Mr fish got me thinking..

I met a Pisces guy while on holiday, hes 34 and i'm 30. He v attractive, shy and mysterious. We met out maybe 4 times and he stayed with me until early morning, chatting etc. We havent slept together...but the attraction is intense. He wants me to go back and visit, he will pick me from airport and is pretty intent on me staying with him. This really scares me I like my own space and time and can get exhausted around people that i'm still not fully comfortable with. My question is are Pisces normally this fast moving? He seems pretty upset by the fact I want to stay at a hotel or rent an apartment, but it just seems the more sensible option to me! Its already crazy to me the fact im actually considering it!

Hes not upset in a bad way just like "oh ok" and by considering it I mean travelling somewhere so soon, for a guy. Im used to being pursued more, but he has me feeling some type of way 😕 Im feeling so half half. Like I need to be more realistic. Or get him to come to me. EEK! No idea!

Posted by Shashkay
One Pisces guy was so aloof then intimate ..very good guy and all. But there you go. They never liked me romantically.

Just be careful it's very early to stay with him.

For sure I have to agree with this. Just dont want to be wasting time and money also, I dont know why I get the feeling he maybe a bit of a casanova 😉 that or a very hard worker, possibly both. Maybe I will try and get him to come to me instead. It may tell me more about his feelings also.

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Hes not upset in a bad way just like "oh ok" and by considering it I mean travelling somewhere so soon, for a guy. Im used to being pursued more, but he has me feeling some type of way 😕 Im feeling so half half. Like I need to be more realistic. Or get him to come to me. EEK! No idea!

I wouldn't say get him to come to you or peruse. Just ask if you could slow it down? Built towards each other etc...but at a pace you feel less nervous about. If he is genuine he will understand.

Tell him it doesn't mean you feel less for him. In fact it probably means you are taking him more seriously. Tell him it's not the effort that bothers you etc.

Getting him to come to you ...that's the same problem..very soon.

But really just go with what you feel if you want to go stay with him do it...but it's early. But really do what you feel.


Pisces guys never went for me in a serious way. I was more the kid sister.

The way I see it it's not who travels to who...but the pace at which you are going...you don't know if this could be a serious relationship yet.


But I don't know. If it feels right do what you want to. :-)

Good luck! Piscean men are lovely if they like you!

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Thank you

I agree with feelinguilty, he will wait. Oh ok means it will be a next time.

Posted by OceanBoy88
His emotions are strong. He likes you definitely and probably ponders about you often. Us two ( me pisces, you libra) think simlarly different. Contradiction yes, but for me, if i really like a woman, i want progression and to enhance a bond. For me, i draw an affinity for people somewhat fast and try to connect in so many points. I cant say we all pisces, but i for one love to indulge in a connection. Its rare! Maybe he feels something strong and wants to build on it. Positively speaking. However, negatively, pisces has a bad rep as a user. I dont want to stir your thoughts, but its a possibility he just wants a hunnyhole, but in my experience, i find Libras absolutely intriguing.

We did talk about it lol. He said if it takes a month, 2 3 or a year it doesnt matter he just wants to get to know me because he has feelings that he trusts. He said if he wants sex he can get it very easily and so can I and that hes not lying of course he wants to with me but its not his objective. I liked his honesty. Maybe its just tactics :-P he spoke to me exactly how I would speak to me. The chemistry is just so amazing.

Im Cap moon, venus Lib, Mars Virgo. Im not sure of his venus and mars. And no way im asking hahaha! Hes not a big talker via msg or without being face to face. Its kinda like pulling teeth. Much better one on one it seems. Whereas it doesn't bother me.

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He wants me to go back and visit, he will pick me from airport and is pretty intent on me staying with him. This really scares me I like my own space and time and can get exhausted around people that i'm still not fully comfortable with. My question is are Pisces normally this fast moving? He seems pretty upset by the fact I want to stay at a hotel or rent an apartment, but it just seems the more sensible option to me!

In the OP (above), you mislead your viewing audience by telling them that he moves too fast for you and you want your own space.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Im used to being pursued more ..... get him to come to me.

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And then the truth comes out of you ...... you're more concerned about getting superficial attention than having a nice man.

You're fake, and you've mislead people here.

This has nothing to do with you needing space .... the real reason why you are telling him you don't want to stay with him is to try and manipulate him into performing to suit your ego.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by LibraLovesHim

He wants me to go back and visit, he will pick me from airport and is pretty intent on me staying with him. This really scares me I like my own space and time and can get exhausted around people that i'm still not fully comfortable with. My question is are Pisces normally this fast moving? He seems pretty upset by the fact I want to stay at a hotel or rent an apartment, but it just seems the more sensible option to me!

In the OP (above), you mislead your viewing audience by telling them that he moves too fast for you and you want your own space.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Im used to being pursued more ..... get him to come to me.

And then the truth comes out of you ...... you're more concerned about getting superficial attention than having a nice man.

You're fake, and you've mislead people here.

This has nothing to do with you needing space .... the real reason why you are telling him you don't want to stay with him is to try and manipulate him into performing to suit your ego.

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Hmm.... I will have to re-read the thread. P-Angel can be harsh, but she can see through bull-butter. Not saying that the OP is full of bull-butter, but the situation maybe more of a layered cake.

Part of me thinks when she said come to me, I think she means him packing his shite and coming to her part of the world. If that is the case this is my response.

Regardless of who is visiting whom, he will want to spend as much time with you and him wanting you to stay is him being nice, in my opinion…doesn’t mean he doesn’t want sex or anything. I would say the same thing to help stave off the costs of coming to see me. If you don’t feel comfortable, tell him. Not that big of a deal. That will help you also with not sleeping with him.

If it is the other, like P-Angel suggested… don’t play that game. As soon as it registers with him, he will let you go regardless of how much he likes you. If you don’t like the way you are being courted, well just wait until he starts with the hot and cold bit. If that isn’t your bag, tell him you’re not really interested.

I did notice something about this whole thing that no one touched on. You guys live in separate parts…so how far are we talking? Must be far if you are considering getting a hotel. This, THIS right here could be the killer. Pisces want the object of our affection to be near. We want to talk to you, we want to see you often and if we only get to see you once in a blue moon that affection will wane, we will lose interest and leave. You will be friend-zoned or worse yet acquaintance-zoned. If either of you are not willing to meet up all the time…all of this is moot.

We do like to indulge in the connection and I dont think I'd be offended if someone wanted to sleep somewhere else at first cuz that's what id do. We indulge and then we take our time really figuring you out.

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Posted by LibraLovesHim

He wants me to go back and visit, he will pick me from airport and is pretty intent on me staying with him. This really scares me I like my own space and time and can get exhausted around people that i'm still not fully comfortable with. My question is are Pisces normally this fast moving? He seems pretty upset by the fact I want to stay at a hotel or rent an apartment, but it just seems the more sensible option to me!

In the OP (above), you mislead your viewing audience by telling them that he moves too fast for you and you want your own space.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Im used to being pursued more ..... get him to come to me.

And then the truth comes out of you ...... you're more concerned about getting superficial attention than having a nice man.

You're fake, and you've mislead people here.

This has nothing to do with you needing space .... the real reason why you are telling him you don't want to stay with him is to try and manipulate him into performing to suit your ego.

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Sweet!

Posted by tbird
Part of me thinks when she said come to me, I think she means him packing his shite and coming to her part of the world. If that is the case this is my response.

Regardless of who is visiting whom, he will want to spend as much time with you and him wanting you to stay is him being nice, in my opinion…doesn’t mean he doesn’t want sex or anything. I would say the same thing to help stave off the costs of coming to see me. If you don’t feel comfortable, tell him. Not that big of a deal. That will help you also with not sleeping with him.

If it is the other, like P-Angel suggested… don’t play that game. As soon as it registers with him, he will let you go regardless of how much he likes you. If you don’t like the way you are being courted, well just wait until he starts with the hot and cold bit. If that isn’t your bag, tell him you’re not really interested.

I did notice something about this whole thing that no one touched on. You guys live in separate parts…so how far are we talking? Must be far if you are considering getting a hotel. This, THIS right here could be the killer. Pisces want the object of our affection to be near. We want to talk to you, we want to see you often and if we only get to see you once in a blue moon that affection will wane, we will lose interest and leave. You will be friend-zoned or worse yet acquaintance-zoned. If either of you are not willing to meet up all the time…all of this is moot.

Yes exactly, it feels a little odd to me to be up and flying back to him, and I feel like im doing more pursuing than usual so its confusing for me. P Angel is worse than harsh, shes a judgemental sick bitch if u ask me! However thankfully we have a the option to block around here 🙂 Have a good life witch

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Posted by LibraLovesHim

He wants me to go back and visit, he will pick me from airport and is pretty intent on me staying with him. This really scares me I like my own space and time and can get exhausted around people that i'm still not fully comfortable with. My question is are Pisces normally this fast moving? He seems pretty upset by the fact I want to stay at a hotel or rent an apartment, but it just seems the more sensible option to me!

In the OP (above), you mislead your viewing audience by telling them that he moves too fast for you and you want your own space.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Im used to being pursued more ..... get him to come to me.

And then the truth comes out of you ...... you're more concerned about getting superficial attention than having a nice man.

You're fake, and you've mislead people here.

This has nothing to do with you needing space .... the real reason why you are telling him you don't want to stay with him is to try and manipulate him into performing to suit your ego.

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SEEN YOU TRASHING TALKING PEOPLE AROUND HERE FOR A WHILE. Get yourself in check! And as for fake, boohoo typical zodiac stereotyping bs. Go and look at the moon you pathetic individual.

pisces/libra attraction is like jam-covered side of the toast and the ground

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Posted by LibraLovesHim

He wants me to go back and visit, he will pick me from airport and is pretty intent on me staying with him. This really scares me I like my own space and time and can get exhausted around people that i'm still not fully comfortable with. My question is are Pisces normally this fast moving? He seems pretty upset by the fact I want to stay at a hotel or rent an apartment, but it just seems the more sensible option to me!

In the OP (above), you mislead your viewing audience by telling them that he moves too fast for you and you want your own space.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Im used to being pursued more ..... get him to come to me.

And then the truth comes out of you ...... you're more concerned about getting superficial attention than having a nice man.

You're fake, and you've mislead people here.

This has nothing to do with you needing space .... the real reason why you are telling him you don't want to stay with him is to try and manipulate him into performing to suit your ego.

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And honey if anyone is guilty of ego tripping I believe that to be you. Off with you, go and find Jesus or something. Or at least flex your intellectual muscles elsewhere. You're tiring. Nobody comes here looking to be attacked, its merely for insight and advice. I will not even lower myself to belittling you in as you are much older than me, surprisingly. Enjoy being the keyboard warrior that you are on other people's posts. Knock yourself out.

Posted by hydorah
pisces/libra attraction is like jam-covered side of the toast and the ground

haha! I'm trying to like this :-P

Posted by LibraLovesHim

However thankfully we have a the option to block around here 🙂 Have a good life witch

You say this and then keep responding to me.


what a douchebag ... you come back with any bullshit your puny mind can think up ... but, the fact still remains the same ... you can't even honor your own self


lol ... no wonder you've been curbed

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Posted by LibraLovesHim

However thankfully we have a the option to block around here 🙂 Have a good life witch

You say this and then keep responding to me.


what a douchebag ... you come back with any bullshit your puny mind can think up ... but, the fact still remains the same ... you can't even honor your own self


lol ... no wonder you've been curbed

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Curbed? What on earth are you drivelling on about woman?

Posted by Krz
@LibraLovesHim

Why don't you take P-Angel's thoughts seriously and ask yourself if I am really doing this? The best thing someone can do for herself/himself is objective self-criticism. With my experience with Libras, their self-loving and self-indulgent nature prevents them to be objective about themselves.

I once criticized a Libra guy and he got obsessed with stalking me afterwards. He made up bunch of scenarios, like he rejected me and that is why I was angry with him. I wasn't angry with him at all. I didn't give a butter. She talked about his ex girl friends in a very condescending way, and I told him to get over himself and that no real man will talk so bad about their exes. Instead of questioning himself, he lost his mind. He was the most self-indulgent person I've ever met, and it was because he was extremely insecure.

So to say, truly confident people have no problem taking criticism and being honest with themselves. Nobody knows you here. Why take it so personal? If you think you are a confident person, just ask yourself if are really manipulating this guy or not. Pisces guys are taken advantage of all the time because of their easy going nature, but they can read through your soul no problem. Once they figure out they had been manipulated, they disappear suddenly and never come back.

(I am an aquarius)

Thank you for your input. And I am not at all delusional about the bad aspects of my character. I have been very hurt before yes and maybe I am now a little more "self indulgent" I believe I should be as my naivety and selflessness basically left me heart broken. A position in which I dont want to be in again. THIS is exactly what I just have to swallow and risk again or ill get nowhere. At the end of the day, the "advice" I get around here is basically only a form of comfort or distraction or whatever, as whatever will be is going to be regardless.