Male Piscean Just Joking or...?

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A Pisces and I have been friends for about 6 years. We had an intimate relationship at one point in time but he was overall emotionally unavailable and so I severed those sexual ties.

Recently he texted me asking if he could ask me a serious question and I said yes. He asked me if I was ready and willing to have a baby by him. Because I thought he was joking I laughed it off, but asked him why he’d want to have a baby with me. His response was that i was the only woman that he can trust with having a child.

I’m still confused, because why would someone want a child with someone they’re not committed to? Does he just want to get back into bed with me? He knows that I’m not easy and that I respect myself. Or could he possibly be ready to settle down, but just didn’t communicate that correctly? Pisces men and men in general, have you ever told a woman this before? And if so what were your intentions?
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he seems to have a pretty clear idea of what he wants unlike most people



"why would someone want a child with someone they’re not committed to?"

Well most couples end up separating anyway. Today in 2017 it's practically impossible to have a long term marriage like our parents/grandparents. We are in the century of the self.

So at least this guy put some thought into his life plan.

After, it's up to you to see if that's what you want or not, but don't try to tie him into a relationship with a baby because that would be the worst choice.
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Posted by hydorah
he seems to have a pretty clear idea of what he wants unlike most people



"why would someone want a child with someone they’re not committed to?"

Well most couples end up separating anyway. Today in 2017 it's practically impossible to have a long term marriage like our parents/grandparents. We are in the century of the self.

So at least this guy put some thought into his life plan.

After, it's up to you to see if that's what you want or not, but don't try to tie him into a relationship with a baby because that would be the worst choice.


You’re right, and that is what surprised me the most. That he was upfront about this. But I’ve always imagined myself being in love with my children’s father. Not only for my sake, but for the children’s as well. And so to go into that agreement saying I don’t want a relationship, I’d be lying to myself and ultimately “settling”. And do I want to settle?

Helllll no!