NEED HELP FROM SWEET- P OR ALL PISCES WOMEN

Hi, I read the advice you gave and it is good
I am a Virgo man, and I am dating a Pisces woman. All of a sudden, she is completely out of contact. No warning, no nothing. ARE THERE ANY PISCES FEMALES THAT HAVE DATED VIRGO MALES OUT THERE ? and if you are, help me to understand the Pisces woman's actions, why they are so impulsive or illogical. Maybe its merc. retrograde but I don't know.
For the pisces females... what did you like about your virgo counterpart and can you explain why she suddenly fell off the earth, was it something I did ?
Any response would help a great deal because I am completely stumped.

Thank you in advance for taking the time to reply to this

dear r
All pisces are impulsive and hard to predict _ women and men
good luck

where is the lovely and wondrous sweet p?

RLester, I would love to give you some pointers on Pisces women...seeing as though I am one of them and have "been around" a Virgo man now for 2 years, if you can give me some pointers on Virgo men.

Pisces women want to feel loved, cared for and needed. We express our emotions at every waking moment and if those feelings aren't returned, we feel ignored, unloved, unwanted, and just plain misunderstood. We want to be the only ones that are special in your lives. If everyone else comes before us, where is the loyalty to our relationship? If you work constantly, where is the time for our relationship for to grow?

I don't think the Virgo I was around really cared enough to be responsible. I say "around" because he could never commit to me and when things started getting too close for him, he'd leave for several months, go have an affair or two...maybe even three, four or many more, then want to come back as though nothing happened and continue where we left off...like he's STILL doing now.

Pisces women aren't really illogical, but we are impulsive. We think about it in our minds, but we may do something else that irradicates the situation more appropriately.

My Virgo seemed to care only about himself first, his family second, his friends third, my children next, and I guess I came in last, but he wouldn't show me that. He always liked to bring up issues of other girls to me and even telling me that he was dating them...including dating men, too. He took real pleasure out of making me feel like butter because I could see it in his eyes. He got a huge thrill in seeing my misery. Everything I did, I did wrong because he could do it better. But when he got into trouble, he would always call wanting me to get him out of his jam. That's all I seemed to be good for. Plus we were never intimate, so maybe he didn't find me attractive enough to want to be with me sexually. He only wanted to use me so that could be a main reason he keeps coming around. Who knows. I won't let him back in even though he is very persistant.

If you have experienced anything like what I've just described, then your Pisces has been hurt and she's gone into her inner shell to give her emotions a rest. I do that when my emotions are hurt so much to the point of where crying doesn't even help.

Well, I hope this helps a little.

Tuffie

tuffie, no wonder he didnt want to have sex with u, your 104 yrs old.lol

couldnt resist, sorry.

dsfr

Tuffie,
thanks for responding to my question. It helped a lot.
Now... I am going to tell you some things that will hurt but only the truth can set you free.

This Virgo that you are seeing is absolute butter. He seems to be one of those Virgos that is completely self centered and self involved. He doesn't love anything but himself. This may be due to issues of self-esteem or sexual orientation issues or whatever, but the point is, this virgo is incapable of feeling love or he does not define love the same way you do.

Right now, you are an instrument to him, something that he can use and toss around to fulfill his temporary need, for example, he may call you when he needs someone to talk to, or if he needs physical affection he will call you or if he needs money he will call you, meanwhile... he can'e start a sentence without the words "I need blah, blah, blah,

So... while you like this guy and he may have some or even many of the qualities you are looking for, but you know what, he sees himself as crap and he will only continue to treat you like crap and drag you down with him. You have to understand that 99% of the time human behavior never changes, so you can be this guy's savior until you are 80 and he will never give you the relationship that you are looking for ar deserve because his issues have been there for multiple years and no matter how much you think you understand him or can fix him, you cna't because you can't reverse years and years of him living the way he does.

So... there is a guy out there who has everything that you're looking for PLUS he will be everything the virgo is not, and he will treat you the way the virgo will never treat you. You need to work on yourself and I swear to GOD when you honestly do that, the man that you are trying to find will find you. I promise.

But the major issue is you self image, you obviously have low self esteem and you put up with this mothertreetrunker's butter ! why ? why do you see yourself in such a bad way. Think about it, if you had a best girl firend that told you the exact same situation, you would think she is crazy for letting herself be spiritually and emotionally battered and abused, so why do you let it ?
An analogy, its like you are at a bonfire and its too hot sitting next to the fire but yet you sit there and get burned, why ? why punish yourself like this.
And don't do what most women do which is become bitter and say I hate men this I hate men that, men are dogs etc. because the thing is, you chooose men that are dogs, you sit there and let men treat you like a consolation prize and you put up with it, so the problem isn't this virgo, I mean forget him, he is not a man, he is an adolescent with the emotional maturity of a teenager and everyday you are losing more and more of your life waiting for this scum to come around.

So, first, drop the loser, there are men out there who are waiting for you, good men but...

second, God will never let them come into your life because he knows you are not ready. You need to regain your self confidence, go out there and meet good men who will treat you like a woman they love, and stop letting men use you. Let me say that again, STOP LETTING MEN USE YOU !!!!!.

Hope that helps, but I still have pisces questions...

What are some obvious and definite signs that a pisces will give a virgo male to let him know she is interested ?
example, what if she mentions a movie that both of us have said that we wanted to see or what if she says things like "we are so similar" ?
So what are some things that pisces women do to tell a virgo man she is interested in going on a date

cj7: actually it's 107, but who's counting? ROFLT

RLester, thanx for the advice and I have to say you did hit home and yes it did sting...OUCH, but I do value the truth with any opinion.

Unfortunately, I do have low self esteem because I have been through so many losers until it's not funny. That seems to be all that I attract...good looking and not so good looking. Yes, one day God will bless me with the right man...one day.

As for your Pisces...I can tell you that Pisces are like on and off switches. If they like you (and I do mean like you a lot) they enjoy you being around and this turns them on. If they trust you, they talk to you open and honestly about anything. If they tell you secrets NEVER, NEVER, NEVER use that secret against them because you will be hated for it. The last thing you want to do is lose trust with a Pisces, because once you do, it is virtually impossible to obtain again. That's when they become the off switch and they don't want to be bothered. They go into their own world and you can't come in anymore. They won't talk to you, accept your calls, or even want to look at you. You will become basically non-existant.

Because to a Pisces, she has opened her heart to you and given it to you freely and not asked anything of you in return. She expects this to come back naturally without her having to ask. Sounds strange, but it can be done.

As for a date, basically she's already told you she wants to go on a date, but you weren't listening. If a movie was mentioned and both of you said you wanted to see it, she no doubt was waiting for you to say at that moment, "Hey, why not go see such and such movie this weekend?" I know she would have been thrilled.

So what are you doing to show her that YOU are interested in her? Are you flirting with her? Do you call her? Do you visit her? The more time you spend trying to get to know more about her, the more she will open up because if this is fresh and new out the starting gate, she's not gonna open too quickly right away, but if she's already said that you are both so similar, she's already accepted you into a portion of her world. Once you're there, it's just a hop and skip away from being in total bliss.