And I only did it because I felt like he was pushing me away as well as acting cavalier/cold when I expressed my concerns. He got to the point to where when I asked him when he thought he could make himself available to talk about the disconnect in our relationship, he would completely ignore my question, wait until the next morning and send me a message like, "Good morning Boo." I couldn't take it anymore, the missed phone calls, and then later on that night or the next day he would act like he didn't miss a call or didn't respond specifically to a text message. I cried for 10 hours straight after breaking up with him Sunday. I was so heartbroken as well as got tired of feeling like I was doing relationship work all on my own. He wouldn't have anything to say in phone calls, but would just sit there, but thing was...he would call. He would do the bare minimum without budging an inch to my requests to figure things out. I asked him when he wanted me to visit and I got, "Hmmm...let me see what's going on and I'll let you know". So, I stopped asking. Then he said he TRIED to surprise me and sent me a pic of him in front of my house a couple of Sunday's ago, but the thing is he never asked my son where I went and my son said that no one even knocked on the door. He was calling and texting me while I had my phone on airplane mode while at the movies. I went there with my phone battery less than 50% , he never said anything about coming to town that off day and my plan was to spend all day at the $ 2 movie complex hanging out by myself. It's kinda...my thing. When I was single that was one of my solitary "go to" activities. I love doing that! Well, when I finished the first movie, I turned the airplane mode off to find that he'd texted, called, sent me the pic of him in front of my house, and then told me to call him. I got the messages less than an hour after the last one. I called and he didn't answer and I suppose he had an attitude, but damn...you didn't tell me you were coming. Then he put no effort into asking my son where I was, but come to find out, in convo later on that night, he DID peep through my bedroom window. He was able to tell me what was on my bed. Weirdo. He got mad at me and left town without seeing me and THEN decided to call me about 45 minutes from his hotel room and treated me like crap on the phone. Come to find out his homeboy was in the car listening to our entire phone convo via speaker phone. I was so pissed. But, what did I do? Told him how I felt and then just kept on in the relationship. smh Then he became VERY condescending. It got so bad that week that in response to reminding him that it takes less than 3 seconds to tell someone that you love them, he sent me this message, "I love you Boo Boo, you're so right." Just making light of it all. The next day, I made one more attempt to ask him when I would get to see him again with no response to that text message. And....that's when I broke up
