Nosy Pisces?

Anyone have any experience with Pisces Sun, Aqua Venus and Aries Mars people?

Had a situation where I went out with my neighbor about 6 months ago. Long story short, it didn't go anywhere. She's an Influencer and is more concerned about being cast on Love Island, so we were mostly incompatible. She apparently "forgot" our second date so I went ahead and let her know I wasn't interested, but remained cordial.

Ever since then she has made it her mission to be acknowledged and pry into my business. I feel like it's an ego thing rather than her actually being interested.

We have each other on social media and she never misses a beat. Occasionally will comment or heart something I post.

Last month I posted a picture of my balcony with my plants (nice view of the back patio in complex) and she comments and asks if I've ever seen her on the patio? I thought that was such an odd question to ask someone. She then asks what I have going on that particular weekend and I tell her I'm going to Miami. She then says her parents are coming down and they're headed to Key West. After that, she says "what airlines are you flying on?" What does that have to do with anything.. we're not flying together. I told her I was driving and she's like "oh, I was just curious."

The other week, apparently someone ordered pizza and accidently sent it to my apartment around 10:30am on a Sunday Morning. I had no idea, so she takes a picture of my door and texts me asking if I had a long night because I left food outside my door. I told her that wasn't my pizza and I didn't even go out. Pisces tells me "Just making sure you were alright hahaha"

Nosy Pisces knows what gym I go to and you guessed it, she pops up with her boyfriend last week. She goes to LA Fitness so I still don't get why she was at my gym. I noticed her when I walked in but I went the other direction and went about my business. About 3 sets in, they walk up directly behind me and she waited for us to make eye contact. We chat and I asked what she was doing in my neck of the woods. Pisces says "oh I'm just here with this guy. I still go to LA." *Raises eyebrow.. well I'll let you get back to it then!

Last night I was headed out to a beach bar with someone friends and I bump into nosy Pisces as I'm locking my door. Her first response is "where you headed?" I tell her the name of the bar and she says "oh you go there a lot huh? I still haven't been." I've maybe posted I was at that bar probably 3 or 4 times.

I really wanted to say "maybe you should ask your BF to take you." But that's petty.

There's various other shit she's done for attention such as yelling my name on her balcony with her friends etc. I just don't feel like typing it all.

What is her problem— She forgot the date and didn't offer a counter so I moved on. Get over it.

None of these things seem weird to me as your neighbor. These look like normal interactions to me. She’s naturally charming as a Pisces and someone who has an online presence. She is trying to remain friendly with you. I wouldn’t spend too much time trying to read between the lines on this one, I don’t think there’s anything there.

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None of these things seem weird to me as your neighbor. These look like normal interactions to me. She’s naturally charming as a Pisces and someone who has an online presence. She is trying to remain friendly with you. I wouldn’t spend too much time trying to read between the lines on this one, I don’t think there’s anything there.

You don't think it's odd to comment on someone's story and ask if they've seen you from their patio before? Or to mentally keep track of where I go?

All from someone who wasn't interested. It's not like I'm telling her these things.

she's just being polite

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she's just being polite

Does your neighbor's roommate roll their eyes when they see you?

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Posted by nanochip
None of these things seem weird to me as your neighbor. These look like normal interactions to me. She’s naturally charming as a Pisces and someone who has an online presence. She is trying to remain friendly with you. I wouldn’t spend too much time trying to read between the lines on this one, I don’t think there’s anything there.

You don't think it's odd to comment on someone's story and ask if they've seen you from their patio before? Or to mentally keep track of where I go?


All from someone who wasn't interested. It's not like I'm telling her these things.

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This is a girl who you described as an online influencer and chasing clout, so no, it doesn’t seem unusual at all to me that she is viewing your activity considering she will spend a great deal of time online for her job, and you follow each other.

As for keeping track of where you go, everything you wrote here just looks like she was making small talk to me 🤷🏼‍♀️ She saw you going out and it’s totally normal to be like hey, what are you up to, where are you headed. That is a normal social interaction. it seems like she maybe friend zoned you by “forgetting” your date, and wants to remain friendly since you are neighbors. You don’t just “forget” a planned date with someone who you already went out with before, unless it was really forgettable or bad! For whatever reason, she did. And she is being friendly to try to avoid future awkwardness I think. Maybe she is gauging if your interest is still there, to test the waters or for when she gets bored or something. To forget a date is super rude though, whether intentional or not. Either way, she’s not into you or else she wouldn’t have forgotten. If she genuinely forgot and was still interested, she’d have rescheduled and apologized profusely.

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None of these things seem weird to me as your neighbor. These look like normal interactions to me. She’s naturally charming as a Pisces and someone who has an online presence. She is trying to remain friendly with you. I wouldn’t spend too much time trying to read between the lines on this one, I don’t think there’s anything there.

You don't think it's odd to comment on someone's story and ask if they've seen you from their patio before? Or to mentally keep track of where I go?

All from someone who wasn't interested. It's not like I'm telling her these things.
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This is a girl who you described as an online influencer and chasing clout, so no, it doesn’t seem unusual at all to me that she is viewing your activity considering she will spend a great deal of time online for her job, and you follow each other.


As for keeping track of where you go, everything you wrote here just looks like she was making small talk to me 🤷🏼‍♀️ She saw you going out and it’s totally normal to be like hey, what are you up to, where are you headed. That is a normal social interaction. it seems like she maybe friend zoned you by “forgetting” your date, and wants to remain friendly since you are neighbors. You don’t just “forget” a planned date with someone who you already went out with before, unless it was really forgettable or bad! For whatever reason, she did. And she is being friendly to try to avoid future awkwardness I think. Maybe she is gauging if your interest is still there, to test the waters or for when she gets bored or something. To forget a date is super rude though, whether intentional or not. Either way, she’s not into you or else she wouldn’t have forgotten. If she genuinely forgot and was still interested, she’d have rescheduled and apologized profusely.

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It's one thing to view content and it's another to make note of what someone does.

I'm aware of all that which is why I told her I wasn't interested. It's fine if she wants to remain cordial, but she goes out of her way to initiate conversation. I haven't once reached out to her for any reason after that conversation. She'll find a reason to text or speak to me..

She has a bruised ego. She probably didn't have any intention of going on another date, but then felt annoyed when I didn't challenge her like a typical man would do. Why else would her roommate roll her eyes at me?

We only went out once, the rapport isn't there to ask me what airlines I'm flying on or accuse me of having a GF if she sees me out.

Posted by Eggroll
This is what my male Scorpio friend would call turning you into her gay bestie. Has no romantic interest in you but finds you non threatening enough to keep being friendly.

a gay bestie is a man who constantly pursues a woman, she rejects him but he still wants to keep contact. The relationship then forms into her complaining about other men to him.

That is not this situation. I do not text that woman nor have I asked to see her.. There is no discussion of who she is dating..

she's just playing with you for attention

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None of these things seem weird to me as your neighbor. These look like normal interactions to me. She’s naturally charming as a Pisces and someone who has an online presence. She is trying to remain friendly with you. I wouldn’t spend too much time trying to read between the lines on this one, I don’t think there’s anything there.

You don't think it's odd to comment on someone's story and ask if they've seen you from their patio before? Or to mentally keep track of where I go?

All from someone who wasn't interested. It's not like I'm telling her these things.
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This is a girl who you described as an online influencer and chasing clout, so no, it doesn’t seem unusual at all to me that she is viewing your activity considering she will spend a great deal of time online for her job, and you follow each other.

As for keeping track of where you go, everything you wrote here just looks like she was making small talk to me 🤷🏼‍♀️ She saw you going out and it’s totally normal to be like hey, what are you up to, where are you headed. That is a normal social interaction. it seems like she maybe friend zoned you by “forgetting” your date, and wants to remain friendly since you are neighbors. You don’t just “forget” a planned date with someone who you already went out with before, unless it was really forgettable or bad! For whatever reason, she did. And she is being friendly to try to avoid future awkwardness I think. Maybe she is gauging if your interest is still there, to test the waters or for when she gets bored or something. To forget a date is super rude though, whether intentional or not. Either way, she’s not into you or else she wouldn’t have forgotten. If she genuinely forgot and was still interested, she’d have rescheduled and apologized profusely.
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It's one thing to view content and it's another to make note of what someone does.


I'm aware of all that which is why I told her I wasn't interested. It's fine if she wants to remain cordial, but she goes out of her way to initiate conversation. I haven't once reached out to her for any reason after that conversation. She'll find a reason to text or speak to me..


She has a bruised ego. She probably didn't have any intention of going on another date, but then felt annoyed when I didn't challenge her like a typical man would do. Why else would her roommate roll her eyes at me?


We only went out once, the rapport isn't there to ask me what airlines I'm flying on or accuse me of having a GF if she sees me out.

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Well that’s your perspective, but she doesn’t see it as something off limits to ask you. Flying which airline isn’t a particularly personal question. She probably has a friendly and flirtatious nature because her job is to be attractive, charming, and personable if she is an influencer, and she seems to be good in that role.

Maybe her ego is bruised because you didn’t chase after her when she initially told you she “forgot” the date, which was a rejection of sorts. If she is indeed attractive, then she’s probably used to men throwing themselves at her and chasing her down when she rejects them. You did not do that, so there’s a question mark there and she’s missing the attention. This and the “forgetting” is child behavior, but what else do you expect from someone who lives their life on a cell phone for online attention.

Still is a chance that she is just trying to be friendly and avoid awkwardness since you are neighbors and will be forced to see each other. I find younger people overshare and over communicate a lot, she is overly chatty. In both scenarios, she is not into you romantically though so I wouldn’t allow her to take up anymore real estate in your head

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None of these things seem weird to me as your neighbor. These look like normal interactions to me. She’s naturally charming as a Pisces and someone who has an online presence. She is trying to remain friendly with you. I wouldn’t spend too much time trying to read between the lines on this one, I don’t think there’s anything there.

You don't think it's odd to comment on someone's story and ask if they've seen you from their patio before? Or to mentally keep track of where I go?

All from someone who wasn't interested. It's not like I'm telling her these things.
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This is a girl who you described as an online influencer and chasing clout, so no, it doesn’t seem unusual at all to me that she is viewing your activity considering she will spend a great deal of time online for her job, and you follow each other.

As for keeping track of where you go, everything you wrote here just looks like she was making small talk to me 🤷🏼‍♀️ She saw you going out and it’s totally normal to be like hey, what are you up to, where are you headed. That is a normal social interaction. it seems like she maybe friend zoned you by “forgetting” your date, and wants to remain friendly since you are neighbors. You don’t just “forget” a planned date with someone who you already went out with before, unless it was really forgettable or bad! For whatever reason, she did. And she is being friendly to try to avoid future awkwardness I think. Maybe she is gauging if your interest is still there, to test the waters or for when she gets bored or something. To forget a date is super rude though, whether intentional or not. Either way, she’s not into you or else she wouldn’t have forgotten. If she genuinely forgot and was still interested, she’d have rescheduled and apologized profusely.
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It's one thing to view content and it's another to make note of what someone does.

I'm aware of all that which is why I told her I wasn't interested. It's fine if she wants to remain cordial, but she goes out of her way to initiate conversation. I haven't once reached out to her for any reason after that conversation. She'll find a reason to text or speak to me..

She has a bruised ego. She probably didn't have any intention of going on another date, but then felt annoyed when I didn't challenge her like a typical man would do. Why else would her roommate roll her eyes at me?

We only went out once, the rapport isn't there to ask me what airlines I'm flying on or accuse me of having a GF if she sees me out.


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Well that’s your perspective, but she doesn’t see it as something off limits to ask you. Flying which airline isn’t a particularly personal question. She probably has a friendly and flirtatious nature because her job is to be attractive, charming, and personable if she is an influencer, and she seems to be good in that role.


Maybe her ego is bruised because you didn’t chase after her when she initially told you she “forgot” the date, which was a rejection of sorts. If she is indeed attractive, then she’s probably used to men throwing themselves at her and chasing her down when she rejects them. You did not do that, so there’s a question mark there and she’s missing the attention. This and the “forgetting” is child behavior, but what else do you expect from someone who lives their life on a cell phone for online attention.

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I don't know much about her dating life other than the maintenance man she was fucking is now her gay bestie.

Anyway yeah, I've just chalked it up to wanting validation. But I'm annoyed because now she's at my gym during the particular hours I go. The only thing left is to now pop up at the bar near us she's never been to but has noticed I frequent.

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This is what my male Scorpio friend would call turning you into her gay bestie. Has no romantic interest in you but finds you non threatening enough to keep being friendly.

a gay bestie is a man who constantly pursues a woman, she rejects him but he still wants to keep contact. The relationship then forms into her complaining about other men to him.


That is not this situation. I do not text that woman nor have I asked to see her.. There is no discussion of who she is dating..

Whatever the case, you’ve not really set any boundaries. If I play games with a man I expect him to cut me off. If he has made his romantic interest known and I don’t reciprocate that he needs to know I don’t take him seriously. I’ve had men delete me from their social media or block my number or whatever. You planned a date which was obvious romantic interest. She forgot which was obvious disinterest. From there she shouldn’t have access to your life. She shouldn’t be texting. You’re not friends. People don’t automatically default to friends if a romantic relationship fails to get off the ground. This situation is a little unique because you are neighbors so maybe you want to be cordial.

This is partially on you. You choose to let people stay in limbo questioning their motives rather than just cutting them off and moving on.

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What part of I do not initiate are you not understanding?

She occasionally will reach out in some format. This isn't daily texting..

I don't need to "block" or unfollow her as this indicates I'm upset with her or we have an issue.

I simply don't watch her content. If she wants to waste her time keeping up with me then that's on her.. It's not reciprocated.

She sounds like she likes fun and a good time and treats you like the casual friend that you are. You seem to be the one bothered by her. Take her off of your social media if you can't handle the friendship or don't want to be bothered.

Pisces are social people and super friendly. She is checking in with you, interacting, and saying hi when she sees you out.

Do you think she is stalking you?

All water signs are curious like this. I wouldn't take it personally but if being her friend is annoying, just cut the contact and move on.

She's trying to be an influencer, it's her job to question and find out things, especially about hot spots in the city, if she is of that age.

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From my view, you haven't provided a "smoking gun" that makes it valid to conclude that she is/has a problem at all. Seems like under-communication is leading to miscommunication.

There are issues of behavior and psychology present but I can't see a situation here that can be objectively judged given the scenario you've presented.

No blatant smoking gun, but she does initiate enough to wonder. We bump into each other enough to not play catch up all the time. She’s literally two doors down.

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She sounds like she likes fun and a good time and treats you like the casual friend that you are. You seem to be the one bothered by her. Take her off of your social media if you can't handle the friendship or don't want to be bothered.

Pisces are social people and super friendly. She is checking in with you, interacting, and saying hi when she sees you out.


Do you think she is stalking you?

All water signs are curious like this. I wouldn't take it personally but if being her friend is annoying, just cut the contact and move on.

She's trying to be an influencer, it's her job to question and find out things, especially about hot spots in the city, if she is of that age.

I don’t think she’s “stalking” me, but there’s no reason to consistently initiate. If we bump into each other cool, but she checks in outside that also. I don’t reciprocate. I don’t check in nor watch her content.

It just seems like its ego driven.. our DMs are nothing but responses from her. Regardless of whether or not she rejected me.. I think her curiosity is piqued since I was the one who verbally ended it.

She hasn’t asked me about any “hot spot” in 6 months. That never comes up..

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She sounds like she likes fun and a good time and treats you like the casual friend that you are. You seem to be the one bothered by her. Take her off of your social media if you can't handle the friendship or don't want to be bothered.

Pisces are social people and super friendly. She is checking in with you, interacting, and saying hi when she sees you out.


Do you think she is stalking you?

All water signs are curious like this. I wouldn't take it personally but if being her friend is annoying, just cut the contact and move on.

She's trying to be an influencer, it's her job to question and find out things, especially about hot spots in the city, if she is of that age.

I don’t think she’s “stalking” me, but there’s no reason to consistently initiate. If we bump into each other cool, but she checks in outside that also. I don’t reciprocate. I don’t check in nor watch her content.

It just seems like an ego driven.. our DMs are nothing but responses from her.

She hasn’t asked me about any “hot spot” in 6 months. That never comes up..

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It just seems like she's friendly. Pizza at your door, getting cold and she let you know. Then seeing you out, saying hi and her being curious about what you're up to.

The gym thing was a little weird, but she went with her boyfriend to check it out, not alone and trying to talk to you.

It just seems like she likes your "good vibes" and is a friendly neighbor.

I would be a little more worried if she came up to you and said she had a dream about you- That is a Pisces flirting.

You guys live in the same area and seem to have some of the same interests, why not just chalk it up to coincidence? Or ask her playfully if she's stalking you.

Seems like it bothers you more cause she is attractive/ your type and friendly with a boyfriend.

If she was an ugly girl, or not your type, you may not have even noticed how often you run into her.

Her unavailability seems to trigger you, which would be completely understandable, if that was happening. Most people want what they can't have.

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She sounds like she likes fun and a good time and treats you like the casual friend that you are. You seem to be the one bothered by her. Take her off of your social media if you can't handle the friendship or don't want to be bothered.

Pisces are social people and super friendly. She is checking in with you, interacting, and saying hi when she sees you out.

Do you think she is stalking you?

All water signs are curious like this. I wouldn't take it personally but if being her friend is annoying, just cut the contact and move on.

She's trying to be an influencer, it's her job to question and find out things, especially about hot spots in the city, if she is of that age.

I don’t think she’s “stalking” me, but there’s no reason to consistently initiate. If we bump into each other cool, but she checks in outside that also. I don’t reciprocate. I don’t check in nor watch her content.


It just seems like an ego driven.. our DMs are nothing but responses from her.


She hasn’t asked me about any “hot spot” in 6 months. That never comes up..
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It just seems like she's friendly. Pizza at your door, getting cold and she let you know. Then seeing you out, saying hi and her being curious about what you're up to.


The gym thing was a little weird, but she went with her boyfriend to check it out, not alone and trying to talk to you.


It just seems like she likes your "good vibes" and is a friendly neighbor.


I would be a little more worried if she came up to you and said she had a dream about you- That is a Pisces flirting.


You guys live in the same area and seem to have some of the same interests, why not just chalk it up to coincidence? Or ask her playfully if she's stalking you.


Seems like it bothers you more cause she is attractive/ your type and friendly with a boyfriend.

If she was an ugly girl, or not your type, you may not have even noticed how often you run into her.

Her unavailability seems to trigger you, which would be completely understandable, if that was happening. Most people want what they can't have.

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Wait let me add some more context.

This has been her behavior since we've met a year ago, minus the social media aspect (we didn't have each other added). She moved in about 6 months after me and I was dating a Leo at the time. Ambiguous responses and subtle observations are her thing.. it didn't change after the failed date.

Back in January she found me on a dating app and said "heyyy neighbor!" I had no idea who she was at first but I recognized her name. I don't notice her because of "attractiveness", I remember because she's one of the only people I bump into due to the hours I work. She's not my usual type and I wasn't triggered, forgetting a date is disrespectful. So I let her know I don't have interest in continuing chatting. She gave her availability on a specific day a week out. Took 45 minutes to reply the day of and supposedly forgot.

We're done if that happens.

In-between all that her parents were visiting which was the reason for the spaced out date. I ran into her with the parents one night and she spoke but I had in headphones. Didn't notice her at first but I told her I just didn't see her at first. (January timeframe)

She may have felt a way about it because I posted a couple weeks ago a meme about squinting and you can't see someone waving and she responded laughing. Indicating she thought about our scenario... but it wasn't about her.

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She sounds like she likes fun and a good time and treats you like the casual friend that you are. You seem to be the one bothered by her. Take her off of your social media if you can't handle the friendship or don't want to be bothered.

Pisces are social people and super friendly. She is checking in with you, interacting, and saying hi when she sees you out.

Do you think she is stalking you?

All water signs are curious like this. I wouldn't take it personally but if being her friend is annoying, just cut the contact and move on.

She's trying to be an influencer, it's her job to question and find out things, especially about hot spots in the city, if she is of that age.

I don’t think she’s “stalking” me, but there’s no reason to consistently initiate. If we bump into each other cool, but she checks in outside that also. I don’t reciprocate. I don’t check in nor watch her content.


It just seems like an ego driven.. our DMs are nothing but responses from her.


She hasn’t asked me about any “hot spot” in 6 months. That never comes up..
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It just seems like she's friendly. Pizza at your door, getting cold and she let you know. Then seeing you out, saying hi and her being curious about what you're up to.


The gym thing was a little weird, but she went with her boyfriend to check it out, not alone and trying to talk to you.


It just seems like she likes your "good vibes" and is a friendly neighbor.


I would be a little more worried if she came up to you and said she had a dream about you- That is a Pisces flirting.


You guys live in the same area and seem to have some of the same interests, why not just chalk it up to coincidence? Or ask her playfully if she's stalking you.


Seems like it bothers you more cause she is attractive/ your type and friendly with a boyfriend.

If she was an ugly girl, or not your type, you may not have even noticed how often you run into her.

Her unavailability seems to trigger you, which would be completely understandable, if that was happening. Most people want what they can't have.

Wait let me add some more context.

This has been her behavior since we've met a year ago, minus the social media aspect (we didn't have each other added). She moved in about 6 months after me and I was dating a Leo at the time. Ambiguous responses and subtle observations are her thing.. it didn't change after the failed date.

Back in January she found me on a dating app and said "heyyy neighbor!" I had no idea who she was at first but I recognized her name. I don't notice her because of "attractiveness", I remember because she's one of the only people I bump into due to the hours I work. She's not my usual type and I wasn't triggered, forgetting a date is disrespectful. So I let her know I don't have interest in continuing chatting. She's gave her availability one a specific day a week out. Took 45 minutes to reply and supposedly forgot.

We're done if that happens.

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"So I let her know I don't have interest in continuing chatting."

She seems like a nat bugging you.

Why not just block her?

She was rude and remained unbothered, you told her to fuck off, and now she is still flitting around bugging you. So block her from your messaging and ignore her if you see her if you think she is attention seeking. She will get the hint.

I think that mutables are mostly unbothered by people, we know that they come and go. It's not that serious. Most mutables are able to blur lines like this. I still just think she is being friendly and unbothered.

Overthinking it is for relationship problems 😝

What are you actually going to do about it since it bugs you so much?

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She sounds like she likes fun and a good time and treats you like the casual friend that you are. You seem to be the one bothered by her. Take her off of your social media if you can't handle the friendship or don't want to be bothered.

Pisces are social people and super friendly. She is checking in with you, interacting, and saying hi when she sees you out.

Do you think she is stalking you?

All water signs are curious like this. I wouldn't take it personally but if being her friend is annoying, just cut the contact and move on.

She's trying to be an influencer, it's her job to question and find out things, especially about hot spots in the city, if she is of that age.

I don’t think she’s “stalking” me, but there’s no reason to consistently initiate. If we bump into each other cool, but she checks in outside that also. I don’t reciprocate. I don’t check in nor watch her content.

It just seems like an ego driven.. our DMs are nothing but responses from her.

She hasn’t asked me about any “hot spot” in 6 months. That never comes up..
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It just seems like she's friendly. Pizza at your door, getting cold and she let you know. Then seeing you out, saying hi and her being curious about what you're up to.

The gym thing was a little weird, but she went with her boyfriend to check it out, not alone and trying to talk to you.

It just seems like she likes your "good vibes" and is a friendly neighbor.

I would be a little more worried if she came up to you and said she had a dream about you- That is a Pisces flirting.

You guys live in the same area and seem to have some of the same interests, why not just chalk it up to coincidence? Or ask her playfully if she's stalking you.

Seems like it bothers you more cause she is attractive/ your type and friendly with a boyfriend.

If she was an ugly girl, or not your type, you may not have even noticed how often you run into her.

Her unavailability seems to trigger you, which would be completely understandable, if that was happening. Most people want what they can't have.

Wait let me add some more context.


This has been her behavior since we've met a year ago, minus the social media aspect (we didn't have each other added). She moved in about 6 months after me and I was dating a Leo at the time. Ambiguous responses and subtle observations are her thing.. it didn't change after the failed date.


Back in January she found me on a dating app and said "heyyy neighbor!" I had no idea who she was at first but I recognized her name. I don't notice her because of "attractiveness", I remember because she's one of the only people I bump into due to the hours I work. She's not my usual type and I wasn't triggered, forgetting a date is disrespectful. So I let her know I don't have interest in continuing chatting. She's gave her availability one a specific day a week out. Took 45 minutes to reply and supposedly forgot.


We're done if that happens.

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"So I let her know I don't have interest in continuing chatting."


She seems like a nat bugging you.

Why not just block her?

She was rude and remained unbothered, you told her to fuck off, and now she is still flitting around bugging you. So block her from your messaging and ignore her if you see her if you think she is attention seeking. She will get the hint.


I think that mutables are mostly unbothered by people, we know that they come and go. It's not that serious. Most mutables are able to blur lines like this. I still just think she is being friendly and unbothered.

Overthinking it is for relationship problems 😝


What are you actually going to do about it since it bugs you so much?

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Well, it picked up recently. She was pretty silent February-March.. Which is why I'm confused.

I don't think I need to do anything right now. I already expressed where I stood and there's no need to double down as she's not knocking on my door.

I was just curious to hear other opinions. Typically, when someone isn't interested, they're pretty silent and go on about their business. This is a new one because she reaches out outside of me encountering her.

Maybe it is just a mutable sign thing. A friendly concerned neighbor!

Summertime is here and she’s your friendly neighbor who you might be seeing more often now that the weather is better. Maybe she regrets being rude or didn’t realize she was?

I seriously just think it’s friendly communication.

Posted by saggurl88
Summertime is here and she’s your friendly neighbor who you might be seeing more often now that the weather is better. Maybe she regrets being rude or didn’t realize she was?
I seriously just think it’s friendly communication.

I didn't put a ton of thought into it until I scrolled through the DM thread and then she asked that question when I was on my balcony.

Things that make you say hmm.

Lmao I live in Florida.. we go to the beach in December here.. Regret is a strong word. I doubt that, to me it's just curiosity as I'm fairly private on social media. I suppose the thought process would be a little different if she never expressed rromantic interest.

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Posted by saggurl88
Summertime is here and she’s your friendly neighbor who you might be seeing more often now that the weather is better. Maybe she regrets being rude or didn’t realize she was?

I seriously just think it’s friendly communication.

I didn't put a ton of thought into it until I scrolled through the DM thread and then she asked that question when I was on my balcony.


Things that make you say hmm.


Lmao I live in Florida.. we go to the beach in December here.. Regret is a strong word. I doubt that, to me it's just curiosity as I'm fairly private on social media. I suppose the thought process would be a little different if she never expressed rromantic interest.

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My Pisces girl friend has these placements but with a Leo moon.

She’s just super friendly and networks amazingly.

I have a feeling you’re gonna keep running into her. Just treat her the same way she’s treating you, like a friend.

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Posted by saggurl88
Summertime is here and she’s your friendly neighbor who you might be seeing more often now that the weather is better. Maybe she regrets being rude or didn’t realize she was?

I seriously just think it’s friendly communication.

I didn't put a ton of thought into it until I scrolled through the DM thread and then she asked that question when I was on my balcony.

Things that make you say hmm.

Lmao I live in Florida.. we go to the beach in December here.. Regret is a strong word. I doubt that, to me it's just curiosity as I'm fairly private on social media. I suppose the thought process would be a little different if she never expressed rromantic interest.
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My Pisces girl friend has these placements but with a Leo moon.

She’s just super friendly and networks amazingly.

I have a feeling you’re gonna keep running into her. Just treat her the same way she’s treating you, like a friend.

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She has a man! Don't ask me if I've seen you on the patio when I'm outside and you have a BF.

I know I'll see her. She couldn't wait to share she got into a car accident last night when we spoke. I just nodded and told her I'm glad it wasn't bad. Then ended the convo and got in the car.

Sounds like she can't be straightforward about things (classic Pisces). She "forgot" about your date because she didn't want things to go that way with you, but didn't know how to properly say no, because Pisces are afraid of rejection/rejecting. Then she felt scared that she did that and that you might hate her, so she's going out of her way to make sure that you still like her. Or maybe she can't stand the thought of someone not wanting her who seemingly once did, so she's literally stalking you and trying to get things back to under her thumb. It's all about her...

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Sounds like she can't be straightforward about things (classic Pisces). She "forgot" about your date because she didn't want things to go that way with you, but didn't know how to properly say no, because Pisces are afraid of rejection/rejecting. Then she felt scared that she did that and that you might hate her, so she's going out of her way to make sure that you still like her. Or maybe she can't stand the thought of someone not wanting her who seemingly once did, so she's literally stalking you and trying to get things back to under her thumb. It's all about her...

Possibly... she was already juggling other men and she flew out to Texas to see a guy two weeks later for V-Day. But I don't get why me hating her would mean anything, there just wasn't enough rapport there for my opinion to matter.

It very well could be her just wanting the validation that I like her so the ball can be in her court.

Too much overthinking on your part. Set a clear boundary if you want to continue contact with the person or cease communication. You are over-complicating your life. Also, I bring this up in other threads but it’s weird how you all get so emotionally invested “looking up natal charts” of people. You don’t think that behavior is lowkey obsessing. Do you want to have sex with her or something?

If your gut is telling you that something strange is going on, you are most likely right. She is probably infatuated and obsessed with you. Yes, she will turn up at your cafe soon.

She's getting high by having an imaginary, troubled relationship with you. This happens when you push the right brain buttons in a certain order. Even if you did so by accident.

She hopes that you are not aware of what's going on, but fears that you somehow do. Her friendly chit chat and boyfriend parade are her attempts to put you off the scent.

You'll be fine. She genuinely likes you. It's not that she wants to date you for real. If you want her to stop bugging you, be all over her. She will get over you.

Libra men always in drama

Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
I had a Pisces sun, Aries Mercury, Aqua Venus pull this. good luck


also sounds potentially like quincunx/8th house synastry at play

Lol what ended up happening?

Posted by Yeo
Libra men always in drama

🤣🤣 I mind my business

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Anyone have any experience with Pisces Sun, Aqua Venus and Aries Mars people?


Had a situation where I went out with my neighbor about 6 months ago. Long story short, it didn't go anywhere. She's an Influencer and is more concerned about being cast on Love Island, so we were mostly incompatible. She apparently "forgot" our second date so I went ahead and let her know I wasn't interested, but remained cordial.


Ever since then she has made it her mission to be acknowledged and pry into my business. I feel like it's an ego thing rather than her actually being interested.


We have each other on social media and she never misses a beat. Occasionally will comment or heart something I post.


Last month I posted a picture of my balcony with my plants (nice view of the back patio in complex) and she comments and asks if I've ever seen her on the patio? I thought that was such an odd question to ask someone. She then asks what I have going on that particular weekend and I tell her I'm going to Miami. She then says her parents are coming down and they're headed to Key West. After that, she says "what airlines are you flying on?" What does that have to do with anything.. we're not flying together. I told her I was driving and she's like "oh, I was just curious."


The other week, apparently someone ordered pizza and accidently sent it to my apartment around 10:30am on a Sunday Morning. I had no idea, so she takes a picture of my door and texts me asking if I had a long night because I left food outside my door. I told her that wasn't my pizza and I didn't even go out. Pisces tells me "Just making sure you were alright hahaha"


Nosy Pisces knows what gym I go to and you guessed it, she pops up with her boyfriend last week. She goes to LA Fitness so I still don't get why she was at my gym. I noticed her when I walked in but I went the other direction and went about my business. About 3 sets in, they walk up directly behind me and she waited for us to make eye contact. We chat and I asked what she was doing in my neck of the woods. Pisces says "oh I'm just here with this guy. I still go to LA." *Raises eyebrow.. well I'll let you get back to it then!


Last night I was headed out to a beach bar with someone friends and I bump into nosy Pisces as I'm locking my door. Her first response is "where you headed?" I tell her the name of the bar and she says "oh you go there a lot huh? I still haven't been." I've maybe posted I was at that bar probably 3 or 4 times.


I really wanted to say "maybe you should ask your BF to take you." But that's petty.


There's various other shit she's done for attention such as yelling my name on her balcony with her friends etc. I just don't feel like typing it all.


What is her problem— She forgot the date and didn't offer a counter so I moved on. Get over it.

Lol. That Libra privacy. I hate it when people pry into my life. Some folks would see her as being friendly but if I were in your shoes I'd be suspicious.

Pisces on love island has gotta be the one that crys and drinks too much and kisses someone elses boyfriend

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Posted by LuckyLibra7
Anyone have any experience with Pisces Sun, Aqua Venus and Aries Mars people?


Had a situation where I went out with my neighbor about 6 months ago. Long story short, it didn't go anywhere. She's an Influencer and is more concerned about being cast on Love Island, so we were mostly incompatible. She apparently "forgot" our second date so I went ahead and let her know I wasn't interested, but remained cordial.


Ever since then she has made it her mission to be acknowledged and pry into my business. I feel like it's an ego thing rather than her actually being interested.


We have each other on social media and she never misses a beat. Occasionally will comment or heart something I post.


Last month I posted a picture of my balcony with my plants (nice view of the back patio in complex) and she comments and asks if I've ever seen her on the patio? I thought that was such an odd question to ask someone. She then asks what I have going on that particular weekend and I tell her I'm going to Miami. She then says her parents are coming down and they're headed to Key West. After that, she says "what airlines are you flying on?" What does that have to do with anything.. we're not flying together. I told her I was driving and she's like "oh, I was just curious."


The other week, apparently someone ordered pizza and accidently sent it to my apartment around 10:30am on a Sunday Morning. I had no idea, so she takes a picture of my door and texts me asking if I had a long night because I left food outside my door. I told her that wasn't my pizza and I didn't even go out. Pisces tells me "Just making sure you were alright hahaha"


Nosy Pisces knows what gym I go to and you guessed it, she pops up with her boyfriend last week. She goes to LA Fitness so I still don't get why she was at my gym. I noticed her when I walked in but I went the other direction and went about my business. About 3 sets in, they walk up directly behind me and she waited for us to make eye contact. We chat and I asked what she was doing in my neck of the woods. Pisces says "oh I'm just here with this guy. I still go to LA." *Raises eyebrow.. well I'll let you get back to it then!


Last night I was headed out to a beach bar with someone friends and I bump into nosy Pisces as I'm locking my door. Her first response is "where you headed?" I tell her the name of the bar and she says "oh you go there a lot huh? I still haven't been." I've maybe posted I was at that bar probably 3 or 4 times.


I really wanted to say "maybe you should ask your BF to take you." But that's petty.


There's various other shit she's done for attention such as yelling my name on her balcony with her friends etc. I just don't feel like typing it all.


What is her problem— She forgot the date and didn't offer a counter so I moved on. Get over it.

Lol. That Libra privacy. I hate it when people pry into my life. Some folks would see her as being friendly but if I were in your shoes I'd be suspicious.

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Lol I can tell she wants to pull more information out. I don't divulge enough even though I'll say I'm heading out to the bar with friends. She would like to know who and which bar..

It's just confusing because of the romantic interest at first and her continuation to poke around without actually seeing me. Not sure why some people in this thread aren't grasping that.

Posted by Walk_on_by
Pisces on love island has gotta be the one that crys and drinks too much and kisses someone elses boyfriend

That's all she wanted to talk about. She even compared our complex to the show and said it's because everyone is attractive here. I told her I hadn't heard that one lol..

I'm guessing that's where part of the disconnect came in. The reality tv vibes, lights, camera action etc and I hadn't watched the show at the time so I didn't relate.

Oh well.