@Adreamuponwaking
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Should I write a letter or email her? Help me craft an apology letter.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
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yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
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Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
Write your faults, write how you understand how it upset her, validate her feelings, validate her beliefs and let her know that she is not wrong to feel or thinks. Certain way, she is entitled to that.
But don’t in any way make excuses, or try to explain yourself. Simply validate her, and allow it to be still. Sometimes it’s best to not try to explain your side or say “well you did this”, it takes away their validation and Pisces are already in defence. Just accept where you were wrong and leave it st that, and walk away. She may come back around.
Both
If she doesn't get the letter, she will see the mail, you can mention in both you have written two
She will know then that you care and have thought practically
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
If you write an apology letter to me after a year , you think I would appreciate opening up old wounds? How dumb is that, walk the fuuuck away & don't look back ..but hey you're not a Taurus like me aka the strongest Yu-Gi-Oh Trap Card ever
Posted by Raakac
Letter 4sure. If you really want to apologize you could find her on facebook, reach out to one of her friends or family members, express yourself to them, tell them you want to apologize sincerely to their doughter and you need the adress because you want to send her a letter, or just find out , maybe she still lives in the same place, that would be easier
While you follow this shiiity advice, I hope you prepare yourself for a restraining order.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
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Being a stalker is definitely more sincere.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
Being a stalker is definitely more sincere.
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😂
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
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not really.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
not really.
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Then do the email.... The important thing is that you get it off your chest... It’s not good feeling guilty 😊
Posted by Rametta
Write your faults, write how you understand how it upset her, validate her feelings, validate her beliefs and let her know that she is not wrong to feel or thinks. Certain way, she is entitled to that.But don’t in any way make excuses, or try to explain yourself. Simply validate her, and allow it to be still. Sometimes it’s best to not try to explain your side or say “well you did this”, it takes away their validation and Pisces are already in defence. Just accept where you were wrong and leave it st that, and walk away. She may come back around.
I agree as this is really sound advice.
It's just that I do want to explain myself.
I hurt her but that's because I did not realize she took everything I did literally as she has Aspergers.
it's just one big misunderstanding really.
But it doesn't matter if I unintentionally hurt her I still did.
I just want her to know how special she is to me regardless and I didn't mean anything by my inept social faux pas
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
not really.
Then do the email.... The important thing is that you get it off your chest... It’s not good feeling guilty 😊
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Do you think it's possible that we will have the chance to truly be friends one day?
I can't imagine my future without her in some capacity.
I know the odds aren't in my favor.
Posted by Raakac
Letter 4sure. If you really want to apologize you could find her on facebook, reach out to one of her friends or family members, express yourself to them,
yeah ....no
lol
i deleted my fb.....because of this fiasco.
it's what got me in trouble in the first place
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
If you write an apology letter to me after a year , you think I would appreciate opening up old wounds? How dumb is that, walk the fuuuck away & don't look back ..but hey you're not a Taurus like me aka the strongest Yu-Gi-Oh Trap Card ever
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i tried to apologize sooner via text
bbut i think she blocked my number.
to be fair she also did that with her ex who she is now back together with..
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
not really.
Then do the email.... The important thing is that you get it off your chest... It’s not good feeling guilty 😊
Do you think it's possible that we will have the chance to truly be friends one day?
I can't imagine my future without her in some capacity.
I know the odds aren't in my favor.
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I can not say about her... but personally, I am very forgiving. So I think that if you say sorry maybe she wouldn’t tell you that she forgives you straight away, but with time she will only remember the apology and not the damage.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
not really.
Then do the email.... The important thing is that you get it off your chest... It’s not good feeling guilty 😊
Do you think it's possible that we will have the chance to truly be friends one day?
I can't imagine my future without her in some capacity.
I know the odds aren't in my favor.
I can not say about her... but personally, I am very forgiving. So I think that if you say sorry maybe she wouldn’t tell you that she forgives you straight away, but with time she will only remember the apology and not the damage.
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yeah pisces usually are.
i really care about her.
.
one of the issues I'm having is that i want to say so much to her
that it's rendering me speechless.
i can't seem to find the right words.
do you think i can pm you with a draft? that is if I ever write one.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
not really.
Then do the email.... The important thing is that you get it off your chest... It’s not good feeling guilty 😊
Do you think it's possible that we will have the chance to truly be friends one day?
I can't imagine my future without her in some capacity.
I know the odds aren't in my favor.
I can not say about her... but personally, I am very forgiving. So I think that if you say sorry maybe she wouldn’t tell you that she forgives you straight away, but with time she will only remember the apology and not the damage.
yeah pisces usually are.
i really care about her.
.
one of the issues I'm having is that i want to say so much to her
that it's rendering me speechless.
i can't seem to find the right words.
do you think i can pm you with a draft? that is if I ever write one.
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Yes, I know.
I can imagine. The more you care the more difficult it is.
Yes, no problem. I will tell you what I think...
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
not really.
Then do the email.... The important thing is that you get it off your chest... It’s not good feeling guilty 😊
Do you think it's possible that we will have the chance to truly be friends one day?
I can't imagine my future without her in some capacity.
I know the odds aren't in my favor.
I can not say about her... but personally, I am very forgiving. So I think that if you say sorry maybe she wouldn’t tell you that she forgives you straight away, but with time she will only remember the apology and not the damage.
yeah pisces usually are.
i really care about her.
.
one of the issues I'm having is that i want to say so much to her
that it's rendering me speechless.
i can't seem to find the right words.
do you think i can pm you with a draft? that is if I ever write one.
The more you care the more difficult it is.
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That's the truest thing ever written......
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .
I think a letter is better. It will make her not doubt that you are serious about your apology.
yeah that's what I was thinking originally
but i'm not sure if she even still lives at the same address.
Can you just find out? I just think emails are so impersonal for this kind of things...
not really.
Then do the email.... The important thing is that you get it off your chest... It’s not good feeling guilty 😊
Do you think it's possible that we will have the chance to truly be friends one day?
I can't imagine my future without her in some capacity.
I know the odds aren't in my favor.
I can not say about her... but personally, I am very forgiving. So I think that if you say sorry maybe she wouldn’t tell you that she forgives you straight away, but with time she will only remember the apology and not the damage.
yeah pisces usually are.
i really care about her.
.
one of the issues I'm having is that i want to say so much to her
that it's rendering me speechless.
i can't seem to find the right words.
do you think i can pm you with a draft? that is if I ever write one.
The more you care the more difficult it is.
That's the truest thing ever written......
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The truest thing you will ever know is grow a set of balls and move on, if you are a lesbian well grow some ovaries.
I'm not trying to be different here , just cause everyone here say write a letter, does it make sense to you to write an apology now cause you feel bad and have someone you had hurted to sooth your needs and guilt, grow up , you poorly treated someone deal with and learn from it, everyone here will say write her , cmon now , suck it up be responsible you deserve that guilt , and if you are looking for forgiveness it is only you that can forgive you....biiiiitchhhhhhhh
As this is an astrology-based site, I'd say as a Pisces a letter would be the way to go, an email a second best option. Mind if I ask which way you end-up going?
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I want the chance to get one last thing off of my chest to the pisces I've been posting about on here for over a year now.
She stopped talking to me this past May because I did somethings that unintentionally hurt her .
I never had the chance to apologize.
I am now just realizing things about myself as well as her .