Pisces man destroys me

BTW I am a Cancer

Well, then they wont get too far in their life.

This sounds about right pisces men arent relationship material. Maybe when they reach 40's then they are better to settle. At least courtney got kurts fortune. Cut your losses and move on. They will try to mindfuck just like he is doing

When I saw this thread...oh its just another pisces fucking someone over nothing new here

Posted by KittenLaRouge
When I saw this thread...oh its just another pisces fucking someone over nothing new here

I know that... but jesus, I am tired of all the people. I am just looking for qualities that I have. Just being honest, acting straight. What is the matter with that? Why ppl wanna take advantage of others? Why can not they do things on their own, without hurting others?

According to astrology the most compatible sings for Cancers are Pisces and Scoprio? So WTF? What is wrong with them? both of them are selfish as hell.

Cancer and pisces are not compatible.



I would discourage you from going back to him. Especially now that youve seen how he gets down. He sounds immature and complicated. You both need to settle your emotions and stop bouncing from partner to partner. Very irresponsible.

Then Pisces is not compatible with anyone...
They dont like conflicts... but who likes them— At least, most of us tries to solve them, but they would rather put their had into the earth.
It is impossible to count on them.

b1tchcrafts was right, they are parasitic.

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Posted by Nicole99
Then Pisces is not compatible with anyone...
They dont like conflicts... but who likes them— At least, most of us tries to solve them, but they would rather put their had into the earth.
It is impossible to count on them.

b1tchcrafts was right, they are parasitic.

Were you in an actual relationship with the Pisces though? Did you guys agree to be exclusive?

And I'll give you a tip. Never use someone else to heal you from past hurt. That's not their job and it's not fair on them.

You should've gotten over the Scorp on your own.

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Well, we did not agree, since I was away, and its hard to settle things down. We healed each other, and I think he needed more help than I did. I dont know... He is stupid anyway...

Posted by Nicole99

... most of us tries to solve them, but they would rather put their had into the earth.

In other words .... you were trying to control him, rather than relate to/with him, and he refused to adhere to a control freak.

You can't handle how insecure you are ... so you make it the Scorpios fault, and the Pisces fault.

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Posted by Nicole99

... most of us tries to solve them, but they would rather put their had into the earth.

In other words .... you were trying to control him, rather than relate to/with him, and he refused to adhere to a control freak.

You can't handle how insecure you are ... so you make it the Scorpios fault, and the Pisces fault.

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Haha, probably I am the insecure one, who was always supplying the Pisces with confidence. And probably I am the insecure one again, when he did not tell me this for weeks, because as he said he was scared of loosing me. I put some pressure on him, and finally he admit it... now when I am trying to solve this problem between us, he disappears. I know the previous gf of him, who was a Scorp too, and she was tired of the same shit. I just did not want to rely on her experience with him. But he did the same with me... omg...

I think he didn't feel it when he met you IRL. Chemistry wasn't there for him.

People are allowed to reject others, without the rejected party being spiteful. You have to be able to handle it.

"Then Pisces is not compatible with anyone.."

"He is stupid anyway.."

Obviously, since ......

Posted by Nicole99

... he was acting wierd, being so distant and by the end of the night he was really nervous and got out to the balcony, smoked a cigarette while his hands were shaking and started to cry...

Her intention was to use him for a rebound, so I don't think she cares that he was appalled by her ... she should be embarrassed.

She must have been very overwhelming since he had to lie to her to get her to go away.

Posted by Magenta_Azure
Cancer and pisces are not compatible.



I would discourage you from going back to him. Especially now that youve seen how he gets down. He sounds immature and complicated. You both need to settle your emotions and stop bouncing from partner to partner. Very irresponsible.

Good advice!
Take a break to deal with what you've just experienced.

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Obviously, since ......

Posted by Nicole99

... he was acting wierd, being so distant and by the end of the night he was really nervous and got out to the balcony, smoked a cigarette while his hands were shaking and started to cry...

Her intention was to use him for a rebound, so I don't think she cares that he was appalled by her ... she should be embarrassed.

She must have been very overwhelming since he had to lie to her to get her to go away.

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If thats the case, why is he keep texting me to forgive him, and that he will try harder to get me back— this description does not fit with the story.

He was just too dreamy, and took me with him into his illusions. Now I realized that he wont be able to make them happen, since he is not so persistent to anything in his life. 3 different universities, and not taking actions towards his future probably indicates all these... I did not use him, because between us I am the more successful one on personal and professional level too, I wanted to help him climb, but he feels more comfortable in an swimming pool and in the ocean. Thats why Cancers and Scorps work better together, because they like to develop and challenge themselves. But anyway... i did not expect this action from him since he was a soft person. I am fine alone too, I dont need anyone to stand by me, but of course he offered to move together, do some traveling. So am I wrong? He tells me that I should not blame myself, he was the one who ruined everything. I dont wanna blame him either, but I wont take it on me, since i dont think I have deserved this.

Posted by Nicole99
Thats why Cancers and Scorps work better together, because they like to develop and challenge themselves.

I just wanted to say I think that's utter bullshit. Granted I don't speak for your pisces friend. This concept that fish don't like to challenge themselves seems purely self serving especially since we are ever changing and growing with the challenges we face. Water signs work together due to the commonality of basing their life of of their emotions, anything else is just a personal life choice.

I know you might be bitter, and hell you can even write off the pisces sign if it suits you, no one really loses if you want to do that. But this concept that you are better than him because you like a "challenge" just sounds like bitterness licking wounds. It didn't work out. Throwing the guy under the bus is more ego related than rooted in any practicality of the situation.

I wonder what his venus/mars is.
my pisces is aries / cancer.
every so often he has gotten into crisis mode and tries the dramatics. I think the best thing to do is to steer his mind into the right direction (you). Lol If you can reason with his mind, you've won. If he is telling you that you are all he can think about... I'd saY it's a bit of guilt Along with caring for you greatly.

Good luck. You may want to bow out

Posted by Arielle83
Don't deconstruct his goals or direction to make you feel secure!

Low and ugly move on your part.

He's better off.

Pretty much my sentiments. +1

I feel awful though that women get "destroyed" by pisces just being themselves. Sometimes I feel people put their hopes and dreams on us, forget to see us individuals with our own lives and failings. If things don't work out I chalk it up to incompatibility and keep swimming, easier said than done with the feelings involved though.

You both were rebounding.
This relationship was only meant to emotionally move you both from the pain of your breakups.
Let him go, free yourself and change your attitude.
He is not the enemy.
I truly believe that some relationships were put in place to help us move on from the previous.

You have to admit he was the perfect distraction.
Ease yourself out on holding on to a relationship that was never meant to be long-term.

Go for a walk.
Go to a spa.
Ugly cry.
Meet new people.
Hang out with friends.
Work some overtime.

I don't think this relationship was true anyways, you both seemed to use each other as a rebound. Just move on, you'll get over it, and the pisces guy did the right thing to "move on". That he seems to actually regret what he did, just speak about how big their hearts are, he just did a thing for himself, but now he offer you to go back with him, because he feels sorry for you...

so if I where you, I would just be "happy" for him, that he found some "real" love, and then just get out of there, none of you seems right for each other anyways...

Fail

when I read the title of the thread I thought it was gonna be like terry crews in White Chicks "once you go Pisces you gonna need a wheelchair"

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