Pisces Men - Do You Like and Need a Woman to Take Charge in the Relationship ?

Posted by MyStarsShine

You did the right thing by putting your child first

He sounds like a flaky mess..

Try not to beat yourself up ❤️

Posted by pooface222

Posted by MyStarsShine

You did the right thing by putting your child first

He sounds like a flaky mess..

Try not to beat yourself up ❤️

Thanks hunny x

I'm just so alone and missing being loved.

My husband divorced me for Unreasonable Behaviour ..not because of the pisces guy but because i was crying and shouting most of the time. I had severe depression!

But thats another story.

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Posted by BlueStar

Sounds flaky as fuck. Don’t build your life around that kind of person.

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fuck no. Anyone with a shred of self respect would not settle for being mothered. Anyone pathetic enough to live off anyone else, man or woman, deserves to get the Christmas Worm.



A relationship/marriage is a partnership. It takes two to tango.

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fuck no. Anyone with a shred of self respect would not settle for being mothered. Anyone pathetic enough to live off anyone else, man or woman, deserves to get the Christmas Worm.



A relationship/marriage is a partnership. It takes two to tango.

Posted by pooface222

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fuck no. Anyone with a shred of self respect would not settle for being mothered. Anyone pathetic enough to live off anyone else, man or woman, deserves to get the Christmas Worm.



A relationship/marriage is a partnership. It takes two to tango.

🤣❤

I was hoping someone would say that x

I met this guy 6 f**king years ago and i know ive talkes about him on here more than once before.

But I'm deeply in love with him.

I'm now hurting because I didnt make things happen between us.

If i had we would have been together.

Because he was too insecure to do it himself.

So he did nothing and stayed with his partner because he was hurt that i didnt make it happen.

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Posted by thinktankpisces951

Posted by pooface222

First of all...

I apologise if I have already asked this question on here.

I want to know if Pisces men Need a woman to make the relationship develop by eg talking about living together and talking about houses etc and making appointments to view houses etc because lets say you've reached that stage.

I'm asking because I fear I seriously messed up and lost my relationship with a gorgeous pisces guy by not making those things happen for us.

It was tricky though because he was in a rship and unhappy. They were also living in HER house together.

He was still married to his ex-wife but separated.

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

COMPLICATED!

I was married and in a very controlling and lonely rship and with a child.

I wanted to leave but was scared about co-parenting.

So it wasn't a simple case of me and Pisces just getting together.

Pisces guy kept asking me..

"Where do we go from here? What now? Why are you with him?" While at the same time staying with his partner!?

You see once he was divorced he had money to leave his partner. His ex-wife and son moved location and Pisces guy was then saving up the payments he used to make on the family home.

I was a mum only working a few hours a week, earning almost nothing, while i cared for my child so couldn't afford to leave my marriage for the Pisces guy, unless I got a full-time job and put my child in Nursery.

So to get to the point..

The Pisces guy seemed to be putting pressure on me to leave my husband while making no effort to leave his partner. They didnt own a house together. They had no kids together and were not married either.

He could have left her in the blink of an eye.

Despite having money to leave he stayed with her, carried on cheating and constantly questioned me What Now What Now??

This was 4yrs ago. We're still in contact...But.

He could have rented a place for us, while I get divorced then after divorce we could possibly buy a place together.

Instead he got hurt by me not leaving.

Dud his famous Pisces disappearing act and wouldn't speak to me for weeks and months!

Therefore..

What I am saying is..

Should I have put my child in nursery and got a flat for him to move in to with me?

He earned a good wage. I did not and would never be able to match his.

I had a very strong feeling he wanted this but said it by being indirect about it.

He did the right thing to forget about you and move on, otherwise he will suffer forever by your empty hope or simply "your BS".

He should do that from the start, i mean look what he got now ? divorced with his wife and nothing.

Dont disturb him anymore, maybe hes already happy now for good dont ruin his happiness again with your false hope.

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Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

I don't think he was ever taking you that serious if he was seeing you behind his ex wives back.

At that point they are no longer together either physically or legally.

Thats the equivalent of a dude keeping you a secret from friends and family.

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Posted by Undine

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

I don't think he was ever taking you that serious if he was seeing you behind his ex wives back.

At that point they are no longer together either physically or legally.

Thats the equivalent of a dude keeping you a secret from friends and family.

He wasn't yet divorced when he moved into another woman's home (the "partner"). He was cheating on his wife with his "partner", and soon after he was cheating on his partner with Pooface!

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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Posted by pooface222

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fuck no. Anyone with a shred of self respect would not settle for being mothered. Anyone pathetic enough to live off anyone else, man or woman, deserves to get the Christmas Worm.



A relationship/marriage is a partnership. It takes two to tango.

🤣❤

I was hoping someone would say that x

I met this guy 6 f**king years ago and i know ive talkes about him on here more than once before.

But I'm deeply in love with him.

I'm now hurting because I didnt make things happen between us.

If i had we would have been together.

Because he was too insecure to do it himself.

So he did nothing and stayed with his partner because he was hurt that i didnt make it happen.

Whoever said Cap mooners are cold-hearted beasts had clearly never met you.

He did nothing and stayed with his partner because he was a big ol' pussy that waited for YOU to make everything happen. We've already covered this.

You are now physically free of both your stupidass ex husband AND the big ol' pussy. Imagine what it'd be like if you were still shackled to either one of them. Your life would be over because either of them would suck the soul out of you. You'd be paying for his addiction to alcohol or drugs, he'd be selling everything in sight and you'd be shackled at home taking care of your kids as well as probably his bastards from all over the place.

Time to tap into that Cap coldness and purge them motherfarters off your life and your heart for GOOD. Hey, if I could do that to the love of my life with my lil Virgo moon, so can you. Take a bunch of laxative or something, and PURGE.

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Posted by iamnotbot

I think the first time when I signed up on this forum back in May you were crying for a Pisces. And months later now you're crying over the same thing...grow up!

How old are you 20-22? If you're in your late 30s or god forbid 40 then boy have you failed miserably at life and at parenting.

Posted by Undine

It's not clear from your numerous posts what your actual intentions are.

What do you want from him, now that both of you are divorced? Do you want to be together?

Or is he history? Are you just working through your past?

Posted by Undine

Importantly:

Would you have had the same deal from your divorce (your own apartment, monthly payments for you and daughter, who knows what else), if you were divorcing as an adulterous wife who went to live with her lover even before the divorce ended?

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Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

I don't think he was ever taking you that serious if he was seeing you behind his ex wives back.

At that point they are no longer together either physically or legally.

Thats the equivalent of a dude keeping you a secret from friends and family.

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

I don't think he was ever taking you that serious if he was seeing you behind his ex wives back.

At that point they are no longer together either physically or legally.

Thats the equivalent of a dude keeping you a secret from friends and family.

It was more complicated than that.

The ex-wifecwas out of the picture except for him seeing their son.

He was seeing me behind his Partners back.

Including me, he had Three women in life.

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Posted by Undine

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

I don't think he was ever taking you that serious if he was seeing you behind his ex wives back.

At that point they are no longer together either physically or legally.

Thats the equivalent of a dude keeping you a secret from friends and family.

He wasn't yet divorced when he moved into another woman's home (the "partner"). He was cheating on his wife with his "partner", and soon after he was cheating on his partner with Pooface!

I understand the sequence of events. However AFTER he had divorced his wife and was living there platonically (so he claims) and then even now as he has moved out and purchased a house to live with his son... he still is seeing her behind his ex-wife's back. Why is that?

Why has he not come clean and told the people in his live about pooface??

Is he ashamed of her?

Does he have someone else?

Is he not that serious about the relationship?

Whatever the reason... its not good.

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Posted by thinktankpisces951

Posted by pooface222

Posted by thinktankpisces951

Posted by pooface222

First of all...

I apologise if I have already asked this question on here.

I want to know if Pisces men Need a woman to make the relationship develop by eg talking about living together and talking about houses etc and making appointments to view houses etc because lets say you've reached that stage.

I'm asking because I fear I seriously messed up and lost my relationship with a gorgeous pisces guy by not making those things happen for us.

It was tricky though because he was in a rship and unhappy. They were also living in HER house together.

He was still married to his ex-wife but separated.

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

COMPLICATED!

I was married and in a very controlling and lonely rship and with a child.

I wanted to leave but was scared about co-parenting.

So it wasn't a simple case of me and Pisces just getting together.

Pisces guy kept asking me..

"Where do we go from here? What now? Why are you with him?" While at the same time staying with his partner!?

You see once he was divorced he had money to leave his partner. His ex-wife and son moved location and Pisces guy was then saving up the payments he used to make on the family home.

I was a mum only working a few hours a week, earning almost nothing, while i cared for my child so couldn't afford to leave my marriage for the Pisces guy, unless I got a full-time job and put my child in Nursery.

So to get to the point..

The Pisces guy seemed to be putting pressure on me to leave my husband while making no effort to leave his partner. They didnt own a house together. They had no kids together and were not married either.

He could have left her in the blink of an eye.

Despite having money to leave he stayed with her, carried on cheating and constantly questioned me What Now What Now??

This was 4yrs ago. We're still in contact...But.

He could have rented a place for us, while I get divorced then after divorce we could possibly buy a place together.

Instead he got hurt by me not leaving.

Dud his famous Pisces disappearing act and wouldn't speak to me for weeks and months!

Therefore..

What I am saying is..

Should I have put my child in nursery and got a flat for him to move in to with me?

He earned a good wage. I did not and would never be able to match his.

I had a very strong feeling he wanted this but said it by being indirect about it.

He did the right thing to forget about you and move on, otherwise he will suffer forever by your empty hope or simply "your BS".

He should do that from the start, i mean look what he got now ? divorced with his wife and nothing.

Dont disturb him anymore, maybe hes already happy now for good dont ruin his happiness again with your false hope.

Wow!

How nice!

I actually asked if a Pisces man Needs a woman to take charge in a relationship!

Because seemed to want Me to do exactly that while I earned peanuts, and had a small child to look after!

Was he going to support me until I can earn more?

No! He expected Me to leave my husband rendering me a single mum, get my own place, pay for it myself whole He MOVES HOUSE - from his partners house to mine!

He was keeping every penny from her since his divorce 4yrs ago and was trying to keep it from Me as well by contributing NOTHING, while I pay for everything on my own with a child!

So..when he's bored of me, he will cheat on me too - like he did with his partner - and no doubt move from my house to hers!

He told me of their arguments about money but it was plain to see what HE was doing. Lying to her!

So instead of being nasty like that, REALISE that I was trying to build a life with him.

He gets a flat. I divorce my husband. I move in and SHARE the rent and bills and do things Properly. Together.

The same as you is not it ?

You hope he leave his ex wife but he does not because he might have fear after he leave her you would not be with him, because you yourself not clear about being with him back then, so does he, hoping you to leave your husband but you would not back then because you fear being a co parenting.

You did not take a risk being with him because you afraid after you divorce he wont be with you but still with his ex wife.

He too did the same, did not take a risk being with you because you wont leave your husband, never make any clearance you would.

And you ask why ? flaky or that BS, you and him think the same afraid of the same thing.

Imagine if he take a risk fully leave her wife then your husband did not divorce you ? because you never intend to back then, (and it need your husband angry because of your craziness not your will to be with pisces to make him divorce you), the pisces will suffer and alone, and who knows he might be kill himself and you gonna be so happy for it like a demon.

He did the best thing every man should do to save himself, he would doomed himself like what i said above if he keep being with you back then.

"No! He expected Me to leave my husband rendering me a single mum, get my own place, pay for it myself whole He MOVES HOUSE - from his partners house to mine!" See ? this is why it is why its the best thing for him to leave you, because you will always find a reason to not be with him, which you sceme something bad in your bad about him to not be with him.

He is happy to not feel any more BS from you, leave him be.

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Posted by Lostthoughts

Talking and planning for the future is definitely a motivator for pieces👍

However, like what everyone else pointed out he made no serious effort.

I assume you guys had already talked this over multiple times and basically were on the same page correct? And it sounds like he put all the risk on your shoulders Despite being the one with the most flexabilty to make it happen?

If so, ya he is at fault here since he had the ability to pull it off and put in no real effort. Calmly point that out to him if it comes up.

If there was no real communication and baseless self-serving assumption, you both share blame. You are both imperfect people and share blame in this miscommunication.As well as a life lesson.

Forgive yourselves and learn from it.

Make amends or move on.

Posted by thinktankpisces951

Posted by pooface222

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fuck no. Anyone with a shred of self respect would not settle for being mothered. Anyone pathetic enough to live off anyone else, man or woman, deserves to get the Christmas Worm.



A relationship/marriage is a partnership. It takes two to tango.

🤣❤

I was hoping someone would say that x

I met this guy 6 f**king years ago and i know ive talkes about him on here more than once before.

But I'm deeply in love with him.

I'm now hurting because I didnt make things happen between us.

If i had we would have been together.

Because he was too insecure to do it himself.

So he did nothing and stayed with his partner because he was hurt that i didnt make it happen.

Whoever said Cap mooners are cold-hearted beasts had clearly never met you.

He did nothing and stayed with his partner because he was a big ol' pussy that waited for YOU to make everything happen. We've already covered this.

You are now physically free of both your stupidass ex husband AND the big ol' pussy. Imagine what it'd be like if you were still shackled to either one of them. Your life would be over because either of them would suck the soul out of you. You'd be paying for his addiction to alcohol or drugs, he'd be selling everything in sight and you'd be shackled at home taking care of your kids as well as probably his bastards from all over the place.

Time to tap into that Cap coldness and purge them motherfarters off your life and your heart for GOOD. Hey, if I could do that to the love of my life with my lil Virgo moon, so can you. Take a bunch of laxative or something, and PURGE.

HAHAHAHA 🤣 LMAO!

I think you're right. He would do exactly that OR he'd move into my place - paid for by Me - keep his money for himself (same as he did to his partner), then when he's got used to life with me, and.maybe got bored, all the lying & cheating he did to his partner will then be done to me with his next Supply!

She will likely get used in the same way too.

Same old cycle.

Rinse & Repeat!

Now however..

He has moved 1hr 30mins away to live with his son of 20yrs old and a female lodger in a house he has Bought by himself but with son and lodger to help with the mortgage.

He made a point of saying SHE in an obvious way on the phone so now I think he nay have another woman in his life!

So fuck him!

I don't even know if he has fully left his partner or is splitting his time between her house and his.

So you're a Virgo Moon? So is he ironically but i don't know much about Vigo moon.

And yes..you are right I'm not as cold as a Cap Moon is said to be. I care and I love op3nly to my partners and friends.

I just tend to hold back A LOT when I think I'm being used or about to be used!

Love your PURGE idea by the way xx 🤣🤣😁

Oh good for him then, im trully happy for him. 🙂 thanks for letting me know. 🙂

Hahaha, i dont even care with your idiotic clown act.

Im happy for him 🙂 thnx for letting me know 🙂

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Posted by hydorah

JFC you've been going on about this dude for YEARS now

you need to meet someone else

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

I don't think he was ever taking you that serious if he was seeing you behind his ex wives back.

At that point they are no longer together either physically or legally.

Thats the equivalent of a dude keeping you a secret from friends and family.

It was more complicated than that.

The ex-wifecwas out of the picture except for him seeing their son.

He was seeing me behind his Partners back.

Including me, he had Three women in life.

Well as if you needed any more indication that he's an asswipe...

Why is it so difficult for you to get over that asswipe? He would literally bring nothing good to the table.

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Posted by poeticseraphim

In my experience YES they do. I am not a pisces man tho. But yeah they like the woman's role.

They like to be chased a little taken care of.



Really sweet guys though 🙂

Posted by thinktankpisces951

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Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

I don't think he was ever taking you that serious if he was seeing you behind his ex wives back.

At that point they are no longer together either physically or legally.

Thats the equivalent of a dude keeping you a secret from friends and family.

He wasn't yet divorced when he moved into another woman's home (the "partner"). He was cheating on his wife with his "partner", and soon after he was cheating on his partner with Pooface!

I understand the sequence of events. However AFTER he had divorced his wife and was living there platonically (so he claims) and then even now as he has moved out and purchased a house to live with his son... he still is seeing her behind his ex-wife's back. Why is that?

Why has he not come clean and told the people in his live about pooface??

Is he ashamed of her?

Does he have someone else?

Is he not that serious about the relationship?

Whatever the reason... its not good.

When you cheat, why dont you tell all people, your family and your co worker that your lover are a STILL married man with a children ? maybe that wont make you ashmed, and instead many people will praise you and hung your picture as the best worker or best citizen of the year and make a parade of you.

I agree with you its not logical like AT ALL, for him not share that with anyone.

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Posted by pooface222

Then he got divorced while he was seeing me behind ihs partners back!

I don't think he was ever taking you that serious if he was seeing you behind his ex wives back.

At that point they are no longer together either physically or legally.

Thats the equivalent of a dude keeping you a secret from friends and family.

It was more complicated than that.

The ex-wifecwas out of the picture except for him seeing their son.

He was seeing me behind his Partners back.

Including me, he had Three women in life.

Well as if you needed any more indication that he's an asswipe...

Why is it so difficult for you to get over that asswipe? He would literally bring nothing good to the table.

I know..I know...x

Its because- ignoring the negatives for a moment - he has everything in him I want in a guy.

Looks - tall dark and handsome with come yo bed eyes ..a soft voice and over 6ft tall ❤

Personality - quiet, sensitive, shy, insecure, needs looking after emotionally ..and I'm a sucker for that type! He is an amazing listener, cares what you say, asks questions about me, learns about me, shows interest beyond the sexual, then once he has got used to me etc it shows he has learned to understand me emotionally.

I love all of that too x

We have identical intrests - fitness, health, and MUSIC! OMG music is like an obsession for both of us!

Its very emotive and we both dive deep into our music together and apart.

We are both sex-obsessed with almost id3ntical testes in the bedroom too 💥

When we are together, we are like Male & Female versions of each other.

He has said this too

Its like i have found my suol mate!

And he's Pisces too...I LOVE Pisces men ❤

So hopefully this explains my reasons for wanting this asswipe x

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Posted by iamnotbot

Posted by pooface222

Posted by iamnotbot

I think the first time when I signed up on this forum back in May you were crying for a Pisces. And months later now you're crying over the same thing...grow up!

How old are you 20-22? If you're in your late 30s or god forbid 40 then boy have you failed miserably at life and at parenting.

How dare you!

Are you a saint?

Are you even a Pisces Nan?

Are YOU the worlds BEST MOST PERFECT Parent?? Or ..god forbid Not got kids!

I am simply working through issues over a man I fell in love with a few yrs ago who has gone back and forth coming and going from my life and confusing me.

But I'm not explaining any more to you.

You're not worth it!

I would Never come on here and insult someone.

I come here to get helpful advice not rude insults and I also like to help others where I can.

If you have nothing better to do than come on here and be so damn rude then I suggest YOU grow up, shut up and get a life!

I have a life and family to take care of that is why I only come to this forum seldom to preach something sensible among the vast majority of idiots the world has these days with You being a perfect example.

A failed parent, a failed women who's so stupid to realise a man is cheating on her ass for almost half a decade now only for the pussy and I bet he started running away when he realised the pussy ain't so good either.

I feel sorry for your daughter in totality. A single mother seldom raises a good child, and one like you will definitely raise an entitled crap. Have a good day.

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by iamnotbot

I think the first time when I signed up on this forum back in May you were crying for a Pisces. And months later now you're crying over the same thing...grow up!

How old are you 20-22? If you're in your late 30s or god forbid 40 then boy have you failed miserably at life and at parenting.

How dare you!

Are you a saint?

Are you even a Pisces Nan?

Are YOU the worlds BEST MOST PERFECT Parent?? Or ..god forbid Not got kids!

I am simply working through issues over a man I fell in love with a few yrs ago who has gone back and forth coming and going from my life and confusing me.

But I'm not explaining any more to you.

You're not worth it!

I would Never come on here and insult someone.

I come here to get helpful advice not rude insults and I also like to help others where I can.

If you have nothing better to do than come on here and be so damn rude then I suggest YOU grow up, shut up and get a life!

I have a life and family to take care of that is why I only come to this forum seldom to preach something sensible among the vast majority of idiots the world has these days with You being a perfect example.

A failed parent, a failed women who's so stupid to realise a man is cheating on her ass for almost half a decade now only for the pussy and I bet he started running away when he realised the pussy ain't so good either.

I feel sorry for your daughter in totality. A single mother seldom raises a good child, and one like you will definitely raise an entitled crap. Have a good day.

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Posted by Undine

Why are you people replying, if you didn't actually READ what she said? She keeps telling this story again and again, but almost everyone here got the facts wrong!

His divorce was not "a sacrifice". He left his wife and son long ago. He has been living with another woman, aka "his partner" for the past 6+ years. Probably still does. This woman has left her husband and two children to be with him.

Pooface, what is her star sign?

Posted by bkbella86

How can you be attracted to a man like that?

He’s a bum.

Posted by Dread_Pirate_Phanta

What I've noticed with my Pisces is if I voice something, he'll come to a decision about it later after some thought. I start things, and he finishes them.

Posted by thinktankpisces951

Posted by pooface222

Posted by thinktankpisces951

Posted by pooface222

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fuck no. Anyone with a shred of self respect would not settle for being mothered. Anyone pathetic enough to live off anyone else, man or woman, deserves to get the Christmas Worm.



A relationship/marriage is a partnership. It takes two to tango.

🤣❤

I was hoping someone would say that x

I met this guy 6 f**king years ago and i know ive talkes about him on here more than once before.

But I'm deeply in love with him.

I'm now hurting because I didnt make things happen between us.

If i had we would have been together.

Because he was too insecure to do it himself.

So he did nothing and stayed with his partner because he was hurt that i didnt make it happen.

Whoever said Cap mooners are cold-hearted beasts had clearly never met you.

He did nothing and stayed with his partner because he was a big ol' pussy that waited for YOU to make everything happen. We've already covered this.

You are now physically free of both your stupidass ex husband AND the big ol' pussy. Imagine what it'd be like if you were still shackled to either one of them. Your life would be over because either of them would suck the soul out of you. You'd be paying for his addiction to alcohol or drugs, he'd be selling everything in sight and you'd be shackled at home taking care of your kids as well as probably his bastards from all over the place.

Time to tap into that Cap coldness and purge them motherfarters off your life and your heart for GOOD. Hey, if I could do that to the love of my life with my lil Virgo moon, so can you. Take a bunch of laxative or something, and PURGE.

HAHAHAHA 🤣 LMAO!

I think you're right. He would do exactly that OR he'd move into my place - paid for by Me - keep his money for himself (same as he did to his partner), then when he's got used to life with me, and.maybe got bored, all the lying & cheating he did to his partner will then be done to me with his next Supply!

She will likely get used in the same way too.

Same old cycle.

Rinse & Repeat!

Now however..

He has moved 1hr 30mins away to live with his son of 20yrs old and a female lodger in a house he has Bought by himself but with son and lodger to help with the mortgage.

He made a point of saying SHE in an obvious way on the phone so now I think he nay have another woman in his life!

So fuck him!

I don't even know if he has fully left his partner or is splitting his time between her house and his.

So you're a Virgo Moon? So is he ironically but i don't know much about Vigo moon.

And yes..you are right I'm not as cold as a Cap Moon is said to be. I care and I love op3nly to my partners and friends.

I just tend to hold back A LOT when I think I'm being used or about to be used!

Love your PURGE idea by the way xx 🤣🤣😁

Oh good for him then, im trully happy for him. 🙂 thanks for letting me know. 🙂

Hahaha, i dont even care with your idiotic clown act.

Im happy for him 🙂 thnx for letting me know 🙂

Why be so rude all of a sudden??

You are normally really supportive, helpful and funny too so i always appreciate your replies.

I'm rather shocked now. I dont understand!

I'm afraid the laugh is on You!

You "dont care for.." my "idiotic clown act."

So WHY REPLY??

YOU are the clown for replying to my idioticclown act...and every time too.

when you don't care anyway!

Who's the clown act now?

Stop replying then!

Because the thing he experiece, i experience it myself. Including the fact that you always find excuse based on your own imagination that he will do something bad so you never be with him.

Because you joke around seeing his suffering with emoji etc like some fucked up clown like its some kind of a funny thing seeing people suffer.

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Posted by pooface222I actually just wanted to know if Pisces men need a woman to take charge in a relationship.

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Posted by Undine

Why are you people replying, if you didn't actually READ what she said? She keeps telling this story again and again, but almost everyone here got the facts wrong!

His divorce was not "a sacrifice". He left his wife and son long ago. He has been living with another woman, aka "his partner" for the past 6+ years. Probably still does. This woman has left her husband and two children to be with him.

Pooface, what is her star sign?

Thank you Undine.

I was thinking the same thing myself.

Who's star sign do you want to know?

Mine is Capricorn.

Hers (the partner who left her 2 kids to be with the Pisces guy), is Sagittarius.

I actually just wanted to know if Pisces men need a woman to take charge in a relationship.

Oh well..

Thanks for understanding though...

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Posted by bkbella86

How can you be attracted to a man like that?

He’s a bum.

Lol you're right.

I guess i just needed to wake up and realise for mys3lf.

He came into my life not long after having a baby so all i can say us maybe it was pist-natal depression combined with a controlling bullying husband.

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Posted by Lostthoughts

Talking and planning for the future is definitely a motivator for pieces👍

However, like what everyone else pointed out he made no serious effort.

I assume you guys had already talked this over multiple times and basically were on the same page correct? And it sounds like he put all the risk on your shoulders Despite being the one with the most flexabilty to make it happen?

If so, ya he is at fault here since he had the ability to pull it off and put in no real effort. Calmly point that out to him if it comes up.

If there was no real communication and baseless self-serving assumption, you both share blame. You are both imperfect people and share blame in this miscommunication.As well as a life lesson.

Forgive yourselves and learn from it.

Make amends or move on.

Thank you so so much!

This is what I was hoping people would say.

I personally put the blame on both of us because as I said in reply to someone else here, think, we were both scared to leave our partners in case the other one didnt.

We both crave security. So both were reluctant to let it go by leaving.

So maybe it was self-serving on both sides.

You're right.

However..

4yrs ago (2016) ,when he became divorced (I was still married)? I suggested we Rent together just while my divorce goes through.

So once divorced we can hopefully buy a house together.

He replied...

"I dont want to rent."

🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

So how else could we be together??

It was only while i got divorced.

He also said "I cant afford to buy."

So back then I felt utterly STUCK where I was...seeing him behind my husbands back!

And i didnt want that. I wanted him properly.

He wouldn't rent.

Said he couldn't afford to buy so...

What was left ??

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I've only just seen your message. Its school holidays until Monday so been enjoying time with my little girl.

Pisces guy has been in touch during the holidays but I won't go into a big story.

All I will say is he has been making arrangements to see me, then not confirming what days/times then leaving me hanging causing me to ask Again.."So when are you free?"

He even invited me to his new house 1hr 30mins away 2 weeks ago and to stay overnight and to pick me up from mine, I was excited.

The night before, i got a text saying he had an upset stomach. "Here we go again. Here come the excuses" I thought.

Sooo needless to say..I texted him in the morning just in case he was feeling better (if he Was not well), but I got "I'm not well"reply.

I resisted the urge to say "Are you pretending?" In case he was unwell.

Anyway..I love your post xx

You always make me feel SO much better and that I did the right thing.

Because let me tell you..I love this guy so much I am regretting NOT taking charge of making our rship happen. Especially as he admitted this 2 months ago on the phone.

How SHIT did I feel??

AND his partner made their rship happen. Hence why he is living in Her house and has been for 13yrs since they met.

He thought I'd do the same for us.

Having said that..

You're a Pisces man (and an amazing one it sounds), you're guys must adore you..I mean you are fun and funny as fuck on here, and very sexual too, like a Pisces is, so I'm getting a good idea what your guys must think with you as their partner.

So reading what you say about yourself, makes me want to take those romantic and sexual sides to him and make him mine PROPERLY!

Even if it Takes Two to Tango.

You are right that I have wasted alot of time on this "asswipe" but at the same time, he has all of the positive qualities of a Pisces man (you know what they are..), so I just cant help adoring him and feeling guilty as fuck for not being a Strong, Direct Capricorn Woman, to his Soft, Sensitive, gentle but Feminine Pisces man, and playing the 'Male' role.

I'm actually happy to as well.

And I LOVE what your guy did with the video of his dick!! Wow! Bastard you say. You LOVED IT!! ❤💥

Me and Pisces guy actually Role-Reverse in bed. He is the woman and I am the man.

Its an emotional experience for both of us.

He likes to play the woman.

And I like to plat the man.

So outside of the bedroom it makes sense to me to be the same.

He is the woman wanting to be take.care of, and I take care of him like a man would a woman.

BUT...as you rightly said..It Takes Two.

Had I divorced my husband in 2016, I could show him my divorce papers as proof.

Maybe I should have emailed him the enquiries I made to divorce lawyers, then he'd feel reassured.

BUT where would His proof be of leaving his partner??

I could have started divorce and he stays with her.

THIS is why I wanted him to go and get this flat he told me about.

Proof.

I said "lets go flat hunting together. I'll get divorced." And I damn well meant it!

I wanted to go and view flats together. Choose one. Discuss money. Affordability...Rent, Bills etc so we can rent together for a year while my divorce goes through.

I was very confused. And very Hurt.

That's why I came to DXP in the first place 4yrs ago in 2016.

THIS very reason 👆

Hurt and Confused and deeply in love with him.

2yrs later in 2018, his ex-wife moved far away so their son went to live with Pisces guy.

(Pisces knew his son would live with him, and told me too).

This upset me massively because in those 2yrs 2016 - 2018, we could have been renting for a year, then buying a house ready for the Four of us, from 2017.

Then his son could have moved in with us in 2018.

I truly don't understand one damn bit that this guy wanted a rship with me So BAD that I got Obsessive text messages from him saying..

"I miss you so fucking much. I want to see you very soon. I can't sleep. I love you deeply."

But given the chance to be with me, backs off.

Then gets hurt that I'm still with my husband!

Actually I DO understand..I was meant to make Us happen MYSELF 😫

He stopped talking about a flat. I became confused...and then insecure.

I thought "Does he want me or not??"

Maybe its my Pisces Venus?!

I just needed the reassurance that he will leave his partner in More than just him saying it.

So in 2016 when he said..

"I'm getting a flat." I said "I'll divorce my husband."

I've read that Pisces men play the Hot/Cold, 'Upstairs/Downstairs' behaviour that you mention, when they are not sure about someone.

Is this true??

Because honestly alot of the time I have felt like I'm CHUCKING MYSELF AT HIM, or BEGGING him to believe that I Love him So Goddamb MUCH..JUST for him to continue being insecure, hot/cold and playing games.

I've heard the games STOP when a Pisces man is Sure of someone's love.

Is that true too??

Maybe I should send him a totally butt-naled photo of me wearing a Strap-On!

Yes. He wants me doing exactly that to him. He told me this year - to add to the confusion..AND sent me a photo of the Toy from a website he found.

It is flesh-coloured too so it would look real and has told me what to do to him..in detail.

So What The Hell is going on!!

In February it was his birthday. He sent me the most gorgeous text message..

Here goes..

"Oh my goodness. I am thinking about you constantly.xx

Omfg. I miss you so much. X

Yea still alive. X not at brother's today.

... so want to be with you. Agonised and yet blessed. Thinking that you are in love as much as i am with you... You are strong. Beautifully Feisty (i like you feisty). Deliciously gorgeous. And you know it. Don't forget i am with you all the way what ever and where ever you decide to be. X

I.am in love with you.xxxx

So there it is. Me. A bit of a mess but still me. Thinking about you. Just you. Hoping still. As always. But never evpecting. You do know that. I absolutely adore you. X

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

NIght night lover x

Yes I know it was 6 months ago back in February!

But remember we had Lockdown in March.

TORTURE!

Do you see why I am also agonized myself over this guy??

I adore him..like your guy adores you x

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by bkbella86

How can you be attracted to a man like that?

He’s a bum.

Lol you're right.

I guess i just needed to wake up and realise for mys3lf.

He came into my life not long after having a baby so all i can say us maybe it was pist-natal depression combined with a controlling bullying husband.

I understand. Be thankful that you didn’t add that problem to your life, he would have been a liability instead of an asset.

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by Lostthoughts

Talking and planning for the future is definitely a motivator for pieces👍

However, like what everyone else pointed out he made no serious effort.

I assume you guys had already talked this over multiple times and basically were on the same page correct? And it sounds like he put all the risk on your shoulders Despite being the one with the most flexabilty to make it happen?

If so, ya he is at fault here since he had the ability to pull it off and put in no real effort. Calmly point that out to him if it comes up.

If there was no real communication and baseless self-serving assumption, you both share blame. You are both imperfect people and share blame in this miscommunication.As well as a life lesson.

Forgive yourselves and learn from it.

Make amends or move on.

Thank you so so much!

This is what I was hoping people would say.

I personally put the blame on both of us because as I said in reply to someone else here, think, we were both scared to leave our partners in case the other one didnt.

We both crave security. So both were reluctant to let it go by leaving.

So maybe it was self-serving on both sides.

You're right.

However..

4yrs ago (2016) ,when he became divorced (I was still married)? I suggested we Rent together just while my divorce goes through.

So once divorced we can hopefully buy a house together.

He replied...

"I dont want to rent."

🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

So how else could we be together??

It was only while i got divorced.

He also said "I cant afford to buy."

So back then I felt utterly STUCK where I was...seeing him behind my husbands back!

And i didnt want that. I wanted him properly.

He wouldn't rent.

Said he couldn't afford to buy so...

What was left ??

Ya this wasn't a black and white situation but that last part... is on him. He set terms he Supposily couldn't do then did not seek a alternative with you🤦

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Posted by pooface222I actually just wanted to know if Pisces men need a woman to take charge in a relationship.

no, to me it sounds like you're looking for a justificatio into why he is not invested into your relationship as much as you are. So you're making up this idea that he needs you to take charge or sthg.

But in reality it's probable he doesn't like you as much as you do.

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Posted by iamnotbot

I think the first time when I signed up on this forum back in May you were crying for a Pisces. And months later now you're crying over the same thing...grow up!

How old are you 20-22? If you're in your late 30s or god forbid 40 then boy have you failed miserably at life and at parenting.

How dare you!

Are you a saint?

Are you even a Pisces Nan?

Are YOU the worlds BEST MOST PERFECT Parent?? Or ..god forbid Not got kids!

I am simply working through issues over a man I fell in love with a few yrs ago who has gone back and forth coming and going from my life and confusing me.

But I'm not explaining any more to you.

You're not worth it!

I would Never come on here and insult someone.

I come here to get helpful advice not rude insults and I also like to help others where I can.

If you have nothing better to do than come on here and be so damn rude then I suggest YOU grow up, shut up and get a life!

I have a life and family to take care of that is why I only come to this forum seldom to preach something sensible among the vast majority of idiots the world has these days with You being a perfect example.

A failed parent, a failed women who's so stupid to realise a man is cheating on her ass for almost half a decade now only for the pussy and I bet he started running away when he realised the pussy ain't so good either.

I feel sorry for your daughter in totality. A single mother seldom raises a good child, and one like you will definitely raise an entitled crap. Have a good day.

I feel sorry for your kids with a beast like you for a so-called mother!

So your kids gave TWO parents!

Wow!

SO WHAT?

BIG DEAL!

WHO THE HELL CARES?

I would Love to know how many iSngle Mothers on here would feel if they read your BILE at their kids being Entitled Crap!

Your kids aren't even that!

They're nothing with a mother like you!

There are many people out there who were raised by TWO parents and they are more screwed up than the ones raised by a single parent!

So..

Once again.

Shut Up and Go Away!

.

And go back to your PERFECT family! xx

🤣

I am not a woman.

And judging by your way of speaking, You don't sound like a woman either.

You're the perfect recipe for "21st Century Karens" who's egos are so horribly inflated that they can't understand plain and simple logic if it even remotely proves them wrong.

That man who walked away from you did the absolute right thing by saving himself from a nagging human being (I can't say what gender are you in a sure manner) who can't see right from wrong.

I sincerely hope your child's father gets the custody of your daughter because I don't see any bright future for your daughter if she stays with a, again human being like you.

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