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I understand your statement, i would love to change my appearance, maybe become a bit sexy in the way i dress, bit i just do not have the confidence, people are so used to seeing me how i am, i'm not what their reactions would be, but there is more to me than meets the eye, i just feel like i always hav to hold back. Frustrating!!

I don't know who you are talking to and I feel like I am butting in on a conversation meant for someone else...sorry about that...

I just wanted to say that you are right...it does take confidence...self-esteem to dress that way (sexy)...(at least for me...I have friends who can dress sexy and don't have real confidence, but, they just do it).

I find that I am more comfortable dressing sexy when I am out with my guy. I am too shy about it and don't want all the guys to think I am showing cleavage for them! It is so my guy is proud to be seen with me! (Although he is whether or not I do the sexy-dressing thing...)

I think that if it is important enough to post about...you should try it once!
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Thank you for replying, i wasn't talking to anyone in particular.

Looking good isnt always a priority. I'm really tired of trying to look a certain way. I want to be known as the person that I love. Me. Inside.

i agree with you, but the only problem is that we live in a society where looks are important, shame!!