pisces mother

Does anyone here have a pisces parent?

I think I may have a "negative" pisces mother. Lately she has been very vicious towards me, especially in front of my boyfriend. As ive mentioned before, I am currently house sitting with him and when I first told me mother about this, she wasn't the least bit supportive or even happy that the relationship has progressed to this point of wanting to do these types of things with each other.

She humiliated me infront of my boyfriend the other night when I got up to start making dinner. She literally took over and said to him "she can't do anything, she can't even cook"

This hurt me because I am already concerned about how I am doing just being his girlfriend and my mother puts me down right in front of him. She then got REALLY angry and told me to "learn to take a joke"

I can take jokes but when its about putting someone down in such a cold way, I fail to see the humour.

This resulted in my mother pacing around the house mumbling stuff to herself, talking very nicely to my boyfriend but completely ignoring me. My boyfriend had to console me when I started crying a little about it.

My mother has been acting strange ever since I got together with him. Getting offended if him and I simply leave the room for a while, constant put downs towards me in front of him. She seems to really want his attention.

Its very hard talking to her about it because she doesn't admit to what she does. She starts acting offended, even playing victim. I don't get any apology from her either when she tears me to pieces like that. She never said such things to my sister's boyfriend about her. It seems only I am getting the treatment.

Is this a pisces problem or a more general one?

Her words get to me cause she is my mother afterall

Maybe your mom has the hots for your boyfriend and isn't handling it too well??

If she doesn't act that towards your sister's boyfriend, then it's not a Pisces problem, the problem could be you

She's jealous.

she lacks tact, if you really can't cook. but cant do anything? that's harsh sooooo...i'd go for

that she's sabotaging your relationship with him because he's not good enough for you, so she's protecting you.

i'd Always think that a mother tries to protect you, from potential harmful men.

Both my sister and I are 30. We are capable of taking care of ourselves. I moved back in with my mother for a while to help her financially....though she doesn't seem to appreciate this one bit.

Now that I'm in a relationship, my boyfriend has suggested in the near future we move out together. I haven't brought this plan up with my mother cause I know her reaction will be a negative one.

My parents are divorced, have been for years and she never got a new man in her life.

My sister is about to move back in until she gets back on her feet (lived with her boyfriend but they broke up) and my mother seems to have used this knowledge as something to "throw" at me.

I shouldn't have to be feeling guilty for wanting to live my own life. She should be supportive about it all.

Posted by roberte94066
Maybe your mom has the hots for your boyfriend and isn't handling it too well??

She is in her 60's. Isn't she a little too old to be acting like a jealous teenager? Lol

Come to think of it, when I was single..she would suggest I date guys that SHE liked. I hated this and just shrugged it off cause it seemed like she was thinking of only her needs instead of mine.

Posted by Impulsv
Yes but mothers aren't perfect
I think fear of ending up alone?
N perhaps possessive love
Because I know it's love driven a selfish kind though.

Fear of ending up alone crossed my mind a few times. Thing is she partly did this to herself. Its like she's actually emotionally unavailable and didn't let another man in. She STILL goes on about my dad and the divorce like it happened yesterday.

Controlling, yes. Thing is though with what she had said about me apparently not being able to do anything, it was like she was trying to appear "better" than me. My boyfriend said back to her "don't worry...she's got a boyfriend who can" ...so he wasn't taking what she said to heart but it still mortified me.

So pisces likes to keep things as they are?

She said I can't do anything.

That to me is a very cruel thing to say. She knows at times I am feeling insecure about whether or not I am doing well in terms of being his girlfriend, the last thing I need is my own mother saying stupid shit cause she doesn't like change. Its particularly hurtful because she is exact opposite towards my sister who is co dependant on everyone (including me)

She should be happy about me having found someone but instead...she seems bitter.

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
@P-Angel is right about you Scorpio's though, I'll say that much.

Right about what?

Posted by Impulsv
Yes my mother was perfectionist n critical but loving to the point suffocating
Me n sister talked n seems she wants me to herself. Me ex husband said the reason for divorce was my mother imposing herself on me.
But she loves me!! Very confusing
An example which I laughed with sister is that for 1 year anniversary she gifted a night gown that corvered me head to toe , grama style n sister says she has gotten cute nighties lol
She keeps saying I could live with them when they grow old.
So she might be jelous of sharing u
Not because of him but possessive love towards u.

possessive love towards you?

that sounds like my mother. She's a Scorpio stellium ironically.

wants us all to ourselves.

if we haven't found good men to be with she would rather we live with her to the very end. Like being alone with momma in her old age.

Because it's better to be with momma growing old, than to be with a man who is cruel and does not take care of you, provide for you and your family ect.


she won't feel secure and happy if we are with bad men.

i believe that is a good kind of love, a very very good one, and selfless for us.