MeMyselfAndIntrigued
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No, you'd rather jump to your conclusions thinking that there is some other reason why he must not be interested in me. He had to bury his mom, his wife, his baby and his sister all within two years of each other and you think its something I've done wrong! All this is after he literally watched his stepdad die of a heart attack when he was a teenager....the only father figure he had in his life after watching his real dad beat his mom, himself and his little sister before she left him. This guy has had more heartache and dealt with more things than most people will ever endure. But no, it's all because I'm a fool. I stay because he is an amazing, sweet, kind, warm person who treats me with respect and dignity. It really doesn't matter if I don't make his as happy as he deserves, as long as someone can, he needs it.
I meant to say Mario Testino. If you don't know who that is, he photographed many famous people including Princess Diane. Um yeah, I think I'll take my chances on this one. Brains and personality to boot.
Venus says "EW". All of me says "EW".
uote>Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Him being a cancer I meant to say, he wants his control, he wants to keep his family together above all else, which in itself is not a bad thing to want to keep your family together but, it is not because he wants to give me what I need from him, it's because he doesn't want to loose.
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
And even if he wants to work things out, he made his bed and it's too late. Just because he wants to work things out doesn't mean he deserves it. Doesn't mean I should be obligated to do so. I have every right to have happiness and he failed miserably at providing that. He had ten years to be what I needed him to be, so feel sorry for him if you want. He lost me.click to expand
The meaning of these two posts is that ..... your husband thinks you two are still together, trying to work things out.
You can lie alls you want to .. I remember what you said .. I remember you sending me a PM and conveying that your husband doesn't know about the Pisces.
You fucking cunt .. that's all you are .. god help you
Are all Americans this uptight about sex? Gosh you lot should never visit Europe😛
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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Him being a cancer I meant to say, he wants his control, he wants to keep his family together above all else, which in itself is not a bad thing to want to keep your family together but, it is not because he wants to give me what I need from him, it's because he doesn't want to loose.
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
And even if he wants to work things out, he made his bed and it's too late. Just because he wants to work things out doesn't mean he deserves it. Doesn't mean I should be obligated to do so. I have every right to have happiness and he failed miserably at providing that. He had ten years to be what I needed him to be, so feel sorry for him if you want. He lost me.
The meaning of these two posts is that ..... your husband thinks you two are still together, trying to work things out.
You can lie alls you want to .. I remember what you said .. I remember you sending me a PM and conveying that your husband doesn't know about the Pisces.
You fucking cunt .. that's all you are .. god help youclick to expand
My husband chooses to live in denial and thinks I will change my mind. That is not my problem. Obviously, he knows now he lost a good thing. And you are the liar because I never told you he doesn't know about the Pisces. As a matter of fact just last week he said....and I know you are still talking to blank, I said yes I am and I'm not going to stop, you don't need to concern yourself with it because you and I are no more. That was the third time this guy has been brought up. I even told my him about the accident his family was in right after I found out. I'm sorry if the fact that my husband still wants me bothers you but he's not a Virgo. Maybe after those 200-250 men you banged, your husband felt like he was screwing a rubber band that lost its elasticity. Bend over and stick your butthole in his face and maybe you'll still stand a chance.
I'm not uptight about sex. He can put it wherever he wants, I'm jusy not into high numbers.
Posted by winterwroughtVery true. Mine wasn't meant for everyone to take a turn. To me, sex is special and I want to be special for the one who gets me. He should know that not many have come before him. No pun intended.Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Thank you! Mine stays locked tight and gets unlocked for special occasions only. Tis why I don't need condoms. How many of you can say at 33 years of age your number is below five? Men don't want to marry women who spread em because she got all weak in the knees when he slipped his hand down her pants. Real women smack their hand away. Learn how to freaking say no!...
Just like the key-bearer - who knows he can very well jam that key into many a lock, but knows it is meant only for one. And to unleash all that is contained by that one said lock. Where the key fits the lock, and vice versa. 'Tis a good policy to abide by: a one key, one lock policy. Not a 'Ring of Keys' policy.
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It's refreshing to see, especially a young guy feel about it the way you feel winter. And your woman is going to feel so special when she learns that about you.
Two can learn how many different ways that one key can fit into that one lock.
if youre with a guy in a relationship for a week then dump him and overall change them like socks, its same open relationship, and yes you are still a slut, only justifying your actions, remember cervical cancer is waiting
Making babies and teaching them to keep their padlock latched til they are forty.
Posted by KingOfAries
if youre with a guy in a relationship for a week then dump him and overall change them like socks, its same open relationship, and yes you are still a slut, only justifying your actions, remember cervical cancer is waiting
Moving from one to another in dating is not the issue. There is nothing wrong with realizing whom you have dated for a week is not what you want and then moving on to see what another person can offer you, however if one has sex within that week just to have sex with the other in the next week then yes, that would constitute as being slutty. I for one will wait months until I feel we have established something more substantial.
Posted by KingOfAries
if youre with a guy in a relationship for a week then dump him and overall change them like socks, its same open relationship, and yes you are still a slut, only justifying your actions, remember cervical cancer is waiting
What mental disorder are you diagnosed with?
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by KingOfAries
if youre with a guy in a relationship for a week then dump him and overall change them like socks, its same open relationship, and yes you are still a slut, only justifying your actions, remember cervical cancer is waiting
What mental disorder are you diagnosed with?click to expand
Well at least this time it isn't me that you think is warped.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by KingOfAries
if youre with a guy in a relationship for a week then dump him and overall change them like socks, its same open relationship, and yes you are still a slut, only justifying your actions, remember cervical cancer is waiting
What mental disorder are you diagnosed with?click to expand
from the looks of it im one of few sane people in here, rest of you are slyuuuts, craving for penis huh? come get it im cool with dumping my precious fluid in someone who pays back with pleasure
@MeMyselfAndIntrigued: I don't think your mind is warped, I just think you're still a little baby in that you can't grasp that there are 7,000,000,000 other people on this planet with their own lives, morals and values... not to mention all the religion that warpes the minds of the masses. And you still haven't answered me why you think that a woman who wants an open relationship and can stand behind her decision is lacking self-respect or self-worth?
You said to me a while back that "a woman does enjoy sex as much as a guy" so then who says you're to dictate what kind of sexual activites she should participate in in order to enjoy it? You actually mean that YOUR values and principles should suit everyone?
KingOfAries..... what can you expect from the very lowest of an Aries person? He'll probably end up blowing his brains out before he turns 30. All the world can do is thank him for not taking a couple of innocent lives with him as he goes....
@LadyScorpP: We all have our personal quirks, not all of us have a mental disorder. He prides himself in being one of the only sane people in here, to me he sounds like a little boy full of complexes.
You said to me a while back that "a woman does enjoy sex as much as a guy" so then who says you're to dictate what kind of sexual activites she should participate in in order to enjoy it? You actually mean that YOUR values and principles should suit everyone?
KingOfAries..... what can you expect from the very lowest of an Aries person? He'll probably end up blowing his brains out before he turns 30. All the world can do is thank him for not taking a couple of innocent lives with him as he goes....
@LadyScorpP: We all have our personal quirks, not all of us have a mental disorder. He prides himself in being one of the only sane people in here, to me he sounds like a little boy full of complexes.
Posted by KingOfAriesPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by KingOfAries
if youre with a guy in a relationship for a week then dump him and overall change them like socks, its same open relationship, and yes you are still a slut, only justifying your actions, remember cervical cancer is waiting
What mental disorder are you diagnosed with?
from the looks of it im one of few sane people in here, rest of you are slyuuuts, craving for penis huh? come get it im cool with dumping my precious fluid in someone who pays back with pleasureclick to expand
What I want to know is why you keep calling the women in here sluts when the majority are saying we want commitment and aren't into sharing and casual sex?
You are making the least sense out of anyone in here ol sane one!
Posted by winterwrought
I'd be loyal.. to the one.
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this topic isn't about the one .... The One is not apart of the equation.
I do find it interesting that many people (usually women), find and fall in love with The One ... often
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntriguedPosted by KingOfAriesPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by KingOfAries
if youre with a guy in a relationship for a week then dump him and overall change them like socks, its same open relationship, and yes you are still a slut, only justifying your actions, remember cervical cancer is waiting
What mental disorder are you diagnosed with?
from the looks of it im one of few sane people in here, rest of you are slyuuuts, craving for penis huh? come get it im cool with dumping my precious fluid in someone who pays back with pleasure
What I want to know is why you keep calling the women in here sluts when the majority are saying we want commitment and aren't into sharing and casual sex?
You are making the least sense out of anyone in here ol sane one!click to expand
oh i dont really read what anyone else is saying, i guess im mocking the sluts like the pissy mouse that commented above me and etc.
Posted by Chocokat
DXP could really make someone want to be asexual in a heartbeat..=/
Also it's unfortunate, but I knew a God Fearing monogamous woman who contracted AIDS from her husband and he was her first, because he lied..
So to say people sleeping around are the only ones at "risk"..is just silly. You never know about people..
Think about that.
Amen ... and yes, I have/will definitely think
Posted by Chocokat
DXP could really make someone want to be asexual in a heartbeat..=/
aaaaaaaahahahahahahhaahhaa!
Also it's unfortunate, but I knew a God Fearing monogamous woman who contracted AIDS from her husband and he was her first, because he lied.
So to say people sleeping around are the only ones at "risk"..is just silly. You never know about people.click to expand
Yep. My cousin caught genital herpes from her husband, because he lied.
Posted by Chocokat
DXP could really make someone want to be asexual in a heartbeat..=/
Also it's unfortunate, but I knew a God Fearing monogamous woman who contracted AIDS from her husband and he was her first, because he lied..
So to say people sleeping around are the only ones at "risk"..is just silly. You never know about people..
Think about that.
better that then catch HIV then die from AIDS and never have kids or future or any life other than visiting bunch of hospitals giving you false hope while youre slowly dying
Posted by KingOfAriesPosted by Chocokat
DXP could really make someone want to be asexual in a heartbeat..=/
Also it's unfortunate, but I knew a God Fearing monogamous woman who contracted AIDS from her husband and he was her first, because he lied..
So to say people sleeping around are the only ones at "risk"..is just silly. You never know about people..
Think about that.
better that then catch HIV then die from AIDS and never have kids or future or any life other than visiting bunch of hospitals giving you false hope while youre slowly dyingclick to expand
You are extremely misinformed about HIV/ AIDS.
Posted by enfant_terrible
@MeMyselfAndIntrigued: I don't think your mind is warped, I just think you're still a little baby in that you can't grasp that there are 7,000,000,000 other people on this planet with their own lives, morals and values... not to mention all the religion that warpes the minds of the masses. And you still haven't answered me why you think that a woman who wants an open relationship and can stand behind her decision is lacking self-respect or self-worth?
You said to me a while back that "a woman does enjoy sex as much as a guy" so then who says you're to dictate what kind of sexual activites she should participate in in order to enjoy it? You actually mean that YOUR values and principles should suit everyone?
KingOfAries..... what can you expect from the very lowest of an Aries person? He'll probably end up blowing his brains out before he turns 30. All the world can do is thank him for not taking a couple of innocent lives with him as he goes....
@LadyScorpP: We all have our personal quirks, not all of us have a mental disorder. He prides himself in being one of the only sane people in here, to me he sounds like a little boy full of complexes.
You are right. I do wish though that more women would cherish their bodies and not let just anyone have it. Women (most women) want to be married and have kids. Usually women like that aren't considered marriage material. Usually a good man is not interested in bringing someone home to mom and dad who has had the whole football team. By the time she realizes this and wants to settle down, it may be too late for her to be considered worthy. I can only hope he would love her enough to accept her past. I say self worth and respect because It often has to do with the relationship the girl has had with her father. Usually a non existent father or one who is too strict. She moved on in life finding comfort in many different men. It's usually those who become prostitutes and exotic dancers. M
Well jeeze, I didn't mean to post this yet. Ok bring on the attacks.
I meant nine times out of ten its the women who didn't have a relationship with her father that taught her to value herself. These days though sex is so normal and people don't take it to mean anything. It's there so just do it, pull your pants back up and move on to the next without washing off the last person. I find it sad. It has no special meaning behind it anymore.
Posted by AutumnalChickPosted by KingOfAriesPosted by Chocokat
DXP could really make someone want to be asexual in a heartbeat..=/
Also it's unfortunate, but I knew a God Fearing monogamous woman who contracted AIDS from her husband and he was her first, because he lied..
So to say people sleeping around are the only ones at "risk"..is just silly. You never know about people..
Think about that.
better that then catch HIV then die from AIDS and never have kids or future or any life other than visiting bunch of hospitals giving you false hope while youre slowly dying
You are extremely misinformed about HIV/ AIDS.click to expand
youre the one misinformed dumbass, im a pre-med student, you get HIV, infect people for 10 years with it, add or take 5, then you get AIDS and die
Posted by ChocokatPosted by KingOfAries
better that then catch HIV then die from AIDS and never have kids or future or any life other than visiting bunch of hospitals giving you false hope while youre slowly dying
What I'm saying is always be on your guard, even if you are married and even if you've been having sexual relations with the same person for five years..condoms or unprotected.
Get tested.
If your partner cannot understand your concern for your safety, get out of the relationship.click to expand
of coarse my love thats how it has to be done, before marriage you both need to get tested whether your blood is compatible to see whether you will have any problems when you are planning to have a child, and you do it before hand, so you take both of your blood tests and that can be an excuse to check his blood and you know.. prepare for something more serious
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Well jeeze, I didn't mean to post this yet. Ok bring on the attacks.
Manipulator ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ .. only a matter of time before everyone in here "gets" your intention
Posted by KingOfAries
of coarse .....
So, they are taking med students in college now just out of third grade?
That's a really hard word ... so, maybe fourth grade?
Posted by P-AngelPosted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Well jeeze, I didn't mean to post this yet. Ok bring on the attacks.
Manipulator ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ .. only a matter of time before everyone in here "gets" your intentionclick to expand
What are you babbling about this time? I'm using my I-phone and it's touch screen is sensitive. You're an idiot.
You're sour because you have been gotten in about 20 years!
^ whoops, formatting ish.
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/insite?page=pb-00-00<BR> Try reading up, dumbass.
People are living 20, 30 years with the HIV virus and life expectancy has reached up to 50 years for people who begin treatment early.
I would say you will make the world's worst doctor but I have no confidence that you will be accepted into any medical school.
Pre-med, that's a joke. Try going out and working with HIV patients in the real world, like I have, then try to act like you know shit about it.
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/insite?page=pb-00-00<BR> Try reading up, dumbass.
People are living 20, 30 years with the HIV virus and life expectancy has reached up to 50 years for people who begin treatment early.
I would say you will make the world's worst doctor but I have no confidence that you will be accepted into any medical school.
Pre-med, that's a joke. Try going out and working with HIV patients in the real world, like I have, then try to act like you know shit about it.
Haven't been* but you got it because that's all you're getting at home is these posts to read.
Posted by AutumnalChick
^ whoops, formatting ish.
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/insite?page=pb-00-00<BR> Try reading up, dumbass.
People are living 20, 30 years with the HIV virus and life expectancy has reached up to 50 years for people who begin treatment early.
I would say you will make the world's worst doctor but I have no confidence that you will be accepted into any medical school.
Pre-med, that's a joke. Try going out and working with HIV patients in the real world, like I have, then try to act like you know shit about it.
Bahahaha
Posted by RealTalkPosted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
And real talk, don't you have a prescription that needs filling?
Eat my ass you stanken bitch. 😄click to expand
No thanks, It's so worn out I'd have to fold it over to get to the middle.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by KingOfAries
of coarse .....
So, they are taking med students in college now just out of third grade?
That's a really hard word ... so, maybe fourth grade?
click to expand
was that supposed to be funny? as for a fourth grader i seem to be much more mature than you
Posted by KingOfAriesPosted by P-AngelPosted by KingOfAries
of coarse .....
So, they are taking med students in college now just out of third grade?
That's a really hard word ... so, maybe fourth grade?
was that supposed to be funny? as for a fourth grader i seem to be much more mature than youclick to expand
True
Posted by AutumnalChick
^ whoops, formatting ish.
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/insite?page=pb-00-00<BR> Try reading up, dumbass.
People are living 20, 30 years with the HIV virus and life expectancy has reached up to 50 years for people who begin treatment early.
I would say you will make the world's worst doctor but I have no confidence that you will be accepted into any medical school.
Pre-med, that's a joke. Try going out and working with HIV patients in the real world, like I have, then try to act like you know shit about it.
only majority dont find out they gave HIV early, hence 10 years, not more, unless of-coarse you are loaded with money then.
I have worked with an HIV patients in a dental clinic, once i found out they had HIV (usually black men) i went out put on two pairs of glows, mask of coarse and protecting glasses before touching their mouths, i had to take x-rays, and other doctors knew immediately that he was HIV everyone kept warning everyone else.
You will really have a great bedside manner once you become a doctor!
So you can contract HIV by taking X-Rays? Wow, you are learning so much interesting stuff at this school. It must really be prestigious.
Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by iceredrobot
Are all Americans this uptight about sex? Gosh you lot should never visit Europe😛
lol For me it's just that, what's mine is mine. I don't share well ;Pclick to expand
Bingo. I don't share at all. I also don't run with scissors or play well with others. Why yes that is my marble tyvm. Suck it up. 😄
Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Usually a good man is not interested in bringing someone home to mom and dad who has had the whole football team. By the time she realizes this and wants to settle down, it may be too late for her to be considered worthy. I can only hope he would love her enough to accept her past. I say self worth and respect because It often has to do with the relationship the girl has had with her father. Usually a non existent father or one who is too strict. She moved on in life finding comfort in many different men. It's usually those who become prostitutes and exotic dancers. M
Yes but the way the society views them is not their problem, it's the society's problem. It's the society that has a warped view on what a woman is and should be like! Don't you see that? :-/ It's like saying a woman who dresses like a "slut" has only herself to blame if she gets raped because of the way the society views her.
And you are right about bad father figures, but you do realize that we are all a product of our upbringing/enviroment so who's to say what's normal? What is a normal childhood? Is it normal to have parents that never argue and are happy because they bottle up their frustrations... or maybe they are just very compatible, doesen't matter, my question is what does it do to a kid who's a product of this "happy marriage" and eventually realizes that his own marriage is a failure in comparison, when in fact it's not! And so on. You do realize that "happines" in itself will create complexes that can have dire consequences too? So no values or principles are "normal", apart from those that are forced onto us by the society and times we live in. It's a question of norms, not what's right or wrong.
Check out the Madonna-Whore complex, btw.... 😉
He's trying to get his point across by lying. He can afford that luxury since this is internet.
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