get thru the initial post...so here we go..."
and the rest of it is god awful 😛
--Jack
forgive my defensiveness, if you'll refer to my post where i mentioned 'taurus hell?' lol i'm sure you understand without having me explain it...we seem to tune into the same frequency...
and while i may appear like a space cadet, i'm smarter than i look 😛
--Jack
Posted by deezie
That's why he said "while he was paying attention"and actually, in my original post, which i decided to withhold (and am very glad i did lol)...i addressed that very issue 🙂
"i usually don't read 'entire threads' because i'm impulsive, despite having a mars in pisces (it's prolly the aquarius mercury fused with a shit load of personal planets in pisces but who knows...) anyways, i'm not going to sift thru 4 pages of bullshit before i voice my opinion...it was difficult enough to get thru the initial post...so here we go..."
and the rest of it is god awful 😛
--Jack
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haha. Next time I post something I'll be more direct, how about that? LOL
if that's what you feel you need to do...you're on a forum with a bunch of pisceans, we don't really care what you do...
--Jack
nice, first smile i've cracked all day 🙂 thanks...
where have i been...? primarily in taurus hell, which...if you're unfamiliar with, suck ass...completely...but in physical form, i've mostly been working...alot, thankfully...my job keeps me and my afflicted mercury pretty busy...when i'm not at work, i tend to stay in, like most cancer risings...i usually hang out with Pierre Smirnoff, we get along pretty well most of the time 🙂
--Jack
Nice to see you back in the water 😉
Taurus hell... familiar oh yes. LOL - why do you do such things?!
I suspect this has something to do with the vodka ingestion. Unless you are just hugging the bottle?
lol i'm always in the water 😉 i have to be (have you seen my chart?? lol 😛 )...some things just don't belong in here with me though, like bulls (i blame the pisces/gemini moon combination, and us both being cancer rising)...we both had beautiful venus placements though..i think that's what i cling to...
why do i do such things? good question, maybe i'm a glutton for punishment, or that everlasting 'undying hope' every pisces is born with is starting to become a thorn in my side....
you know what? i'd rather deal with the dumb scorpio...you're making me think too much lol 🙂
and forgive me, i'm not sure why i would hug a vodka bottle...stranger things have happened though... 😛
--Jack
I wonder if the OP can get along with anyone. She was over in the Libra boards bitching about Libra females for having the audacity to keep their personal problems to themselves. She should really just find a cave to live in, all by herself, for the rest of her life.
"1. She is biased against the poor. I myself grew up poor (I'm not now) to the point where the fridge was empty alot. She was looking for a place that was closer that was cheap but HAD to have it in a nice neighborhood by the beach becuase there is no way she would live in less than that. You can't get a beach apartment for CHEAP. She only buys high end shoes, bags, and outfits even those she is a cheapskate.
2. You never see her pay for someone else just to be nice. She never really does anything for anyone on their bdays (not that she should but she gets offended if you don't give her one)
3. She doesn't like helping other people but expects you to help her
4. She never likes the way you do any projects you are working on her with BUT she makes common sense mistakes all the time."
— Since when are these PISCES traits? Why don't people understand behavior is not indicative of sun sign and has everything to do with upbringing—
Posted by LetltB
"1. She is biased against the poor. I myself grew up poor (I'm not now) to the point where the fridge was empty alot. She was looking for a place that was closer that was cheap but HAD to have it in a nice neighborhood by the beach becuase there is no way she would live in less than that. You can't get a beach apartment for CHEAP. She only buys high end shoes, bags, and outfits even those she is a cheapskate.2. You never see her pay for someone else just to be nice. She never really does anything for anyone on their bdays (not that she should but she gets offended if you don't give her one)
3. She doesn't like helping other people but expects you to help her
4. She never likes the way you do any projects you are working on her with BUT she makes common sense mistakes all the time."
— Since when are these PISCES traits? Why don't people understand behavior is not indicative of sun sign and has everything to do with upbringing—
LOL i never said these were traits, what my original comment before this thread went on a tangent. Anyway, I always thought Pisces were thoughtful, heck everywhere I read it said the best was a pisces male for me but she doesn't come across as thoughtful. She's just been coming across to some people here at work as shallow/selfish, biased and lazy.
I still think pisces are great but where are the great pisces qualities she's supposed to hve?
I dunno.
Posted by DeeGee
I JUST STARTED MY NEW JOB TWO WEEKS AGO (SHIT TIME FLYS)MY CO-WORKER HAPPENS TO BE A PISCES,VERY NICE AND HELPFUL, ALWAYS LOOKING OUT FOR ME, ASKING IF I NEED HELP OR IF I HAVE ANY QUESTIONS.ACTUALLY, LAST FRIDAY, OUR BOSS ASKED HER TO JOIN THEM FOR LUNCH(THE GIRL I replaceD, IT WAS HER LAST, DAY SO THEY TOOK HER OUT TO LUNCH) ANYHOW, I FELT SO BAD FOR HER CUS WHEN SHE CAME BACK, SHE TOLD ME THAT THE BOSS MADE HER PAY FOR HER OWN LUNCH.
I WAS LIKE, WHAT KIND OF INVITE IS THAT? SHE SAID, THANK GOD I HAD MONEY
Management here will pay for you. What kinda company does she even work for? That's messed up.
This is where knowing a whole chart and more about astro is helpful. Maybe she has some really bitchy placements and aspects. Or maybe she has come into your life to make you realize that not everyone is on the same journey in life. Not everyone has the same goals/values/ethics, and that is how we as a species learn and grow from each other. There is more to life than the surface day-to-day.....
You need to stop focusing on het downfalls as a person as you see them, anf start focusing on how to deal with it.... internalize.
Guh phone typos.
Posted by deezie
This is where knowing a whole chart and more about astro is helpful. Maybe she has some really bitchy placements and aspects. Or maybe she has come into your life to make you realize that not everyone is on the same journey in life. Not everyone has the same goals/values/ethics, and that is how we as a species learn and grow from each other. There is more to life than the surface day-to-day.....You need to stop focusing on het downfalls as a person as you see them, anf start focusing on how to deal with it.... internalize.
Good advice.
Im just going to continue to focus on my career goals.
Thank you Deezie
Posted by DeeGee
I JUST STARTED MY NEW JOB TWO WEEKS AGO (SHIT TIME FLYS)MY CO-WORKER HAPPENS TO BE A PISCES,VERY NICE AND HELPFUL, ALWAYS LOOKING OUT FOR ME, ASKING IF I NEED HELP OR IF I HAVE ANY QUESTIONS.ACTUALLY, LAST FRIDAY, OUR BOSS ASKED HER TO JOIN THEM FOR LUNCH(THE GIRL I replaceD, IT WAS HER LAST, DAY SO THEY TOOK HER OUT TO LUNCH) ANYHOW, I FELT SO BAD FOR HER CUS WHEN SHE CAME BACK, SHE TOLD ME THAT THE BOSS MADE HER PAY FOR HER OWN LUNCH.
I WAS LIKE, WHAT KIND OF INVITE IS THAT? SHE SAID, THANK GOD I HAD MONEY
Management here will pay for you. What kinda company does she even work for? That's messed up.
A cheap one...lol
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I see that LOL.
Maybe they just wanted company.
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See above or below. I listed some of the main reasons why and it doesn't have to do with him either. There are some people at work who have come up to me from other departments randomly with the same perceptions about her. They ask me what's up with her and I ask what do you mean and they say stuff like how the staff at the corporate office told her it was her turn to cover the receptionist at the corporate office (our management volunteered her for Mondays/Wednesdays) and whenever they've called her to relieve the receptionist she always tells them she's busy or she never shows up.
It's not a big deal to answer phones but its things like that that I keep hearing from other people in addition to my own grievances.
Its not jealousy its just if you don't want to do anything then don't apply for jobs.