if you belive in them will your dreams come true?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by passion fruit on Friday, February 16, 2007 and has 6 replies.

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@passion fruit
19 Years

should you give up or fight? which is a stronger character trait?

sometimes it feels giving up is harder than fighting.i admire ppl who can let go of their dreams! is it wiser?

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

If you belive and fight, you might have a chance to get it happen.

Which is stronger character? Lets say like that:

If a person has no groundedness and speaks about dreams, he/she has very little chance to get it trough. If a person is quite grounded and can speak about real possibility this one has a bigger chance to get it trough.

There is no certainity. Telling someone wether their dream will come true or not is similar in predicting future. Nobody can predict future, therefore nobody can know what will happen on with things that we do not actually know. Being grounded will just prevent you making stupid mistakes that already been done. You will be more efficient about your lifetime since it's not replenishable. You may spend your life chasing various dreams without any success this way.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

" sometimes it feels giving up is harder than fighting.i admire ppl who can let go of their dreams! is it wiser?"

It is stupid to give up, actually. If we do not finish to chanse what we belive then we will enter into argue with ourselves.

Everyone is entitled to self realisation.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

I do not promote resistance. What I said above is exactly against it:

" It is stupid to give up, actually. If we do not finish to chanse what we belive then we will enter into argue with ourselves."

What I was tried to point out is this:

You may have unanswered questions. But it is much smarter to know what was done before and do only after this.

When you will learn that what you wanted is already tried, you will stop wanting it. And there will be no urge left to chase you or persist.

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Haffo dear, I do not recalling disagreeing with you - "I do not promote resistance. What I said above is exactly against it:"

I just knew you'd be back😉 Good to see ya!