Just a friend or more?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Keesha on Thursday, December 5, 2013 and has 5 replies.

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@Keesha
13 Years

Hi All .....so I probably have some idea but confirming if I am right on it.
I reconnected with a friend recently (male) for the last 2 months he would contact me almost everyday, more him than me. About a month ago he asked me what weekend I'll be free, I told him and he travelled on flight (3 hours) to come see me for a weekend. He spent a lot of time with me, and made it a point to tell me that he came to only see me. I'm not the one to really share my food or drink. The first day he was here ....we ordered at the restaurant, his response we will share. I order a chai tea latte at a coffee shop he had to have a couple of sips of my drink. Whenever we would talk, a lot of the times he would catch my eyes....and just stare. If he hugs me ....I feel as if he's trying to say something.
But if I even hint a flirt .....he backs away for the rest of the day.
Am I reading too much into this?
So I went and did the silly thing, I straight up asked him. "Do u like me more than friends?" His response "I don't want to make this complicated, we are friends"
I felt kinda silly ......but every time I turn around, there's his text and/or his phone call. I made it look like I just wanted to know so I'm not looking into something that is not there.
I guess he won't be contacting me as much 😢 wtf!
(I know it was dumb of me but it so much felt like it was more than friends)
How can you tell if a pisces is into u?
Him and I share some similar interests, we are so alike.

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I don't know, man. Unless he has a lot of money I'm not sure why he would take a flight out to see you. If he only had an interest in being friends, I don't think that within a month of reconnecting that he'd take a flight out to see you. Then again, I guess everyone is different and perhaps he was just bored or really enjoyed his previous time with you? I would take it as something else, though. Even what he said is a little odd. "I don't want to make this complicated" doesn't mean "I don't like you". Maybe he's afraid of admitting it or he knows the distance would make things complicated. Maybe he was also just thinking he'd get laid that weekend? But, if he says you are friends, I would honor that and not bug him anymore on the topic unless he says otherwise. I mean, you know him better than any of us do so you'd be able to better decipher the reasonings behind his actions and words.

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@Keesha
13 Years

Thanks scenic ......getting laid over the weekend or not, I'm sure he can find a girl for that in his city instead of coming to see me for a weekend and staying in a hotel.
I'm not very familiar with pisces men, I didn't know he was a pisces till a few weeks ago.
So any more on pisces .....would be a great help, thanks again!

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@hydorah
13 Years10,000+ PostsPisces

There's no reason a straight man would keep texting a woman and visit her if he's no interested in sthg.
Unless you're a really close friend or a professional acquaintance or he's gay and wants to talk about boys.

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@Keesha
13 Years

Thanks hydora
That's what I thought, well he's slightly backed off. That's probably because of my silly outburst lol

Anyhow any suggestions? What kind of women are pisces men attracted, interested in?

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I have a very good Pisces male friend. The way he acts seen from an outside perspective you'd think he's in love with me. He's just a genuine, kind person who enjoys my company and my friendship.

IMO you're only friends. If there is anything more, it will progress organically.