should i ask him if he lost insert in me?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by simsim88 on Tuesday, May 30, 2017 and has 23 replies.

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@simsim88
9 Years

So ive been seeing this aries Sun with a venus in Pisces man for the past 3 weeks and its been going well.

(i am a sagg sun with venus in Scorpio)

really well.

we kept hanging out alot and spending lots of time together and talking via texts alot when we are not together. (4 times a week lol)

anyways. just randomly for the past 48 hours he went MIA.... no text and didnt even respond to mine.

( i texted twice 24 hours ago, one saying good morning and the other asking if his free this weekend)

i usually assume his busy, but lets be real we are glued to our phones in this day and age, a text back isnt hard.

anyways i am thinking of texting him tonight asking him if his ok? and if he lost interest or not.

(i just dont have energy to be wasted on people thats why i would like to ask lol so i know where i stand)

what do you all think? good movie? should i do it?

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

Don't text him, give him some space. I think that maybe he's considering that you have been dating a lot and he's thinking about the whole situation.

What is his mars sign?

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

It was a holiday weekend, people are busy meeting with family and travelling. If you want to come off as clingy and needy than by all means ask him if hes lost interest. Your funeral.

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@LibraLovesHim
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by simsim88
So ive been seeing this aries Sun with a venus in Pisces man for the past 3 weeks and its been going well.

(i am a sagg sun with venus in Scorpio)

really well.

we kept hanging out alot and spending lots of time together and talking via texts alot when we are not together. (4 times a week lol)

anyways. just randomly for the past 48 hours he went MIA.... no text and didnt even respond to mine.

( i texted twice 24 hours ago, one saying good morning and the other asking if his free this weekend)

i usually assume his busy, but lets be real we are glued to our phones in this day and age, a text back isnt hard.

anyways i am thinking of texting him tonight asking him if his ok? and if he lost interest or not.

(i just dont have energy to be wasted on people thats why i would like to ask lol so i know where i stand)

what do you all think? good movie? should i do it?

My bf has same placements. He done the same to me at the beginning but he was continously msging me first, I think he wanted to see where my head was at and if I was only just "responding" or if i'd inititate contact had he left me. I left him for maybe 2 days. He did reply immediately though. Has he read your message or are you able to see is he is active elsewhere? He may just be caught up with something. When something eg work has their focus everything else can tend to fall by the wayside. I'd say you have done your part and to leave him to get back to you, but personally it may annoy me not knowing if ive been dumped lol so I get your feelings. The start of any "relation" kinda sucks. As ours did. I hate all the uncertainity and that dating dance.

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@simsim88
9 Years

Posted by Nataliaaa
Don't text him, give him some space. I think that maybe he's considering that you have been dating a lot and he's thinking about the whole situation.

What is his mars sign?

his mars is in taurus while i am aries

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@simsim88
9 Years

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by simsim88
So ive been seeing this aries Sun with a venus in Pisces man for the past 3 weeks and its been going well.

(i am a sagg sun with venus in Scorpio)

really well.

we kept hanging out alot and spending lots of time together and talking via texts alot when we are not together. (4 times a week lol)

anyways. just randomly for the past 48 hours he went MIA.... no text and didnt even respond to mine.

( i texted twice 24 hours ago, one saying good morning and the other asking if his free this weekend)

i usually assume his busy, but lets be real we are glued to our phones in this day and age, a text back isnt hard.

anyways i am thinking of texting him tonight asking him if his ok? and if he lost interest or not.

(i just dont have energy to be wasted on people thats why i would like to ask lol so i know where i stand)

what do you all think? good movie? should i do it?

My bf has same placements. He done the same to me at the beginning but he was continously msging me first, I think he wanted to see where my head was at and if I was only just "responding" or if i'd inititate contact had he left me. I left him for maybe 2 days. He did reply immediately though. Has he read your message or are you able to see is he is active elsewhere? He may just be caught up with something. When something eg work has their focus everything else can tend to fall by the wayside. I'd say you have done your part and to leave him to get back to you, but personally it may annoy me not knowing if ive been dumped lol so I get your feelings. The start of any "relation" kinda sucks. As ours did. I hate all the uncertainity and that dating dance.

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it drives me crazy because i see him active on facebook from his phone. like what the hell? haha

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@MagicMarch
9 Years

First asking a guy if he's free on the weekend and it's only Monday spells thirsty.

Second don't text anymore just give him space. If you desperately have to send a text make it concerned text with no question marks.

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

his mars is in taurus while i am aries

Def. He's thinking about it... I've dated some guys with mars in earth signs, they take a lot of time to settle and compromise. Some people could consider them as hesitant but we all know that is not necessarily true, is just that tend to consider many factors before they jump into water.

Don't let your Aries impatience leads you if you really care... juts give him some space.

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@simsim88
9 Years

Posted by Nataliaaa

his mars is in taurus while i am aries

Def. He's thinking about it... I've dated some guys with mars in earth signs, they take a lot of time to settle and compromise. Some people could consider them as hesitant but we all know that is not necessarily true, is just that tend to consider many factors before they jump into water.

Don't let your Aries impatience leads you if you really care... juts give him some space.

thanks for clearing it up. yes i can be impatient but i hate people that go MIA to texts then you see them online other places and talking to people. i find it disrespectful especially for how much time we spent talking to each and hanging out.

i am going to give him space, but eventually if he doesn't text me soon i'll be contacting him asking whats the deal. get my closer and move on lol

his an aries at end of the day, very honest and direct in person. whats why i was shocked by his MIA move. if his not interested i expect him to man up and say it. the texts were simple shit, like when are we gonna see eachother again (especally when he told me the night before i cant wait to see you again lol)

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

Posted by simsim88

Posted by Nataliaaa

his mars is in taurus while i am aries

Def. He's thinking about it... I've dated some guys with mars in earth signs, they take a lot of time to settle and compromise. Some people could consider them as hesitant but we all know that is not necessarily true, is just that tend to consider many factors before they jump into water.

Don't let your Aries impatience leads you if you really care... juts give him some space.

thanks for clearing it up. yes i can be impatient but i hate people that go MIA to texts then you see them online other places and talking to people. i find it disrespectful especially for how much time we spent talking to each and hanging out.

i am going to give him space, but eventually if he doesn't text me soon i'll be contacting him asking whats the deal. get my closer and move on lol

his an aries at end of the day, very honest and direct in person. whats why i was shocked by his MIA move. if his not interested i expect him to man up and say it. the texts were simple shit, like when are we gonna see eachother again (especally when he told me the night before i cant wait to see you again lol)

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I think he's interested. BUT Don't push too hard on him and don't be so hard on him...especially don't tell him to have the courage to talk to you and respond you the way you want him to respond in the moment you want to.

Love is a game and in romance and you have to be super clever. With these earth signs... Love is patience... Love has to be constructed slowly. I know that Venus in Scorpio energy is suffocating sometimes especially when you feel like you've put yourself into something you don't have any control of. But you have TOTAL control on the situation if you can see beyond your ego and your expectations. If you truly care for this guy, if you really do! just let him manage this whole situation, don't think about it to much. Let him lead you this time, he's an Aries after all.

And when the times comes and he answers (he will) take a lot of time to respond and be super kind and sweet though you don't feel like it, he will be more interested. true story.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

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Maybe his insert just wasn't enough.

She didn't say if he inserted. So it might be still 'in question'...

Maybe she just couldn't feel it?

Why would she be looking for him than?

Maybe his insert isn't great but he has a fat wallet?

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Oh! That's tough one! It's the hardest choice to make!

On the other hand - there are tons of larger inserts and not as nearly many fat wallets?

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@nats
16 Years500+ Posts

It's been 48 hours. I'd be worried if it was something more like 5 days...

Keep yourself busy or hit up other people. DO NOT msg again lol