She means me.,,,.name's Heather.
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*gasp* H you said your name on here. OOOoooooooooOOOOOooo lol
His Venus in Aries makes him even more likely to want attention, I'm assuming.
Posted by tbird
I'll tell you one thing a guy who has a "I don't give a damn" or "make your own path" attitude but goes out of his way for you is SO freaking sexy. I can't stress that enough.
You're an idiot .... and shouldn't be coaching people on what Pisces people like because that was utter bullshit.
You describe a Player as being desireable for his Game Play.
You are seriously a waste of life.
lol If your considering yourself a basis of what all pisces should be then I'm more than happy to go against that. MORE than happy. You should know by well, so well, by now I REALLY don't care how you look at me or others. *shurgs shoulders* I guess not.
Your misreading what I've read, but again that isn't the first time that happened. I mean as someone who isn't going to bust their ass to help any and everyone in the world. That everyone makes their own path in life, success or failure is in your hands not in the hands of everyone else. Also by the I don't give a damn as someone who doesn't care what others think about them. They are happy with whom they are. Now that doesn't define a player now does it. See what jumping to conclusions and assuming get you? :::::shakes head::::
Now are you saying that pisces go for someone who applies what others think of them to define who they are? Nope, sorry they do not. Or should we do what you do and cling to someone who doesn't want you?
So tell me again who's the idiot, PA? MMmm yeah. Cheers.... I do give it to you, it's never boring when your around. Some many things to point out. Your self righteousness is always....a catalyst.
Go in peace...if you can muster that.
Your misreading what I've read, but again that isn't the first time that happened. I mean as someone who isn't going to bust their ass to help any and everyone in the world. That everyone makes their own path in life, success or failure is in your hands not in the hands of everyone else. Also by the I don't give a damn as someone who doesn't care what others think about them. They are happy with whom they are. Now that doesn't define a player now does it. See what jumping to conclusions and assuming get you? :::::shakes head::::
Now are you saying that pisces go for someone who applies what others think of them to define who they are? Nope, sorry they do not. Or should we do what you do and cling to someone who doesn't want you?
So tell me again who's the idiot, PA? MMmm yeah. Cheers.... I do give it to you, it's never boring when your around. Some many things to point out. Your self righteousness is always....a catalyst.
Go in peace...if you can muster that.
"I will add that a guy/girl doesn't have to have that I'm the shite, you know you want this air about them. To me that is a huge turn off. Pff whatever."
Also this sentence should of given you a clue I wasn't referring to players due to the fact players have this air about them. Helps with their game play.
Also this sentence should of given you a clue I wasn't referring to players due to the fact players have this air about them. Helps with their game play.
Posted by transcendentbull
As for you guys: What is too much effort? For a Pisces, is a simple text a day going to send him swimming away? Or is it the very intense bombardment that makes them flighty? Its obviously foreign for me to be chasing someone, but I know that I like him and that I'd like to see if he could potentially like me back, so I've got to try without being too forward.
how do you keep in contact with your friends or family, not much different. If your genuinely thinking of him send a message if not then dont. If catch your self communicating to get him to reassure you he is interested stop. If allow it to be natural im sure you will be fine.
P-angel, you sure do preach about Pisces and how no one is worthy of them and no one is right but you, but you are the least pisces of anyone in here. There is nothing charming, compassionate or loving- natured about you. You are a disgrace to the sign. You twist everything around in your distorted little closed mind. You are truly an ugly human being, if you want to call yourself human. There's nothing humane about you. You probably skin kittens and eat them for dinner all whilst sitting in front of your computer screen picking out who you can criticize next. You're pathetic.
piran is right on the money with everything.
Yep...differences or not, I do enjoy her insight. It also confirms that, yes, I do know Pisces.
He messaged me last night asking about my week. I took into account what you guys said, and about 45 minutes of talking I said:
"Anyways! If your bored/free this weekend we should go to (insert place we talked about here)"
And all he said was
"That would be fun. If you're downtown tomorrow message me, my roommate and I are going to e at a friends house and might go out later."
"Sounds good, talk to ya soon."
"Yeah talk to you soon, have a good night! Haha"
"Anyways! If your bored/free this weekend we should go to (insert place we talked about here)"
And all he said was
"That would be fun. If you're downtown tomorrow message me, my roommate and I are going to e at a friends house and might go out later."
"Sounds good, talk to ya soon."
"Yeah talk to you soon, have a good night! Haha"
Everything has to start somewhere. They like women who don't have a problem wearing the pants. He may like your new approach so much that he'll want to take yours off.
Posted by MidniteStar
Pisces confuse me. I don't understand them and never will.
Thankfully though they aren't usually interested in me.
They aren't that difficult to get.
Just make sure that if you want to get to know one that you ask a Pisces and not a Cancer.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by MidniteStar
Pisces confuse me. I don't understand them and never will.
Thankfully though they aren't usually interested in me.
They aren't that difficult to get.
Just make sure that if you want to get to know one that you ask a Pisces and not a Cancer.click to expand
Was it too forward of me to message him last night telling him that I wouldn't be making it downtown? He said to message him if I was downtown, but he said it casually so it wasn't a set plan. I didn't want him to think I forgot about him or was blowing him off so I simple just said "Looks like I wont be making it downtown tonight, hope you're having a good time." Just really simple and when he replied I explained how I had to take care of a sick friend.
However, our conversation lasted a little while and then suddenly he said "Haha have a good night, I'll message you tomorrow."
Nothing yet. I feel as if he blew off my conversation.
Posted by transcendentbullPosted by P-AngelPosted by MidniteStar
Pisces confuse me. I don't understand them and never will.
Thankfully though they aren't usually interested in me.
They aren't that difficult to get.
Just make sure that if you want to get to know one that you ask a Pisces and not a Cancer.
Was it too forward of me to message him last night telling him that I wouldn't be making it downtown? He said to message him if I was downtown, but he said it casually so it wasn't a set plan. I didn't want him to think I forgot about him or was blowing him off so I simple just said "Looks like I wont be making it downtown tonight, hope you're having a good time." Just really simple and when he replied I explained how I had to take care of a sick friend.
However, our conversation lasted a little while and then suddenly he said "Haha have a good night, I'll message you tomorrow."
Nothing yet. I feel as if he blew off my conversation.click to expand
nope not at all...actually he probably thought it was thoughtful. If I was him and expected to see you downtown and you didn't show up or text it would be pretty bad. I think that I was just stood up regardless if my friend was there or not. It wasn't an official date (in my eyes... a date is you and him alone together) so it was a casual meet-up for a lack of a better term but even still if there is a change of plans let a person know. If not I would think your rude as all hell and the interest level would diminish and I would think this behavior would occur frequently. Basically you made the right call.
Well conversations must have an end. He could of stopped messaging you all together and not say anything. Don't take it as a bad thing. He might of had things to do or maybe he was all talked out. Guys get like that sometimes, hell I get like that sometimes. Don't sweat the small stuff. You'll drive your self batshite crazy. TRUST me! I've done this and it doesn't do anything but make you think the worse and increases your anxiety level. Not good all the way around. If you truly want to be with a mermen you must learn to not sweat the small stuff. We swim away at times but we come back... if interested.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by MidniteStar
Pisces confuse me. I don't understand them and never will.
Thankfully though they aren't usually interested in me.
They aren't that difficult to get.
Just make sure that if you want to get to know one that you ask a Pisces and not a Cancer.click to expand
Bahahahahaha, and make sure if you need to know how to color your roots, to ask P-angel.
right, I'm starting to realize that I'm over analyzing things even I do. Simply just saying goodnight to someone when I'm tired. I never think twice, but the second this Pisces does I think its a sign of him not wanting to speak to me? Epiphany. Hahah. He messaged me last night like he said he would, and he was going out so the conversation did end abruptly but I didn't get carried away. I simply told myself that he was busy and that no one want to text when they're out with their friends.
Even if this turns into nothing, even if its just a friendship, I like taking the lead a little. Its scary but its nice to know that I'm changing for the better. Slowly but surely.
Posted by tbirdPosted by transcendentbullPosted by P-AngelPosted by MidniteStar
Pisces confuse me. I don't understand them and never will.
Thankfully though they aren't usually interested in me.
They aren't that difficult to get.
Just make sure that if you want to get to know one that you ask a Pisces and not a Cancer.
Was it too forward of me to message him last night telling him that I wouldn't be making it downtown? He said to message him if I was downtown, but he said it casually so it wasn't a set plan. I didn't want him to think I forgot about him or was blowing him off so I simple just said "Looks like I wont be making it downtown tonight, hope you're having a good time." Just really simple and when he replied I explained how I had to take care of a sick friend.
However, our conversation lasted a little while and then suddenly he said "Haha have a good night, I'll message you tomorrow."
Nothing yet. I feel as if he blew off my conversation.click to expand
nope not at all...actually he probably thought it was thoughtful. If I was him and expected to see you downtown and you didn't show up or text it would be pretty bad. I think that I was just stood up regardless if my friend was there or not. It wasn't an official date (in my eyes... a date is you and him alone together) so it was a casual meet-up for a lack of a better term but even still if there is a change of plans let a person know. If not I would think your rude as all hell and the inte
@trans: Yeah it's kinda hard for pisces to balance being with their friends and someone they are interested in when they are first starting out. They feel like they are neglecting someone at one time or another. I know I do.
Slow and steady wins every race my dear. When you rush something is bound to be flubbed up. Only thing you can do as a person is recognize your weakness and your patterns that effect you in a negative manner and change them, if you can. Change is a scary things, once your set in your ways your comfortable with yourself and your reactions (i.e. x * y = xy) once you change them you are leaving a plethora of options that weren't available to you and the results can be unexpected to you and not what your used to (i.e. ax * by = abcy, acby, yacb...etc (for all you math nerds out there I know what your going to say...this is an example people lol)). Be PROUD of yourself hun that you recognize what you are doing and are willing and trying to change this behavior. I'm proud of you!! *hugs*
Him keeping contact is a good sign...trust me some of my best friends I don't keep constant contact or tabs on, I still care about them as much as I ever did, we just detach sometimes. So yeah like you said even if it stays on a plantonic level or develops into more you shouldn't be dissappointed in the relationship (if your realistic of course, hell this applies to everyone) pisces are very caring, gentle creatures...well for the most part. If a pisces loose their connect with their 2 fishes.... it can be disastrous.
Keep us updated and stay positive my dear! Positivity is SO good for your mentalilty, your soul and inner being.
Slow and steady wins every race my dear. When you rush something is bound to be flubbed up. Only thing you can do as a person is recognize your weakness and your patterns that effect you in a negative manner and change them, if you can. Change is a scary things, once your set in your ways your comfortable with yourself and your reactions (i.e. x * y = xy) once you change them you are leaving a plethora of options that weren't available to you and the results can be unexpected to you and not what your used to (i.e. ax * by = abcy, acby, yacb...etc (for all you math nerds out there I know what your going to say...this is an example people lol)). Be PROUD of yourself hun that you recognize what you are doing and are willing and trying to change this behavior. I'm proud of you!! *hugs*
Him keeping contact is a good sign...trust me some of my best friends I don't keep constant contact or tabs on, I still care about them as much as I ever did, we just detach sometimes. So yeah like you said even if it stays on a plantonic level or develops into more you shouldn't be dissappointed in the relationship (if your realistic of course, hell this applies to everyone) pisces are very caring, gentle creatures...well for the most part. If a pisces loose their connect with their 2 fishes.... it can be disastrous.
Keep us updated and stay positive my dear! Positivity is SO good for your mentalilty, your soul and inner being.
Posted by transcendentbull
Was it too forward of me to message him last night telling him that I wouldn't be making it downtown?
I feel as if he blew off my conversation.
No, it's not too forward to message him .. however, he did blow you off and he will every time.
If you want to be with a Fish, you must first learn about them ... and from the way you talk, you sound like your interest on the surface .. and Pisces people will indeed just blow you off if you are going to be superficial.
You haven't even gotten his attention yet .... though he's been giving you chance and after chance. You don't appear to care about depth, which is what he is waiting to see if you possess.
How about talking to him about things that matter.
Update: We went out again last night, simply for a coffee at a cozy shop. We spoke non stop. Although beforehand I wouldn't have agreed with you P-Angel, the conversation last night was much different than any one we've had before. He even noted how passionately I was talking about the things I was learning and mentioned that he thought it was really endearing that I was so interested in that stuff. We spoke a lot about dreams and all of that stuff, aha. Movies, etc. It was a really good conversation. He also apologized before we were leaving for how long it had taken for us to go out again, which I thought was nice of him.
When we were leaving he mentioned how he wanted to actually hang out at his house, watch a movie. Something a little more personal than simply going out for drinks or tea (although he messaged me later saying he didn't mean he didn't like those activities, he made it a point to mention that he really did enjoy himself which reassured me).
I guess we'll see what comes next.
When we were leaving he mentioned how he wanted to actually hang out at his house, watch a movie. Something a little more personal than simply going out for drinks or tea (although he messaged me later saying he didn't mean he didn't like those activities, he made it a point to mention that he really did enjoy himself which reassured me).
I guess we'll see what comes next.
Probably the best passionate night of bliss you will have ever had in your life. Take it slow and yes, they love movies. Take over the movie Inception or Vanilla Sky...they love anything fantasy driven.
Posted by transcendentbull
Update: We went out again last night, simply for a coffee at a cozy shop. We spoke non stop. Although beforehand I wouldn't have agreed with you P-Angel, the conversation last night was much different than any one we've had before. He even noted how passionately I was talking about the things I was learning and mentioned that he thought it was really endearing that I was so interested in that stuff. We spoke a lot about dreams and all of that stuff, aha. Movies, etc. It was a really good conversation. He also apologized before we were leaving for how long it had taken for us to go out again, which I thought was nice of him.
When we were leaving he mentioned how he wanted to actually hang out at his house, watch a movie. Something a little more personal than simply going out for drinks or tea (although he messaged me later saying he didn't mean he didn't like those activities, he made it a point to mention that he really did enjoy himself which reassured me).
I guess we'll see what comes next.
There's a lot of good insight in the Fish Tank about Pisces .. alot of non-Pisceans talk in here, just make sure you are listening to the ones who are Fish, because most of the times, the others have us all wrong.
Luckily, she's not referring to me since I'm one of the few who knows what she's talking about. She hates it that I do, can't you tell!
So we went out on Monday and he has yet to say anything. In going with the advice I've been given I messaged him on Thursday and we had a short conversation. I saw him on Friday when he came into my work and we had a little bit of a conversation that was a tad awkward just because he was standing by my desk waiting for the people he came with and I was talking to him in the midst of handling transactions, so it was a bit silent at times. Other then that he hasn't mentioned anything about hanging out again, despite saying he really wanted to.
I'm kind of worried I might have hurt his feelings. I'm pretty sure he tried to kiss me on Monday when I was saying goodbye to him, although it was in a car and hugging in a car is already so awkward that I didn't even realize. I got to my door and thought back and kind of wondered if he had tried and if I had given him the cold shoulder (so rude!). I got into my house and was kind of overcome with sadness, like a very intuitive feeling that I had just really hurt his feelings and that I messed everything up. In order to save some face I messaged him and told him that I had a great time and thanked him for taking me out, and he said that he did too and that he definitely did want to hang out somewhere that "wasn't loud and public and somewhere that doesn't require car goodbyes." Hahah. Eek.
He has yet to say anything about that yet. I know he is super busy with his own life and his schooling, he goes back and forth from our town to one a few hours away, so I get it if he doesn't know when he's free, but a simple hello would be nice.
I'm kind of worried I might have hurt his feelings. I'm pretty sure he tried to kiss me on Monday when I was saying goodbye to him, although it was in a car and hugging in a car is already so awkward that I didn't even realize. I got to my door and thought back and kind of wondered if he had tried and if I had given him the cold shoulder (so rude!). I got into my house and was kind of overcome with sadness, like a very intuitive feeling that I had just really hurt his feelings and that I messed everything up. In order to save some face I messaged him and told him that I had a great time and thanked him for taking me out, and he said that he did too and that he definitely did want to hang out somewhere that "wasn't loud and public and somewhere that doesn't require car goodbyes." Hahah. Eek.
He has yet to say anything about that yet. I know he is super busy with his own life and his schooling, he goes back and forth from our town to one a few hours away, so I get it if he doesn't know when he's free, but a simple hello would be nice.
Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by transcendentbull
He has yet to say anything about that yet. I know he is super busy with his own life and his schooling, he goes back and forth from our town to one a few hours away, so I get it if he doesn't know when he's free, but a simple hello would be nice.
There is no reason why you can't say that simple hello first !!...he probably will be wondering why you didn't kiss him...
It took for me to initiate the next message to my Pisces when we had first met and he was glad I did because he had said he wanted to but didn't want to look obsessive...haha...once I said he could text whenever he wants...well he took that in full swing and jumped right in comfortably...
You don't have to always wait around for that text sometimes Pisces are waiting for you to make the next move...because we aren't always sure ...plus we like to see you are interested before we dive in...click to expand
I completely understand, and I wanted him to know that I was still interested in hanging out despite what happened (I'm oblivious and I was nervous, I skipped out of there without even realizing what I had most likely done). I mentioned it when I messaged him right after and he said that he agreed that we should hang out again. That is why I'm taking his action as a flighty mechanism. Maybe he doesn't really want to hang out anymore.
Also, I messaged him on Thursday, and saw him on Friday and we spoke. So I guess I feel as if I've been saying hello and not making him do all of the work. Although, I don't know you Pisces, maybe that isn't considered reassuring to you guys, whereas to a Taurus it is. This is where your help comes in haha. I keep thinking I'm going to scare him by messaging him, because I know the fish can be gone in an instant if they feel pressure.
The date day was Monday, I saw him at my work on Friday and we had a 20 minute conversation. I did message him on Wednesday and we simply spoke.
I'd really love to ask him to hang out, and I think I will, I just feel silly because if he did he most likely would have already asked. On Monday he apologized for it taking so long (about 9ish days, which isn't long at all) to hang out again, so I got the impression that he wouldn't wait long to make plans again.
I also can't tell if my gut is telling me that things have fizzled or if I'm just telling myself that so I can prep for the worst case scenario and spare my feelings. Such confusion, its so silly. Haha.
I'd really love to ask him to hang out, and I think I will, I just feel silly because if he did he most likely would have already asked. On Monday he apologized for it taking so long (about 9ish days, which isn't long at all) to hang out again, so I got the impression that he wouldn't wait long to make plans again.
I also can't tell if my gut is telling me that things have fizzled or if I'm just telling myself that so I can prep for the worst case scenario and spare my feelings. Such confusion, its so silly. Haha.
Posted by Nights22
Did you know that women can actually plan the next get together and not rely on the guy too!? :0 shocking. I know.
Okay okay. Fair enough. I guess messaging him isn't enough. I'll ask him to hang out.
I'm nervous.
Posted by Nights22
Did you know that women can actually plan the next get together and not rely on the guy too!? :0 shocking. I know.
aaaahhh, ur funny.
OMG why has no one warned this girl that most Pisces don't care for phone/texting? It's a rare (Airy?) Fish that is into it. I mean, we'll DO the damned thing, we are ABLE.. but you'd better believe that we'll often "fall off the face of the earth".. yes, even in the middle of a text convo.. ESP a superficial chitty-chat text convo. Just about the ONLY ones whom we regularly use electronic means to communicate.. it's our love interest, someone we are willing to set aside our dislike of the electronic communication, someone we want to KNOW without a doubt, that we are and remain interested in them. Friends, even close ones, even family.. VERY LUCKY if they can get the Fish to answer the phone.. or a text.. or the door, more than occasionally (bare minimum to not be rude.. though sometimes we don't gaf if we're rude.. we just want peace and silence, go away for awhile, try again another time... just don't expect us to initiate it much - we just don't keep texting/calling in the front of our minds as a way to stay in touch with anyone other than our most beloved. Aim for face-to-face. THAT'S where it counts for a Pisces. Anything less is superficial and forgettable, esp as a means to get to know someone.
Alright, I'm just going to message him saying something along the lines of "Hey! If you're free next week and interested in hanging out we should get together."
Sounds so bland argh.
Sounds so bland argh.
That's a statement, not a question. It's also careful, guarded, and superficial. And furthermore, it not only doesn't require an answer (as it's not a question).. it's entirely generic and bland. Venus in Aries have no problem with boldness, yours or theirs.
Maybe something more like, "Hey, Pisces.. I had a really great time with you and would love to see you again soon. I feel excited at the thought of getting us getting to know each other better, woo! What do you think?"
Maybe something more like, "Hey, Pisces.. I had a really great time with you and would love to see you again soon. I feel excited at the thought of getting us getting to know each other better, woo! What do you think?"
Posted by Nefer
That's a statement, not a question. It's also careful, guarded, and superficial. And furthermore, it not only doesn't require an answer (as it's not a question).. it's entirely generic and bland. Venus in Aries have no problem with boldness, yours or theirs.
Maybe something more like, "Hey, Pisces.. I had a really great time with you and would love to see you again soon. I feel excited at the thought of getting us getting to know each other better, woo! What do you think?"
I could never say something like that, aha. As much as it does sound like a wonderful way to ask to hang out I just can't bring myself to be that bold. I'm starting to realize that Pisces may not be the type for me, I'm much too guarded at first.
You could never say something like that? Something truthful and real and worth answering? That's too bad. :c
Indeed, you seem a bit too guarded and carefully superficial.. I GET it, Bullette - it's a defense mechanism. But it won't serve you well with a Pisces, esp one with Venus in Aries. Not ones to move slowly and carefully, it comes across more like fear, and what's there to fear about actually living? They want to jump in, EMBRACE and EXPERIENCE it, whatever it is.. not stick their toe in the water six or seven times, then slowly inch their way in to their ankle, then knees, but always staying safely near shore.
No, a Pisces might not be your type. Maybe a Virgo.. he might go slow enough to scare you like a bunny rabbit.
Indeed, you seem a bit too guarded and carefully superficial.. I GET it, Bullette - it's a defense mechanism. But it won't serve you well with a Pisces, esp one with Venus in Aries. Not ones to move slowly and carefully, it comes across more like fear, and what's there to fear about actually living? They want to jump in, EMBRACE and EXPERIENCE it, whatever it is.. not stick their toe in the water six or seven times, then slowly inch their way in to their ankle, then knees, but always staying safely near shore.
No, a Pisces might not be your type. Maybe a Virgo.. he might go slow enough to scare you like a bunny rabbit.
*to NOT scare you
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