Pisces has me confused

I met this man 2 years ago. He chased me until I said yes. He poured his heart and soul into me. I had his twin boys jam 2015. Now a days he seems disconnected and withdrawn. When he isn't at work ( in the military ) he is playing a game on his computer all day and night it seems a lot since he has been on his vacation . I try to talk to him about if something is bothering him he shuts down. Before he would be quick to fix whatever it was causing us to be disconnected. When I pull away he pushes into me. When I push into him he pulls away. Totally confusing we had an argument that caused me to be in tears and crying he didn't comfort me instead he went and laid in a ball I asked him tonight if he wants me to take the boys and leave for awhile he said nothing and crawled into a ball acted as tho he was crying a little and buried his head in the pillow. He says he loves me but his actions are the opposite at times. He will say hurtful things and act as though he doesn't want to carry on a conversation now rewind a week ago I pulled away and mimicked him. He in return came to started loving loving on me sending sweet texts when he left for work I'm sorry but wtf ?? What am I to do ?? I am so freaking lost and confused

Do you have any advice I sure could use some right about now ?

Intentions ? We are in a serious relationship living together

Thank you hon for the advice I tried to just cuddle him tonight but he just wouldn't say anything and stayed curled into the ball I do the same thing rub his head and comfort him when days are bad and he comes to me like that but he hasn't lately nor will he open up. I'm hurting pretty bad right now myself I am at my wits end. I just let him go to sleep and left him be ion so confused with the push and pull right now and I don't know what to do in order to make things right

No to answer your question he hasn't been deployed for awhile now

He is now up after a few hours of me asking if he wants me and the twins to leave on his computer laughing and snacking on food I am so lost confused and almost done at this point wtf

Thanks Donna and no I'm
Not suffering from postpartum depression a year i think I'm ok but for a man to be withdrawn into video games for a month day in and nights too something's wrong instead of being a dad and a partner which is why I resorted to asking for help here anyhow he started crying on me a few minutes ago saying life wouldn't exist if I wasn't with him nc me and the twins makes his world complete and how sorry he is for not showing it so we shall see if his actions and words match up I want to thank each of you for your 2 cents

Posted by scorpvenuslibra

he started crying on me a few minutes ago saying life wouldn't exist if I wasn't with him nc me and the twins makes his world complete and how sorry he is for not showing it

of course ... how convenient

Yes he is the father of my twins P angel I thought the same thing. As far as feeling so up and down and talking to someone his moods aren't that extreme

Posted by scorpvenuslibra
He is now up after a few hours of me asking if he wants me and the twins to leave on his computer laughing and snacking on food I am so lost confused and almost done at this point wtf

Who is he laughing with?
I would be alarmed. But I am a jealous type from beginning.
Sounds to me his mind elsewhere. But with whom I would ask as well.
I knew Pisces ones. He wouldn't curl in a ball. Neither be dramatic.

He was watching a show in the office. That's before he finally took me serious when I said I'm leaving or change your behavior

Right now after last night. I am just going to stop trying to make what Ever is wrong right listen and observe from here on out and if the bull crap continues then I'll go visit my mom for awhile at this point I'm tired and over the whole drama