Pisces and Breakups

's So me and pisces man broke up and I know i hurt his feelings but was best for longterm as he was just not the one for me.

He won't stop messaging, calling, messaging my friends, all of them! He wants to talk more and discuss but I don't have anything more to say. I'm getting quite annoyed at how far he's going.

I do care for him as a friend but I need my space and I think talking to him will only drag this on longer.

What to do before I lose my mind?!!! I've already deactivated my fb to end those constant messages from him.

Apparently you weren't clear enough.

You can't just make statements to a Fish ... you have to draw a verbal picture.

Write a long letter, be exact, be informative. Don't just say, "it's over" .. because nothing is ever over to a Pisces. Nothing is definitive to a Pisces.

So, you have to explain to him how being with him makes you feel bad, makes you not like him. don't make those statements ... explain it.

Pisces people want to help you, assist you, they want to make you feel life.

Feeling the experiences of your life is pretty much the only thing that truly matters ..... so, let him know how you feel, let him know that he doesn't make you feel good, that he makes you feel bad.

he'll leave you alone

Yeah I guess that's only fair, and he is a very giving loving person. It's just the things I don't like I really don't want to say. I'm not attracted. Not my style of passion. He worships me to the point of extreme turnoff. I can do no wrong with him, it really does opposite of helping me grow into better person. How do I explain this to the guy, it's harsh. 😢

Posted by taurusgoddess
Yeah I guess that's only fair, and he is a very giving loving person. It's just the things I don't like I really don't want to say. I'm not attracted. Not my style of passion. He worships me to the point of extreme turnoff. I can do no wrong with him, it really does opposite of helping me grow into better person. How do I explain this to the guy, it's harsh. 😢

I had a girlfriend who was like that with me. I hated it. I'm sure some people enjoy being treated like something special, but I felt weird about it and that's not how I show my feelings for someone, so she got upset over time.

The relationship degraded over time, so we never had to have that conversation. We moved on to bigger and better problems. She was not a Pisces, either.

I would advise against listing all of the specific reasons why you were not attracted to him and keep that part general. Make it clear that you don't want to have that kind of relationship with him, but don't be unnecessarily specific.

Being too specific could also give him the impression that he could act differently and still have a chance with you. So don't do that.