Pisces - why so aggressive?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by doctalk on Friday, November 11, 2016 and has 12 replies.

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@doctalk
9 Years

Hello. I am an aqua male, 28, in a relationship with this beautiful and smart girl who is a piscean 25.

I have just one question? Why so aggressive, mean and harsh? Why she always likes to fight?

I mean everything else about her is amazing. But she fights so dirty and it puts me off completely and slowly i stopped feeling for her.

Being a self-critical person I came up with few assumptions:

i) is it because we aquarians are too cold and detached and she's maybe feeling left out?

ii) is it because when they fight I completely withdraw and go away because i hate fights and blame games.

Is this how pisceans are naturally or its not working because we are in a completely polarised relationship where she's north pole and im south pole—?

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@firefis1996
9 Years

I'm like her. i guess because we feel so much and let it accumulate, so when we let it out, we let it all out. personally i find my emotions sometimes hard to control.

basically she's being harsh because she's feeling a lot, and she has to let it out somewhere.

dont let it fool you tho, we generally get the angriest to people we love the most because deep down we want you to understand what we feel.

picking fights because we're in a bad mood happens a lot. we've always got a lot on our mind, and sometimes the things in our mind aren't to good, so we un intentionally bring everyone else down with us.

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@dracula
10 Years

If she is aggressive then she might most likely have an Aries moon. I knew an aggressive pisces woman once.. lol

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@WiseOwl
9 YearsPisces

@doctalk If she has good Mars placement then she can assertive, directed and forthright if bad then can be impulsive,rash and aggressive. Let me see her natal chart.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

It is a sign she is fed up with your behaviour. It could be anything, but since I'm a Pisces who dated Aquas, I will point out to these:

Do your words and actions match? Do you keep your promises?

Do you pay too much attention to other women?

Do you suck at communication when you are apart?

Are you afraid of commitment? Are you emotionally unavailable?

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@AquaFishRam
9 Years

As a Pisces with an Aries moon I can tell you we can be very harsh when we are fed up with your behavior. Most likely we have come to you and told you what we do and do not like and that has gone unheard. Our frustratation builds and builds and it can erupt. We do care however. Trust me if a Pisces does not care she will not waste her anger on you.

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@EvatheDiva
10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by AquaFishRam
As a Pisces with an Aries moon I can tell you we can be very harsh when we are fed up with your behavior. Most likely we have come to you and told you what we do and do not like and that has gone unheard. Our frustratation builds and builds and it can erupt. We do care however. Trust me if a Pisces does not care she will not waste her anger on you.

Piscean star/Piscean moon. True. We take, take, take, then EXPLODE like a volcano (beware! You're to blame!). I have a FB post, "So you've pissed off your Piscean -- sucks to be you"). BUT, even if I don't care about you I will get mad. How can I care about you if you're my co-worker? I mean, yeah, we work together, but that's all. I do get upset, but after I've told you 10,000 times how to do something work related (they are a higher grade/make more $ $ than I do per hour and I'm dumbfounded, "How did they get this job and not know what the treetrunk how to do it?") and they STILL get it wrong 😡 Sigh!!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva