Married Pisces woman says she loves me but pushes me away (Page 2)

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CancerInLove75
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Posted by Cricket808
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Posted by P-Angel
He says kids and previous marriages to make his viewing audience believe he is older .... but, his words are very juvenile and don't actually represent the adult thought process
You are quite amusing P-Angel. Not sure if this is your crappy attempt at dry humour or you just have serious anger issues and must insult at every opportunity? It does amuse me though.
Again, don't expect a friendly response from people.

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Friendly no but honest and constructive yes. No need to insult at every turn. We are all only human.
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CancerInLove75
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Oh okay as long as you know that and not that type of guy to leave marriage for another married woman...



Okay you need to go and do some homework now. The crisis hot line is now semi detached. But evaluate to the nearest exit and proceed with caution and watch the sign let her go.
Hahaha! I like that. Thanks for your contribution. Think I may need to fall on my own sword here.
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lisabeth
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Posted by CancerInLove75
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Arielle83
Fuck you cancer brah!

You're letting me down.

Cancer's usually hate drama!

You're frothing on this tryst.

lol



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Posted by Impulsv
Op is it hard for u to meet single women

Just curious
Not at all. I have no problem picking up single women (while I was single). Note that I was also in the process of divorcing my wife. It was the connection that I felt with this woman that pulled me in.
Why don't you go back to your wife and make it work, get counseling... Since maybe this other woman is sidetracking your own. In hopes but never happens.
Don't love my wife unfortunately hence why I left the marriage.
was it an arranged marriage?
Not at all. Just fell out of love with her. She is a great person and we are still close friends.
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how did that happen? unless she abused you badly or something. 😕 even then, some people still love after that.
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CancerInLove75
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9 Years

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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by CancerInLove75
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Arielle83
Fuck you cancer brah!

You're letting me down.

Cancer's usually hate drama!

You're frothing on this tryst.

lol



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Posted by CancerInLove75
Posted by Impulsv
Op is it hard for u to meet single women

Just curious
Not at all. I have no problem picking up single women (while I was single). Note that I was also in the process of divorcing my wife. It was the connection that I felt with this woman that pulled me in.
Why don't you go back to your wife and make it work, get counseling... Since maybe this other woman is sidetracking your own. In hopes but never happens.
Don't love my wife unfortunately hence why I left the marriage.
was it an arranged marriage?
Not at all. Just fell out of love with her. She is a great person and we are still close friends.

how did that happen? unless she abused you badly or something. 😕 even then, some people still love after that.
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I can't really explain how it happens. The feeling just died slowly over time. Too many disagreements, fights, power struggles. It just became toxic. Maybe we were not that compatible to begin with or grew in different directions.I felt trapped. Sad it took 17 years to figure that out. Lol.
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CancerInLove75
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9 Years

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Posted by Infinite8
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cricket808 this is true. Maybe she just married the wrong people or for the wrong reasons. You can't force something to work when things get tough if it's not meant to be or if you do not love that person any longer. I think we all deserve to be happy and to find 'the one'. Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic.

Yes, you are a hopeless romantic and so is she.

It is that same energy that made her want to marry twice and made the men want to marry her. This IS her pattern.... You are not different than the rest. She semi, indirectly let you know if this when shae said "I don't want to hurt you". She knows herself and she knows what she does to get guys hooked... She's aware.



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This could be true. Maybe the hopeless romantic in me believes that I am 'the one' for her and her for me due to the strong connection we have. Could it be that she feels so strongly for me that she really does not want to hurt me as she feels it could end up the same way as her current marriage? I don't think she would have sounded the same 'warning' to her husband because he ended up marrying her. Maybe her previous disappointments have led her to fear our future?
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EvatheDiva Piscean
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We met 4 months ago when our eyes lockwd at a local bar. After a short chat she left to go home and we did not see each other until two weeks later when we ran into each other again at the same bar and on this occasion could not stop staring into each other's eyes. It felt almost unreal like our souls were hugging. There was a definite soul mate like connection that neither of us had ever experienced before. We began to text each other constantly throughout the week and it turned out that we have so much in common. She started to let her guard down after a few weeks and started to share some deep secrets with me and I in turn with her which brought us even closer together. I totally swept her off her feet sending flowers and poems to her work and sending deep romantic texts. Things progressed from there and we started making love on weekends when she would inform her husband that she was out with her friend but would instead be over at my place. She would sometimes even sneak away during her lunch break to make love to me. Recently she has often told me that she loves me, even whispering it to me during our lovemaking. The connection that we felt is so strong it almost feels that we have been brought together by the universe.

I will continue in the next post as I am running out of space....



Ever seen the movie Unfaithful? EEEk 😕 🤗 cyber hug

Love,

Eva
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WateryGem
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I know we can't help who we get involved with in our lives, but sometimes it's lessons we have to learn and over come to be better. Nothing is wrong with you just wrong timing, person, and situations at hand. You can't force it. Just take a few steps backs.
I'm sorry but you actually control who you get involved with.. He knew the situation and he didn't mind that she was married. The truth is there is no telling what her husband would say if he found out. They would have two very different realities I'm sure.

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lisabeth
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Posted by CancerInLove75
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by CancerInLove75
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Arielle83
Fuck you cancer brah!

You're letting me down.

Cancer's usually hate drama!

You're frothing on this tryst.

lol

Posted by CancerInLove75
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by CancerInLove75
Posted by Impulsv
Op is it hard for u to meet single women

Just curious
Not at all. I have no problem picking up single women (while I was single). Note that I was also in the process of divorcing my wife. It was the connection that I felt with this woman that pulled me in.
Why don't you go back to your wife and make it work, get counseling... Since maybe this other woman is sidetracking your own. In hopes but never happens.
Don't love my wife unfortunately hence why I left the marriage.
was it an arranged marriage?
Not at all. Just fell out of love with her. She is a great person and we are still close friends.

how did that happen? unless she abused you badly or something. 😕 even then, some people still love after that.
I can't really explain how it happens. The feeling just died slowly over time. Too many disagreements, fights, power struggles. It just became toxic. Maybe we were not that compatible to begin with or grew in different directions.I felt trapped. Sad it took 17 years to figure that out. Lol.
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this is just too weird. most would just STAY in the relationship (like many married men and go find a mistress)
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tbird
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Wow *smh*

Mr. Crab, if you two are soul mates then if you part, you WILL wind up together! Okay, let's get that out of the way.

Make your exit. You have important things on YOUR plate, divorce is not fun, I've been there. Focus on being free and clear on YOUR end.

Leave this one alone, even if it is temporary. If she decides to leave, I mean really leave, and not say she is going to but this woman's divorce is in the vitals section of the paper leave. Let her, you never know, she may pin that whole leaving thing on you, so don't even be a factor. Let her SAVE herself. Let her realize that SHE can be strong, SHE can do things on her own. Pisces are NOT weak, don't let her fool you.

She is using you as a mirage. If you are soulmate a, she has got to play her part to make it happen and not sneak around.

Honestly if you two wind up together the lack of trust will be potient. You won't trust her if she is hanging out with a guy and visca versa. You both proved to each other that are are both capable of cheating. You BOTH are capable of falling out of love. So, just yeah.

As another poster said. Don't be Captain Save a Hoe
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takemeaway
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9 Years

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As a pisces female - I love knowing that someone would fight for me. She sounds like a typical pisces - confused. I can be extremely indecisive and she is trying to be logical (while being emotional) at the same time. She wants whats best for her children, but loves you. Her self-pity is a lot to deal with but trust me she wouldn't have said what she said if she didn't love/like you.

So yea...she's torn about how to proceed......she likes you a lot....but feels bad about her situation. It's a constant battle dealing with a beaten down pisces (this one has a lot of issues), so be warned. But pisces and cancer are excellent together.
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tcta
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Posted by CancerInLove75
cricket808 this is true. Maybe she just married the wrong people or for the wrong reasons. You can't force something to work when things get tough if it's not meant to be or if you do not love that person any longer. I think we all deserve to be happy and to find 'the one'. Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic.
your heart is aching but you must give this some time and space and please do not do anything rash with this woman - I just don't get a good feeling about this situation - of course I understand your feelings but this is so quick to happen and do you really know this woman - she sounds like a hot mess and could actually be psychotic - you really don't know her that well and well - you are still wearing your rose colored glasses ...

give it time to show itself - IF what you are feeling is true then THAT will stand the test of time itself ...
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tcta
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Posted by Impulsv
Op is it hard for u to meet single women

Just curious
Not at all. I have no problem picking up single women (while I was single). Note that I was also in the process of divorcing my wife. It was the connection that I felt with this woman that pulled me in.
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and you met her where ? at a bar ... again, give it some time - if it is true, then it will stand the test of time ...
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tcta
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Posted by CancerInLove75
Thanks Oceanboy88

The best thing for the children would actually be for her to walk away from that toxic environment. More damage will be done to the children seeing their parents ignoring each other, being cold and drinking excessively. If she leaves she has a chance to be happy and not settle for a dead marriage. She will then teach her daughters the lesson of not settling but following your heart to happiness. A far better lesson in my opinion.
The best thing for the children is to leave HER as well!! Going to bars, getting drunk all the time (just like her husband)... Sounds like she LOOOOVES drama in her life and her poor children stuck in that mess.

She is not a victim. She is half the problem.... Open your eyes Mr. Cancer.
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exactly, keep your eyes open and close your heart a bit ... she told you that when she drinks she gets mean ... she met you in a bar and, well, don't be so hooked ...